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over a year ago
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I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
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over a year ago
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"Lucky lady."
Thank you I feel very lucky indeed he’s amazing. I’m sure he’d say the same though! That’s what’s great is we’re both on the same page. X  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Congrats this site actually workout well for you both "
Hopefully still incredibly early days but we both have strong feelings. I’m just enjoying his company. It’s nice because we don’t just “fuck” it’s so much more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Def possible. I've met some absolutely stunning women over the years from here both with personalities and looks. Best of luck with it..
Sexual open couples are far more likely to be stronger than closed book couples. That's just my opinion anyway
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Def possible. I've met some absolutely stunning women over the years from here both with personalities and looks. Best of luck with it..
Sexual open couples are far more likely to be stronger than closed book couples. That's just my opinion anyway
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I took him to a female friends for a threesome and totally freaked out when I saw him with her yet I’ve been part of 3somes before but usually as the third party. We’ve discussed sharing it’s not something we are keen on at all. The only thing we’d be ok with is me with a woman and him watching but not touching her and that was his idea. We’re open with eachother about how we feel which is refreshing and saves any awkwardness. X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We didn’t meet on the forums but we did meet here. Our first meet was him picking a rather d*unk me up and taking me home like a gent.
He’s just amazing. I think coz he’s a little older and wiser than the normal guys I have met.
We will see... not counting my chickens so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im so completely and utterly jel xx good luck "
I really hope you find your happiness. It’s not easy. There’s a lot of pricks out there!! I’m just glad I replied to his message now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
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I wish you happiness and success 3 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
I wish you happiness and success 3"
Thank you that’s lovely of you. Probably be heartbroken in a few weeks and back on but we will see |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
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Not on fabs but absolutely through swinging, yes. And very happily married. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
Not on fabs but absolutely through swinging, yes. And very happily married. "
Amazing congrats. I don’t think we will end up as swingers though we both don’t wanna share what we have haha x |
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
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We met through swinging, both in the scene as singlies. We are now happily married  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
We met through swinging, both in the scene as singlies. We are now happily married "
Awwh I’m loving all these happy endings so cute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
Not on fabs but absolutely through swinging, yes. And very happily married.
Amazing congrats. I don’t think we will end up as swingers though we both don’t wanna share what we have haha x "
Thanks, Personally I think that's a shame, but as long as you're both happy that's the most important! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
I wish you happiness and success 3
Thank you that’s lovely of you. Probably be heartbroken in a few weeks and back on but we will see"
That made me chuckle, there's the postive spirit 
Hope it all does work out. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
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Firstly, congratulations and I sincerely hope it works out for you both...
Secondly, I believe that if “it” is meant to happen it will happen however you meet.
In person? On Fab? At work? The biscuit aisle in Waitrose?
Someone I met on here ages ago asked me if I’d have a relationship with a Fabber, I said I’d have a relationship with anyone who made me feel like it was worth trying regardless of where we met.
They were horrified. Seriously!
If I’m good enough to fuck, I should be good enough to date, really.
Just because it’s Fab doesn’t mean we are less deserving yet they couldn’t comprehend that.
Yeah... I get all the loons
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x "
Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x |
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x
Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x"
Its true what they say, that if you look for love you will only find disappointment, love will find you |
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x
Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x
Its true what they say, that if you look for love you will only find disappointment, love will find you "
That’s so true we both said we were thrown a curve ball when we met |
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"My partner and I met as singles on FAB over 5 years ago, neither of of us looking for a relationship. Had lots of meets, more dating than swinging, took over a year for us to admit we were in a relationship, moved in together 4 1/2 years ago and got engaged last year, so yes love can find you. best wishes and good luck to you both x
Thank you that’s cute glad your happy. I was plodding along as a single and met him and now I’m not sure what our future holds but we shall see. Can’t wait to see him again on Thursday. I’ve missed him and I only saw him on Friday! I’m so soppy x
Its true what they say, that if you look for love you will only find disappointment, love will find you
That’s so true we both said we were thrown a curve ball when we met "
we denied it for ages lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
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Have had 2 LTR from here. It's as good a place as any.
Good luck to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes i know of a couple smitten in love from meeting here.
there latest post said , "thanks for the best ever day ............i love you ."
could kinda tell she means it ..  ...love is in the air.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes i know of a couple smitten in love from meeting here.
there latest post said , "thanks for the best ever day ............i love you ."
could kinda tell she means it .. ...love is in the air.."
That’s how I feel |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally understand where you are coming from. We met 4 plus years ago and we deeply love each other so while sex is fabulous, there is Also other fealings that adds to our overall pleasure. "
I just love being with him. He makes me so happy and laugh like mad. X |
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I have a question to those of you for whom the lifestyle is working. Those who met as singles but have continued your journey.
What would be your key advice to those just starting out as a couple?
How do you make it work?
