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"Some can some cant. I can but im not a fan
Was a conversation I had with someone and they reckoned every women can do with time."
As the lady said above she cant and it wasnt for the lack of trying. Every female body is different |
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By *ral DMan
over a year ago
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Everyone can gush and or squirt, it can take time and it's a combination of what makes it happen. For some it's just massaging the G Spot, others its clitoral stimulation and labia stimulation. Putting it simply gushing/squirting is like a combination lock get the right combination/stimulation wise and it will happen. Also a lot of women feel something new happening and the first feeling is supposed to feel like your about to pee, so they suppress it and stop. Get past this and you will gush or squirt.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can gush or squirt but has to be done with a 'come hither movement' on my gspot, doesn't happen every time but when it does we love it  the trick is to relax and just let go but I can't imagine being relaxed enough with anyone else but Mr B
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, probably not. There's so much variation in people's sex organs that it probably isn't a universal.
Explore deep inside, and learn to "let go" and let an orgasm take you over (whatever the physical effects). Then if you have an amazing orgasm with no squirt, who's complaining. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Some can some cant. I can but im not a fan
Was a conversation I had with someone and they reckoned every women can do with time."
Mrs didn’t for 25 years , and not for lack of trying. Within 6 months of joining fab had done 3 times , twice with me.... given up trying to understand !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone can gush and or squirt, it can take time and it's a combination of what makes it happen. For some it's just massaging the G Spot, others its clitoral stimulation and labia stimulation. Putting it simply gushing/squirting is like a combination lock get the right combination/stimulation wise and it will happen. Also a lot of women feel something new happening and the first feeling is supposed to feel like your about to pee, so they suppress it and stop. Get past this and you will gush or squirt. "
And pee |
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"I can gush or squirt but has to be done with a 'come hither movement' on my gspot, doesn't happen every time but when it does we love it the trick is to relax and just let go but I can't imagine being relaxed enough with anyone else but Mr B
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"Some can some cant. I can but im not a fan
Was a conversation I had with someone and they reckoned every women can do with time.
Mrs didn’t for 25 years , and not for lack of trying. Within 6 months of joining fab had done 3 times , twice with me.... given up trying to understand !!"
It's mostly to do with relaxing and letting go. |
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By *tunna13Man
over a year ago
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"I didn't think I could but have eventually learnt to and now I love it, it's just understanding your own body and the different feelings of when your about to let go xx"
I'd love to make u squirt everywhere xx |
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When I first became Sexually Active the very first girl I was with gushed everywhere multiple times so being young, naive and inexperienced I assumed this was how every female Orgasmed which led to me thinking the 2nd and 3rd girls I was with were faking/lying  Ah, the hindsight and naivety of youth. I’ve noticed Psychologically is what prevents a large percentage of Women from Squirting/Gushing as well as being embarrassed but I believe every female can. Relaxation and hydration being essential but that’s purely my opinion and observation as I’m not a Woman. |
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"When I first became Sexually Active the very first girl I was with gushed everywhere multiple times so being young, naive and inexperienced I assumed this was how every female Orgasmed which led to me thinking the 2nd and 3rd girls I was with were faking/lying Ah, the hindsight and naivety of youth. I’ve noticed Psychologically is what prevents a large percentage of Women from Squirting/Gushing as well as being embarrassed but I believe every female can. Relaxation and hydration being essential but that’s purely my opinion and observation as I’m not a Woman."
Definitely psychologically affected, I can when alone but not when someone else is trying. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can gush but have to be touched in the right place..a finger or two up my vagina to the left & slightly curled tend to do it...it just happens & feels like a sponge been squeezed..  "
Thanks for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The woman has to be relaxed and trust you. A girl I was with recently had never had it happen before and once I started she kept asking me to stop because she felt like she was going to pee. I just asked her to trust me and to relax and next thing I knew I needed arm bands. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never squirted, I don't think I can. I do get really wet but I don't know if it's me gushing as such which sounds daft. I don't think every woman can."
I think the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been lucky enough to make a women squirt and it was the first time she did it.
Aware that some women can, some have tried and some women can be don't like it. Personally I found it sexy as hell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My wife never has, don't know if its because some women cant fully let go or not but she did leave a big wet patch on the bed sheet last week when I was playing with her."
IME you can fully let go and just have no "gush".
It's like sneezing - some people have cute little "snit" noises, others put their heads through a door. Still a sneeze. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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A lot of men seem to think squirting is the holy grail, whilst it does feel good I personally prefer an orgasm. Sadly, a lot of men once they know you can squirt, focus too much on trying to achieve that & actually forget about everything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some can some cant. I can but im not a fan
Was a conversation I had with someone and they reckoned every women can do with time.
Mrs didn’t for 25 years , and not for lack of trying. Within 6 months of joining fab had done 3 times , twice with me.... given up trying to understand !!"
