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Hi guys, just curious on how the whole breeding fantasy works? Especially in gangbangs. What happens in terms of ensuring all safe and no STIs? Also in terms of pregnancy? Excuse my ignorance but just curious to find out. Cheers x |
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over a year ago
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"Absolutely not! But these bareback/creampie gangbangs are happening a lot "
Yes they are but those that take part want to. It’s not for me at all as I don’t trust anyone when they say they are tested and clear. And why would someone want to breed at total stranger? |
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"Hi guys, just curious on how the whole breeding fantasy works? Especially in gangbangs. What happens in terms of ensuring all safe and no STIs? Also in terms of pregnancy? Excuse my ignorance but just curious to find out. Cheers x"
The whole point in breeding is that it isn’t safe, and the goal is to get pregnant.
Also no guarantee of not getting STIs. It’s obviously a huge risk. |
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"Is it to get pregnant or the risk of getting pregnant? What about knowing who the father is etc? "
In all honesty, I don’t think they care. If you wanting to get pregnant from a gangbang, I don’t think they care who the dad is, just that they have a baby  |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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Yes often they can be about getting pregnant, I can see why it has an appeal. I gave it some serious consideration once as we were trying to conceive and having no luck. To me it seemed better to not know who the father was than to choose a guy to get pregnant with and then always be reminded of him while the child grows up. We couldn't afford the IVF treatment so would have been the only option, eventually decided I just couldn't do it, but came very close. |
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Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang. |
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"Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang. "
Would obviously end up having some severe mental issues.
Every child deserves to know where they come from |
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I had a guy message me asking to get me pregnant, his profile stated he'd given one lady a baby, he wanted to get someone pregnant again.
After I was sick in my mouth,I blocked and reported him.
Selfish, irresponsible and just wrong, poor child finding out how they came to be 
Just hope it was a wind up |
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"Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang. "
I guess unless you're "into it" you'll never quite understand it. I sure as fuck don't. |
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It is amazing how shocked a bunch of swingers can get when people are open about bareback sex.
If people want to use swinging to get pregnant then its up to them. None of my business or anyone else. |
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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There are plenty of men around that have a thing about getting women pregnant. I saw a documentary about it, how there are men offering both sperm donations and sex to women that want to conceive. |
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really."
Whilst perhaps not knowing the father or his background you would most likely be able to work out it was him from the date? As opposed to a child growing up to discover their dad could be one of 10 guys who fucked their Mum on the same night. |
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"Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang.
Would obviously end up having some severe mental issues.
Every child deserves to know where they come from"
I was conceived in a marraige and have severe mental health issues. |
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By *VxrMan
over a year ago
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"I had a guy message me asking to get me pregnant, his profile stated he'd given one lady a baby, he wanted to get someone pregnant again.
After I was sick in my mouth,I blocked and reported him.
Selfish, irresponsible and just wrong, poor child finding out how they came to be
Just hope it was a wind up "
I'm guessing it wasn't knowing some on here. |
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"Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang.
Would obviously end up having some severe mental issues.
Every child deserves to know where they come from
I was conceived in a marraige and have severe mental health issues."
And my sister has worse issuea than myself. |
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really.
Whilst perhaps not knowing the father or his background you would most likely be able to work out it was him from the date? As opposed to a child growing up to discover their dad could be one of 10 guys who fucked their Mum on the same night."
And why would the mum share the knowledge of how the child was conceived? |
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really.
Whilst perhaps not knowing the father or his background you would most likely be able to work out it was him from the date? As opposed to a child growing up to discover their dad could be one of 10 guys who fucked their Mum on the same night.
And why would the mum share the knowledge of how the child was conceived? "
If, for some reason, the child needed to know their genetic background?
My comment wasn't meant to sound judgemental btw, just stating that I think there's a difference between a gang bang scenario and a one night stand. |
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"Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang.
Would obviously end up having some severe mental issues.
Every child deserves to know where they come from
I was conceived in a marraige and have severe mental health issues."
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By *oubledongWoman
over a year ago
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Honestly I considered a lot of things, and had I gone down that route we felt the best option would have been to tell the child that they were conceived through an anonymous sperm donation.
No child wants to know the details of how they were conceived. I mean how many parents have told their child they were conceived in a passionate weekend away?
The idea of getting pregnant was in fact what brought me to swinging in the first place. I wasn't sure if I could even have sex with someone other than my husband let alone get pregnant by one.
My original plan was to find someone and get to know them and then ask them if they would help me get pregnant. Despite initial nervousness, I discovered it was a lot of fun once I got over the years of conditioning by society that it is wrong for a woman to want more.
I found a guy and I we were starting to form an emotional bond and I felt I couldn't move on with that relationship as it wouldn't feel right to be having a baby with someone I was emotionally attached to that wasn't my husband.
I was really struggling with not having a child, it is not something you can understand unless you are in the position. I considered all sorts of things, including on-line sperm donors, picking up someone at bar or concert or something, blindfolded sex with a random guy so I wouldn't know who he was, you name it.
