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Have done, with both good and bad results. One total blow out who must have walked past me, 'cos left me a msg when I got home that was quite insulting.
On the other hand, one of my best ongoing and repeating meets came from a similar situation. |
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over a year ago
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No. All in well talking here and thinking pics look good but of no chemistry in person, be a let down. Plus as someone who agreed to meet a guy for coffee last year have that guy walk into coffee shop, come over to me and as I stood up to say hi. Was looked up and down and was told ' oh no your definitely not for me" and than proceed to leave coffee shop. Will never just meet someone without exchanging pics |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here?
i have. was incredible. id do it again.... "
might i had she invited me around and left the door unlocked when i arrived in her street, i walked in and she was blindfolded near her kitchen table, the sex was incredible, i left afterwards without removing the blindfold. we swapped photographs at a later date and met up for a drink  |
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over a year ago
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here? nope how could you, surely you need to be physically attracted? "
But you never know that until you actually meet surely? What if you've swapped a lot of messages and everything is all great? Chatted on the phone and you both laugh until you cry? Why are looks important? I find intelligence and being articulate with an amazing sense of humour much more attractive than just a beautiful face! Plus a social coffee why should it all be about how a person just looks? Rather have a fantastic laugh with lush people ... who knows where the adventure will take you? So yes, I've met a few times without even asking or being asked for a face pic ... and everyone of them has been great tbh ... |
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here? nope how could you, surely you need to be physically attracted?
But you never know that until you actually meet surely? What if you've swapped a lot of messages and everything is all great? Chatted on the phone and you both laugh until you cry? Why are looks important? I find intelligence and being articulate with an amazing sense of humour much more attractive than just a beautiful face! Plus a social coffee why should it all be about how a person just looks? Rather have a fantastic laugh with lush people ... who knows where the adventure will take you? So yes, I've met a few times without even asking or being asked for a face pic ... and everyone of them has been great tbh ... "
I agree but I went on a meet once knew the woman a long time and she had no teeth lol they were black and rotten and looking back on her pics she never smiled, we chatted had a coffee and went our separate ways but I agree great conversation and humour, personality intellect etc can only be gained by meeting, texting is one thing but physically meeting is a whole different ball game. |
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here? nope how could you, surely you need to be physically attracted?
But you never know that until you actually meet surely? What if you've swapped a lot of messages and everything is all great? Chatted on the phone and you both laugh until you cry? Why are looks important? I find intelligence and being articulate with an amazing sense of humour much more attractive than just a beautiful face! Plus a social coffee why should it all be about how a person just looks? Rather have a fantastic laugh with lush people ... who knows where the adventure will take you? So yes, I've met a few times without even asking or being asked for a face pic ... and everyone of them has been great tbh ... "
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over a year ago
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2 of my social meets have not progressed due to there being no connection or chemistry in person.
It was still nice to meet and chat with them about shared interests (kinky sex mainly lol)
The other few have lead on to amazing experiences. |
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over a year ago
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It may be different here, just because Dunedin is such a small place.
I have to be very careful because of my job so prefer not to swap face pics. I assume the same for the guy too.
If they choose to share their pic first and I don't recognise them then I will reciprocate
If I arrange a meet time and place with someone which is public then I can back out if I recognise and explain by message ASAP why I was a no show.
Not ideal, but saves a lot of embarrassment. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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No, never. In fact we play in clubs so we can actually see potential playmates (and they can see us) before we commit to playing.
Having said that, I do have a fantasy of being blindfolded and fucked by a group of guys I never see, but I also trust my partner not to let any guys come near me that I wouldn't choose myself. |
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I have but I had seen a pic of her tits so I was going regardless of what she looked like from the neck up. I've also had a social where the lady looked nothing like her photo so pics are no guarantee of who will turn up. |
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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here? nope how could you, surely you need to be physically attracted?
But you never know that until you actually meet surely? What if you've swapped a lot of messages and everything is all great? Chatted on the phone and you both laugh until you cry? Why are looks important? I find intelligence and being articulate with an amazing sense of humour much more attractive than just a beautiful face! Plus a social coffee why should it all be about how a person just looks? Rather have a fantastic laugh with lush people ... who knows where the adventure will take you? So yes, I've met a few times without even asking or being asked for a face pic ... and everyone of them has been great tbh ... "
Spot on...pity there aren’t more like you x |
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here? nope how could you, surely you need to be physically attracted?
