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Sorry no Asians

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Does that literally mean a whole race of people is a no go for some. Like am i reading that right no asians as in no asians what so ever even if your the best looking person ever. Wow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does that literally mean a whole race of people is a no go for some. Like am i reading that right no asians as in no asians what so ever even if your the best looking person ever. Wow. "

yea like no tv/ts,,its just weird eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Its so dam weird i cant comprehend it tbh. Like we are born this way.

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

Yep! That's what some folks 'preferences' are here. No 'Asians' no matter what, never ever, ever never, some include 'blacks' too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wont accept messages from ugly people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do you not see many combinations of the below in lovers or actual couples?

-Chinese and South Asian

-South Asian and black

-Black and Chinese

It seems all the focus is on white people all the time as to why some may not go for other races yet no one questions the above I notice....

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By *ichieblackMan over a year ago

London

"Does that literally mean a whole race of people is a no go for some. Like am i reading that right no asians as in no asians what so ever even if your the best looking person ever. Wow. "
I wouldn't worry about it. You will find someone. There's someone for everyone even if your Asian or black Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wont accept messages from ugly people

that's why you won't message me back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm white. It is very rare I find a black woman attractive. It's called having a preference and being allowed to have a choice

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By *ikerdude2017Man over a year ago

Rotherham

If someone is hot doesn't matter what colour they are. Love Asians and would love to fuck a black woman.??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This question crops up regularly here. Asians are not a special people from Mars that everybody should play with them.

Why it's a big issue?

Its mutual attraction works for sex, it's not a job interview where looks doesn't matter but merit.

Stop moaning and enjoy with people who would be interested in meeting you .

This is Fab and not a govt department on Racial Equality .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This question crops up regularly here. Asians are not a special people from Mars that everybody should play with them.

Why it's a big issue?

Its mutual attraction works for sex, it's not a job interview where looks doesn't matter but merit.

Stop moaning and enjoy with people who would be interested in meeting you .

This is Fab and not a govt department on Racial Equality ."

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

"Does that literally mean a whole race of people is a no go for some. Like am i reading that right no asians as in no asians what so ever even if your the best looking person ever. Wow. "

It means time and inbox management. It means a range of types one does not expect to be attracted to. It means having seen too many examples of absolute lack of respect for any woman who is, let's face it, doing the exact same thing those men are doing and in the same place. It means playing by the law of averages.

Next question.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

"Its so dam weird i cant comprehend it tbh. Like we are born this way."

Born which way?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its so dam weird i cant comprehend it tbh. Like we are born this way.

Born which way?"

Haha with two dicks and four balls lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No fat people, no women above a size 14......means their preference is for slimmer ladies. I respect their preferences, and don't scream fatists at them. This site is for hedonistic sexual pleasure, not equal opportunities.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I think some gay men say "no women, whatever colour or ethnicity you are"

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By *pertureTV/TS over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

the only people I wont meet are biggots and barebackers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This question crops up regularly here. Asians are not a special people from Mars that everybody should play with them.

Why it's a big issue?

Its mutual attraction works for sex, it's not a job interview where looks doesn't matter but merit.

Stop moaning and enjoy with people who would be interested in meeting you .

This is Fab and not a govt department on Racial Equality ."

Wow clearly you haven't been subject to racial discrimination in your life that is why it isn't a problem for you. All moral and values of being a good human are thrown out of the window online i guess.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From now on everyone should refrain from including their exclusions on their profile.

NO blacks

No asians

No fatties

No oldies

No youngies

No gingers

No men

No women

No cry

All these exclusions are no longer acceptable on your profile.

Let others waste their time messaging, then ignore because it's not what you are looking for, then listen to them gripe that no one replies. HOW RUDE

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By *xtrafun4youMan over a year ago

Dunstable

"This question crops up regularly here. Asians are not a special people from Mars that everybody should play with them.

Why it's a big issue?

Its mutual attraction works for sex, it's not a job interview where looks doesn't matter but merit.

