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fisting...is it taboo?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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taboo is a word over used on fab 
to most taboo is sick shit that gonna get you in real trouble not kinks
when i get a message from guys saying can i ask you if your into anything taboo i block i just dont want to know ... if they are dumb enough to misuse the word thats there problem
taboo = dont go there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's more taboo for guys. Especially if you are straight but enjoy ass play. I love being pegged but wouldn't ever be able to take a hand or fist"
If you wouldn't be able to take a fist why would you expect a woman would be able to?
It's nothing to do with being taboo some women not interested and a lot of women probably wouldn't stretch that far. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Think it's more taboo for guys. Especially if you are straight but enjoy ass play. I love being pegged but wouldn't ever be able to take a hand or fist
If you wouldn't be able to take a fist why would you expect a woman would be able to?
It's nothing to do with being taboo some women not interested and a lot of women probably wouldn't stretch that far."
Any woman's vagina should stretch that far and beyond - it's designed to pass a baby.....
An arse is another matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's more taboo for guys. Especially if you are straight but enjoy ass play. I love being pegged but wouldn't ever be able to take a hand or fist
If you wouldn't be able to take a fist why would you expect a woman would be able to?
It's nothing to do with being taboo some women not interested and a lot of women probably wouldn't stretch that far.
Any woman's vagina should stretch that far and beyond - it's designed to pass a baby.....
An arse is another matter."
Yes and childbirth is painful no?
I wouldn't stretch big enough for a fist without the giver being very forceful and being in a lot of pain. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Think it's more taboo for guys. Especially if you are straight but enjoy ass play. I love being pegged but wouldn't ever be able to take a hand or fist
If you wouldn't be able to take a fist why would you expect a woman would be able to?
It's nothing to do with being taboo some women not interested and a lot of women probably wouldn't stretch that far.
Any woman's vagina should stretch that far and beyond - it's designed to pass a baby.....
An arse is another matter.
Yes and childbirth is painful no?
I wouldn't stretch big enough for a fist without the giver being very forceful and being in a lot of pain. "
If enough time and care was taken and plenty of lube you'd probably be surprised. It's not just the stretching of the vagina that hurts in childbirth, it's all your inners too and those bloody contractions!!
It's like the myth that ladies who enjoy fisting aren't tight down below, it's a total fallacy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like being fisted, but not something I’ve been brave enough to share with another yet. So I guess for me that would make it fairly taboo
So you fist yourself ?"
I have done, but I can image that the experience is very different with another doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think it's more taboo for guys. Especially if you are straight but enjoy ass play. I love being pegged but wouldn't ever be able to take a hand or fist
If you wouldn't be able to take a fist why would you expect a woman would be able to?
It's nothing to do with being taboo some women not interested and a lot of women probably wouldn't stretch that far.
Any woman's vagina should stretch that far and beyond - it's designed to pass a baby.....
An arse is another matter.
Yes and childbirth is painful no?
I wouldn't stretch big enough for a fist without the giver being very forceful and being in a lot of pain.
If enough time and care was taken and plenty of lube you'd probably be surprised. It's not just the stretching of the vagina that hurts in childbirth, it's all your inners too and those bloody contractions!!
It's like the myth that ladies who enjoy fisting aren't tight down below, it's a total fallacy x"
I'm sore after a long session with a large penis, I'm not convinced at all I'd be able to take a fist and neither would I want to. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Think it's more taboo for guys. Especially if you are straight but enjoy ass play. I love being pegged but wouldn't ever be able to take a hand or fist
If you wouldn't be able to take a fist why would you expect a woman would be able to?
It's nothing to do with being taboo some women not interested and a lot of women probably wouldn't stretch that far.
Any woman's vagina should stretch that far and beyond - it's designed to pass a baby.....
An arse is another matter.
Yes and childbirth is painful no?
I wouldn't stretch big enough for a fist without the giver being very forceful and being in a lot of pain.
If enough time and care was taken and plenty of lube you'd probably be surprised. It's not just the stretching of the vagina that hurts in childbirth, it's all your inners too and those bloody contractions!!
It's like the myth that ladies who enjoy fisting aren't tight down below, it's a total fallacy x
I'm sore after a long session with a large penis, I'm not convinced at all I'd be able to take a fist and neither would I want to."