But you never know that until you actually meet surely? What if you've swapped a lot of messages and everything is all great? Chatted on the phone and you both laugh until you cry? Why are looks important? I find intelligence and being articulate with an amazing sense of humour much more attractive than just a beautiful face! Plus a social coffee why should it all be about how a person just looks? Rather have a fantastic laugh with lush people ... who knows where the adventure will take you? So yes, I've met a few times without even asking or being asked for a face pic ... and everyone of them has been great tbh ... "
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"No, never. In fact we play in clubs so we can actually see potential playmates (and they can see us) before we commit to playing.
Having said that, I do have a fantasy of being blindfolded and fucked by a group of guys I never see, but I also trust my partner not to let any guys come near me that I wouldn't choose myself."
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over a year ago
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What amazes me is a lot of people who describe themselves as a sapiophile on other threads are here saying it has to be physical attraction ... giggling into my coffee! |
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here? nope how could you, surely you need to be physically attracted?
But you never know that until you actually meet surely? What if you've swapped a lot of messages and everything is all great? Chatted on the phone and you both laugh until you cry? Why are looks important? I find intelligence and being articulate with an amazing sense of humour much more attractive than just a beautiful face! Plus a social coffee why should it all be about how a person just looks? Rather have a fantastic laugh with lush people ... who knows where the adventure will take you? So yes, I've met a few times without even asking or being asked for a face pic ... and everyone of them has been great tbh ... "
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We Have a few times. All we require to see are body pics not face pictures. Because we have found in the past, at times, we have been attracted to the face but when we met he/she were nothing like the pictures. And at same time we have met others who we thought "no, not for us" after seeing the face pic but still went ahead because of the banter etc in messages and were surprised just how good looking they are.
So now we ask them not to show us their faces as we also like the mystery of not knowing. We do make it clear it's only a social though once the meet is arranged. We only agree to take it further once it's clear we are all attracted too each other.   |
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I have done and it was great. Chatted to a woman having seen pictures but no face photo. Just before we met, she asked if I wanted to see one, but I said no- adds to the intrigue.
We had a great time- enough said! |
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"Have done, with both good and bad results. One total blow out who must have walked past me, 'cos left me a msg when I got home that was quite insulting.
On the other hand, one of my best ongoing and repeating meets came from a similar situation."
How horrible. No need to be insulting at all.
But no I wouldn’t meet without seeing a pic. Without that attraction there is no point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is this a face pic?
Or any pic?
We won't meet without seeing a clear face pic,but we won't send ours, we make that clear on our profile.
It's then up to others wether they want to act on that or not. |
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Yes,I've done it a handful of times (daytime socials).
I've been pleasantly suprised, and they've all worked out well.
What's the worst that could happen, I have a coffee and a chat and maybe waste an hour...or it could lead on to something spectacular.
No one has run off screaming, yet!
It's not for everyone, but I like an adventure |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"No, never. In fact we play in clubs so we can actually see potential playmates (and they can see us) before we commit to playing.
Having said that, I do have a fantasy of being blindfolded and fucked by a group of guys I never see, but I also trust my partner not to let any guys come near me that I wouldn't choose myself.
Have you ever achieved your fantasy? "
Not yet, but I have been fucked from behind while giving my partner a blow job. I never saw his face or spoke to him. I came like a rocket! |
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"No. All in well talking here and thinking pics look good but of no chemistry in person, be a let down. Plus as someone who agreed to meet a guy for coffee last year have that guy walk into coffee shop, come over to me and as I stood up to say hi. Was looked up and down and was told ' oh no your definitely not for me" and than proceed to leave coffee shop. Will never just meet someone without exchanging pics"
Oh lord, you should have bounced an iced bun off the back of his head or something |
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"No, never. In fact we play in clubs so we can actually see potential playmates (and they can see us) before we commit to playing.
Having said that, I do have a fantasy of being blindfolded and fucked by a group of guys I never see, but I also trust my partner not to let any guys come near me that I wouldn't choose myself.
Have you ever achieved your fantasy?
Not yet, but I have been fucked from behind while giving my partner a blow job. I never saw his face or spoke to him. I came like a rocket!"
Brilliant! |
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"Yes,I've done it a handful of times (daytime socials).
I've been pleasantly suprised, and they've all worked out well.
What's the worst that could happen, I have a coffee and a chat and maybe waste an hour...or it could lead on to something spectacular.
No one has run off screaming, yet!
It's not for everyone, but I like an adventure "
This ^^^ |
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"Yes,I've done it a handful of times (daytime socials).
