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Do Bulls Need Big Cocks?
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"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego.." This is so true  | |||
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"No. Knowing how to use your cock is more important " I disagree.... if a guy doesnt have the right attitude and assertiveness then he would not get very far. | |||
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"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware." Thanks for putting us straight | |||
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"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware. Thanks for putting us straight" they need to be bigger than the hubby right? | |||
"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware." You say that like it defines you as a person. So how does your approach differ in talking to us at a club say, because I'm pretty sure if you approached in anyway dominant as we were chatting at the bar it would be hard to suppress a giggle. As has happened on several occasions when club 'doms' have tried. So how does your approach differ as the des rption everybody has given so far has been VERY much my experience. | |||
"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware. You say that like it defines you as a person. So how does your approach differ in talking to us at a club say, because I'm pretty sure if you approached in anyway dominant as we were chatting at the bar it would be hard to suppress a giggle. As has happened on several occasions when club 'doms' have tried. So how does your approach differ as the des rption everybody has given so far has been VERY much my experience. " i know what you mean, when a dom trys to talk dom when your just buying a drink or something it sounds a bit corny | |||
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"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware. You say that like it defines you as a person. So how does your approach differ in talking to us at a club say, because I'm pretty sure if you approached in anyway dominant as we were chatting at the bar it would be hard to suppress a giggle. As has happened on several occasions when club 'doms' have tried. So how does your approach differ as the des rption everybody has given so far has been VERY much my experience. i know what you mean, when a dom trys to talk dom when your just buying a drink or something it sounds a bit corny" Exactly, and he looks like he'd get stuck between your teeth surely there have to be some physical and maturity aspects to it to be taken seriously.
It isn't our thing at all, but if the Rock came over and gave it the big one, at least there's credibility, but when Justin Bieber does it its just funny. | |||
"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware. You say that like it defines you as a person. So how does your approach differ in talking to us at a club say, because I'm pretty sure if you approached in anyway dominant as we were chatting at the bar it would be hard to suppress a giggle. As has happened on several occasions when club 'doms' have tried. So how does your approach differ as the des rption everybody has given so far has been VERY much my experience. i know what you mean, when a dom trys to talk dom when your just buying a drink or something it sounds a bit corny Exactly, and he looks like he'd get stuck between your teeth surely there have to be some physical and maturity aspects to it to be taken seriously.
It isn't our thing at all, but if the Rock came over and gave it the big one, at least there's credibility, but when Justin Bieber does it its just funny. "you just had me laughing my head off, thinking of justin trying to be all dom lol | |||
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"The absolute requirement is sexual confidence. I think that is often associated with an above average cock at least. Also a big cock unquestionably looks impressive and first impressions count. My wife’s opinion is that provided it’s a decent size-maybe 7” or so with proportionate girth- then other things are more important than sheer size. Hardness of course, physique, and the sensitivity to know when gentleness is what’s needed and when..er..hard pounding! " but she would want him to be bigger than you? | |||
"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware. You say that like it defines you as a person. So how does your approach differ in talking to us at a club say, because I'm pretty sure if you approached in anyway dominant as we were chatting at the bar it would be hard to suppress a giggle. As has happened on several occasions when club 'doms' have tried. So how does your approach differ as the des rption everybody has given so far has been VERY much my experience. i know what you mean, when a dom trys to talk dom when your just buying a drink or something it sounds a bit corny Exactly, and he looks like he'd get stuck between your teeth surely there have to be some physical and maturity aspects to it to be taken seriously.
