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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ive just been reading some adds and a few couples are asking for bareback because the lady is allergic to condoms i wonder if they get many takers.
personally i wouldnt they might be safe themselfs but everybody has a random  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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there are people who bareback and state it on their profile, there are people who bareback who state they don't on their profile....
in this game... it is all about you, your safety and what you can control.
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
"ive just been reading some adds and a few couples are asking for bareback because the lady is allergic to condoms i wonder if they get many takers.
personally i wouldnt they might be safe themselfs but everybody has a random "
Poppycock
You can get latex free condoms and hypoallergenic ones, the internet is swamped with condoms for those allergic to ordinary ones.....
If people want to bareback, that is their perogative, I just wish they wouldn't use the 'allergy' card. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....in this game... it is all about you, your safety and what you can control"
+1 Completely agree!!
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with, just like you shouldn't make other do something they're not willing to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there are people who bareback and state it on their profile, there are people who bareback who state they don't on their profile....
in this game... it is all about you, your safety and what you can control.
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Exactly. Each to their own. If you don't want to, don't sleep with them or wear a condom. We're responsible for our own sexual health. |
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"ive just been reading some adds and a few couples are asking for bareback because the lady is allergic to condoms i wonder if they get many takers.
personally i wouldnt they might be safe themselfs but everybody has a random
Poppycock
You can get latex free condoms and hypoallergenic ones, the internet is swamped with condoms for those allergic to ordinary ones.....
If people want to bareback, that is their perogative, I just wish they wouldn't use the 'allergy' card."
people who are allergic get tarred with being deceptive...
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
I've had blokes say to me, "can only do bareback luv, I'm allergic to condoms" and then watch their faces fall when I've produced water based and hypo-allergenic ones and told them to take their pick! 
I'm not saying those who are allergic are deceptive, just that if people want to bareback........ fricking say it. Don't cover it with the "allergy" excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So are we talking bare back as in no cloths on from the waist up with maybe only the back exposed or are we talking bare back as in shaved at the back but not the chest???? I must say a hairy chest dont really do it for me to be honest and its pretty m uch the same with the men also hahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive just been reading some adds and a few couples are asking for bareback because the lady is allergic to condoms i wonder if they get many takers.
personally i wouldnt they might be safe themselfs but everybody has a random "
yep they will get hundreds of offers
you's be suprised how many people are willing to go bare, i get loads of guys asking me for it, i also find when i play in clubs there are loads of guys who are willing to shag me bare, more offen than not i have to remind them to put one on
I even know people on here who have safe sex only on their profile who i know for a fact will go bare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but there must be a product on the market they cant be alligic to?
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there is, i have a latex allergy and there are several condoms on the market i have used and been ok with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive just been reading some adds and a few couples are asking for bareback because the lady is allergic to condoms i wonder if they get many takers.
personally i wouldnt they might be safe themselfs but everybody has a random "
I put that I prefer it at times..and for the right person will.. Its all about personal choice.. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd go bareback with a long term partner in a monagamous relationship but only once we've both been tested. To do it with someone I don't know who regularly does it with other people too is not my idea of fun.
I know some guys say they can't feel or get hard with one on but I've never had that problem. |
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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago
Waltham Cross |
Think at the end of the day it's peoples choice, yes there is a risk depending on what and who you're doing, calling it a death sentence would be taking it a bit far lol but it all depends on whether you're willing to risk the embarrassment of having to go to the local STI clinic because you have caught something
As to the op's question there are a lot of people that are willing to have unprotected sex in general not just men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think at the end of the day it's peoples choice, yes there is a risk depending on what and who you're doing, calling it a death sentence would be taking it a bit far lol but it all depends on whether you're willing to risk the embarrassment of having to go to the local STI clinic because you have caught something
As to the op's question there are a lot of people that are willing to have unprotected sex in general not just men"
Well said!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but there must be a product on the market they cant be alligic to?
there is, i have a latex allergy and there are several condoms on the market i have used and been ok with"
Mates Skyns, latex free and very good too.
Our motto is... If in doubt, leave it out!
Why risk it?