How do you give yourselves the absolute best chance of a successful relationship?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh, the dream! If only that would happen  "
Awwh it’ll happen when you least expect it. He was only ever gonna be a quick shag and now we’re hooked on eachother |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well done OP. This is exactly what I'm looking for too. Good luck to you both. Xxx"
Awwh thank you. He’s rather yummy. We will see where it goes. I’m counting the sleeps til I see him again! Haha. Oooh you’re local ish.... fancy a friendly chat? X |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a question to those of you for whom the lifestyle is working. Those who met as singles but have continued your journey.
What would be your key advice to those just starting out as a couple?
How do you make it work?
How do you give yourselves the absolute best chance of a successful relationship?
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A. Take some time away from the site/meeting and enjoy what you have. Truly explore and enjoy each other and what you have.
B. Talk. A fuck lot. Whenever. Ask questions. Answer honestly. Try and show respect and understanding to each other.
C. Try and put each other first. If one is wobbling about something, address that. Stop if necessary. Have a lot of sex. Remember that this is a small part of an additional thing to our relationship, not the main thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a question to those of you for whom the lifestyle is working. Those who met as singles but have continued your journey.
What would be your key advice to those just starting out as a couple?
How do you make it work?
How do you give yourselves the absolute best chance of a successful relationship?
A. Take some time away from the site/meeting and enjoy what you have. Truly explore and enjoy each other and what you have.
B. Talk. A fuck lot. Whenever. Ask questions. Answer honestly. Try and show respect and understanding to each other.
C. Try and put each other first. If one is wobbling about something, address that. Stop if necessary. Have a lot of sex. Remember that this is a small part of an additional thing to our relationship, not the main thing."
Absolutely amazing advice thank you. I know for now we are no way near ready to share yet we are still getting to know eachother intimately. I don’t want to share him but if the time comes I know that we will talk. We always do. We had an awkward 3 some encounter a while ago and after we sat in the car and chatted and had a bit of a debrief about it. It’s so refreshing to meet a man who’s not afraid to talk and express his feelings. I think that’s key for any swinging couple is to communicate. X |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby and i met via another swinging site. Neither looking for love but it just happened
We moved in together, got married 5 years ago. Life is bliss.
We do swing still but didnt all the time. Talk to each other xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck to you both and happened to me around a year ago but did fizzle our eventually but fun while it lasted and was not looking for it either."
It is wonderful x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both met on here over4 years ago and both not looking for love.
Even with age gap, we fell in love,been engaged for four years and been living together since then.
Love will find you no matter where you are,although it might not knock on your door if youre just hiding under the bed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! "
This guy has a fb when we met but said he wasn’t into her and now he’s deleted fab for me so I must’ve made a quite an impression. He said he would like to take me out too so that means not just for sex. Can’t wait to see him again Thursday. It will have been 6 days and let’s see if absence does make the heart grow fonder. |
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"We both met on here over4 years ago and both not looking for love.
Even with age gap, we fell in love,been engaged for four years and been living together since then.
Love will find you no matter where you are,although it might not knock on your door if youre just hiding under the bed "
Haha I wouldn’t have met him if I hadn’t said yes to a d*unken lift home. Thank god I did. X |
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"Hubby and i met via another swinging site. Neither looking for love but it just happened
We moved in together, got married 5 years ago. Life is bliss.
We do swing still but didnt all the time. Talk to each other xx"
Thank you!! Hehe xx |
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"yes i know of a couple smitten in love from meeting here.
there latest post said , "thanks for the best ever day ............i love you ."
could kinda tell she means it .. ...love is in the air..
That’s how I feel"
^^^ thats me  ...and yes we met on here ....(best day ever was our one year anniversary)...and yes i am totally head over heels in love with my man xx and its just getting better and better xx
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"yes i know of a couple smitten in love from meeting here.
there latest post said , "thanks for the best ever day ............i love you ."
could kinda tell she means it .. ...love is in the air..
That’s how I feel
^^^ thats me ...and yes we met on here ....(best day ever was our one year anniversary)...and yes i am totally head over heels in love with my man xx and its just getting better and better xx
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Awwhhhh this makes me all happy x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wanted to keep on the forums and for socials and to keep in touch with friends I’ve made until my subscription runs out. Once it’s done I’ll be gone. True friends have my number if they want me. For now being hidden will do. We have both agreed we won’t meet anyone else that’s all I need for now x |
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
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Congrats.
I joined primarily to find the ONE! Not to end my swinging days but to enrich it. My search continues x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a question to those of you for whom the lifestyle is working. Those who met as singles but have continued your journey.
What would be your key advice to those just starting out as a couple?
How do you make it work?
How do you give yourselves the absolute best chance of a successful relationship?
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communication and trust is key |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! "
they are right you will not find it here, but it will find you :-0 x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?!
they are right you will not find it here, but it will find you :-0 x"
So true! He found me. I replied to his message and here we are potentially planning our future together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Congrats!
I'll continue to say it, anywhere and everywhere that there is interaction with other people has the potential for you to find a sebody to have that higher connection with. Often from the most surprising of places. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Congrats!
I'll continue to say it, anywhere and everywhere that there is interaction with other people has the potential for you to find a sebody to have that higher connection with. Often from the most surprising of places. "
Pretty much what I said above the other day...