I never squirted/gushed until I joined fab lol my ex husband in 8 years never made me do it. Once I joined fab even he could do it |
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Some women don't have a skene gland or that it's extremely small. Some women have larger ones and can ejaculate large amounts same as men differ in ejaculate volume and the prostate varying in size.
Like guys can squirt their ejaculate some dribble and ooze, women are very much the same.
For me many years I feared I was going to wet myself. So I would stop at that feeling. It wasn't till I had sepsis and damage done effected my kidneys that I finally knew I could actually squirt and gush. For the very reason my urine was a dark rust colour and quite scented every time I urinated.
So to my astonishment getting rather frisky and my toys in tow I gushed clear scentless slightly slick fluid. I can squirt with long enough stimulation basically building the pressure up and plenty of hydrating
I spent all my adult life worrying for nothing.
It takes feeling relaxed and properly stimulated to enjoy the feeling but it's also not the proper orgasm it's occurence is to lubricate more and go on to a great orgasm telling you it's going right.
And guys who say they can get you to squirt in minutes. Well that's just forcing the skene gland to empty (at worst your putting so much pressure on the bladder it leaks, which is why some women feel sore!) there is no pleasure in that has to follow its course. Build up the pleasure with gentle friction and gentle pressure the end is well worth it. |
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By *adbod52Man
over a year ago
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In my experience, some ladies can and some can’t.
I personally love it when a lady squirts, but it is not the be all and all.
It should be about satisfaction on both sides.
Although, some ladies I know love to gush and will keep going until they have run out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love a woman who can gush/squirt it's a complete turn on
Why "
I agree I find it hot when a woman squirts! Some women get embarrassed by it others embrace it. I think it’s a turn on tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love a woman who can gush/squirt it's a complete turn on
Why
I agree I find it hot when a woman squirts! Some women get embarrassed by it others embrace it. I think it’s a turn on tbh."
What's the turn on by it and I wonder if their are any guys who don't enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a woman who can gush/squirt it's a complete turn on
Why
I agree I find it hot when a woman squirts! Some women get embarrassed by it others embrace it. I think it’s a turn on tbh.
What's the turn on by it and I wonder if their are any guys who don't enjoy it."
I don’t know really, I’d say the pleasure on her face as she squirts and how much wetter her Pussy is to keep stimulating the clit to make her squirt more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely don't think every woman can, and not every time either. I can, but only when I'm alone and really relaxed and turned on. If someone else tries to force it or make it happen it just won't and it doesn't do anything except make me sore. |
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"I definitely don't think every woman can, and not every time either. I can, but only when I'm alone and really relaxed and turned on. If someone else tries to force it or make it happen it just won't and it doesn't do anything except make me sore."
Exactly. It doesnt happen all the time for me and its a massive turn off when a guy says to me oh ill make you do it all the time. Nah youre ok there buddy. |
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No idea, but I din't know what all the fuss is about. It certainly doesn't float my boat. It just makes me feel like I have lost control of my bladder.
I would much rather have a body trembling longer lasting orgasm.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I love a woman who can gush/squirt it's a complete turn on
Why
I agree I find it hot when a woman squirts! Some women get embarrassed by it others embrace it. I think it’s a turn on tbh.
What's the turn on by it and I wonder if their are any guys who don't enjoy it.
I don’t know really, I’d say the pleasure on her face as she squirts and how much wetter her Pussy is to keep stimulating the clit to make her squirt more. "
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Ladies!
Don't get hung up on it ffs!
Its about enjoying the moment.
If you get wet, we love it. Means something we are doing is working.
If you squirt a little from a well placed finger, or cock, it's an added bonus.
If you gush to the point of destroying a mattress, personally, I consider that time for some good pelvic floor exercises myself  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies!
Don't get hung up on it ffs!
Its about enjoying the moment.
If you get wet, we love it. Means something we are doing is working.
If you squirt a little from a well placed finger, or cock, it's an added bonus.
If you gush to the point of destroying a mattress, personally, I consider that time for some good pelvic floor exercises myself "
Love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of men seem to think squirting is the holy grail, whilst it does feel good I personally prefer an orgasm. Sadly, a lot of men once they know you can squirt, focus too much on trying to achieve that & actually forget about everything else. "
I agree I gush a lot some men think you're having an orgasm when in reality it's nothing like one. I do enjoy gushing I am like a dam busting lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A lot of men seem to think squirting is the holy grail, whilst it does feel good I personally prefer an orgasm. Sadly, a lot of men once they know you can squirt, focus too much on trying to achieve that & actually forget about everything else.
I agree I gush a lot some men think you're having an orgasm when in reality it's nothing like one. I do enjoy gushing I am like a dam busting lol"
So its not orgasmic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A lot of men seem to think squirting is the holy grail, whilst it does feel good I personally prefer an orgasm. Sadly, a lot of men once they know you can squirt, focus too much on trying to achieve that & actually forget about everything else.