To each their own, do as you will, but playing safe reduces the risks of getting something embarrasing and nasty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i went for my check up at the GUM clinic they gave me some latex free condoms and some lube for sensitive skin and they told me to never believe what men say, when they say its ok not to use a condom because they have had a vasectomy and that they havnt had sex for a long time so they are clean. I told them that its usually older men who dont like using condoms and they said, its because there didnt used to be things around years ago, like herpes and HIV. |
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"Think at the end of the day it's peoples choice, yes there is a risk depending on what and who you're doing, calling it a death sentence would be taking it a bit far lol but it all depends on whether you're willing to risk the embarrassment of having to go to the local STI clinic because you have caught something
As to the op's question there are a lot of people that are willing to have unprotected sex in general not just men"
There is no embarrassment in going to a STI clinic, it's the right thing to do. Yes bareback is a risky choice some choose to take, but even as safe players we go to STI clinic to be sure. Nothing is 100% and we care about ourselves and the people we play with. We get our condoms from there for free as well, and that includes latex free ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do find these weekly bareback threads amusing.
All we can do is protect ourselves the best we can, believe it or not having sex with strangers is a risky business.
Leave other adults to make their own decisions. Don't want to meet smokers...dont! Don't want to meet bi...dont! Don't want to meet barebackers...dont!
Blimey...not hard is it?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do find these weekly bareback threads amusing.
All we can do is protect ourselves the best we can, believe it or not having sex with strangers is a risky business.
Leave other adults to make their own decisions. Don't want to meet smokers...dont! Don't want to meet bi...dont! Don't want to meet barebackers...dont!
Blimey...not hard is it?!! "
do what I do and have a post saved in note
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mess around with a loaded gun in a room full of people?
Same odds that someone is going to die from someone elses stupidity.
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you got some statistics to back that rather wild claim..
I before I swung was NEVER safe.. and had more than my share of men.. yet never so much as caught thrush.
Now I swing.. I am safe with most of my meets.. but we will if we want to... go bare..
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mess around with a loaded gun in a room full of people?
Same odds that someone is going to die from someone elses stupidity.
you got some statistics to back that rather wild claim..
I before I swung was NEVER safe.. and had more than my share of men.. yet never so much as caught thrush.
Now I swing.. I am safe with most of my meets.. but we will if we want to... go bare..
Cali x"
What you do is your choice.
I'm not knocking peoples lifestyles, just pointing out the obvious.
Google, Sgt David Gutierrez, Simon McClure, for examples of how callous and inconsiderate some people are.
Two people who willingly passed on the virus knowingly and how many people did they NOT own up to having sex with? How many may not have found out in time and passed it on in private parties, clubs, dogging etc?
The virus can lay dormant for years, when did anyone on here last get checked at the GUM clinic?
Makes you wonder if it's all worth it, doesn't it?
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The virus can lay dormant for years,
" when did anyone on here last get checked at the GUM clinic?
Makes you wonder if it's all worth it, doesn't it?
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Two weeks ago and I go regularly even if I have been wearing a condom as I love oral sex and STD's are not just pasted on by using you dick. |
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"Non latex condoms can be got from boots, so Internet needed"
It is just a shame they only come in packs of 6 so when they have there offer on for two packs for £10 you only get 12 where the standard condoms come in much larger packs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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anyone not using condoms in this gameare silly feckers...catch a grip its your life your playing with...never mind STD theres AIDS to think about arent people educated I really can not understand anyone in this game playing bareback unless you have a death wish ...No glove no love and any bareback players out there engage your brain FFS ...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The virus can lay dormant for years, when did anyone on here last get checked at the GUM clinic?
Makes you wonder if it's all worth it, doesn't it?
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21st december.. I take my sexual health very seriously.. but also like the feeling of being filled.. actually I have oral so much because sex without being filled leaves me feeling there is no point..
I take responsibility for my health and dont lie on here and say SAFE SEX ONlY.. when Master and I dont always... its the ones that lie that are more of a risk.
Cali x |
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The virus can lay dormant for years, when did anyone on here last get checked at the GUM clinic?
Makes you wonder if it's all worth it, doesn't it?
21st december.. I take my sexual health very seriously.. but also like the feeling of being filled.. actually I have oral so much because sex without being filled leaves me feeling there is no point..
