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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Last night i went with some friends and it was noticed a hell of alot single males i spoke to wasn't BI. when i asked them they refused to answer me as i would jepodise the membership if chams found out or they was straight
i know i dont always play when i go but last night when i suggested in the swing room that i would love to see a bi mmf they looked disgusted and shyed away.
this point there was quite a few in the room?
has anyone else saw this on a monday BI night? |
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By *isub69Man
over a year ago
Epsom |
I keep meaning to attend Bi night whenever I am up that way but never get the chance.
It just seems wierd that non bi guys would attend a bi night. O well they are missing out as a bi mmf is a lot of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sadly this is becoming more and more common as it is much easier to get a monday memebership than a full memebership for single guys
the club does say you must be bi to have a monday membership but until it is possible for them to insist on blow job proof on entry (trust me it has been suggested by staff  ) then many guys will lie as to their sexuality to get membership
it is a shame as a few years ago there used to be some fabulous guy on guy action going on all over the club on mondays now to see it is a rare treat, sadly, but it does happen from time to time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly."
tis true treacle but its not feeling particularly bi friendly anymore its making the guys feel self concious and locking away their play not so much fun for us lady voyeurs
maybe they should show them some gay porn on entry and if they can watch without averting their gaze then they can let um in worth a shot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last night i went with some friends and it was noticed a hell of alot single males i spoke to wasn't BI. when i asked them they refused to answer me as i would jepodise the membership if chams found out or they was straight
i know i dont always play when i go but last night when i suggested in the swing room that i would love to see a bi mmf they looked disgusted and shyed away.
this point there was quite a few in the room?
has anyone else saw this on a monday BI night?"
yes loads and you can spot the straight men a mile away, a guy that amkes the effort to go on a bi night and comes upto you, as a single woman, and insists you dont play in a open room isnt bi in my opinion, ive tried to play a few times in open rooms with guys ive met there and they end up walking away when i refuse to lock myself away in a room with them
Mondays used to be a great night but since the single straight guys cought on its easier and cheaper membership on a monday its gone down hill
The biggest problem is because the bi guys who go know most men atnt bi they tend not to play in the open anymore so most bi male action goes on behind locked doors now day
I cant remember the last time i saw men playing in the open there and for the last few times ive been any MMf ive had have been in loclable rooms
The straight guys going have killed the night in my opinion, its nowhere near as busy as it used to be, i used to go most mondays i got maybe once every 4 to 6 weeks now
and its not only single guys theres a lot of couples with bi females but straight men who go and they're the ones who make all the fuss if a guys approches them, dont go on a bi night if you dont want men to make a move on you, or just give a polite no thanks without the big fuss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"chams said that if u are a single man going in on a Monday you should be bi 
my friend was told this many times and yet he comes with me who i am bi
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i was always told men was supposed to be bi, i have been when they have turned men away at the door before for not being bi, they always ask new men if they're bi, if you didnt have to be bi why would they ask? 
I think if they regulars or well known to the club they may let it laps if they know the guy well enough to know he not cause a fuss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know anything about the club, I have never been (always wanted to though), so perhaps speaking out of term here. .
However, after reading the whole postings, isnt it a membership issue? Why cant that be looked at, if straight guys are going to bi nights does that mean bi guys are getting it cheaper?
Oh me head hurts now, confused  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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its just a shame that bi nights are like this as would be great for bi men to play and not feel the need to hide or do it in a lockable room
im bi yes and i don't play much with the ladies admittedly but last night i enjoyed my time with the ladies and was nice to feel relaxed
just a shame the bi men cant do the same as some single straight men that go do not like being approached by them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly."
my friend was told under no certain terms he had to be bi to gain entry  i was shocked that a member of staff at chams was very arsey and uppty about it.
if i didn't care about my membership and like the place allot i would have slapped her face
noone makes friends of mine feel scared of going to a club!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly.
my friend was told under no certain terms he had to be bi to gain entry i was shocked that a member of staff at chams was very arsey and uppty about it.
if i didn't care about my membership and like the place allot i would have slapped her face
noone makes friends of mine feel scared of going to a club!!!!"
ive seen them turning guys away at the door for not being bi too
i was waiting to get in one night and a guy was stood infront of me being told he couldnt come in, he said he had called up and was told bi friendly was ok but on the door was told no he couldnt come in, he was having a right moan cause he had driven over a hour to go because he was told on the phone it was ok |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The site actually says you must be bi or bi-friendly.
my friend was told under no certain terms he had to be bi to gain entry i was shocked that a member of staff at chams was very arsey and uppty about it.
if i didn't care about my membership and like the place allot i would have slapped her face
noone makes friends of mine feel scared of going to a club!!!!