It isn't our thing at all, but if the Rock came over and gave it the big one, at least there's credibility, but when Justin Bieber does it its just funny.
you just had me laughing my head off, thinking of justin trying to be all dom lol"But it does happen, well not the Rock or Bieber, luckily for me in one case I think, lol, and hilariously in the other. But most doms we've met, or at least claimed doms, are either l wet s say very advanced in their age, or little Bieber alike with floppy hair, even if it was what we wanted, just why | |||
"Being a bull is about presence, confidence and dominace. You could have a passive guy with a 10” and he could never be a bull, or a guy as described with an average cock and be the best bull a couples meet."  | |||
"Being a bull is about presence, confidence and dominace. You could have a passive guy with a 10” and he could never be a bull, or a guy as described with an average cock and be the best bull a couples meet. "i understand that but most in a cuck relationship want bigger guys than the male partner | |||
"I’m going to diagree here guys, ego and dominace aren’t mutually exclusive. Big ego is about arrogance and over estimating your ability. A dom bull needs confidence not arrogance, he needs to have good self awareness and know his true ability. The biggest mis conceptions and what often leads to bad experiences. Confusing arrogance for confidence, an arsehole from a dominate. Some of the nicest, most respectful, grounded, well rounded people I know, are doms. I’m a dom, I’ve been active as such for many years, but I’m also modest, respectful and self aware. You say that like it defines you as a person. So how does your approach differ in talking to us at a club say, because I'm pretty sure if you approached in anyway dominant as we were chatting at the bar it would be hard to suppress a giggle. As has happened on several occasions when club 'doms' have tried. So how does your approach differ as the des rption everybody has given so far has been VERY much my experience. i know what you mean, when a dom trys to talk dom when your just buying a drink or something it sounds a bit corny Exactly, and he looks like he'd get stuck between your teeth surely there have to be some physical and maturity aspects to it to be taken seriously.
It isn't our thing at all, but if the Rock came over and gave it the big one, at least there's credibility, but when Justin Bieber does it its just funny.
you just had me laughing my head off, thinking of justin trying to be all dom lol
But it does happen, well not the Rock or Bieber, luckily for me in one case I think, lol, and hilariously in the other. But most doms we've met, or at least claimed doms, are either l wet s say very advanced in their age, or little Bieber alike with floppy hair, even if it was what we wanted, just why "me and my ex found it hard to find the right dom as she said i look big touch and mean....in a good way | |||
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"Nobody needs a big cock. They just need to know what to do with what they've got!" not big but bigger i find is what most cuck couples want | |||
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"My exprience if dominace might differ from what some of you have experienced. My exprience is from the bdsm scene, not the swingers scene. We refer to the type of doms you are talking about as “uber doms”, I’m the domliest dom that ever dommed type. It’s not just you that laughs at them, we all do. As for how I’d approach, I’d approach you like I would anyone, friendly, respectful, with a smile and try and start a conversation. Fact is we are all people, just cause we’re in a sex club, it doesn’t mean it’s ok to speak to you any different to any other club." my ex would of loved you | |||
"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego.."  | |||
"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego.. "but dont they generally need to be bigger than the hubby? | |||
"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego..
but dont they generally need to be bigger than the hubby?"And what if hubby had a massive ten inch, really girthy cock? Does that mean they can’t be a cuck? It’s all about attitudes | |||
"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego..
but dont they generally need to be bigger than the hubby?
And what if hubby had a massive ten inch, really girthy cock? Does that mean they can’t be a cuck? It’s all about attitudes "not saying that, its just the impression i get fromt his site is that most cucks are smaller than the bulls, but i know what you mean the attitude makes the man | |||
"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego..
but dont they generally need to be bigger than the hubby?
And what if hubby had a massive ten inch, really girthy cock? Does that mean they can’t be a cuck? It’s all about attitudes
not saying that, its just the impression i get fromt his site is that most cucks are smaller than the bulls, but i know what you mean the attitude makes the man"That’s because of porn. | |||
"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego..
but dont they generally need to be bigger than the hubby?