I take responsibility for my health and dont lie on here and say SAFE SEX ONlY.. when Master and I dont always... its the ones that lie that are more of a risk.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you mess around with a loaded gun in a room full of people?
Same odds that someone is going to die from someone elses stupidity.
you got some statistics to back that rather wild claim..
I before I swung was NEVER safe.. and had more than my share of men.. yet never so much as caught thrush.
Now I swing.. I am safe with most of my meets.. but we will if we want to... go bare..
Cali x
What you do is your choice.
I'm not knocking peoples lifestyles, just pointing out the obvious.
Google, Sgt David Gutierrez, Simon McClure, for examples of how callous and inconsiderate some people are.
Two people who willingly passed on the virus knowingly and how many people did they NOT own up to having sex with? How many may not have found out in time and passed it on in private parties, clubs, dogging etc?
The virus can lay dormant for years, when did anyone on here last get checked at the GUM clinic?
Makes you wonder if it's all worth it, doesn't it?
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I got checked at the GUM clinic just before xmas, they tell me to go every 6 months, but if i happened to have unprotected sex, then i should get checked two weeks afterwards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always go two weeks after any unprotected fun... I just tell the doctor why.. and they are happy to do it without any hassles.
And its amazing how many men ask me that have a paragraph saying ONLY DO SAFE SEX.. asking can they be someone I will bareback with.
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non latex condoms can be got from boots, so Internet needed
It is just a shame they only come in packs of 6 so when they have there offer on for two packs for £10 you only get 12 where the standard condoms come in much larger packs "
Mates skyns, 8.49 for 12 in superdrug |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Non latex condoms can be got from boots, so Internet needed
It is just a shame they only come in packs of 6 so when they have there offer on for two packs for £10 you only get 12 where the standard condoms come in much larger packs
Mates skyns, 8.49 for 12 in superdrug "
In some superdrugs, 6.49 for 12. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its all well and good getting checked but when your GUM doctor says to you im sorry you have HIV wat then..not all STD go away for good either "
We all take risks in life.. you could get HIV from your regular partner when they have a one night stand.. or fuck 1000 people and get lucky.. its deciding what risks in life your prepared to take..
And being honest with others
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What makes me laugh is this. Not the fact that this subject gets repeated, far from it. People can be on this site for a while before they use the forums. They are not to know this subject has been done to death and that they only have to click the search button to find out. To me if a subject gets repeated it then it is worth discussing. It is an important topic of discussion for the person who posts. Each time this topic is posted we get some good posts regarding it. So thats why I will still read a post that I have seen brough up time and time again. I have been on this site nearly 3 years now so I have seen this subject done alot. There are always different _iews, different people discussing it. What bothers me is the who will post on it smugly just to say "here we go again". It would be far better for them to either ignore it or put something positive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its all well and good getting checked but when your GUM doctor says to you im sorry you have HIV wat then..not all STD go away for good either
We all take risks in life.. you could get HIV from your regular partner when they have a one night stand.. or fuck 1000 people and get lucky.. its deciding what risks in life your prepared to take..
And being honest with others
Cali x"
I agree with you, i like to be as careful as i can but if i didnt have sex with different men my life would be as boring as hell.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What annoys me about this is a group of people, that have recreational sex with strangers think because they wear a condom they are bullet proof so take some imaginary moral high ground against those that don't.
Personally, I wouldn't, neither would I travel from one part of the country to the other to meet a stranger for sex, meet today in a hotel, meet in a layby, go dogging etc but adults make that decision and do.
Who am I to dictate what others do. Choosing not to play with "high risk" people is my choice to protect myself the best I can.
Acting like a member of the Mary Whitehouse Appreciation Society on a swinging site is ridiculous.
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"What annoys me about this is a group of people, that have recreational sex with strangers think because they wear a condom they are bullet proof so take some imaginary moral high ground against those that don't.
Personally, I wouldn't, neither would I travel from one part of the country to the other to meet a stranger for sex, meet today in a hotel, meet in a layby, go dogging etc but adults make that decision and do.
Who am I to dictate what others do. Choosing not to play with "high risk" people is my choice to protect myself the best I can.