In the end I just decided that it was all too much and had to accept that I was not going to have children, it was a very sad time. But at least I never gave up on having a good time. |
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"Honestly I considered a lot of things, and had I gone down that route we felt the best option would have been to tell the child that they were conceived through an anonymous sperm donation.
No child wants to know the details of how they were conceived. I mean how many parents have told their child they were conceived in a passionate weekend away?
The idea of getting pregnant was in fact what brought me to swinging in the first place. I wasn't sure if I could even have sex with someone other than my husband let alone get pregnant by one.
My original plan was to find someone and get to know them and then ask them if they would help me get pregnant. Despite initial nervousness, I discovered it was a lot of fun once I got over the years of conditioning by society that it is wrong for a woman to want more.
I found a guy and I we were starting to form an emotional bond and I felt I couldn't move on with that relationship as it wouldn't feel right to be having a baby with someone I was emotionally attached to that wasn't my husband.
I was really struggling with not having a child, it is not something you can understand unless you are in the position. I considered all sorts of things, including on-line sperm donors, picking up someone at bar or concert or something, blindfolded sex with a random guy so I wouldn't know who he was, you name it.
In the end I just decided that it was all too much and had to accept that I was not going to have children, it was a very sad time. But at least I never gave up on having a good time."
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And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket! |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket! "
So now disabled people are wrong to exist to?  |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket! "
This was my point in my earlier post about knowing your genetic background.
The cum bucket comment is completely out of order though. |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket! "
And a woman can be called a "cum bucket" regardless if its to get pregnant or not.....
People raging on about the poor child and what would they think? How would a child feel if they discovered their parents are swingers? This is the wrong site to be judgmental about any sexual kink. |
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The danger is someone could be offended and upset by terms used here ie cum bucket. Not sure this site should include a subject on childrens conception. Lets enjoy adult stuff.
Just my opinion of course! |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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The chances of conceiving at such an event wouldnt be as successful as a singular man as the mix of different peoples sperm would actually kill off each other.
Each to their own but for me i dont get bare back on a site like this. But if u found out u couldnt have kids i get finding someone thats maybe a fb to help u if they agree to. |
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"But if u found out u couldnt have kids i get finding someone thats maybe a fb to help u if they agree to."
I know a few lesbian friends i grew up with did this, obviously they couldn't have kids themselves. Nobody was bothered or thought it was a big deal. |
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I am trying to decide why society thinks this is worse than a young girl going out on a thurs, fri and Saturday night having sex with random strangers, falling pregnant at the back of a night club then ending up on Jeremy Kyle in tears because her child isn’t her toothless wonder of a boyfriend l!
For a forum of people like us who all have an interest that isn’t classed as normal there are some pretty strong opinions |
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"Honestly I considered a lot of things, and had I gone down that route we felt the best option would have been to tell the child that they were conceived through an anonymous sperm donation.
No child wants to know the details of how they were conceived. I mean how many parents have told their child they were conceived in a passionate weekend away?
The idea of getting pregnant was in fact what brought me to swinging in the first place. I wasn't sure if I could even have sex with someone other than my husband let alone get pregnant by one.
My original plan was to find someone and get to know them and then ask them if they would help me get pregnant. Despite initial nervousness, I discovered it was a lot of fun once I got over the years of conditioning by society that it is wrong for a woman to want more.
I found a guy and I we were starting to form an emotional bond and I felt I couldn't move on with that relationship as it wouldn't feel right to be having a baby with someone I was emotionally attached to that wasn't my husband.
I was really struggling with not having a child, it is not something you can understand unless you are in the position. I considered all sorts of things, including on-line sperm donors, picking up someone at bar or concert or something, blindfolded sex with a random guy so I wouldn't know who he was, you name it.
In the end I just decided that it was all too much and had to accept that I was not going to have children, it was a very sad time. But at least I never gave up on having a good time."
Any particular reason you didn't want to adopt? Just curious as i saw a news article saying how adoption rates had gone down a lot since IVF success rates increased from 9 to 30%. |
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"It is amazing how shocked a bunch of swingers can get when people are open about bareback sex.
If people want to use swinging to get pregnant then its up to them. None of my business or anyone else."
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"Honestly I considered a lot of things, and had I gone down that route we felt the best option would have been to tell the child that they were conceived through an anonymous sperm donation.
No child wants to know the details of how they were conceived. I mean how many parents have told their child they were conceived in a passionate weekend away?
The idea of getting pregnant was in fact what brought me to swinging in the first place. I wasn't sure if I could even have sex with someone other than my husband let alone get pregnant by one.
My original plan was to find someone and get to know them and then ask them if they would help me get pregnant. Despite initial nervousness, I discovered it was a lot of fun once I got over the years of conditioning by society that it is wrong for a woman to want more.
