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Are Bi-Men a turn off?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some bi gents are drop dead gorgeous!  
some of the guys on the gay porn i watch are bloody gorgeous, such a waste lol "
isn't it just
Being a bi-man isn't a problem in my eyes at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love them...can't think of anything better than 2 or more guys open with their sexuality having fun for my pleasure and delight...I love being in a relationship with a bi man...makes life so much more...interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mmmmmmmmmmm I just love playing with bi guys- increases the fun to be had "
Mmmm have to agree and I feel the same way about couples with a bi male!
I like being bi as its more fun for all Hehe
Come find out people!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I forgot to add, my partner has had disappointing experiences with bi curious men though and doesn't meet them...he likes guys who know what they're doing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love bi guys! However really love bi male friendly women. Such a turn on being with a fully bi couple. This curiousity lark is a bit of a farce. In all fairness nothing beats a bit of experience. Each to their own though. Happy swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I forgot to add, my partner has had disappointing experiences with bi curious men though and doesn't meet them...he likes guys who know what they're doing..."
Are you referring to bi curious as in never had bi fun?  |
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"i like bi men
but the answer to this question is the same answer that coveres just about every post on here
some will like them some wont lol"
Arent we women annoying,having individual personalities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some bi gents are drop dead gorgeous!
some of the guys on the gay porn i watch are bloody gorgeous, such a waste lol
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Concur!  "
makes good _iewing though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the idea of my man with another although he is orally bi, he won't let me have his arse so no one else is... its mine I tell you all mine mwahhhhhaaaa.
Sorry got a little carried away then. I love watching him Im hoping to learn some tips he can deep throat and I can't well suppose you can't have everything hehe xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the idea of my man with another although he is orally bi, he won't let me have his arse so no one else is... its mine I tell you all mine mwahhhhhaaaa.
Sorry got a little carried away then. I love watching him Im hoping to learn some tips he can deep throat and I can't well suppose you can't have everything hehe xx
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But would you both have someone elses arse? hehe  |
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I am getting numbers of messages from straight guys wanting sex, and when pointing their sexuality, they claim they don't list here are bi, because women don't like it...
For sure there bigots here too, but I think such problem exists in guys heads mostly... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I forgot to add, my partner has had disappointing experiences with bi curious men though and doesn't meet them...he likes guys who know what they're doing...
Are you referring to bi curious as in never had bi fun? "
Pretty much...he likes to be fucked...all this "orally bi curious" just ends up being a disappointment for him...he looks for someone confident and experienced in their sexuality... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send the bi guys our way please
Just packing a few things for the trip hehe "
the 'first foot' in the house after midnight on Hogmanay should be male, dark, and handsome. Just bring yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am getting numbers of messages from straight guys wanting sex, and when pointing their sexuality, they claim they don't list here are bi, because women don't like it...
For sure there bigots here too, but I think such problem exists in guys heads mostly..."
Why are people bigots for not wanting to play with bi men?  Are gay men sexist? Grow up.
No one is saying bi men are to be stoned, just expressing a personal preference...if that's alright with you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never knowingly played with a bi guy... but then I've never knowlingly knocked back a bi guy either.
I don't imagine it would bother me at all.
all that stuff about them 'not being in control'? That's like saying I won't play with Big people incase they raid the fridge when I'm not looking
Sounds like bollocks to me 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send the bi guys our way please
Just packing a few things for the trip hehe
the 'first foot' in the house after midnight on Hogmanay should be male, dark, and handsome. Just bring yourself "
Well i was looking to grab a few clothes and get dressed lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send the bi guys our way please
Just packing a few things for the trip hehe
the 'first foot' in the house after midnight on Hogmanay should be male, dark, and handsome. Just bring yourself
Well i was looking to grab a few clothes and get dressed lol "
You won't need clothes!  |
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"Why are people bigots for not wanting to play with bi men? Are gay men sexist? Grow up."
Maybe it is you who needs to grow up?
"No one is saying bi men are to be stoned, just expressing a personal preference...if that's alright with you! "
Of curse one is entitled to any preferences... Some like slim guys others big, chinese girls.
But I cannot really understand how being bi could be a problem. Especially while 1-on-1 with woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send the bi guys our way please
Just packing a few things for the trip hehe
the 'first foot' in the house after midnight on Hogmanay should be male, dark, and handsome. Just bring yourself
Well i was looking to grab a few clothes and get dressed lol
You won't need clothes! "
promises promises! may need to warm me up on arrival then hehe |
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"Hi,
As someone who is exploring my bi side, I'm just curious to ask women, single and attached, if bi and bi-c men ate a turn off?
TVM"
Afraid so, even Bi-Curious are put straight in our block list, just our preference am afraid.  |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Why are people bigots for not wanting to play with bi men? Are gay men sexist? Grow up.
Maybe it is you who needs to grow up?
No one is saying bi men are to be stoned, just expressing a personal preference...if that's alright with you!