And what if hubby had a massive ten inch, really girthy cock? Does that mean they can’t be a cuck? It’s all about attitudes
not saying that, its just the impression i get fromt his site is that most cucks are smaller than the bulls, but i know what you mean the attitude makes the man
That’s because of porn. "yeah that changes peoples perception on a lot of things to do with sex. I have never seen a small bull though | |||
"My exprience if dominace might differ from what some of you have experienced. My exprience is from the bdsm scene, not the swingers scene. We refer to the type of doms you are talking about as “uber doms”, I’m the domliest dom that ever dommed type. It’s not just you that laughs at them, we all do. As for how I’d approach, I’d approach you like I would anyone, friendly, respectful, with a smile and try and start a conversation. Fact is we are all people, just cause we’re in a sex club, it doesn’t mean it’s ok to speak to you any different to any other club." | |||
"My exprience if dominace might differ from what some of you have experienced. My exprience is from the bdsm scene, not the swingers scene. We refer to the type of doms you are talking about as “uber doms”, I’m the domliest dom that ever dommed type. It’s not just you that laughs at them, we all do. As for how I’d approach, I’d approach you like I would anyone, friendly, respectful, with a smile and try and start a conversation. Fact is we are all people, just cause we’re in a sex club, it doesn’t mean it’s ok to speak to you any different to any other club. "just imagine the rock was like that for you lol x | |||
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"I have found that in a lot of cases size does matter, but it’s actually the cuck that encourages this, again from a humiliation perspective it makes it easier. A lady will often not be too fussed (tiny cocks aside) and will hunt bigger cocks more to turn hubby on than for her own pleasure " and if the cuck is small as well | |||
"I have found that in a lot of cases size does matter, but it’s actually the cuck that encourages this, again from a humiliation perspective it makes it easier. A lady will often not be too fussed (tiny cocks aside) and will hunt bigger cocks more to turn hubby on than for her own pleasure and if the cuck is small as well" Some cucks are very well endowed, as stated earlier, I blame porn! We are always looking for the biggest or best in something, it’s the way our brains work | |||
"I have found that in a lot of cases size does matter, but it’s actually the cuck that encourages this, again from a humiliation perspective it makes it easier. A lady will often not be too fussed (tiny cocks aside) and will hunt bigger cocks more to turn hubby on than for her own pleasure and if the cuck is small as well Some cucks are very well endowed, as stated earlier, I blame porn! We are always looking for the biggest or best in something, it’s the way our brains work" when i was my ex cuck, she always wanted bigger than me | |||
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So my answer is no. It’s bit always about cock size and there is always other parts of it you can degrade him with
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"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego.." | |||
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No don’t believe humongous baguette sized cocks are a requirement | |||
"Someone needs to write a user guide on cuckold because the variety of needs and types is huge
No don’t believe humongous baguette sized cocks are a requirement "But can be a bonus in added degradation  | |||
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"Of course bulls need big cocks, yeah attitude helps but you’re not going to be a good bull if you have a 6” dick. " I agree | |||
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The again, it all depends who you’re meeting. If that’s what they’re looking for. I’d mention it from the outset.
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"Bull or Dom don't necessarily need a large cock just a massive ego.." Well said! | |||
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"Does rain need large clouds "It does if you are expecting a lot of rain | |||
"Does rain need large clouds
It does if you are expecting a lot of rain " | |||
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"For credibility a bull needs to be all man tall physically impressive and the right mental attitude. " and big cock | |||
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"For credibility a bull needs to be all man tall physically impressive and the right mental attitude. and big cock" No | |||
"For credibility a bull needs to be all man tall physically impressive and the right mental attitude. and big cock No" so concise | |||
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"For credibility a bull needs to be all man tall physically impressive and the right mental attitude. and big cock No" yes | |||
"For credibility a bull needs to be all man tall physically impressive and the right mental attitude. and big cock No" Agreed For sure when people fantasize about meeting a Bull he has to be tall and have an extra large cock. Yes it helps but over the years time and time again in my conversation with couples. Particularly cuckold couples their most common complaint was about the fact that the so called Bulls they were meeting had little to no understanding of the psychological side of cuckolding. Coming across as having a massive ego probably only helps if all the Bull is after is a single meet. I am most certainly not built in the mould of a porn star fantasy Bull but for some I am just right which is why I get my fair share of fun | |||
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