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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We do xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 
Do you, do you really - mmmmmmm - I think you have just seen the tip of the iceberg! "
What?lol u lost me hun xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing yet we play with one couple that don't and to be honest I don't think about it as they take my mind off it by doing other just as erotic and gorgeous things to me,and I always have Rob there to kiss too
With single guys I won't play without kissing though......strange I know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"an absolute must for us  ..or we wudnt play with em lol ..we find a good snog lots of kissing get the juices flowing 
Couldn't agree more xxxxxx"
Us too!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i love kissing but not on the lips
love kissing some where else lol"
Cant see you having to much success in here then as most of the women seem to enjoy receiving lots and lots of oral sex, Mrs Two2 certainly does |
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"i love kissing but not on the lips
love kissing some where else lol
Cant see you having to much success in here then as most of the women seem to enjoy receiving lots and lots of oral sex, Mrs Two2 certainly does "
Oral? That's just talking about it isn't it? |
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"Oh my goodness I feel like we are social outcasts ha x"
No way - I can understand why some people don't kiss - but I love to do it myself - I am a great believer in living and let live - great that we;re all different! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh my goodness I feel like we are social outcasts ha x
No way - I can understand why some people don't kiss - but I love to do it myself - I am a great believer in living and let live - great that we;re all different!"
Thankyou was beginning to panic then lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm its a fine line we think, We recently had a meet and the guy was very touchy feely with me (kat) wanting to hold hands and kiss etc all the time, this was before we had a play it was while we where downstairs in the pub having a drink, now for us these are things for me and kev, some kissing while playing is fine. There are things you do as a couple and keep for yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm its a fine line we think, We recently had a meet and the guy was very touchy feely with me (kat) wanting to hold hands and kiss etc all the time, this was before we had a play it was while we where downstairs in the pub having a drink, now for us these are things for me and kev, some kissing while playing is fine. There are things you do as a couple and keep for yourself."
I totally agree with that,I don't like that sort of thing and neither does Rob,it makes us both uncomfortable,during play its no problem at all but in a public place its freaky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have to say we dont kiss, not on the lips anyway, we did kiss before but decided we wanted to keep something just for us....that may change and it may not but for now its the way it is and very clearly spelled out in our profile so there is no misunderstanding.
keep on smiling xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a few meets that didnt kiss and i never seen them again!! gotta b some kissing its a bg part of foreplay to me and just seems like unpaid prostitution!! thats my own feeling before i get verbally attacked for it!! |
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"had a few meets that didnt kiss and i never seen them again!! gotta b some kissing its a bg part of foreplay to me and just seems like unpaid prostitution!! thats my own feeling before i get verbally attacked for it!! "
I hope no one verbally attacks you! Most people agree that kissing is good but understand that some people don't do it - it's all good fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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couldnt imagine not kissing with 2 singles, or 2 couples meeting, however during threesomes, gangbangs etc kissing is quite hard as the mouth is usually busy elsewhere lol, so cannot understand why some people think its a must, sometimes theres not much time for kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I as a rule generally dont do kissing,
if a single guy then maybe...