Stop moaning and enjoy with people who would be interested in meeting you .

This is Fab and not a govt department on Racial Equality ."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This question crops up regularly here. Asians are not a special people from Mars that everybody should play with them.

Why it's a big issue?

Its mutual attraction works for sex, it's not a job interview where looks doesn't matter but merit.

Stop moaning and enjoy with people who would be interested in meeting you .

This is Fab and not a govt department on Racial Equality .

Hahaha Moral?

Instead of playing victim card ,you should rather work on your profile and look for people who would be compatible.

This is a site where you don't pay for sex hence there has to be a mutual attraction.

How many similar threads you see from TVs, Fats,Blacks ,Chinese ,Arabs playing victims here ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see both sides of this, I can’t see how anyone can say no blacks,Asians,orientals etc etc as we are all individuals, and my god you would be saying no to some stunners. There are plenty of profiles who say the opposite to, black men only,

But I also believe in freedom of choice, if that’s what people’s choice is who are we to tell them they are wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see both sides of this, I can’t see how anyone can say no blacks,Asians,orientals etc etc as we are all individuals, and my god you would be saying no to some stunners. There are plenty of profiles who say the opposite to, black men only,

But I also believe in freedom of choice, if that’s what people’s choice is who are we to tell them they are wrong?

OP wants to take this issue to the Human Rights commission lol

He wants to conquer Fab just with his dick pic expecting every woman here should sleep with him .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But I also believe in freedom of choice, if that’s what people’s choice is who are we to tell them they are wrong?

OP wants to take this issue to the Human Rights commission lol

He wants to conquer Fab just with his dick pic expecting every woman here should sleep with him .

Lol a year in you may think the profile would be a little more informative!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But I also believe in freedom of choice, if that’s what people’s choice is who are we to tell them they are wrong?

OP wants to take this issue to the Human Rights commission lol

He wants to conquer Fab just with his dick pic expecting every woman here should sleep with him .

You do know laws apply to online don't you or are you from a different era. I wasn't raising this as a concern for myself but as an issue in general.

Im sorry you cant see that judging a person on ethnicity or anything for that matter is wrong. I understand preference but don't write off a whole race of people just because of some dimwits.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So keeping profile name as Dave makes you more inclusive on a sex site ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But I also believe in freedom of choice, if that’s what people’s choice is who are we to tell them they are wrong?

OP wants to take this issue to the Human Rights commission lol

He wants to conquer Fab just with his dick pic expecting every woman here should sleep with him .

You do know laws apply to online don't you or are you from a different era. I wasn't raising this as a concern for myself but as an issue in general.

Im sorry you cant see that judging a person on ethnicity or anything for that matter is wrong. I understand preference but don't write off a whole race of people just because of some dimwits. "

That's your perception that people wrote off a whole race.

That's you judging others now .

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By *estivalMan over a year ago

borehamwood

personaly i would meet anyone of any coulor if they a laugh and i find em hot.but some peeps have prefrences.i have seen profiles on here saying black guys only also usualy couples profiles where the couple are asian saying they only meet asians.no biggie i just dont bother mailing them.just like in your normal life peeps wana shag who they wana shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But I also believe in freedom of choice, if that’s what people’s choice is who are we to tell them they are wrong?

OP wants to take this issue to the Human Rights commission lol

He wants to conquer Fab just with his dick pic expecting every woman here should sleep with him .

You do know laws apply to online don't you or are you from a different era. I wasn't raising this as a concern for myself but as an issue in general.

Im sorry you cant see that judging a person on ethnicity or anything for that matter is wrong. I understand preference but don't write off a whole race of people just because of some dimwits.

That's your perception that people wrote off a whole race.

That's you judging others now ."

You have completely misunderstood what I have raised and for what purpose i raised it. Oh hint hint it isn't to conquer all the women on fab.

Please don't converse with me as your comments are very childish and acts of a school bully.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have it on my profile but hands up I've never found an Asian person I'm attracted to. I have lots of Asian friends and even 2 guys on here that I have socialled with. But sorry when it comes to someone putting their penis inside me then I have to be attracted to them.

