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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"
Good luck it happens on here seen it tried and tested so have faith dude |
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I've been here since 2014 seeking the one so join the waiting game.
I've repeatedly suggested a fabswingers dating section or something to progress the dating side but alas there has been nothing.
Even speed shagging would be a start oops speed dating I mean lol
Anyway good morning to ya fella now fasten up those hatchets hoist up the sails me hearty and get rowing...enjoy the journey on captain fabswingers ship  |
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This is actually super sweet! I hope you find what you’re looking for OP. I’m all for online romances, it’s how me and Mr B net each other albeit Facebook and not fab lol. But we’ve been together for over a year and a half and still going strong.
Good luck!
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"This is actually super sweet! I hope you find what you’re looking for OP. I’m all for online romances, it’s how me and Mr B net each other albeit Facebook and not fab lol. But we’ve been together for over a year and a half and still going strong. "
Really agree with this! Myself and D actually met on kik before agreeing to meet, the rest is history 
Op I hope you find someone who has the same interests as you!
L xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been here since 2014 seeking the one so join the waiting game.
I've repeatedly suggested a fabswingers dating section or something to progress the dating side but alas there has been nothing.
Even speed shagging would be a start oops speed dating I mean lol
Anyway good morning to ya fella now fasten up those hatchets hoist up the sails me hearty and get rowing...enjoy the journey on captain fabswingers ship "
a fabswingers dating section would be good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"
Would be looking towards this too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met my fella here almost 4 years ago now, I must stress though, neither of us were looking for anything serious. Though I think you absolutely can find love on fab, or anywhere, it's probably not the best place to look (most people here are seeking nsa).
Good luck OP, I hope you find your dream lady |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I think the IS the swingers dating website. I really only date unless I’m clubbing, and have met a long term partner here, not together now but it was perfect. Emotionally monogamous but sexually free.
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"
Any luck since I last replied? My ends nothing as yet...5 Years and counting lol |
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I’m looking for that too, but it’s hard to find someone who’s local, compatibly kinky, emotionally monogamous and who I click with. I think I’m asking for too much. Good luck with your search. It’ll happen one day! |
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It happens, I found my partner on here, so did many others, so not impossible . I never think it harms to state that your intrested in a relationship with the right person on your profile if that's what you also seek. There is not harm in using Fab to seek relationships too. I assume your looking for a relationship that includes swinging? If so you'd far better chance finding someone like minded on here than a normal dating site. But remember very few women out there are swingers, so the pool is limited. I may take time, effort and lots of patience. |
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"I’m looking for that too, but it’s hard to find someone who’s local, compatibly kinky, emotionally monogamous and who I click with. I think I’m asking for too much. Good luck with your search. It’ll happen one day!"
It's out there, just illusive. |
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By *eelouWoman
over a year ago
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Looking for the same thing myself but sadly no joy. Not sure I'll find in on here but not discounting it either.
Good luck OP, seen quite a lot of genuinely happy couples who have met on here so there is hope
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"Why would I let a another bloke shag my significant other ,we had this conversation after the match the other night. "
Why would you let your significant other anyway??
Well their body doesn't belong to you it is their choice who they have sex with. As a loving and supporting partner you accept their choices.
Just as your body is your own you make your choices to do with it as you will.
Idealistic socially constructed monogamy which is control.
Sex is sex and love is love in what ever form it takes. So you won't be letting your significant other fuck other people it's not your right to choose.
Having a partner who swings is difficult if you can't trust them or love them enough to allow them their own choices and support them then don't be in that relationship.
I'd also bet you'd expect to have your cake and eat it though.
Mind boggling contradictions on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im also looking for love/relationship but with the added kink of swinging/parties.
Its not the easier to find.
Good luck everyone "
Me too... Could you move to Bedfordshire please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I think that you should put what you're looking for in your profile to increase your chances.
Women on here get so many messages that yours is apt to get lost in all the noise but if they do look at your profile then it needs to let them know what you want.
Good luck to all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish you well OP and all the others.
I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture.