although most ppl seem facinated by kissing a gurl with the rings in her mouth. "
never kissed a girl with them but have a guy and i gotta say it was awesome!! my tongue pierced it seems to attract attention especially one time when it came loose.. |
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always makes me smile when this comes up cos we never kiss members of opposite sex, however it has never ever been a problem in 5 years the only place we ever see it mentioned is on here, but maybe thats cos we do most of our playing in clubs, hannah kisses girls which i obviously love but doesnt want to kiss guys, dunno what i,d think if she did till she did it i might love it...or not, but she dont want to do it, n i dont want to kiss girls, there are plenty of other things to keep us entertained lol, the last time this came up some moron said if you let her kiss girls but not men that means you are not secure in your relationship, but i dont think you do what we do as often as we do it and not be secure, its just every couple (and single) has to roll there own way, and this is how we roll x
ps i might add that i dont kiss dudes or girls lol |
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"always makes me smile when this comes up cos we never kiss members of opposite sex, however it has never ever been a problem in 5 years the only place we ever see it mentioned is on here, but maybe thats cos we do most of our playing in clubs, hannah kisses girls which i obviously love but doesnt want to kiss guys, dunno what i,d think if she did till she did it i might love it...or not, but she dont want to do it, n i dont want to kiss girls, there are plenty of other things to keep us entertained lol, the last time this came up some moron said if you let her kiss girls but not men that means you are not secure in your relationship, but i dont think you do what we do as often as we do it and not be secure, its just every couple (and single) has to roll there own way, and this is how we roll x
ps i might add that i dont kiss dudes or girls lol"
As we've all said previously, each to their own - this thread was started in a light hearted, interested kind of way and was in no way meant to be an in depth analysis of the why's and wherefores' of it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There have been quite a few kissing threads since I started using the forums and generally they get me so angry (maybe they always come at PMT week lol) because some people just don't understand the no kissing thing, but I have to say this thread didnt because of Zoe and Steve's nice comments and nobody has started the insecure thing so well done you two a happy thread yey xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There have been quite a few kissing threads since I started using the forums and generally they get me so angry (maybe they always come at PMT week lol) because some people just don't understand the no kissing thing, but I have to say this thread didnt because of Zoe and Steve's nice comments and nobody has started the insecure thing so well done you two a happy thread yey xx"
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"There have been quite a few kissing threads since I started using the forums and generally they get me so angry (maybe they always come at PMT week lol) because some people just don't understand the no kissing thing, but I have to say this thread didnt because of Zoe and Steve's nice comments and nobody has started the insecure thing so well done you two a happy thread yey xx
Biting my tongue here "
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There have been quite a few kissing threads since I started using the forums and generally they get me so angry (maybe they always come at PMT week lol) because some people just don't understand the no kissing thing, but I have to say this thread didnt because of Zoe and Steve's nice comments and nobody has started the insecure thing so well done you two a happy thread yey xx
Biting my tongue here
Why?"
Because we have met sexywelshpeeps and I was tempted to attempt a wind up, nothing sinister honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There have been quite a few kissing threads since I started using the forums and generally they get me so angry (maybe they always come at PMT week lol) because some people just don't understand the no kissing thing, but I have to say this thread didnt because of Zoe and Steve's nice comments and nobody has started the insecure thing so well done you two a happy thread yey xx
Biting my tongue here
Why?
Because we have met sexywelshpeeps and I was tempted to attempt a wind up, nothing sinister honest "
Oii Mr2 Ive just seen this..winding me up eh bring it on ha ha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There have been quite a few kissing threads since I started using the forums and generally they get me so angry (maybe they always come at PMT week lol) because some people just don't understand the no kissing thing, but I have to say this thread didnt because of Zoe and Steve's nice comments and nobody has started the insecure thing so well done you two a happy thread yey xx
Biting my tongue here
Why?
Because we have met sexywelshpeeps and I was tempted to attempt a wind up, nothing sinister honest
Oii Mr2 Ive just seen this..winding me up eh bring it on ha ha xx"
Way too scared for that sort of thing lol |
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"We kiss but if a couple we meet don't, then it's not an issue with us."
We have been in that situation before and have to agree that it isn't a problem! Just kiss other places rather than the mouth! |
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Absolutely! Kissing is an essential part of sex, before, during and after. We don't believe in the 'keep something special just for the two of you' point of view, why keep something back when you're playing with somebody else? The aim of sex is pleasure, so why limit it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to break the yes pattern lol but we don't kiss other than each other x"
Yup same here we keep the kissing for each other as i find it a "personal" thing...if ya get my meaning.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"kissing for both of us - just don't seem right without. We have tried, it was our first rule when we started and guess what, it was the first we broke "
Exactly the same for us , we wouldn t have it any other way now , so much sexy/nawtyer ! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry to break the yes pattern lol but we don't kiss other than each other x
Yup same here we keep the kissing for each other as i find it a "personal" thing...if ya get my meaning. "
Know exactly what you mean xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"kissing fans the flames of passion, and without it i think the act of making love or having sex becomes far to mechanical, "
To be fair to you, as a single person I would maybe find it a bit strange to have sex with someone without kissing but as a couple it's something we like to keep for ourselves.