ive seen them turning guys away at the door for not being bi too
i was waiting to get in one night and a guy was stood infront of me being told he couldnt come in, he said he had called up and was told bi friendly was ok but on the door was told no he couldnt come in, he was having a right moan cause he had driven over a hour to go because he was told on the phone it was ok"
seems its one rule for one one for the others
i wish they would decide and get it on the website and stick to it
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i have been in the middle of some fabulous bi action at chams on monday nights. But as the op stated, last night was not at all promising! Very little play going on at all and practically no bi shows to be seen. A little light sucking, but guys seemed far more interested in me than in my buddy. I also noticed that the single guys seemed to be an older crowd last night. Nothing against the silver foxes, but not what i was hoping for... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have been in the middle of some fabulous bi action at chams on monday nights. But as the op stated, last night was not at all promising! Very little play going on at all and practically no bi shows to be seen. A little light sucking, but guys seemed far more interested in me than in my buddy. I also noticed that the single guys seemed to be an older crowd last night. Nothing against the silver foxes, but not what i was hoping for... "
the jacuzis the best place i have found for male action, ive had some great session on a monday in jacuzzi, with upto 5 or 6 men and me all sucking each other off......heaven |
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"i have been in the middle of some fabulous bi action at chams on monday nights. But as the op stated, last night was not at all promising! Very little play going on at all and practically no bi shows to be seen. A little light sucking, but guys seemed far more interested in me than in my buddy. I also noticed that the single guys seemed to be an older crowd last night. Nothing against the silver foxes, but not what i was hoping for...
the jacuzis the best place i have found for male action, ive had some great session on a monday in jacuzzi, with upto 5 or 6 men and me all sucking each other off......heaven "
i can't get into the jacuzzis - my skin doesn't like all the chlorine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were at Chams on a Monday night
We have spoken with a few people who we met on the night commenting on the amount of straight guys that evening.
Although we didn't notice this at the time and it didn't stop us enjoying bi fun .
Although there was definitely a lack of bi play in open rooms
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were at Chams on a Monday night
We have spoken with a few people who we met on the night commenting on the amount of straight guys that evening.
Although we didn't notice this at the time and it didn't stop us enjoying bi fun.
Although there was definitely a lack of bi play in open rooms
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Sorry first line should have said on a Monday night beginning of December
Too early in the morning is my excuse |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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I was told the other day that the Monday night rules are this:
Single males MUST be bi
Single females MUST be bi
Couples - if the female is bi then the bloke MUST be bi or bi-friendly. If the male is bi, then the female MUST be bi or bi-friendly.
Don't blame the staff for turning people away, if everyone who has a gripe actually spoke to the manager or the owner and asked them to clarify the rules....... maybe everyone would start getting the same info. |
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I have not been to Chameleons for a good while now but I always preferred Monday nights anyway. I saw plenty of bi male play and did a lot of playing myself! Must admit I didn't have any problems with straight guys though, all the blokes I saw were gay or definatly bi. As I said its been ages though so perhaps this is a recent trend there? |
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I think this is a bit of a problem generally. We frequently got to AbFabs on a bi night and have encountered several straight single guys there. I asked one of them in the swimming pool why he came to a bi night if he was straight. He said because it was cheaper and there was always the chance he might 'get lucky' with a female.
I always check a guy's sexuality before we indulge in a bit of mmf play - if he's not bi then he stands zero chance of fun with us. We don't go to a bi night to indulge in straight play - I want to see the boys getting it on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been to chams for bi nights on a number of occasions, most recently about a month ago.
The bi side of things has ALWAYS been pretty slow to show in my experience, and men still tend to gravitate around any female/couples in the early stages of the night although generally things tend to heat up between guys as the night wears on. I guess much may depend on the number of couples/fems in on a particular night.
I must admit that the last time I went, there seemed to be more bi stuff going on that MF stuff. At one stage, one of the jacuzzis had all manner of sucking going on between the guys. I wandered through to the other jacuzzi and ended up playing with a couple who were in there on their own! Also, I often talk with fellow males about the bi thing, and all of them have been bi to one degree or another.
Perhaps some of the guys - even in that environment - don't like to admit it to females?
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Have seen the same at AbFabs some nights, and agree with others that the bi mm play tends happen later, or in the private rooms when people had arranged to meet.
Dungeon and dark room have been the most active areas, just wish the dark room had lino floor, rather than hard concrete, hard on the knees when giving a bj |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it the same scenario during the day? Just thinking of heading over in the next couple of Weeks and want to know if its worth it?"
Yes it is still bi day as well as bi night. We went this Monday afternoon and it was great, had a lovely time. It was certainly quietish, but enough people to make it a lot of fun, jacuzzis were full, cinema had a fair amount of people in etc. It was our first time at Chams on a weekday and I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of it |
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