Hey everyone!
So here’s the thing have a great sex life with the bf, obviously have this, lots of sex toys and like bdsm style play.
But he tends to be the one who makes most of the suggestions or suggests new things... I would like to make more suggestions but don’t know where to start.
So I’m asking you lovely people for some ideas for things I could suggest to him or surprise him with - like new positions, or roleplay ideas or anything really! Any advice would be appreciated
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"Perhaps less impromptu but we write each other stories/role plays when one of us has been away (some posted on our profile). Might be some ideas there ...? And a good way to build anticipation!"
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"So I’m asking you lovely people for some ideas for things I could suggest to him or surprise him with - like new positions, or roleplay ideas or anything really! Any advice would be appreciated."
Rather than specific ideas, these are ideas on how to get ideas 
* Read some erotica. In the main these stories rely on evoking your own thoughts and many of them are quite imaginative. There are a few well known sites available (if you don't know any feel free to pm since I believe linking would be against the rules). I know I definitely will be allowed to point out fab's own stories and fantasies forum.
* Dirty talk. Try exploring some of the things you (the plural "you") would like to do just by talking about any little fantasies that pop into your head as you have sex. You'll probably be able to tell which ones he likes by the feel of his cock lurching .
* Porn. Ok a lot of porn is just graphic sex scenes with little context. It's not impossible to find stuff that shows a little imagination and might inspire some ideas though. Who knows? You might even enjoy the research .
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How about setting each other challenges and rewards?
Each of you write down 10/20 different dares/challenges for the other to do - something sexual or a turn on for you (eg go out with no knickers and shortish skirt, have a discreet wank in a semi-public place, flirt with a stranger on a night out).
Then write down 10/20 rewards for each other - something they would like to receive (hot bath followed by a nice relaxing massage, an hour of non-stop oral, sex slave for the day)
Put them into two different jars and then each pick a dare/challenge, once you have completed it (with proof) then you get to pick a reward. |
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Get sex cards that have what your going to do later out of Ann summers and put a new one in his wallet every morning
Do role play and text him throughout the day
Do role play when he comes home from work
Go up the loft with him behind you or clean the house with no underwear on and short skirt
Play games/cards which involves losing items of clothing
Blindfold him and put him on a chair and do sensory play
There's loads of stuff x
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