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you’re using the word “judging” wrong. People that have preferences don’t dislike a person who is black/white/Asian and I’m sure most would happily talk to a person of any race when it comes to every day life. But to be sexually attracted to that person is a different thing. I can totally appreciate an attractive black lady but I’m not sexually attracted to a black lady. Just like I’m not attracted to women with huge tits, doesn’t mean I’m judging them for having huge tits but it just doesn’t get my motor running

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't have it on my profile but hands up I've never found an Asian person I'm attracted to. I have lots of Asian friends and even 2 guys on here that I have socialled with. But sorry when it comes to someone putting their penis inside me then I have to be attracted to them.

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you "

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want.

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By *artshell1Couple over a year ago

leeds

So even though your profile says straight you would meet men because you don't write people off on sex grounds either

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So even though your profile says straight you would meet men because you don't write people off on sex grounds either "

Great way to justify no asians.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want. "

Nope where have I said I dislike a whole race of people?? I said I've never found a Asian man I'm attracted to. I do on the other hand like Asian woman. And have socialled with Asian guys- just not attracted to them. Would you prefer people to meet you and think urgh I don't fancy him but I'm going to have to fuck him because if not I might be cladded as racist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want.

Right so for example play this out now right in your head. You imagine someone you really think is attractive and you do want sex with them. Now imagine they were asian somehow i know its hard but try it. So because they are now asian will you be less attracted to that person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want. "

Haha sugar coat for whom?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Attraction and sexual preference isn't politically correct. It's an instinct. We like who we like. I don't really fancy Asian men at all, I could take or leave Asian women I suppose.

If you know you don't fancy Asians you don't fancy them. That's it. Doesn't mean in a group situation at a club we wouldn't play or stop playing because an Asian man joins in, it just means we won't go looking for one.

It's not racist. It's part of the brain.

J. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want.

You can play this mind game all day buddy, but still won't score.

With these kind of thoughts ,I will be surprised if you get even a social meet here now.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve never been attracted to an Asian guy either. I’m met lots and lots of really lovely Asian guys through work, many that I class as friends but I’m not attracted to them sexually. Does that make me a racist? I don’t think so.

I have a particular look that I’m attracted to and it just happens to not be Asian guys. Nothing wrong with that I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want.

You can play this mind game all day buddy, but still won't score.

With these kind of thoughts ,I will be surprised if you get even a social meet here now.

I guess you cant read properly. I said stop conversing with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies and gentlemen let’s just move along if it’s a no it’s s no it can’t be forced on anyone . There has to be attraction from the off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The posts have soured a little on this thread.

As has been said it's all about preference, what turns you on and what gets you going. I know i' m not everyone's cup of tea but the wonderful world of FAB has something for everyone.

Being upfront about you like, even if it may come across as blunt, is never a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am trying to bring out to Fab users in a public forum that such topics shoudnt be entertained at all.

Mods should delete them which just brings unwanted issues to the fore.

Asians are not discriminated on Fab and people should learn to respect choices rather than cribbing and playing victim card .

It may work in Primark or Maccies but not here .

Sorry, my sympathies are with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The posts have soured a little on this thread.

As has been said it's all about preference, what turns you on and what gets you going. I know i' m not everyone's cup of tea but the wonderful world of FAB has something for everyone.

Being upfront about you like, even if it may come across as blunt, is never a bad thing"

Love you for this mate.

Very positive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly my point too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The posts have soured a little on this thread.

As has been said it's all about preference, what turns you on and what gets you going. I know i' m not everyone's cup of tea but the wonderful world of FAB has something for everyone.

Being upfront about you like, even if it may come across as blunt, is never a bad thing

Love you for this mate.

Very positive "

Absolute pleasure.

FAB is about having fun, and no one knows better than yourself what you like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The posts have soured a little on this thread.