I've been pleasantly suprised, and they've all worked out well.
What's the worst that could happen, I have a coffee and a chat and maybe waste an hour...or it could lead on to something spectacular.
No one has run off screaming, yet!
It's not for everyone, but I like an adventure
This ^^^ "
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over a year ago
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No, no and no thankyou! I'm really bad at politely declining so could never risk meeting someone I didn't find immediately attractive. Having said that, I have found in the past that I've become attracted to people I wasn't initially. So maybe I'm missing out! But still..No! |
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I have on a number of occasions over the years - and only ever been 'disappointed' a couple of times...
....there are a lot people (not just on here) who, for one reason or another, will not show/send face pics...
....and numerous times, simply asking for a face pic has ended what were, up to then, 'promising' message exchanges...
....all thanks to pic collectors and unscrupulous types who share other people's photos...  |
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over a year ago
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Nope, I wouldn’t want to be that person walking in to a bar for a social and scrutinising everyone else in there wondering if it was the person I was meant to meet! |
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over a year ago
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Absolutely not, simply safety for one thing gotta think of these things as a single women heading out to meet a potential stranger but also just to have an idea of who I’m meeting lol |
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol"
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand "
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to "
lol But everyone does judge, it's part of human nature! So occasionally I'm more than happy to meet without pictures just because not all pictures are good representations of a person & the actual person seems to be way more than just the physical
Obviously if I just met for sexual hook ups then I would need a picture  |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to "
Sorry but I for one could not sleep with someone we didn't find sexualy attractive. They don't have to be gym fit but if we didn't have a sexual attraction to then it's not happening |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to "
I’d like to make sure they’ve got all their teeth! |
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On a number of occasions we have been chatting to a couple or a female,pics look fantastic body is hot but then it just don't match the face.id hate someone to turn up hoping to play and we couldn't |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to
I’d like to make sure they’ve got all their teeth!"
What if they’ve left them in a jar soaking at the side of the bed |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to
Sorry but I for one could not sleep with someone we didn't find sexualy attractive. They don't have to be gym fit but if we didn't have a sexual attraction to then it's not happening"
Yes I agree , there has to be an attraction but I get what the other lady was saying that sometimes a photo can be misleading . Sometimes ,, in fact a lot of the time it can be about a look , a twinkle in the eye or a smile font you think ? All things you might not pick up from a photo |
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"My hubby has arranged a couple of meets over the years where I didnt get to see the guy at all."
I've been the guy 'picked' by husbands for their wives a few times, without the wives having seen my pic(s) beforehand - on one of those occasions, I hadn't seen any pics of his wife either... |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to
Sorry but I for one could not sleep with someone we didn't find sexualy attractive. They don't have to be gym fit but if we didn't have a sexual attraction to then it's not happening
Yes I agree , there has to be an attraction but I get what the other lady was saying that sometimes a photo can be misleading . Sometimes ,, in fact a lot of the time it can be about a look , a twinkle in the eye or a smile font you think ? All things you might not pick up from a photo "
Yes but a photo will give you a general idea of the person
We've heard of many couples blindfolding their wives and that's all good if that's what you want to do and I can see why it's a turn on for many but for us a pic is necessary |
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"Someone without seing a pic first? Even if you got on chatting on here? "
Nope..if we got chatting and got to the Kik stage ,I'd send a face pic ,but would never meet without seeing a face pic cause tbh the ladies always want one anyway and the thing that really makes me smile here is the ladies that request a face pic on your first message or they don't reply and they don't have any photo of any discription on their own profile....pure blank ... |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol"
And i think you are wrong...but it's all about opinions, right? We can't all have the same ones or else it would be boring, but to cast aspersions on others opinions because they differ from ours is....well, wrong...just in my humble opinion of course.  |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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I meet with no pics. If the chat is fine and they have verifications it's usually OK.
Like others I've had great meetings and not so great but I think it adds to the excitement if you don't know what you're getting.
Worse case Is nothing happens if the person you meet isn't what's expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always see pics and cam before meets, I’ve had way too many meets where pics are very very old or not even them. Least now that I cam before a meet too it saves any of the dodgy surprises x |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
And i think you are wrong...but it's all about opinions, right? We can't all have the same ones or else it would be boring, but to cast aspersions on others opinions because they differ from ours is....well, wrong...just in my humble opinion of course. "
We'd have to agree, each to their own not desperate at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol"
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards  |
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
Oh, if there is one thing I have never been is desperate for absolutely anything! I just think that judging a person purely by a photo doesn't give a true picture! I don't reply on a pretty face as a mark of attraction as I prefer a depth of character and level of intelligence that a photo will never be able to capture ... I'm not saying I do it often but a lot of people seem to turn down a person purely by a picture (not always a good representation) even after good dialogue beforehand
That’s a very noble ethos and you are quite right . A snapshot in time lacks animation , humour , personality etc .