I don't think I'll ever find the one so in many ways I've given up hoping to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have loved to have met someone on here, just never happened when I wanted it too... I can only Imagine the fun I could have with a like minded individual. Good luck though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone, fab made us but fab broke us too. We clearly weren't meant to be a couple of any sort but it took us over 2 years to realise it. Hes now living a "normal" vanilla lifestyle with his new woman. Lesson learnt I'd only ever have a fwb on here now. Less emotional stress |
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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago
De12 area |
I met my partner on here.. While we were just fwb.. Sex was great.. At it like rabbits.. So to spk.. Moved in together and now after I'd say 8ish years.. It's like being married.. We never have sex.. Thank fuck I'm still on site.. Or I'd become a born again virgin.. But he's happy for me to still go and play and vice versa.. |
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Looking for the same thing OP - it's lovely to see there are some great couples that have met here and have a fulfilling relationship with everything I'm looking for...just goes to show, it can happen!
I'm still holding out for my perfect sexual deviant  |
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"
Join the club mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met a fab lady on here 6 years, moved in together got engaged had a few 3somes, December had a 3some, she fell for the guy and dumped me and is with him now :-0
So take care |
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"I met a fab lady on here 6 years, moved in together got engaged had a few 3somes, December had a 3some, she fell for the guy and dumped me and is with him now :-0
So take care "
That's awful!! Sorry to hear that.
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"Looking for the same thing OP - it's lovely to see there are some great couples that have met here and have a fulfilling relationship with everything I'm looking for...just goes to show, it can happen!
I'm still holding out for my perfect sexual deviant "
Well I've been looking since 2014 as mention above and can't message you otherwise I'd have said let's talk lol
Damn those filters lol |
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"I really want the same thing, you'd think being in london would make that easier, it really helps vrry little!
I'm in London...  "
I travel all over besides London isn't far... if you were in the US then I'd be worried so don't make excuses and get in touch lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx
Good luck it happens on here seen it tried and tested so have faith dude"
I know of many here that have met and gotten married or even getting married or end up together good for them although this is not a dating site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wish you well OP and all the others.
I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture.
I don't think I'll ever find the one so in many ways I've given up hoping to. "
Sadly, this is me and my experience too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm also on a dating site but for me, i use this site for sexy stuff. Not sure I'd like to go into a relationship with someone where swinging is a part of it. I'd consider it once the relationship was established but I'd be quite happy in a monogamous relationship with a special someone. If i met someone through here, I just wouldn't feel like he'd ever be mine x just me and my insecurities I suppose x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm also on a dating site but for me, i use this site for sexy stuff. Not sure I'd like to go into a relationship with someone where swinging is a part of it. I'd consider it once the relationship was established but I'd be quite happy in a monogamous relationship with a special someone. If i met someone through here, I just wouldn't feel like he'd ever be mine x just me and my insecurities I suppose x"
I'm not sure that's true. Not everyone on this site has a swingers mentality. I'm in a monogamous relationship. We just stay for the forums and the odd social event
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"
I don't know how you do it but I've seen relationships blossom here which is lovely to see.
I hope you find it |
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"I wish you well OP and all the others.
I am a hopeless romantic lost in a hook up culture.
I don't think I'll ever find the one so in many ways I've given up hoping to.
Sadly, this is me and my experience too x"
Sadly me too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"
Might help if you unhide your profike x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OP"
is it me just say if it is ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OPis it me just say if it is ok "
Great profile had me smiling but shame you're so far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is possible but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
I have met someone who potentially is that person but still a long way to go but have been searching years so good luck OPis it me just say if it is ok
Great profile had me smiling but shame you're so far away "
you liked my profile, why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been here since 2014 seeking the one so join the waiting game.
I've repeatedly suggested a fabswingers dating section or something to progress the dating side but alas there has been nothing.
Even speed shagging would be a start oops speed dating I mean lol
Anyway good morning to ya fella now fasten up those hatchets hoist up the sails me hearty and get rowing...enjoy the journey on captain fabswingers ship a fabswingers dating section would be good"
I thought fab was not a dating site then that would change the whole ethos of fab swingers?
lets all date each other! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I'm a 36 year old guy that does ok for himself with a good job but I'd trade everything just to to meet a local lady that wanted a serious relationship whilst us both still exploring and having fun together x I believe if there is trust and strength in your relationship you can play together as you always know your going home together xx"
well OP you will find it hard to find anyone with your profile hidden! |
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