As has been said it's all about preference, what turns you on and what gets you going. I know i' m not everyone's cup of tea but the wonderful world of FAB has something for everyone.

Being upfront about you like, even if it may come across as blunt, is never a bad thing

Love you for this mate.

Very positive

Absolute pleasure.

FAB is about having fun, and no one knows better than yourself what you like"

With such lovely thoughts you may never know that the person may ask you for a date ,isn't ?

That's the beauty of having a good personality.

We also get rejected many times but we don't get disheartened, always respect their decision but we get more meets than rejections.

If we start moaning about rejections then nobody will be interested in meeting us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm just saying what other people already have but it is down to sexual preference, that's the way the brain works. Fab is different to real life situations, it's a short cut to finding what you want, why would you look for something that you know you have not been attracted to before. It's the same as sexuality, if your not attracted to a man then you will not look for a man. This does not mean that you hate all men, and yes you might be missing out on a fantastic man...but guess what it's not your preference. Dont worry too much about it and look for people who are looking for you, it's that simple

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By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Are you saying ALL generalised preferences (height, size, gender etc.) are wrong OP, or just the preferences concerning race?

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

For me Fabs is all about preferences.If someone says sorry no Black

or Asian or says Black only it’s not racism it’s preferences.

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"Why do you not see many combinations of the below in lovers or actual couples?

-Chinese and South Asian

-South Asian and black

-Black and Chinese

It seems all the focus is on white people all the time as to why some may not go for other races yet no one questions the above I notice...."

Up until your post noone had mentioned 'white people'!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want.

You can play this mind game all day buddy, but still won't score.

With these kind of thoughts ,I will be surprised if you get even a social meet here now.

I guess you cant read properly. I said stop conversing with me. "

That's not how forums work. You posted and they can reply till post 175.

Its not like personal messages you can't block a reply on a forum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a preference. You're not what they want. You will be what someone else wants

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a preference. You're not what they want. You will be what someone else wants

Eloquently put!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"This question crops up regularly here. Asians are not a special people from Mars that everybody should play with them.

Why it's a big issue?

Its mutual attraction works for sex, it's not a job interview where looks doesn't matter but merit.

Stop moaning and enjoy with people who would be interested in meeting you .

This is Fab and not a govt department on Racial Equality .

So are you saying she should meet people she doesn't want to just to not be portrayed as racist? People are allowed preferences. Am I ageist because of mine? Should I be obliged to fuck an 18 or 70 year old that I don't want to meet in the first place to keep them and others happy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This question crops up regularly here. Asians are not a special people from Mars that everybody should play with them.

Why it's a big issue?

Its mutual attraction works for sex, it's not a job interview where looks doesn't matter but merit.

Stop moaning and enjoy with people who would be interested in meeting you .

This is Fab and not a govt department on Racial Equality ."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP just do what I do, I see a profile that say 'No Blacks' or something to that effect, I block and move on. It is a waste of time trying to get with someone who is never going to want you in the first place. There are plenty of people here who like Asian men, try to contact them.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want.

You can play this mind game all day buddy, but still won't score.

With these kind of thoughts ,I will be surprised if you get even a social meet here now.

I guess you cant read properly. I said stop conversing with me. "

A dom in the making?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want. "

Rubbish. On here it’s nothing to do with dislike, it’s about sexual attraction. I won’t meet men with beards because I’m not attracted to them. Doesn’t mean I don’t like them. I don’t meet bi men, which apparently makes me homophobic yet one of my best friends on here is a bi man. These kind of posts get on my nerves. Move on and find someone who does want to meet you.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

"I’ve never been attracted to an Asian guy either. I’m met lots and lots of really lovely Asian guys through work, many that I class as friends but I’m not attracted to them sexually. Does that make me a racist? I don’t think so.

I have a particular look that I’m attracted to and it just happens to not be Asian guys. Nothing wrong with that I think."