And so far so good we have not had anybody turn us down because we don't kiss, I'm sure that in time it may happen but not as yet. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously, it's down to individuals and if it's not for you, then fair enough.
But after my previous experience it would be something I'd check if I was heading towards meeting another couple, and if it was a no no, then meeting them would probably be a no no too!! lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We kiss - during the act of playing - we don't snog others at the bar etc, but during play it's just sex, far less intimate than seeing my partner sucking a cock or licking a pussy, it's sex and it's foreplay, that said we are still happy to play with couples who don't and accept that we all have different ways of thinking.
The kissing situation did give me a great ego boost recently when a couple met a couple we had chatted to earlier in the day, they had pointed out that the only kissing they allowed was girl on girl which was dissapointing but not a "deal breaker" for us, however we met them, chatted for a few hours and when it came down to playtime the guy said he would be happy for me to kiss his partner as he they both felt comfortable and relaxed around me  |
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"Defo... love a smooch, makes all the juices flow. "
only one been with a couple where she wouldnt kiss.. for me it was a complete passion killer  . Didnt realise how important it was until I wasnt allowed to do it! |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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We don't kiss, never felt the need, don't want to.
Yet funnily enough, we've never been turned down because of it. It clearly states in our profile we don't kiss and we get more mail than we can cope with.
Go figure to those that say 'can't', 'won't', 'wouldn't' |
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By *4tCouple
over a year ago
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"YOU CANT DO IT WITH OUT A SNOG !!!..its where all the sexy whispering is !!..
Met a couple a while ago and didn't realize till the very last sec... BIG NO NO !"
giz a big sloppy snog mmmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The great thing is that we all love different things - no one has the right to say 'we do this therefore you must also' to kiss or not to kiss - that is your choice and everyone is right! XXXXXX"
Quite right, as long as everyone is happy and has fun, thats all that matters. xxxxxxxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldnt imagine NOT kissing.
To me its a big part of the build up and as long as everyone mouth fressh and teeth clean ...
mmmmmmmm how nice
mind....would not if their mouth hygiene was yuk or bad teeth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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must admit i love kissing, it really turns me on, couldnt enjoy sex without lots of erotic foreplay and i view kissing as an essential part of the build up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me state firstly, that it's a free country, we're all allowed to make our own choices!! So please, no posts accusing me of dogmatism or anything like that!!
The 'no kissing' thing does puzzle me, but I have to say it also intrigues me! As far as I'm aware it's purely a couple thing, I've yet to come across a lady's profile which says, "please note, no kissing allowed"!! lol
I could be wrong of course but I also suspect that in most cases it's the guy who's behind it, from an intimacy perspective. And yet he's allowing guys to shag his wife??
Kissing can be as intimate or as non-intimate as you want to make it, bearing in mind the 'air-kissing' thing which seems to be all the rage these days!
Couples have said on here that they don't allow it and it's their choice, which they're perfectly correct to say, but none of them has explained why!! lol |
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This thread was started as a bit of fun - wondered who did and didn't kiss - it wasn't intended to force people to explain why they do or don't do it as I feel that's entirely up to the individuals, or to have people try to defend themselves. I would never ask any one to 'explain' anything - why the heck should they? Lets keep this light and in the manner in which it was intended - thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread was started as a bit of fun - wondered who did and didn't kiss - it wasn't intended to force people to explain why they do or don't do it as I feel that's entirely up to the individuals, or to have people try to defend themselves. I would never ask any one to 'explain' anything - why the heck should they? Lets keep this light and in the manner in which it was intended - thanks!"