I agree I gush a lot some men think you're having an orgasm when in reality it's nothing like one. I do enjoy gushing I am like a dam busting lol"
So if a guy stops after you've gushed then you haven't actually got off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ladies think that everyone can woman can gush if they allow themselves?"
I didn’t do it till maybe 6-7 years ago ....just happened one day and hasn’t stopped since lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My man has given me the most AMAZING orgasms, and I still haven't gushed/squirted! It's disappointing me, I'll be honest... So if I can't do it, I'd love to find someone that I can make gush!  "
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"Depends on the mans filger skills for me. I can squirt alot with some and nothing with other men x"
Indeed it's all about the situation and the person any psychological pressure either from others or in your own head will stop the sexual process Inc gushing. Slow sensuous gentle connections are more likely to plus a large girth helps. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I remember a few years ago I had a meet around a ladies house she layed a plastic sheet over her bed and she said you will know why later "
Did you find out ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women don't have a skene gland or that it's extremely small. Some women have larger ones and can ejaculate large amounts same as men differ in ejaculate volume and the prostate varying in size.
Like guys can squirt their ejaculate some dribble and ooze, women are very much the same.
For me many years I feared I was going to wet myself. So I would stop at that feeling. It wasn't till I had sepsis and damage done effected my kidneys that I finally knew I could actually squirt and gush. For the very reason my urine was a dark rust colour and quite scented every time I urinated.
So to my astonishment getting rather frisky and my toys in tow I gushed clear scentless slightly slick fluid. I can squirt with long enough stimulation basically building the pressure up and plenty of hydrating
I spent all my adult life worrying for nothing.
It takes feeling relaxed and properly stimulated to enjoy the feeling but it's also not the proper orgasm it's occurence is to lubricate more and go on to a great orgasm telling you it's going right.
And guys who say they can get you to squirt in minutes. Well that's just forcing the skene gland to empty (at worst your putting so much pressure on the bladder it leaks, which is why some women feel sore!) there is no pleasure in that has to follow its course. Build up the pleasure with gentle friction and gentle pressure the end is well worth it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I do gush. I don't know the science behind it for every woman. For me when I have been climaxing over and over again then it is like a dam breaking. As for squirting I must admit I am one of the women who try to hold back.
It has happened to meva few times over the years and I have ended up changing sheets and almost turning the mattress. It has been a deluge. So to those who seek this out of me I would ask them not to. Or at least not where I plan on sleeping |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I do gush. I don't know the science behind it for every woman. For me when I have been climaxing over and over again then it is like a dam breaking. As for squirting I must admit I am one of the women who try to hold back.
It has happened to meva few times over the years and I have ended up changing sheets and almost turning the mattress. It has been a deluge. So to those who seek this out of me I would ask them not to. Or at least not where I plan on sleeping "
Sounds wet |
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"I remember a few years ago I had a meet around a ladies house she layed a plastic sheet over her bed and she said you will know why later
Did you find out ?"
Ohh indeed I did gushed liked a good un |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love it when a woman gushes and have been lucky in that every woman I've been with, bar 2, has been able to gush. It was a massive turn on when it happened for the first time. I was a little naive when younger and didn't even realise it was possible x |
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"I remember a few years ago I had a meet around a ladies house she layed a plastic sheet over her bed and she said you will know why later
Did you find out ?
Ohh indeed I did gushed liked a good un "
Wow |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Some can some cant. I can but im not a fan
Was a conversation I had with someone and they reckoned every women can do with time.
Mrs didn’t for 25 years , and not for lack of trying. Within 6 months of joining fab had done 3 times , twice with me.... given up trying to understand !!
I never squirted/gushed until I joined fab lol my ex husband in 8 years never made me do it. Once I joined fab even he could do it"
I think it’s like learning to ride a bike, once you do it , it gets easier.
A lot of guys here think they are the answer, they are not, I think I have truly super human sexual skills and can make most girls squirt who can squirt, but a girl who hasn’t squirted is unlikely to squirt with me!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some can some cant. I can but im not a fan
Was a conversation I had with someone and they reckoned every women can do with time.
Mrs didn’t for 25 years , and not for lack of trying. Within 6 months of joining fab had done 3 times , twice with me.... given up trying to understand !!
I never squirted/gushed until I joined fab lol my ex husband in 8 years never made me do it. Once I joined fab even he could do it
I think it’s like learning to ride a bike, once you do it , it gets easier.
A lot of guys here think they are the answer, they are not, I think I have truly super human sexual skills and can make most girls squirt who can squirt, but a girl who hasn’t squirted is unlikely to squirt with me!! "
At least your honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've only ever experienced it once and it was during anal sex. She was on her back and her pussy was like a fountain. Not really sure if I liked it or not but she certainly did. |
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