I found a guy and I we were starting to form an emotional bond and I felt I couldn't move on with that relationship as it wouldn't feel right to be having a baby with someone I was emotionally attached to that wasn't my husband.
I was really struggling with not having a child, it is not something you can understand unless you are in the position. I considered all sorts of things, including on-line sperm donors, picking up someone at bar or concert or something, blindfolded sex with a random guy so I wouldn't know who he was, you name it.
In the end I just decided that it was all too much and had to accept that I was not going to have children, it was a very sad time. But at least I never gave up on having a good time.
Any particular reason you didn't want to adopt? Just curious as i saw a news article saying how adoption rates had gone down a lot since IVF success rates increased from 9 to 30%. "
Aaaargh! That bloody sentiment “why don’t you just adopt?”
No just adopts!
It’s not that simple. There ar many complex reasons why couples don’t adopt, not to mention how incredibly difficult it is to be accepted! My ex husband and I looked into adopting after recurrent miscarriages, unexplained secondary infertility and being refused ivf on the nhs. Eventually, after over a year of jumping through hoops with social workers, we were rejected because of a credit card debt at age 19. Something they could have looked into and rejected us for right at the start! Adoption is actually very very difficult! |
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Any particular reason you didn't want to adopt? Just curious as i saw a news article saying how adoption rates had gone down a lot since IVF success rates increased from 9 to 30%.
Aaaargh! That bloody sentiment “why don’t you just adopt?”
No just adopts!
It’s not that simple. There ar many complex reasons why couples don’t adopt, not to mention how incredibly difficult it is to be accepted! My ex husband and I looked into adopting after recurrent miscarriages, unexplained secondary infertility and being refused ivf on the nhs. Eventually, after over a year of jumping through hoops with social workers, we were rejected because of a credit card debt at age 19. Something they could have looked into and rejected us for right at the start! Adoption is actually very very difficult!"
If you read the actual question, instead of projecting your own, you'd see that I asked a question and didn't simply say they should have adopted. The latter part of your answer was actually interesting and confirmed my suspicions so thanks for that. We'd probably be refused adoption for having no-PC views. |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket! "
Not many people screen a potential partner before choosing to have a baby by conventional methods though? And why does the child have to know how it was conceived, Ive never felt it necessary to tell my kids (it was on a bed of rose petals and sunbeams obviously) and neither have they wished to know. Hysteria again  |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
So now disabled people are wrong to exist to? "
making an informed choice with a man u know " and find out about illnesses in his family is the right thing to do" not allowing random men to impregnate u knowing nothing about u!!! Ur answer is v silly and u know it |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
This was my point in my earlier post about knowing your genetic background.
The cum bucket comment is completely out of order though. "
I really dont think so!! Im calling a spade a spade, my opinion not urs! |
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"Hi guys, just curious on how the whole breeding fantasy works? Especially in gangbangs. What happens in terms of ensuring all safe and no STIs? Also in terms of pregnancy? Excuse my ignorance but just curious to find out. Cheers x
The whole point in breeding is that it isn’t safe, and the goal is to get pregnant.
Also no guarantee of not getting STIs. It’s obviously a huge risk. "
Sounds like a tragic game of roulette  |
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"Hi guys, just curious on how the whole breeding fantasy works? Especially in gangbangs. What happens in terms of ensuring all safe and no STIs? Also in terms of pregnancy? Excuse my ignorance but just curious to find out. Cheers x
The whole point in breeding is that it isn’t safe, and the goal is to get pregnant.
Also no guarantee of not getting STIs. It’s obviously a huge risk. Sounds like a tragic game of roulette "
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
So now disabled people are wrong to exist to? making an informed choice with a man u know " and find out about illnesses in his family is the right thing to do" not allowing random men to impregnate u knowing nothing about u!!! Ur answer is v silly and u know it"
Oh dear. I have a hereditary spine condition that makes me disabled and i have had 4 children. My youngest sister has the same thing and she's had 3. We'd best go cull them. In fairness i didn't know i had the condition until 13 years after i had my last child, although i still would have had kids even if i did know and it's my right as a disabled person to have my own family. |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
So now disabled people are wrong to exist to?
making an informed choice with a man u know " and find out about illnesses in his family is the right thing to do" not allowing random men to impregnate u knowing nothing about u!!! Ur answer is v silly and u know it
Oh dear. I have a hereditary spine condition that makes me disabled and i have had 4 children. My youngest sister has the same thing and she's had 3. We'd best go cull them. In fairness i didn't know i had the condition until 13 years after i had my last child, although i still would have had kids even if i did know and it's my right as a disabled person to have my own family."
And my partner had 2 kids before he had his first stroke, he has a herediary heart condition...
And my ex had a cleft palette with harelip (been operated on and you can't tell) but he passed that onto one of our kids (also been operated on and you can't tell).
Look us irresponsible genetically defective people breeding like fuck here. |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
And a woman can be called a "cum bucket" regardless if its to get pregnant or not.....