Acting like a member of the Mary Whitehouse Appreciation Society on a swinging site is ridiculous.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read that couples want bareback, and what I do is pass them by.
It appears to me that with the publicity around swinging, the number of couples and singles on sites and at clubs has increased. It has also lead to some clubs employing girls as customers shall we say. With the increase in STD in my age group why would I want to put myself at risk. A friend of mine who was an a swinger but on a dating site. Has contracted servere thrush, which has got into his bladder. That was from a lady he was dating. I also had a tv telling me she does bareback, even though one of her friends is now HIV positive.
Stop being per modonnas, wear something that may save your life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What annoys me about this is a group of people, that have recreational sex with strangers think because they wear a condom they are bullet proof so take some imaginary moral high ground against those that don't.
Personally, I wouldn't, neither would I travel from one part of the country to the other to meet a stranger for sex, meet today in a hotel, meet in a layby, go dogging etc but adults make that decision and do.
Who am I to dictate what others do. Choosing not to play with "high risk" people is my choice to protect myself the best I can.
Acting like a member of the Mary Whitehouse Appreciation Society on a swinging site is ridiculous.
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well said sassy
Cali x |
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By *edriderCouple
over a year ago
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safe sex only for us!! i love that its only my man that fills me, If people choose to play bareback thats their choice i think they should be honest and have it on their profile or some sort of checkbox beside safe sex that says 'plays bareback' would be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"safe sex only for us!! i love that its only my man that fills me, If people choose to play bareback thats their choice i think they should be honest and have it on their profile or some sort of checkbox beside safe sex that says 'plays bareback' would be good. "
no one would use it.. Because of the risk that it would stop people meeting them.. I do have that MOSTLY safe sex on my profile..and I dont have safe sex ticked..
As we do like on occassion to play bare.. Master loves to play with me once filled.. and its what we like..( and not short of offers for this either) in fact.. its easier to get a BB meet than safe most of the time..
Cali x |
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all you can ask for is honesty,
same as in most things in life.
if people play bareback and state it don't slate them, slate those that state safesex and play bareback as that denies you and informed choice. |
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By *edriderCouple
over a year ago
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I did look at your profile cali and noticed that you are honest and dont have safe sex ticked which is fair enough, i do see the attraction with bareback and that you and your master get pleasure from it but i personally wouldnt play with someone if they didnt wear a condom x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the way most people think that playing Bareback is worse then having unprotected Oral sex! when there is just one or two STD's that you you can't get from Oral sex that you can by Bareback."
totaly agree with this post i go to the clinic every 2 months and dont play till i get my results back and there has been a few times when i have been at the clinic and some of the guys i play reguler with have walked in to be tested BUT i have spoken to guys who only play with condoms who have played for years and dont even know where the clinic is or how to make an apointment so how safe are you realy if you only play with guys who only play with condoms and never get checked?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Accepted a friend invite the other day and the very 1st message was "thanks for eccepting friends invite do you bareback?" Our reply was nope. Havnt heard from them since  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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"I do find these weekly bareback threads amusing.
All we can do is protect ourselves the best we can, believe it or not having sex with strangers is a risky business.
Leave other adults to make their own decisions. Don't want to meet smokers...dont! Don't want to meet bi...dont! Don't want to meet barebackers...dont!
Blimey...not hard is it?!! "
Lols "Tune in next week for the next episode" |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"What annoys me about this is a group of people, that have recreational sex with strangers think because they wear a condom they are bullet proof so take some imaginary moral high ground against those that don't.
Personally, I wouldn't, neither would I travel from one part of the country to the other to meet a stranger for sex, meet today in a hotel, meet in a layby, go dogging etc but adults make that decision and do.
Who am I to dictate what others do. Choosing not to play with "high risk" people is my choice to protect myself the best I can.
Acting like a member of the Mary Whitehouse Appreciation Society on a swinging site is ridiculous.
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I read somewhere condoms are only 97% reliable. Meaning for every 100 encounters you're potentially at risk 3 times. .. oh stuff it, you get my point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive just been reading some adds and a few couples are asking for bareback because the lady is allergic to condoms i wonder if they get many takers.
personally i wouldnt they might be safe themselfs but everybody has a random "
Condoms thanks! |
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