That's your choice - all I am saying is that it is possible and if you were relaxed you may just enjoy it. A large penis hurts me too, leaves me with what feels like period cramps for days, yet I have taken a hand with no such issue.
Depends on the hands and the person doing it of course! Put the Rock or some equally large gent with presumably large hands infront of me and I'm sure I'd decline!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"taboo is a word over used on fab
to most taboo is sick shit that gonna get you in real trouble not kinks
when i get a message from guys saying can i ask you if your into anything taboo i block i just dont want to know ... if they are dumb enough to misuse the word thats there problem
taboo = dont go there"
Agreed |
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"I’ve tried it a few times depending on the situation after your full of cum & slowly does it can be unreal x"
never thought about doing whilst the lady is full of fun...even better.. thanks for the idea  |
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"I’ve tried it a few times depending on the situation after your full of cum & slowly does it can be unreal x"
never thought about doing whilst the lady is full of fun...even better.. thanks for the idea |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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I have done it a few times even though I have small hand I still go slow and use plenty of lube.The ladies I have fisted were ladies that have experience of fisting before and seemed happy enough with my efforts. |
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My wife fists and single girl we meet regularly, the girl loves it, my wife loves doing it, and I love watching it........ so it’s win win for everyone ....... I have tried it on my wife but always end up hurting her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel like its prettt dependant on size of hands and stuff. I think its kinky but wouldnt say taboo, im straight but would be pretty open if someone i was with wanted to try it on me as quite enjoy playing with my arse and have nearly done it on my own anyways a couple times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only experimented with one partner.
He had quite small hands bit still couldn't manage it.
During late pregnancy your body releases hormones that relax the muscles around your pelvis to make it possible to get a baby out.
I've given birth vaginally twice but I'm still unable to take a mans fist |
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I'm just surprised to see you can still use the word 'taboo' in the forums. They've banned it from profiles over on FabGuys.
Is fisting taboo? I think it depends on context. At your local PTA meeting? Probably. On here? I really don't think it ought to be. It's a bit of a niche thing, for sure, but surely not something that most people who are into a sexually promiscuous lifestyle would judge you for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy being fisted , and have fisted several girlfriends, but women’s hands lend themselves to it can’t see anything taboo about it. "
Must he a lot easier for a lady to do it as well due to on average having slimmer hands |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"I love to slide my well lubed hand into a ladies pussy. Only ever met 3 ladies that were interested in this experience. Is it the thought if pain that puts ladies off...or is it just too taboo?"
It is more likely to be the men who have no clue how to fist so that it is enjoyable for the lady |
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"I enjoy being fisted , and have fisted several girlfriends, but women’s hands lend themselves to it can’t see anything taboo about it.
Must he a lot easier for a lady to do it as well due to on average having slimmer hands"
Much easier men tend to try twisting away doesn’t work just hurts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We once posted a photo of me being fisted on here, it lasted a few hours before it was deemed inappropriate and taken down, haha.
It is still in our private gallery to send, though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy being fisted , and have fisted several girlfriends, but women’s hands lend themselves to it can’t see anything taboo about it.
Must he a lot easier for a lady to do it as well due to on average having slimmer hands
Much easier men tend to try twisting away doesn’t work just hurts "
Yikes to be it just seems obvious that twisting isnt going to help at all, if anything would make it more painful |
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By *ranglaisCouple
over a year ago
colchester |
Conversations on this forum often make me think I’ve stumbled into the Daily Mail comments section rather than a swinging website. Everyone is different and if you take the time to understand the person in front of you, you will have a wild time. X |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"Think it's more taboo for guys. Especially if you are straight but enjoy ass play. I love being pegged but wouldn't ever be able to take a hand or fist
If you wouldn't be able to take a fist why would you expect a woman would be able to?
It's nothing to do with being taboo some women not interested and a lot of women probably wouldn't stretch that far.
Any woman's vagina should stretch that far and beyond - it's designed to pass a baby.....
An arse is another matter."
A woman’s body prepares for 9 months to deliver a baby and hormones are released to help the body relax to deliver a baby. It’s not geared up to be fisted in quite the same way. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
For me personally it would be with someone I trusted as I’ve had two operations which has left me with a designer vagina. (It wasn’t for cosmetic reasons I had the ops). So I’m cautious about what goes in there.