People raging on about the poor child and what would they think? How would a child feel if they discovered their parents are swingers? This is the wrong site to be judgmental about any sexual kink."
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The principle that people make choices on who they breed with based around their genetic suitability is disproven on a daily basis in genetic disease clinics up and down the country.
Most people are quite reasonably completely unaware. If anything random breeding outside of your normal gene pool (random gangbang anyone) should produce stronger offspring.
As for being a cum bucket... Well that's just a bonus.
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"Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang. "
If you don’t know you don't know and it is entered into quite often I imagine because they can't get pregnant and want a baby, maybe the guys firing blanks |
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"The principle that people make choices on who they breed with based around their genetic suitability is disproven on a daily basis in genetic disease clinics up and down the country.
Most people are quite reasonably completely unaware. If anything random breeding outside of your normal gene pool (random gangbang anyone) should produce stronger offspring.
As for being a cum bucket... Well that's just a bonus.
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"I heard the other day that a bulbous glans on a guys cock may have evolved to help pull out other guys cum from a woman. I've not researched this further but it sounds plausibly fine. "
Yeah that's true, men also produce spunk that exists to attack 'foreign' spunk that is there upon arrival |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket! "
Most younger people having sex - where there's a chance of conceiving even with contraception, don't know their genetic profiles though. We're not on a course of eugenics, where only a predetermined group of people can be parents - our races diversity is the richer for our diversity.
As a race we need to accept that some people engage in life differently to the rest, including with their sex lives. |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
Most younger people having sex - where there's a chance of conceiving even with contraception, don't know their genetic profiles though. We're not on a course of eugenics, where only a predetermined group of people can be parents - our races diversity is the richer for our diversity.
As a race we need to accept that some people engage in life differently to the rest, including with their sex lives. "
I’m sorry , but there is no way that I NEED to accept that some people engage in life differently to the rest when the result of their depravation is to try and procure pregnancy from random bare backers . Who speaks for the children who have no chance of help should they need it from their biological father ? Blood , bone marrow , a kidney etc...... let’s just hope they will never need it  |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
Most younger people having sex - where there's a chance of conceiving even with contraception, don't know their genetic profiles though. We're not on a course of eugenics, where only a predetermined group of people can be parents - our races diversity is the richer for our diversity.
As a race we need to accept that some people engage in life differently to the rest, including with their sex lives.
I’m sorry , but there is no way that I NEED to accept that some people engage in life differently to the rest when the result of their depravation is to try and procure pregnancy from random bare backers . Who speaks for the children who have no chance of help should they need it from their biological father ? Blood , bone marrow , a kidney etc...... let’s just hope they will never need it "
There is this bizzare idea on fab forums that every viewpoint or every lifestyle decision needs to be accepted / tolerated. I have no idea why people think that. |
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By *oubledongWoman
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Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts. |
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts."
I’m not suggesting they are !
I have a step son , and I am a source of helping him grow up to be a decent human being . I am teaching him right from wrong and helping his Mum provide him with a good life .
One thing I won’t be doing is telling him that he NEEDS to accept that bareback gang bangs are an acceptable way to get pregnant .
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Like everything else, those girls who are into getting pregnant are a spectrum - from those who are totally irresponsible and will make dreadful mothers to those who would love their child irrespective of who the father is. Like someone aptly said above, a child conceived during a BB gangbang is not potentially loved any less than a baby conceived via a one night stand so lets not be judgemental. There are many mothers out there who have no idea who fathered their child they can make a guess that's it. But they love their kids just as much. |
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I agree with what both sides of this argument are saying.
On 1 end as open minded swingers can we really be surprised as the kink some feel with bareback sex or how some use it as a means to get pregnant.
As 1 member here said it's not always easy to get IVF which is a shame of cos.
On the other end I understand the need for sex to be enjoyable but not dangerous ie bareback.
Oral sex carries with it many STDs which sure are treatable but nevertheless pose a risk of being spread and it takes just 1 person with a diminished immunity to regret the decision.
I guess what we really mean isn't so much the danger of said act but the danger of fucking a duplicitous human that chooses to lie about their health status.
I can see the kink, the necessity but alas also the danger to ones health and potential risk to a child from a childhood based on lies. It's whether a child can deal with the truth which I'm unsure of as I know little about infant or mature adult psychology in these matter.
I applaud the OP for asking something that has for once in my many years here on this site has finally exercised my grey matter.
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"Hi guys, just curious on how the whole breeding fantasy works? Especially in gangbangs. What happens in terms of ensuring all safe and no STIs? Also in terms of pregnancy? Excuse my ignorance but just curious to find out. Cheers x"
ok here's where I stick my neck out...
The use of breeding to describe penetrative sex seems to to have started with racist American porn where black males are described as stallions - there seem to me to be obvious links back to racist fiction by people like Kyle onstott and Lance Horner.