Well, I have even noticed that some of them are very attractive. OP, when you go to a museum and admire a painting, do you try to buy it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP just do what I do, I see a profile that say 'No Blacks' or something to that effect, I block and move on. It is a waste of time trying to get with someone who is never going to want you in the first place. There are plenty of people here who like Asian men, try to contact them."

What you are saying is very sensible to us.

This race card has been played just so many time on here it is unbelievable.

It seems that people are not allowed to choose what they find attractive??

Like you say, take the sensible option and get on with it.

There is someone for everyone on here from what we see.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman over a year ago

London

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want. "

As always...

What do you suggest?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the only people I wont meet are biggots and barebackers"

With you 100% on that.

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I find it far more productive a use of my time and energy to focus on the folk who include me in their preferences, than those that exclude

#boobpicturestomyinboxladies

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I wont accept messages from ugly people

that's why you won't message me back "

or me!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your looking for something discreet... It's a preference.

So me being someone who only plays in clubs and I can assure you that is not discreet whilst there should I throw my Toys out of the pram as you will only do something in private hidden from the rest of the world. And why discreet ??? Just a thought

Oh and I have a preference of no white guy (sorry white men) I very rarely find them attractive. Great to talk too but that's as far it goes for me. I also have a preference of no gay guys, again great to talk too but if your dick isn't going to work then it's not going to work and that just doesn't work for me. Bi don't mind, fully gay... I'm good

There are plenty of women on here who will consider Asian men, there are also people who will go for certain parts of Asia, as there is a vast difference between Sri Lankans and Koreans.

I've played with plenty of Asian people in clubs, plenty of whites too ( yes I know not my preference but this is one of those rare ones ) and blacks and they all had one thing in common... They made me feel relaxed, I found a mutual attraction and did not feel under pressure to become the performing sex monkey or felt that it was their God given right to have sex with me. Those that did that quickly got shut down and I can assure you did not end up in a room with me naked.

People have their preferences of who gets to move their clothes to the floor and open their legs too...

A lady above doesn't like big tits... I've got massive tits.. I'm not offended in the slightest. I move on and get over it and find someone who does love my curves.

Op this topic has come up in different variations over and over again and it will keep coming up again in different forms but ultimately no matter who you are if someone has a preference as to who they sleep with then so be it. It's their bodies their opening up to people not just a polite conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What you are saying is very sensible to us.

This race card has been played just so many time on here it is unbelievable.

It seems that people are not allowed to choose what they find attractive??

Like you say, take the sensible option and get on with it.

There is someone for everyone on here from what we see."

Only single Asian guys play this Race card , quiet regularly on Fab. Admins should delete such threads .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its all been said and though some may feel aggrieved by it all, we all seem to agree that though it may come across as harsh its just stating preferences and likes in an unequivocal way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So would the OP prefer to know that the profile he is Looking at is not looking for his type or just be deleted and ignored?

I see profiles all of the time saying sorry only looking for BBC!

I don’t take offence I just respect that’s what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me"

Neither am I

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me"

Such a wide range though,

I had a Belfast girl that I used to meet up with when over there and even her sexy chat sounded like a threat to kill me

Others are much softer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or the Welsh for the matter

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By *harliebbwWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me"

With you with accents mine is a scouser no way not only Nelly.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me

With you with accents mine is a scouser no way not only Nelly. "

Funny they because I can’t stand brummie accents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me

With you with accents mine is a scouser no way not only Nelly.

Funny they because I can’t stand brummie accents

Wife loves Irish accents, especially from Republic side of the border, softer accents.

She also loves (some) Scottish accents, oh, and Geordie, too.

Maybe if the OP adopted one of those accents, she might be interested?

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me

With you with accents mine is a scouser no way not only Nelly.

Funny they because I can’t stand brummie accents

Wife loves Irish accents, especially from Republic side of the border, softer accents.

She also loves (some) Scottish accents, oh, and Geordie, too.

Maybe if the OP adopted one of those accents, she might be interested?

Haha yeah, and maybe wore a kilt for added effect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And what about the Scottish!!??