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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago
Heaven in the Midlands |
"Fisting is the ultimate auto OMG moment...I go dizzy with the feeling!
Got to really trust the person fisting me though.
Unfortunately its too tabboo for pics of it to go on this site though."
I love that dizzying feeling of it. But I have seen several fisting pics on this site recently. |
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Some women do enjoy being fisted and I've had the good fortune to meet abd play with a few.
My first experience was at a party some 15 years ago, chatting with a friend who was celebrating her birthday that night. I mentioned probably not being likely to fist a woman due to my large hands... And we spent the rest of the night with her teaching me techniques for fisting... And a lot of practical exercise of these techniques.
Since then one probably fisted five other women. I am equal opportunity though... I've been fisted too. |
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"For me personally it would be with someone I trusted as I’ve had two operations which has left me with a designer vagina. (It wasn’t for cosmetic reasons I had the ops). So I’m cautious about what goes in there.
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wish I was closer. Love to spend some slow time experimenting with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to slide my well lubed hand into a ladies pussy. Only ever met 3 ladies that were interested in this experience. Is it the thought if pain that puts ladies off...or is it just too taboo?"
My x loved this but it look so brutal but she always squirted |
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I’m a huge anal fisting fan, but I have a thing for small petite girl and also have big hands, so that’s not always got together well lol
Today I’ve only had one sub manage my fist the the wrist anally, but having trained arses to take girls fists has still been a hell of a lot of fun. |
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"We've talked about it. No one is getting a fist in my tight pussy. "
the feeling I get when my whole hand slips in is amazing. The ladies that have shared the experience with me say it's an intense feeling once it's in. The hard part is the wrist...need plenty if lube and patience and trust
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The awkward taboo seems to be caused by all the talk about loving a "tight pussy" on here and therefore it almost being shameful to be able to take a fist into your vagina.
Mrs was very tight, 2 fingers was sufficient until we had a child recently. I love how she can now take a lot more but she seems embarrassed. While moaning as I add more fingers she freaks out and asks how many fingers. I know my fist would fit and from her reaction to almost a full fist she would enjoy it but she seems ashamed. . Personally, if it feels nice and it's safe, enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The awkward taboo seems to be caused by all the talk about loving a "tight pussy" on here and therefore it almost being shameful to be able to take a fist into your vagina.
Mrs was very tight, 2 fingers was sufficient until we had a child recently. I love how she can now take a lot more but she seems embarrassed. While moaning as I add more fingers she freaks out and asks how many fingers. I know my fist would fit and from her reaction to almost a full fist she would enjoy it but she seems ashamed. . Personally, if it feels nice and it's safe, enjoy it. "
Everyone’s different obviously but I’m completely the opposite and I get embarrassed sometimes about how tight I am. 3 fingers is a real squeeze and ain’t no more than that going in there, you can totally forget about a fist ! I’d be over the moon if things were a bit easier sometimes.
As I say, everyone’s different and it’s probably a grass is greener kind of envy |
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As a submissive guy I can only reply in regards to taking a fist.
I don't think its necessarily a taboo but you are definitely in a niche area of kinky play.
Personally i ADORE fisting, there is nothing quite like it. So intense and intimate. Though its not something i'd do willy-nilly and with just anyone.
There is a HUGE amount of trust and unspoken communication required for it to be really enjoyable.
For the girls of FS i guess there is the issue of a lot of guys being a bit too keen and in a rush. So i'd be wary in that way too!! |
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I concur on the "tight pussy" thing too. Loads of guys seem to say it without actually meaning it i think... I'm not entirely sure where that comes from??
A genuinely "tight pussy" isn't much fun at all in my experience.
Honestly i think there is nothing much sexier than a woman who is suitably warmed up and her pussy is relaxed and opened up beautifully. Its a great feeling!! |
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There's definitely technique to fisting, and patience is very important.
Regarding tightness, most women I've played with and more that I've talked with tell me that when they really get sexually excited they get a "wide on" much like we men get a hard on. I've certainly felt this during play, at first one finger is plenty but the vagina gets more wet and widens to accommodate more. I doubt anyone ever got enjoyment from some clumsy attempt to punch-fist without plenty of preparation and play beforehand. |
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