The stigma for Americans in this fantasy is that the child will be black - as I say it's a subculture rooted in racism and slavery. Over the years it has lost some of that meaning and in the UK,where we dealt with our heritage as slavers differently, it has less resonance...
I get that now it might be some women's fantasy to conceive anonymously but that's not where the meme comes from... |
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts."
Source please? |
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over a year ago
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts."
If you’d have put a wig on my dad, you’d have me. There was no mistaking the fact that we were related |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts.
Source please? "
Yeah they would only get that data from ma maternity clinic when there is doubt. |
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts.
If you’d have put a wig on my dad, you’d have me. There was no mistaking the fact that we were related "
I can see the resemblance but I'm also glad you got over what Kylo Ren did to him. That must have been more of a shock what with that lightsaber of his lol |
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over a year ago
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts.
If you’d have put a wig on my dad, you’d have me. There was no mistaking the fact that we were related
I can see the resemblance but I'm also glad you got over what Kylo Ren did to him. That must have been more of a shock what with that lightsaber of his lol"
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts.
Source please? Yeah they would only get that data from ma maternity clinic when there is doubt."
ancestry.com might have some data.... |
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"The principle that people make choices on who they breed with based around their genetic suitability is disproven on a daily basis in genetic disease clinics up and down the country.
Most people are quite reasonably completely unaware. If anything random breeding outside of your normal gene pool (random gangbang anyone) should produce stronger offspring.
As for being a cum bucket... Well that's just a bonus.
Sx "
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts.
Source please? Yeah they would only get that data from ma maternity clinic when there is doubt.ancestry.com might have some data...."
Yeah and it won't be accurate, it will be from a maternity clinic when the child's father is already questionable. |
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"Approximately 30% of children conceived are not biologically related to their 'father' without the father knowing. So for all you know the person you have been calling dad all your life has a fair chance of not being your father at all.
Fathers are not just sources of medical spare parts.
If you’d have put a wig on my dad, you’d have me. There was no mistaking the fact that we were related
I can see the resemblance but I'm also glad you got over what Kylo Ren did to him. That must have been more of a shock what with that lightsaber of his lol
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I saw your expression and feel I touch a raw nerve, so I can only say that im sure the force was with him or them lol |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"https://www.theguardian.com/society/2005/aug/11/childrensservices.uknews seems the 30% figure is in paternity tests, the general population it is estimated to be 4%."
yeah exactly what you were saying was misleading.
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"https://www.theguardian.com/society/2005/aug/11/childrensservices.uknews seems the 30% figure is in paternity tests, the general population it is estimated to be 4%. yeah exactly what you were saying was misleading."
5% was the figure I had in mind and even that is high, usually based on samples from higher risk areas of paternity fraud (i.e. cities). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeeesus this thread, gangbang get preggies party. It has Jeremy Kyle written all over it.
It’s an insult to Jeremy Kyle , and I can’t think if anything lower than this "
This
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"AAnd why does the child have to know how it was conceived, Ive never felt it necessary to tell my kids (it was on a bed of rose petals and sunbeams obviously) and neither have they wished to know. Hysteria again "
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Think you have missed the point.
You are correct that the child doesn't have to know the details of how s/he was conceived. There is a lot of difference between that and not letting s/he know the name of the father if s/he wants to know - worse still saying it could be one of x number of men who lined up to fuck the mother then not be seen again. |
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If everyone involved is happy with what's happening then in my mind it's 'whatever floats your boat.' As for the way you were conceived I was not bothered about having children, my wife after 2 shit and sexless marriages was desperate to have children. She admitted later that she got me pissed so I wouldn't bother about not using condoms. We had two great kids who I totally love, as far as I was concerned they were unplanned, my ex, (who get on well with) has told me since that as far as she was concerned were totally planned. I'd never say anything to the kids, two happily balanced people in their late twenties. Being honest there could be many other offspring in my past from my days of one night stands before I even got involved in swinging. |
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"And what if the man who impregnates the female at this breeding orgy has an illness that the wee baby could eventually have!! Lots of fatal illnesses passed on to the child! Its abhorant to know this goes on! Plenty of females want a child but this is beyond selfish & insane! Poor baby finding out his mum was a cum bucket!
Most younger people having sex - where there's a chance of conceiving even with contraception, don't know their genetic profiles though. We're not on a course of eugenics, where only a predetermined group of people can be parents - our races diversity is the richer for our diversity.
As a race we need to accept that some people engage in life differently to the rest, including with their sex lives.
I’m sorry , but there is no way that I NEED to accept that some people engage in life differently to the rest when the result of their depravation is to try and procure pregnancy from random bare backers . Who speaks for the children who have no chance of help should they need it from their biological father ? Blood , bone marrow , a kidney etc...... let’s just hope they will never need it
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
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Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it. |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it. "
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times. |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times."
incase he becomes a daddy lol |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times."
Single mothers bringing up children alone, especially boys growing up without father figures or any sort of strong male character are far more likely to be influenced by gangs when they grow up and enter crime. That's already covered by substantial research in the past and present. That's not up for debate. It's fact.