“Firstly, congratulations and I sincerely hope it works out for you both...
Secondly, I believe that if “it” is meant to happen it will happen however you meet.
In person? On Fab? At work? The biscuit aisle in Waitrose?”
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Congratulations to you both.
We also found love together many years ago on Fab and we are still swinging from the chandeliers (so to speak).
May I just say though, swingers who meet while swinging can very rarely leave the scene, as it's the connection that brought them together, it's the ember that ignited the fire, it's why you both wanted to rip each others clothes off in the first place.
So my (probably unwanted) advice would be not to leave swinging straight away, let the relationship grow and let yourselves grow and see what path opens ahead.
Bless you both. x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know there are a few couples on here who’ve met through swinging but is it really possible to find love on fab?
I’ve met someone recently I’m very keen on. It’s early days but we’re both totally on the same page. So much so he’s come off and I’ve hidden my profile. We don’t want anyone else. Could be the end of my swinging days...? Watch this space hehe.
Met my fella off fab.. We know each others likes dislikes.. We do happy couple relationship stuff but we also go to clubs together and swing..
Talking is the key.
Finally found a knight who likes swinging n kink.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh this is like my dream. I'd love to meet a man like that. just I'd get suspicious if they messaged about dating that they are just hoping to get a reply or something. I'm way too paranoid sometimes lol. |
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We met as two single profiles and still going strong 3 years in ,we now have different priorities in regards to swinging but still enjoy going to clubs once in a while and still have a nice long friends list who we keep in contact with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well he said he loved me again after our last meet and we took a huge step. Something personal so won’t share but it’s a big deal for me. We also just sat and fooled around and laughed together. He’s a 40 year old kid I love it. Makes me laugh like no other but then he gives me cute little kisses on my nose which make me melt. I’ve really found a good one. Don’t give up people you’ll find it. X |
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I met my partner on here as she came to one of my swinger's parties, neither of us looking for a relationship at the time.
We have happily been living together the past three years, still swing together too. Love for life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well two weeks since we last met up and he’s gone ghost on me. Not replying my messages and cut of all contact. Knew this would happen. He said he loved me what a douche. I’m upset. I let him close. Oh well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Valid point I was probably looking through rose coloured glasses looking back. I’d lost all sense of reason amazing what “love” can do. Oh well we live and learn. |
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"I met my partner on here as she came to one of my swinger's parties, neither of us looking for a relationship at the time.
We have happily been living together the past three years, still swing together too. Love for life. "
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Aww, I suppose it's easy to get carried away on here if you really click with someone, feelings getting in the way. I keep telling myself it's like a candy shop to keep myself level headed. Hope your doing OK and healing vibes sent your way |
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Met my other half on here five years ago.
It hasn't been plain sailing because we are polar opposites in everything. Doesn't help that my children can't stand him, but they're adults with their own families.
Our paths would never have crossed without Fab as he wasn't what I was looking for, and I certainly wasn't what he was looking for. Think Bruce Willis and Diane Abbott, UKIP and Labour, batchelor, no kids, never got close to being married, and divorced mother of three with five grandsons.
Cupid certainly has a sense of humour! |
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over a year ago
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"Very strange, I'm being told by lots of men and some couples I'm not going to find it on here and to try dating sites when I tell them I don't want nsa, FB or fwb. And then they try to convince me they are what I'm looking for, let's meet and see what happens?! "
Being told the same. I’m going to be in Uk for 6 months and I don’t know. I’m sorry but dating sites are for ppl that don’t want to share. I want to find a woman to fall in love with and build the trust. The way my mind works you love one person. But sex is sex and it’s like going for a meal, you can go for a meal with the person you love but your there to eat. Sex is the same to me, go to the club with your partner to have sex but you can also have sex with someone else it’s just sex. Love is with that special person.
Maybe I’m just weirdly wierd. |
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over a year ago
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"Well two weeks since we last met up and he’s gone ghost on me. Not replying my messages and cut of all contact. Knew this would happen. He said he loved me what a douche. I’m upset. I let him close. Oh well. "
Sorry to hear that hun. Please don’t give up on the idea. As I’m hoping for the same as you. Hopefully will find it |
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over a year ago
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"Just seen your status OP, are you OK? X"
Really down to be honest this thing with this guy was the icing on the cake to a properly awful week. Had some dreadful news about a close family member this week and been up to hospital with another. So life’s sucking a bit right now. Could do with him for some hugs but been ghosted. |
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"Just seen your status OP, are you OK? X
Really down to be honest this thing with this guy was the icing on the cake to a properly awful week. Had some dreadful news about a close family member this week and been up to hospital with another. So life’s sucking a bit right now. Could do with him for some hugs but been ghosted. "
If he knows you need him and he’s still not there, that tells you everything. You deserve better chick  |
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Even after the worst storm, the Sun will shine again. Sending big hug your way OP and I hope your family members will be better soon. And don't think about him anymore, he's not worth your thoughts if he wasn't bothered to act like a grown man.
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