Of curse one is entitled to any preferences... Some like slim guys others big, chinese girls.
But I cannot really understand how being bi could be a problem. Especially while 1-on-1 with woman."
Never assume it is the male half that has problems with Bi guys...
Some women, like me, have no interest in them..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi,
As someone who is exploring my bi side, I'm just curious to ask women, single and attached, if bi and bi-c men ate a turn off?
TVM"
Cant stand em our selfs....avoid avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha always makes me laugh this topic.
Do what you want to do - so long as its safe and everone is consenting. Stuff what other ppl think.
One thing that is amazing is how many 'straight' guys on here go looking for fun with men, so to all those people who 'avoid' or don't like bi men i would imagine it is going to very difficult to filter them out.
Most guys on here have figured out they may be limiting their chances by openly admitting to be Bi. So how would you really know??? Hahaha Picutre the scene a guy turns up to a meet, a couple of hours ago was rimming some other bloke and is now kissing your Mrs in a 3some - you'd never know. Food for thought - its amazing how ppl on here are so narrow minded and dont think about what ppl may or may not have been getting up to before they've met and how they want others to perceive them. haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha always makes me laugh this topic.
Do what you want to do - so long as its safe and everone is consenting. Stuff what other ppl think.
One thing that is amazing is how many 'straight' guys on here go looking for fun with men, so to all those people who 'avoid' or don't like bi men i would imagine it is going to very difficult to filter them out.
Most guys on here have figured out they may be limiting their chances by openly admitting to be Bi. So how would you really know??? Hahaha Picutre the scene a guy turns up to a meet, a couple of hours ago was rimming some other bloke and is now kissing your Mrs in a 3some - you'd never know. Food for thought - its amazing how ppl on here are so narrow minded and dont think about what ppl may or may not have been getting up to before they've met and how they want others to perceive them. haha "
Why would you assume that all bi men have no morals or standards? or that they are less hygienic than straight guys? |
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"Haha always makes me laugh this topic.
Do what you want to do - so long as its safe and everone is consenting. Stuff what other ppl think.
One thing that is amazing is how many 'straight' guys on here go looking for fun with men, so to all those people who 'avoid' or don't like bi men i would imagine it is going to very difficult to filter them out.
Most guys on here have figured out they may be limiting their chances by openly admitting to be Bi. So how would you really know??? Hahaha Picutre the scene a guy turns up to a meet, a couple of hours ago was rimming some other bloke and is now kissing your Mrs in a 3some - you'd never know. Food for thought - its amazing how ppl on here are so narrow minded and dont think about what ppl may or may not have been getting up to before they've met and how they want others to perceive them. haha "
god i didnt know it was offensive to be and want only straight, it must really irk u to resopnd in such a manner, straight and proud and dont do bi guys but then we all could lie to get what we want doesnt mean the people we dupe have accepted it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres more bi guys on here than people know, like in previous comments, I too get contacted by a lot of "straight" guys hiding their bi side so they can meet women and couples too, I prefer to be open from the start, probably why I don't get so many messages as you straight sort  |
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Or that bi men can't leave their bi side, aside at that particular time, how odd?
Surely if you enjoy anal sex but the people you are playing with don't, then you don't try - respecting boundaries and being adult about the whole thing
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"why judge some guy if hes bi or not they are entitled to fun the same as straight gay or lesbian how about get to know them for who they are and not stereotype them "
choice we choose not to meet them our preferance freedom of choice, let who ever wants to have fun have fun as much as they like just not with us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...Picutre the scene a guy turns up to a meet, a couple of hours ago was rimming "
Bi or not... I'd hope they'd brush their teeth before the next meet. I know I do
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Why are people getting on their high horses by people not wishing to have sex with Bi men? I personally don't play with Bi men and thats my choice, I don't need to give a reason or have to justify it.
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I agree that in this hobby you do whatever 'floats your boat' but I think the issue is people stereotyping bi males.
If a bi male didn't put it on his profile, then the straight people who prefer not to play with bi's would never know, is that fair, is it deceitful?
We all have likes and dislikes but we don't stereotype the dislikes, they're just not for us. Clear as mud eh, sorry? |
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"Why are people getting on their high horses by people not wishing to have sex with Bi men? I personally don't play with Bi men and thats my choice, I don't need to give a reason or have to justify it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day who actually can say they know for sure if someone is Bi or have play with other men.
As we all know people are prone to deceiving saying what they are aren't to get what they want on any of these sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not for us it is a big turn off we even avoid bi curious, not our thing, but i know plenty more are turned on by it than off at least people we talk to are "
Same here, although we have gay friends who we enjoy being with socially,in all honesty just the thought of two guys having sex does nothing for me whatsoever.
I'd go as far as to say that the suspicion or knowledge of any guy we met, having or having had sex with another guy, would be a complete turn off. T
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At the end of the day who actually can say they know for sure if someone is Bi or have play with other men.