And don't you worry about me practicing safe sex. I'm on Fab. I'd be hounded out of town on rails if I did bareback! |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.incase he becomes a daddy lol"
Mind your own business and stay out of this. |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it. "
It really does have some truth in it ,
The cavalier , couldn’t give a flying fuck attitude shown in the UK since the seventies has led to so many more abortions , unwanted kids , neglected kids , etc...... but that’s ok . As long as the adults are satisfying their kinks it’s all good huh ?
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.incase he becomes a daddy lol
Mind your own business and stay out of this. "
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.
Single mothers bringing up children alone, especially boys growing up without father figures or any sort of strong male character are far more likely to be influenced by gangs when they grow up and enter crime. That's already covered by substantial research in the past and present. That's not up for debate. It's fact.
And don't you worry about me practicing safe sex. I'm on Fab. I'd be hounded out of town on rails if I did bareback! "
Apparently so. It's not for everyone, and no one's business who does or does not partake.
I like to think of myself as open minded. I'd think that was a given on a swinger's site, but apparently I'm one of the few who actually doesn't give a toss what floats someone else's boat. Don't force your thinking on me, I'll reciprocate.
Why do we treat each other here in the way we hate to be treated by people who judge us for our sexual choices?
As long as it's legal and consensual, why the FUCK do so many people get so judgmental about what anyone else does or doesn't do?
By the way, did you also know that research at one point assured us that women don't have souls, cigarettes are good for you, and bad smells cause disease?
I do still hope you don't procreate. |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.
incase he becomes a daddy lol
Mind your own business and stay out of this. "
Um. I believe it's called an open forum for a reason? |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.
Single mothers bringing up children alone, especially boys growing up without father figures or any sort of strong male character are far more likely to be influenced by gangs when they grow up and enter crime. That's already covered by substantial research in the past and present. That's not up for debate. It's fact.
And don't you worry about me practicing safe sex. I'm on Fab. I'd be hounded out of town on rails if I did bareback!
Apparently so. It's not for everyone, and no one's business who does or does not partake.
I like to think of myself as open minded. I'd think that was a given on a swinger's site, but apparently I'm one of the few who actually doesn't give a toss what floats someone else's boat. Don't force your thinking on me, I'll reciprocate.
Why do we treat each other here in the way we hate to be treated by people who judge us for our sexual choices?
As long as it's legal and consensual, why the FUCK do so many people get so judgmental about what anyone else does or doesn't do?
By the way, did you also know that research at one point assured us that women don't have souls, cigarettes are good for you, and bad smells cause disease?
I do still hope you don't procreate. "
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
It really does have some truth in it ,
The cavalier , couldn’t give a flying fuck attitude shown in the UK since the seventies has led to so many more abortions , unwanted kids , neglected kids , etc...... but that’s ok . As long as the adults are satisfying their kinks it’s all good huh ?
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So, I take it you are very vanilla and wouldn't dream of doing anything even remotely out of kilter with societal norms of sexual behaviour?
Also that you and everyone you know has only wanted, well taken care of kids, no abortions in your realm of friends and family (not that you would judge if you knew, of course, so they've been very open and honest about it).
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
It really does have some truth in it ,
The cavalier , couldn’t give a flying fuck attitude shown in the UK since the seventies has led to so many more abortions , unwanted kids , neglected kids , etc...... but that’s ok . As long as the adults are satisfying their kinks it’s all good huh ?
So, I take it you are very vanilla and wouldn't dream of doing anything even remotely out of kilter with societal norms of sexual behaviour?
Also that you and everyone you know has only wanted, well taken care of kids, no abortions in your realm of friends and family (not that you would judge if you knew, of course, so they've been very open and honest about it).
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.
Single mothers bringing up children alone, especially boys growing up without father figures or any sort of strong male character are far more likely to be influenced by gangs when they grow up and enter crime. That's already covered by substantial research in the past and present. That's not up for debate. It's fact.
And don't you worry about me practicing safe sex. I'm on Fab. I'd be hounded out of town on rails if I did bareback!
Apparently so. It's not for everyone, and no one's business who does or does not partake.
I like to think of myself as open minded. I'd think that was a given on a swinger's site, but apparently I'm one of the few who actually doesn't give a toss what floats someone else's boat. Don't force your thinking on me, I'll reciprocate.
Why do we treat each other here in the way we hate to be treated by people who judge us for our sexual choices?
As long as it's legal and consensual, why the FUCK do so many people get so judgmental about what anyone else does or doesn't do?
By the way, did you also know that research at one point assured us that women don't have souls, cigarettes are good for you, and bad smells cause disease?
I do still hope you don't procreate.
Because there are more components to morality than just legality and consent. "
Legality and consent are the fundamentals. If everyone who wanted to be a parent were put on trial before having a kid, I'd guess the vast majority wouldn't pass, by someone's standard.