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We don't actually say "No Asians" but if we are really honest we do tend to avoid (for mostly behavioural reasons) one particular sub group when we visit a club.

Although we don't see many in Germany, when in Spain and France we also try to give North Africans a wide berth as well for pretty much the same reasons.

In over 10 years together we have visited nearly 50 clubs in five countries and most (nearly all) of the bad etiquette and bad behaviour we have seen comes from these two groups.

Not saying that a decent one couldn't charm his way in but he would have a job on his hands.

There really are some guys out there that do their fellow Asians and North Africans no favours.

Just for balance I would add that in those years she has managed to fuck 16 different nationalities.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

Op you have on your profile that you’re straight. Don’t you think that the fact that you’re not looking to fuck other men is rather homophobic?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its nothing to do with race and it gets on my tits when the race card is thrown around just because someone isn't attracted to you

No body has thrown the race card. Sorry but if you can dislike a whole race of people just due to ethnicity that is classes as racism. Sugar coat it all you want. "

I do not 'dislike' any ethnicity, nor do others posting on this thread. We are trying to say it is sexual preference who we choose to have sex with. No court in the land would throw the racial discrimination card at someone not finding a particular ethnicity sexually attractive. You are spitting your dummy out because some people don't want to have sex with you and yiu are using the race card inappropriately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wont accept messages from ugly people

Im not ugy i just have no head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And what about the Scottish!!?? "

Very pale

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And what about the Scottish!!??

Very pale

But interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like lots of people have already said it’s all about preferences, I’m Asian and have no difficulty getting meets. I too have preferences and say a polite no thank you to people whom I don’t find sexually attractive, it’s everyones right to say who they will and won’t play with.

If a Profile has no Asians in their preferences then that surely saves everyone’s valuable time!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like lots of people have already said it’s all about preferences, I’m Asian and have no difficulty getting meets. I too have preferences and say a polite no thank you to people whom I don’t find sexually attractive, it’s everyones right to say who they will and won’t play with.

If a Profile has no Asians in their preferences then that surely saves everyone’s valuable time! "

Can I vote for you as sexual equalities moderator

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a Profile has no Asians in their preferences then that surely saves everyone’s valuable time!

Can I vote for you as sexual equalities moderator

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a Profile has no Asians in their preferences then that surely saves everyone’s valuable time!

Can I vote for you as sexual equalities moderator

I am a very sociable person, and love meeting people from any ethnicity. Who I choose to keep as close friends or sexual partners has nothing to do with any form of discrimination. I like them personally, or I don't, as a person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op you have on your profile that you’re straight. Don’t you think that the fact that you’re not looking to fuck other men is rather homophobic?"

We look forward greatly to your answer OP.

According to the argument you put up surely you would suck cock??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a Profile has no Asians in their preferences then that surely saves everyone’s valuable time!

Can I vote for you as sexual equalities moderator

Isn’t that how it should be? You’re never going to like everyone you meet throughout your lifetime and you’re certainly not going to fancy everyone you meet let alone want to sleep with them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does that literally mean a whole race of people is a no go for some. Like am i reading that right no asians as in no asians what so ever even if your the best looking person ever. Wow. "

Chips anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not overly keen on the Irish accent. So that's a 'no no' from me

With you with accents mine is a scouser no way not only Nelly.

Funny they because I can’t stand brummie accents

Wife loves Irish accents, especially from Republic side of the border, softer accents.

She also loves (some) Scottish accents, oh, and Geordie, too.

Maybe if the OP adopted one of those accents, she might be interested?

Haha yeah, and maybe wore a kilt for added effect

That would seal the deal for her....

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By *imits2pushMan over a year ago

lichfield

Considering well over half the profiles I read in here state “no white” or some variation of that.

I very rarely see no Asian, but of course it is out there.

The most discriminated against demographic on fab, is straight white single male.

Then those that do look for the above, state must be ripped and VWE.

So basically 99% of white guys on here, apparently aren’t good enough for a large quantity of the women.