As we all know people are prone to deceiving saying what they are aren't to get what they want on any of these sites."
Bingo - this is what i was driving at. It really doesn't bother me if people like/dislike bi men. We're all adults, lets all play nice hehe, different strokes for different folks and all that
Ppl will say, do and project what ever image they want to get what they want at any particualr moment in time.
With a few button clicks, a change of profile text I'd become a straight man - but I wouldn't as I'm not about deceiving people - but i have seen and experienced this first hand with friends on fab - one minute they are Bi the next straight as can be and only looking for women. |
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we dont like or dislike bi gay or lesbian, we judge as we find people but the question is/was does it turn us on/off, seems some want to do the whole persecution crap, big difference between being friends with bi/gay and willing or wantin to have sex be like tellin a gay he should try a girl and a lesbian she should try guys as it's rude not to, wise up, let people be people and choose for them selves and get the chip off the shoulder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why judge some guy if hes bi or not they are entitled to fun the same as straight gay or lesbian how about get to know them for who they are and not stereotype them "
Spot on lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree that in this hobby you do whatever 'floats your boat' but I think the issue is people stereotyping bi males.
If a bi male didn't put it on his profile, then the straight people who prefer not to play with bi's would never know, is that fair, is it deceitful?
We all have likes and dislikes but we don't stereotype the dislikes, they're just not for us. Clear as mud eh, sorry?"
I've sent more than one bi male packing from my home that duped me during a social meet.
I enjoy gay porn, have no problems with bi men but don't play with them as I've never met one that blushed, got embarrassed, felt humiliated having is arse probed with whatever I choose.
You can't fake sweating, blushing and humiliation...all a turn on for me. Therefore no play...it's as simple as that for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some bi gents are drop dead gorgeous!
some of the guys on the gay porn i watch are bloody gorgeous, such a waste lol "
haha
that's just took me back to when my mums eldest sister found out rock hudson was gay.
he was her idol - think the quote was something along the lines of 'waste of a good dick' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Picutre the scene a guy turns up to a meet, a couple of hours ago was rimming some other bloke and is now kissing your Mrs in a 3some "
Straight people engage in rimming too.
And I know many guys straight, bi and gay alike that find it totally repulsive.
They key is that we should all respect potential meets by being spotlessly clean prior to any meet.
And clean doesn't mean you smell like you've stepped out of the perfume section in Selfridges, it means you use a shower, some shower gel or soap, a toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash - and that you wash behind your ears (and other such extremities).
Oh and always pat your pocket before you leave the house - just to make sure your little latex friends are coming to the party too |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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why oh why do bi guys ask this... surely it doesn't take a lot to understand 'preference'.
a favour please:
could a bi guy who likes to cover himself in shit and meets a big butch trucker who wears his wife's knickers whilst pissing in the guys mouth do me a favour please..
select scat, water sports and cross dressing as your list of interests
and I promise never to ask you to justify your choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"am interested in women and very convincing tv/ts and they have to be covincing, does this make me bi or should i take it off my profile"
It makes you bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"am interested in women and very convincing tv/ts and they have to be covincing, does this make me bi or should i take it off my profile"
Convincing or not a man dressed as a woman is a MAN dressed as a women. If you think "convincing" makes him a her then you're straight. |
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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago
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i love bi guys but does it matter whether they are bi or not? if you like them, then just state your not into that, bi people do respect others opinions and if they dont want to play that way then we wont take offence.get to know the person, not the label. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i love bi guys but does it matter whether they are bi or not? if you like them, then just state your not into that, bi people do respect others opinions and if they dont want to play that way then we wont take offence.get to know the person, not the label. "
So true, it is a refreshing outlook for someone to say about getting to know the person!
Though I do enjoy bi fun, if someone is straight I can respect that and resist lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Absolutrly not a turn off but v def a turn on. Hearing my fb get plessure from other men is emazing esp when they are bi and we can have fun together. X"
Mmmm I bet watching it is hot as well! |
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this sort of tread makes me laugh, I dont give a hoot about what you are interested in i have met straight bi and gay men and women, i get loads of straight guys in swinging couples mailing me for meets, even had one who's profile said "WE DO NOT MEET BI OR GAY MEN" I just mailed back saying sorry I dont meet biggots, he blocked me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this sort of tread makes me laugh, I dont give a hoot about what you are interested in i have met straight bi and gay men and women, i get loads of straight guys in swinging couples mailing me for meets, even had one who's profile said "WE DO NOT MEET BI OR GAY MEN" I just mailed back saying sorry I dont meet biggots, he blocked me "
those "straight" guys can lie to everyone but should stop lying to themselves! Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I dont mind what people are, straight or bi, as long as they accept my boundaries and, more importantly, are honest about their "leaning". "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I dont mind what people are, straight or bi, as long as they accept my boundaries and, more importantly, are honest about their "leaning". "
Honesty is best. |
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