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.
Single mothers bringing up children alone, especially boys growing up without father figures or any sort of strong male character are far more likely to be influenced by gangs when they grow up and enter crime. That's already covered by substantial research in the past and present. That's not up for debate. It's fact.
And don't you worry about me practicing safe sex. I'm on Fab. I'd be hounded out of town on rails if I did bareback!
Apparently so. It's not for everyone, and no one's business who does or does not partake.
I like to think of myself as open minded. I'd think that was a given on a swinger's site, but apparently I'm one of the few who actually doesn't give a toss what floats someone else's boat. Don't force your thinking on me, I'll reciprocate.
Why do we treat each other here in the way we hate to be treated by people who judge us for our sexual choices?
As long as it's legal and consensual, why the FUCK do so many people get so judgmental about what anyone else does or doesn't do?
By the way, did you also know that research at one point assured us that women don't have souls, cigarettes are good for you, and bad smells cause disease?
I do still hope you don't procreate.
Because there are more components to morality than just legality and consent.
Legality and consent are the fundamentals. If everyone who wanted to be a parent were put on trial before having a kid, I'd guess the vast majority wouldn't pass, by someone's standard.
Swingers being first and foremost out of the running."
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
It really does have some truth in it ,
The cavalier , couldn’t give a flying fuck attitude shown in the UK since the seventies has led to so many more abortions , unwanted kids , neglected kids , etc...... but that’s ok . As long as the adults are satisfying their kinks it’s all good huh ?
So, I take it you are very vanilla and wouldn't dream of doing anything even remotely out of kilter with societal norms of sexual behaviour?
Also that you and everyone you know has only wanted, well taken care of kids, no abortions in your realm of friends and family (not that you would judge if you knew, of course, so they've been very open and honest about it).
I'm neopolitan if that helps "
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
It really does have some truth in it ,
The cavalier , couldn’t give a flying fuck attitude shown in the UK since the seventies has led to so many more abortions , unwanted kids , neglected kids , etc...... but that’s ok . As long as the adults are satisfying their kinks it’s all good huh ?
So, I take it you are very vanilla and wouldn't dream of doing anything even remotely out of kilter with societal norms of sexual behaviour?
Also that you and everyone you know has only wanted, well taken care of kids, no abortions in your realm of friends and family (not that you would judge if you knew, of course, so they've been very open and honest about it).
I'm neopolitan if that helps
I'm utterly something with nuts."
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.incase he becomes a daddy lol
Mind your own business and stay out of this. "
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.
Single mothers bringing up children alone, especially boys growing up without father figures or any sort of strong male character are far more likely to be influenced by gangs when they grow up and enter crime. That's already covered by substantial research in the past and present. That's not up for debate. It's fact.
And don't you worry about me practicing safe sex. I'm on Fab. I'd be hounded out of town on rails if I did bareback!
Apparently so. It's not for everyone, and no one's business who does or does not partake.
I like to think of myself as open minded. I'd think that was a given on a swinger's site, but apparently I'm one of the few who actually doesn't give a toss what floats someone else's boat. Don't force your thinking on me, I'll reciprocate.
Why do we treat each other here in the way we hate to be treated by people who judge us for our sexual choices?
As long as it's legal and consensual, why the FUCK do so many people get so judgmental about what anyone else does or doesn't do?
By the way, did you also know that research at one point assured us that women don't have souls, cigarettes are good for you, and bad smells cause disease?
I do still hope you don't procreate.
Because there are more components to morality than just legality and consent.
Legality and consent are the fundamentals. If everyone who wanted to be a parent were put on trial before having a kid, I'd guess the vast majority wouldn't pass, by someone's standard.
Swingers being first and foremost out of the running."
Legality is not a basis for morality at all. Consent is important but totally insufficient on its own. I don't know what trial you are talking about so the rest of what you're saying is just you defining your own terms and agreeing with yourself. |
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"The chances of conceiving at such an event wouldnt be as successful as a singular man as the mix of different peoples sperm would actually kill off each other.
Each to their own but for me i dont get bare back on a site like this. But if u found out u couldnt have kids i get finding someone thats maybe a fb to help u if they agree to."
Omg , I thought I was the only person who knew this little fact.... Different sperm kill each other off...Please try not to share this fact...
It will ruin the fantasy for many women and not allow these moral people to mount their high horse..,, |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really."
When it's put like this, it isn't any different, apart from the arranging part of it. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
You seriously think that single mothers and lack of "proper families" equals "bad" upbringing?
I seriously hope, with your level of intelligent reasoning, that you practice safe sex at all times.incase he becomes a daddy lol
Mind your own business and stay out of this. "
Wow, so rude, and green arrow speaks volumes... |
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EXCELLENT POINT.
Ban closed adoptions, and any adoptions from orphanages where the parents can't be contacted immediately, if necessary.
In fact, ban sex with anyone you won't be able to contact at any point in the next 50 years, so the kid has access to organs as needed.