Very true
I love kissing personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we first started swinging we said we wouldn't kiss other people. Then as soon as our first threesome arrived it all went out of the window amongst all the foreplay! I have to say neither of us minded. It adds to the foreplay greatly, and there's nothing better than kissing whilst someone else is putting a cock up there |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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" As far as I'm aware it's purely a couple thing, I've yet to come across a lady's profile which says, "please note, no kissing allowed"!! lol
I could be wrong of course but I also suspect that in most cases it's the guy who's behind it, from an intimacy perspective. And yet he's allowing guys to shag his wife??"
Bollox. I know hundreds of couples and of ALL of those that don't kiss, it always a couples decision and in general, from those I personally know, the blokes don't generally care. So please don't spout generalisations.
"Couples have said on here that they don't allow it and it's their choice, which they're perfectly correct to say, but none of them has explained why!! lol"
No we haven't explained why. We've been here before. There's been numerous threads on kissing which normally disintigrate into slanging matches with the kissers showing their intolerance and a certain couple who go out of their way to debate THEIR side but refuse to realise that some may not want to.
We don't kiss. We don't feel the need.
From my point of view (Mrs), I've never been into kissing anyone other than my partner, even as a single female I didn't kiss........ so fecking what!!
Those that think it's robotic, not the same or wouldn't meet those who didn't, to ME, you lack immagination.
There are plenty of things you can be doing rather than having ya face sucked off!
As to WHY we don't kiss as a couple........ the simple answer is......
WE don't want to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's been numerous threads on kissing which normally disintigrate into slanging matches with the kissers showing their intolerance and a certain couple who go out of their way to debate THEIR side but refuse to realise that some may not want to.
Ok ok, keep your wig on!!!!
And if you don't mind me saying so, which of course you no doubt will, I can well understand how previous threads have disintegrated into slanging matches!!!!
Flamin eck!!
People have been commenting recently about folk 'disappearing' from the forums, but is it any wonder????
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes most kissing threads have turned into slanging matches apart from this one, untill now for one simple reason and that is people accusing one part of the couple having insecurities.
Im with Maddie!
WE don't want to kiss.
WE made the decision together.
Simples
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've said it before on other threads about the same subject ... we like to kiss and find it erotic and naughty BUT! we totally understand where maddie and sexywelsh are coming from, it's not for everyone and it wouldn't stop us from meeting anyone we liked who didn't kiss ... we all have our likes and dislikes when playing and no one should have to justify what they do or don't do ... just enjoy what you like and have fun ... kisses debs xxx |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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" There's been numerous threads on kissing which normally disintigrate into slanging matches with the kissers showing their intolerance and a certain couple who go out of their way to debate THEIR side but refuse to realise that some may not want to.
Ok ok, keep your wig on!!!!
And if you don't mind me saying so, which of course you no doubt will, I can well understand how previous threads have disintegrated into slanging matches!!!!
Flamin eck!!
People have been commenting recently about folk 'disappearing' from the forums, but is it any wonder????
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I'm not the one asking the questions, generalising on men's insecurities or making those of us who are 'different' defend ourselves.
You are.
People disappear from the forums for many reasons and quite a few, I would think, are because of intolerant people.
However, my post was written as a statement of facts, not to have a go at anyone personally. I've been the subject of ridicule because I don't kiss and I've have my swinging 'beliefs' challenged because I am 'different.'
So excuse me if I get slightly stroppy and no, I don't mind you saying so....... but YOU were the one pushing for an explanation.
I've given it, as have sthwalescple. Just because we don't appear to conform, we are no less worthy of swinging...... which in previous posts, we have been made to feel.
Some don't kiss, some don't do anal, some don't do seperate room, some don't do single men.... and all will have their oponents.
So what..... if we were all the same as swingers, it would be sodding boring! |
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