Unfortunately because of supply and demand and fetishisation. It doesn’t matter who you are, what you have to offer. Unless your appearance fits a niche, you’re not ganna get anywhere as a single guy on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So sad people can't accept an individuals personal choice. Accept it and move on is the best policy.

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By *imits2pushMan over a year ago

lichfield

"So sad people can't accept an individuals personal choice. Accept it and move on is the best policy.

Thing is, some of this in genuine preference. A women for instance, as always gone for black guys, her partners black, that’s her taste. There nothing as all wrong with that.

The issue comes in, when it’s based on fetishisation and demand.

I’ve had this convo face to face and online many times.

The normal answer is “we have so much choice, why should be settle for less than our ideal option”

Which is then defined as purely based on looks and a fetish/objectified view.

In the years I’ve beeb around this scene I e seen a massive shift. 5 years ago, as a experienced, intelligent, professional pretty good looking guy, I was desirable on here and other adult sites.

Now, it seems all you’re lifes achievements, personal qualities, experience and skills. Mean nothing.

All that counts is how long you spend in the gym, how big your cock is and what colour your skin is.

At what point did women on the sexual scenes become so shallow? And so purely about looks?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Considering well over half the profiles I read in here state “no white” or some variation of that.

I very rarely see no Asian, but of course it is out there.

The most discriminated against demographic on fab, is straight white single male.

Then those that do look for the above, state must be ripped and VWE.

So basically 99% of white guys on here, apparently aren’t good enough for a large quantity of the women.

You are wrong, the most discriminated on here by far are bisexual men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does that literally mean a whole race of people is a no go for some. Like am i reading that right no asians as in no asians what so ever even if your the best looking person ever. Wow. "

Does it matter?

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By *imits2pushMan over a year ago

lichfield

"Considering well over half the profiles I read in here state “no white” or some variation of that.

I very rarely see no Asian, but of course it is out there.

The most discriminated against demographic on fab, is straight white single male.

Then those that do look for the above, state must be ripped and VWE.

So basically 99% of white guys on here, apparently aren’t good enough for a large quantity of the women.

You are wrong, the most discriminated on here by far are bisexual men "

There is an argument for both sides of that. A lot of group, mmf, Gangbang etc say bi only.

Simply being bi, makes them a niche that improves their perceived value.

But yes, a lot of couples will veto bi guys and convinced the guy will try it on with the guy of the couple.

Or the perception that gay/bi guys are higher sti risk.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"So sad people can't accept an individuals personal choice. Accept it and move on is the best policy.

Thing is, some of this in genuine preference. A women for instance, as always gone for black guys, her partners black, that’s her taste. There nothing as all wrong with that.

The issue comes in, when it’s based on fetishisation and demand.

I’ve had this convo face to face and online many times.

The normal answer is “we have so much choice, why should be settle for less than our ideal option”

Which is then defined as purely based on looks and a fetish/objectified view.

In the years I’ve beeb around this scene I e seen a massive shift. 5 years ago, as a experienced, intelligent, professional pretty good looking guy, I was desirable on here and other adult sites.

Now, it seems all you’re lifes achievements, personal qualities, experience and skills. Mean nothing.

All that counts is how long you spend in the gym, how big your cock is and what colour your skin is.

At what point did women on the sexual scenes become so shallow? And so purely about looks? "

I’m single for the first time in my life (well, since 14 when I started dating).

I don’t have a huge sex drive, in fact, it’s mostly non existent at times.

I’m enjoying being single and looking for the hottest men out there. I never settle, I’d rather go without.

I’ve met some gorgeous men, hotter than I could have ever imagined and it’s been great.

I’m purely about looks. I don’t want a relationship.

What’s wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So sad people can't accept an individuals personal choice. Accept it and move on is the best policy.

Can you describe to me what an ‘Asian’ looks like, how tall they are? What colour is their hair and eyes? what religion they are? What language they speak? Where are they from? Asians all look different so when someone puts ‘no Asians’ on their profile what exactly do they mean??