We MUST return to a world where long term monogamous sexual relationships are the only option.
We'd be depraved to do otherwise.
It's for the future well being of our children, after all.
Frankly, looking at how high single motherhood rates are in the UK and how badly the lack of proper families has impacted on the upbringing of British youth and young adults, what you say in jest or sarcasm might very well have some truth in it.
It really does have some truth in it ,
The cavalier , couldn’t give a flying fuck attitude shown in the UK since the seventies has led to so many more abortions , unwanted kids , neglected kids , etc...... but that’s ok . As long as the adults are satisfying their kinks it’s all good huh ?
So, I take it you are very vanilla and wouldn't dream of doing anything even remotely out of kilter with societal norms of sexual behaviour?
Also that you and everyone you know has only wanted, well taken care of kids, no abortions in your realm of friends and family (not that you would judge if you knew, of course, so they've been very open and honest about it).
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Anything we do , indeed anything we did , relating to swinging has had no bearing on our children . Least of all their conception . As strange as it may seem , the process we used for our childrens existence didn’t include inviting a load of random guys to bareback fuck my wife in the hope that one may impregnate her .
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"Yeah can kind of understand that from womans point of view. But what about the guys attending these gangbangs? Having a child possibly and never probably knowing
But yes can you imagine growing up to find out you were conceived during a bareback gangbang.
Would obviously end up having some severe mental issues.
Every child deserves to know where they come from"
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really.
When it's put like this, it isn't any different, apart from the arranging part of it. "
How many women go out and have a one night stand in the hope of getting pregnant ? |
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really.
When it's put like this, it isn't any different, apart from the arranging part of it.
How many women go out and have a one night stand in the hope of getting pregnant ? "
Well one can't answer that exactly but some do, theirs always somebody around who likes and wants something you don't, it's life |
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really.
When it's put like this, it isn't any different, apart from the arranging part of it.
How many women go out and have a one night stand in the hope of getting pregnant ? Well one can't answer that exactly but some do, theirs always somebody around who likes and wants something you don't, it's life "
I put that out there as it is not everyone sees it as any different . Me for one .
And yes there will always be somebody around who likes and wants something I don’t , but when that affects the innocent life of a child who gets no say in it , I happen to think it’s morally wrong .
This is what those who think it’s ok are forgetting . It’s a kink which has a profound effect on the life of a child . And I know my voice carries no weight whatsoever , and that people will continue the practice . But at least one voice is better than no voice at all .
If the headlines in tomorrow’s press and media claim that swingers agree with ‘breeding’ and bareback gang bangs with random strangers in the hope of getting pregnant , I can say not all swingers agree with that , and I was one that didn’t . |
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really.
When it's put like this, it isn't any different, apart from the arranging part of it.
How many women go out and have a one night stand in the hope of getting pregnant ? Well one can't answer that exactly but some do, theirs always somebody around who likes and wants something you don't, it's life
I put that out there as it is not everyone sees it as any different . Me for one .
And yes there will always be somebody around who likes and wants something I don’t , but when that affects the innocent life of a child who gets no say in it , I happen to think it’s morally wrong .
This is what those who think it’s ok are forgetting . It’s a kink which has a profound effect on the life of a child . And I know my voice carries no weight whatsoever , and that people will continue the practice . But at least one voice is better than no voice at all .
If the headlines in tomorrow’s press and media claim that swingers agree with ‘breeding’ and bareback gang bangs with random strangers in the hope of getting pregnant , I can say not all swingers agree with that , and I was one that didn’t . "
I'm on your side I don't agree with it but I can see why some might do it rather than have IVF but as a sexual kink nooooo it's not a moral option |
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"There are plenty of children that were conceived in a one night stand, I don't see it as any difference really.
When it's put like this, it isn't any different, apart from the arranging part of it.
How many women go out and have a one night stand in the hope of getting pregnant ? Well one can't answer that exactly but some do, theirs always somebody around who likes and wants something you don't, it's life
I put that out there as it is not everyone sees it as any different . Me for one .
And yes there will always be somebody around who likes and wants something I don’t , but when that affects the innocent life of a child who gets no say in it , I happen to think it’s morally wrong .
This is what those who think it’s ok are forgetting . It’s a kink which has a profound effect on the life of a child . And I know my voice carries no weight whatsoever , and that people will continue the practice . But at least one voice is better than no voice at all .
If the headlines in tomorrow’s press and media claim that swingers agree with ‘breeding’ and bareback gang bangs with random strangers in the hope of getting pregnant , I can say not all swingers agree with that , and I was one that didn’t . I'm on your side I don't agree with it but I can see why some might do it rather than have IVF but as a sexual kink nooooo it's not a moral option "
I can see that it’s an option if the guy is firing blanks , but that can still be done with some level of decorum . There are plenty of men willing to donate sperm and willing to declare themselves as donors for future reference . Then if the child needs blood , bone marrow etc.... they can be contacted . |
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