But in this kind of scenario . I’d still like to see a face , not to judge but to know who I’m talking to
Sorry but I for one could not sleep with someone we didn't find sexualy attractive. They don't have to be gym fit but if we didn't have a sexual attraction to then it's not happening
Yes I agree , there has to be an attraction but I get what the other lady was saying that sometimes a photo can be misleading . Sometimes ,, in fact a lot of the time it can be about a look , a twinkle in the eye or a smile font you think ? All things you might not pick up from a photo "
I agree with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people who would either have a kink for it or are trying to hide.
Daisy would like to be blindfolded on her knees + have a random guy turn up, stick his cock in her mouth, cum, then leave without ever seeing or speaking to him.
However we also won't meet without seeing a face pic first, it's simple safety + knowing who you are meeting when you spot them.
So the guy can send me the photo beforehand. Not really any different than doing a glory hole.
We have had a meet where the guy sent a pic but when we asked if he wanted one back he said no he doesn't care lol
Actually a cool guy we have met him a few times now + speak to him regularly on mobiles |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards "
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course. |
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over a year ago
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Yes and have , the only thing I,d look for in a first meet up is a laugh and a chat messaging gives you an idea if you’ll get on. Meeting up will confirm either way |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course. "
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!  |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards! "
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake  as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements |
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements "
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’ |
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’ "
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" ..... |
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" ..... "
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
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I have met people who look nothing like their photo: twenty year old photos, 50kg lighter etc and all have been social meets first.
No pic would have been preferable: you'd manage your expectations than to see a picture of a Brad Pitt lookalike for Catweazle in a zoot suit to rock up (happened to me).
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
"
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side |
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side "
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side "
And apparently im rude just because I think it’s desperate not to need to see a face pic of a person you're potentially going to fuck |
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side
And apparently im rude just because I think it’s desperate not to need to see a face pic of a person you're potentially going to fuck "
Oh no! Never said that, actually said "Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps"
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over a year ago
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side
And apparently im rude just because I think it’s desperate not to need to see a face pic of a person you're potentially going to fuck
Oh no! Never said that, actually said "Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps"
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To reiterate though I meet for socials first, after chatting, and tbh many people don't look like their photos for various reasons. I would only consider taking it further if it was the whole package! Making a decision based on photos would never work for me as I find intelligence and amazing discourse far more attractive than a pretty face.
I don't do it often and am definitely not "desperate" in anyway. Just am a gregarious soul who believes that laughter and good communication is very sexy ... luckily what happens next might just be the adventure! |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side
And apparently im rude just because I think it’s desperate not to need to see a face pic of a person you're potentially going to fuck
Oh no! Never said that, actually said "Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps"
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There is no little about it..its just down right rude. But some people on here think they are above such things. You will never convince them otherwise, so commend you on your stance but I fear its falling on deaf ears in this case. |
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over a year ago
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"Umm how do you find them if you don’t know what they look like 
That's part of the fun
Although I have said hello to the wrong person before now!"
Hahahahahahaha! Made me laugh! Easy for me as I'm very distinctive and I ask what they'll be wearing |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side
And apparently im rude just because I think it’s desperate not to need to see a face pic of a person you're potentially going to fuck
Oh no! Never said that, actually said "Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps"
There is no little about it..its just down right rude. But some people on here think they are above such things. You will never convince them otherwise, so commend you on your stance but I fear its falling on deaf ears in this case. "
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If a man said ‘I don’t look at the fireplace whilst stoking the fire’ you’d all slate him but some of you women are just as bad because you’re so thirsty for dick you lose any standards |
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"Not a chance.
And I think those who do are desperate.
There...I said it lol
I agree 100% it is desperate! You won’t get many that does agree tho because this site has a lot more desperados than people with standards
Judge much do ya? You do realise how many people you have just called "...100% desperate", including me. Of course you are entitled to you're opinion but the need to call people "desperate" because their opinion differs from yours says more about you than anything else....only in my opinion of course.
