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Letting someone down.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No offence but if you treat people like that you should be grateful u have any offers
Just be honest and tell the first one the truth, so they can ignore you when your better offer let's YOU down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say No, - if you have connected with someone and they have agreed to meet, then you should do the decent thing and meet as arranged - the other one you can just share around with us drooling guys sat waiting lol  |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Is it ever acceptable to let a first offer down to take up a later, much better offer?"
Yes, at least try and move the BETTER offer to a later date, but im just going on the first come first served idea |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"No offence but if you treat people like that you should be grateful u have any offers
Just be honest and tell the first one the truth, so they can ignore you when your better offer let's YOU down"
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But what’s classed as a better offer then you should enlighten us all ? Just a random thought if the first offer you got uses the forum what are they going to think about this thread x oh and on the original topic it’s not really very polite to accept then decline as you feel something better is on offer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good I’ve done the right thing by Fab morals then. I said a polite no to the better offer. Just hope I get another chance.
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I'm intrigued to know what made the second offer better than the first ....  |
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"Good I’ve done the right thing by Fab morals then. I said a polite no to the better offer. Just hope I get another chance.
I'm intrigued to know what made the second offer better than the first .... "
Exactly what I asked, Kitten...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good I’ve done the right thing by Fab morals then. I said a polite no to the better offer. Just hope I get another chance.
I'm intrigued to know what made the second offer better than the first ....
Exactly what I asked, Kitten... "
Indeed ... we wait with baited breath  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not about first come first served. You should only be picking people to meet that are 100% what you are looking for. Therefore anything else that comes along is different and not better.
This is exactly why I am not interested in men who ask to meet me in the first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something I'd do, totally disrespectful, especially if you display a veri from the "better" meet which has probably been done many times on here!
Its no strings fun but that doesn't mean you can treat people like crap (although many do) I'd arrange another meet with the second person a different day, plenty of time if they're serious about meeting. I met a guy a while back, was only a social when I could have met someone else for fun but that's not my style. I'm meeting the other guy this weekend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good I’ve done the right thing by Fab morals then. I said a polite no to the better offer. Just hope I get another chance.
Let's hope your first offer doesn't read the forum "
Think he said she wasn't on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was the first one not offering sex on a plate on the first meet and the second was??
Haha, good question............
Can't think what else would've made the second person "better""
Yeah possibly. Better looking, better body? Who knows. Just meet them both at some point, easy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think people are being a bit harsh on the OP. He posed the question but actually did the decent thing, staying with his first arrangement. The woman isn’t on fab and he’s said he wouldn’t have posted if she was.
As for ‘better’, don’t you sometimes think one person will be more fun than another? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it ever acceptable to let a first offer down to take up a later, much better offer?"
No its not acceptable and if you do it you will be damned for the rest of your time here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Simple answer is No
How would you feel if they let you down because they had a better offer 
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Hehe indeed, am off now got better offer of a man and bike |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it ever acceptable to let a first offer down to take up a later, much better offer?No its not acceptable and if you do it you will be damned for the rest of your time here "
James four times this message came out.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure Ive had it happen to me, although not sure it was a better offer in my eyes.
Personally, if you’ve made plans, stick to them "
Christ, something better than you came along???! 
This always for me also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure Ive had it happen to me, although not sure it was a better offer in my eyes.
Personally, if you’ve made plans, stick to them
Christ, something better than you came along???!
This always for me also."
Left me waiting in a bar.
New verification the next morning “met x last night”
Cheers x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure Ive had it happen to me, although not sure it was a better offer in my eyes.
Personally, if you’ve made plans, stick to them
Christ, something better than you came along???!
This always for me also.
Left me waiting in a bar.
New verification the next morning “met x last night”
Cheers x "
That's crap, what a shite thing to do to someone. I bet they wouldn't like it done to them. |
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"Pretty sure Ive had it happen to me, although not sure it was a better offer in my eyes.
Personally, if you’ve made plans, stick to them
Christ, something better than you came along???!
This always for me also.
Left me waiting in a bar.
New verification the next morning “met x last night”
Cheers x "
She must've been mad... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure Ive had it happen to me, although not sure it was a better offer in my eyes.
Personally, if you’ve made plans, stick to them
Christ, something better than you came along???!
This always for me also.
Left me waiting in a bar.
New verification the next morning “met x last night”
Cheers x
She must've been mad... "
Fooking insane I'd say! Its bad enough doing that but to proudly display the veri, what a kick in the nuts. Some people have no shame, and no morals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. If you weren’t really sure about person 1, shouldn’t have agreed a meet in the first place.
We all appreciate when someone is reliable, we should give that respect in return.
Who asked first, served first.
Arrange the meet with person 2 another time. Perhaps that person will ask/respond earlier next time. Especially if you explain you made other plans. I would respect that.
Win-win for you OP, as you have the opportunity to keep the contact of both! |
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By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago
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"Is it ever acceptable to let a first offer down to take up a later, much better offer?No its not acceptable and if you do it you will be damned for the rest of your time here "
Good job I didn’t then, why dyou say it 4 times? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think people are being a bit harsh on the OP. He posed the question but actually did the decent thing, staying with his first arrangement. The woman isn’t on fab and he’s said he wouldn’t have posted if she was.
As for ‘better’, don’t you sometimes think one person will be more fun than another?"
I agree with this!
Although I wouldn’t be upset if someone cancelled a meet with me (with a decent amount of notice), in fact it’s better than having him turn up, but with his mind elsewhere |
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By *ommyxyz OP Man
over a year ago
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"Think people are being a bit harsh on the OP. He posed the question but actually did the decent thing, staying with his first arrangement. The woman isn’t on fab and he’s said he wouldn’t have posted if she was.
As for ‘better’, don’t you sometimes think one person will be more fun than another?"
Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure Ive had it happen to me, although not sure it was a better offer in my eyes.
Personally, if you’ve made plans, stick to them
Madness!  "
Hey i doubt anyone would let you down but if they did and you found out this was the reason I'm sure you wouldn't be happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id be well annoyed if I was the first option and discovered you was calling someone else s better offer.
Be careful Karma don't come along and bite you on the ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure Ive had it happen to me, although not sure it was a better offer in my eyes.
Personally, if you’ve made plans, stick to them
Madness!
Hey i doubt anyone would let you down but if they did and you found out this was the reason I'm sure you wouldn't be happy "
My post was trying to convey my surprise that the poster was ditched for a better offer. |
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