Obviously our opinions differ and like I said plenty won’t agree with me but I need physical attraction as much as mental before I’ll fuck someone! Just being honest and yes it does say a lot about me......... mainly that I have standards!
Luckily I'm not a judgemental person and my standards mean meeting in a public safe place for a strictly social coffee and hopefully cake as I am a gregarious person that likes to meet people as a whole being not the sum of a photo.
Describing people as desperate is a little ... hmmmmm rude perhaps but I've always thought judging a person on looks might be a little shallow
Thankfully my fab experience has been phenomenal and I have and will continue to not judge people along with the odd coffee and cake without a photo!
I think everyone is entitled to do fab their own way without the need for any harsh judgements
Not judging at all just don’t see the point of wasting my time arranging a meet with someone that I don’t know if I’ll find attractive and vice versa.........I’m on here to have fun with a limited time that I have, I think you need to educate yourself ‘judging means’
I know exactly what it means and you judged (form an opinion or conclusion about) people who meet others without a photo as "desperate" .....
It’s beyond desperate
At least be honest, you’re so desperate for a fuck You don’t care if you’re not attracted to the other person
Wow! I'm so glad I'm an intelligent person so I don't have to resort to name calling! Next time I have a coffee and cake I'll make sure the other person I'm having a laugh with understands exactly what it means ... just to be on the safe side
And apparently im rude just because I think it’s desperate not to need to see a face pic of a person you're potentially going to fuck "
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"If a man said ‘I don’t look at the fireplace whilst stoking the fire’ you’d all slate him but some of you women are just as bad because you’re so thirsty for dick you lose any standards "
If someone thinks meeting someone for a coffee and a chat makes me "dick thirsty" then they're entitled to their small minded, judgemental opinion of course.
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"If a man said ‘I don’t look at the fireplace whilst stoking the fire’ you’d all slate him but some of you women are just as bad because you’re so thirsty for dick you lose any standards
If someone thinks meeting someone for a coffee and a chat makes me "dick thirsty" then they're entitled to their small minded, judgemental opinion of course.
Happy fabbing deary."
My original comment never mentioned just a coffee meet............all the blind daters have suddenly tried to add it’s just coffee meets they do blind! I’ve always made it clear it was fuck meets I wouldn’t do blind |
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"If a man said ‘I don’t look at the fireplace whilst stoking the fire’ you’d all slate him but some of you women are just as bad because you’re so thirsty for dick you lose any standards
If someone thinks meeting someone for a coffee and a chat makes me "dick thirsty" then they're entitled to their small minded, judgemental opinion of course.
Happy fabbing deary.
My original comment never mentioned just a coffee meet............all the blind daters have suddenly tried to add it’s just coffee meets they do blind! I’ve always made it clear it was fuck meets I wouldn’t do blind "
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"No. All in well talking here and thinking pics look good but of no chemistry in person, be a let down. Plus as someone who agreed to meet a guy for coffee last year have that guy walk into coffee shop, come over to me and as I stood up to say hi. Was looked up and down and was told ' oh no your definitely not for me" and than proceed to leave coffee shop. Will never just meet someone without exchanging pics"
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"If a man said ‘I don’t look at the fireplace whilst stoking the fire’ you’d all slate him but some of you women are just as bad because you’re so thirsty for dick you lose any standards
If someone thinks meeting someone for a coffee and a chat makes me "dick thirsty" then they're entitled to their small minded, judgemental opinion of course.
Happy fabbing deary.
My original comment never mentioned just a coffee meet............all the blind daters have suddenly tried to add it’s just coffee meets they do blind! I’ve always made it clear it was fuck meets I wouldn’t do blind "
Oh we can choose what we read! Mine have always said a coffee meet ... I would never just meet for a fuck as I consider that too dangerous for me when not at a club or a party! |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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My ex did this and said it was a total waste of time.
He enjoyed the evening with the lady as they got on and had a laugh but said she was a f-ing dog he would never have fucked.
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"My ex did this and said it was a total waste of time.
He enjoyed the evening with the lady as they got on and had a laugh but said she was a f-ing dog he would never have fucked.
I haven't got the time to waste to even consider doing it personally..... "
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By *ere4u50Man
over a year ago
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No, basically because I need to make sure they aren’t somebody I’m going to know socially or professionally outside of this site.
Although saying that, I did it once, although not dressed, arrived at an address to meet an unknown couple. Was a little awkward to begin with but by the end of the night we had all enjoyed our evening??
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