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After play

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to enjoy after play alot and often forget where i am and i spend far more time on afterplay then foreplay

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By *ndrew025Man over a year ago

west lancs

A lot of afterplay with the right person

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By *itvclaireTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes, can’t beat the feeling of after sex cuddles.

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

After play is great. Love it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not for us except with each other and I think even one to one, if I was single, from a casual sex point of view, I'd struggle with it...

that's not to say we chuck people out of the door as soon as we've done playing, we can often sit up half the night talking and laughing but kissing and cuddling isn't sonething I'm into much with anyone except the Monkey...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's not for us except with each other and I think even one to one, if I was single, from a casual sex point of view, I'd struggle with it...

Lucky monkey

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple over a year ago

Neverland

Talking, laughing and finding after for us yes but not cuddling as that's intimate and kept for us

Mrs

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's nice to chat and be held after a nice sex session but I'm only comfortable to do that with someone I know pretty well.

I once met someone who was cuddling me after which I thought was nice until he started saying things like...

I want you to be my girlfriend

Why didn't I find you before now

I want you to stay forever

I'm not going to let you go

I could love you

Tbh it freaked me out a bit!!

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By *ndrew025Man over a year ago

west lancs

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By *ndrew025Man over a year ago

west lancs

"It's nice to chat and be held after a nice sex session but I'm only comfortable to do that with someone I know pretty well.

I once met someone who was cuddling me after which I thought was nice until he started saying things like...

I want you to be my girlfriend

Why didn't I find you before now

I want you to stay forever

I'm not going to let you go

I could love you

Tbh it freaked me out a bit!!"

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's nice to chat and be held after a nice sex session but I'm only comfortable to do that with someone I know pretty well.

I once met someone who was cuddling me after which I thought was nice until he started saying things like...

I want you to be my girlfriend

Why didn't I find you before now

I want you to stay forever

I'm not going to let you go

I could love you

Tbh it freaked me out a bit!!"

Is freak out too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, can’t beat the feeling of after sex cuddles.

This

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

With my husband, yes.

On a meet no, I don't like being cuddled on a meet. I am happy to lay beside them, chat n laugh, but no cuddling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"With my husband, yes.

On a meet no, I don't like being cuddled on a meet. I am happy to lay beside them, chat n laugh, but no cuddling."

Why no cuddling ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah why not! I’ll stroke your hair and you rub your fingers through my chest rug

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

Ooh I love after play snuggling and cuddles - it often leads to round 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah why not! I’ll stroke your hair and you rub your fingers through my chest rug

Sure why not

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By *inkynudeMan over a year ago

London

Nothing like a drink and a snack after sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nothing like a drink and a snack after sex

True

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

As soon as I've cum I usually cut straight to the sandwiches and haribo tbh.

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By *irtySekretsCouple over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Although we love kissing during sex with others. Having a cuddle and kiss afterwards is strictly reserved for between us both.

Sex is sex.

Cuddling and kissing is intimate emotion. Never the two will mix

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As soon as I've cum I usually cut straight to the sandwiches and haribo tbh."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not very often. I get dressed and go home usually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I absolutely adore after play. I'm a very tactile person.

Sometimes that second orgasm for a guy is even more intense so it's great to instigate that without necessarily having sex again.

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Prefer a chat and chill post play but depends on the meet and person.

Had one where can after playing snogged and chatted then fell asleep wrapped up in each other. Slept for a bit, another play. Same again. He left the next evening.

Only saw him the once but was delightful

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Prefer a chat and chill post play but depends on the meet and person.

Had one where can after playing snogged and chatted then fell asleep wrapped up in each other. Slept for a bit, another play. Same again. He left the next evening.

Only saw him the once but was delightful

Sounds sensual

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By *addyAndKitten9Couple over a year ago

Oxfordshire

"After-play" for us with another couple or singles would just be having a drink and chatting about our experiences? A social I suppose?

Between us personally, "after-care" is a big thing. So when it's just the two of us we go over stuff, we're open about our feelings/what we enjoyed/didn't/felt comfortable with/or not and then do our best to emotionally connect with one another and show our love for each other. There's obviously some physicality, sometimes sexual, more often just of the connecting variety.

I say this because I can't imagine the two crossing over, but maybe that's specific to couples who don't have a poly nature?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont mind laying , chatting with some touching. I also dont mind cuddling up with my regular girl but I have been seeing her for 3 years, but I don't really like cuddling guys. I save the cuddling for my guy as generally after I want to feel close to him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""After-play" for us with another couple or singles would just be having a drink and chatting about our experiences? A social I suppose?

I say this because I can't imagine the two crossing over, but maybe that's specific to couples who don't have a poly nature?"

Exactly what we do

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman over a year ago

St Helens

Do like the after-play. Laughing and joking, stroking, spooning and cuddling. Chilling and resting. Then you go again! Normally after-play leads to more-play which is a good thing!

Luckily I've met guys here who do that for a bit.

I once dated a guy on here for a month last year that read poetry to me and played the guitar for me. Loved that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?"

We personally love the holding afterwards normally when in a foursome we would all do that on the same bed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s something that I love afterwards. It tends to be much more intimate when it’s hubby but I do love the post sex gentle exploration of each other’s lips and bodies. It can lead onto round two perfectly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love lying together and chatting after an initial fuck. All the pre match nerves are gone and both of us are fully relaxed. It often leads to a much more intense and passionate round 2!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not for us except with each other and I think even one to one, if I was single, from a casual sex point of view, I'd struggle with it...

that's not to say we chuck people out of the door as soon as we've done

playing, we can often sit up half the night talking and laughing but kissing and cuddling isn't sonething I'm into much with anyone except the Monkey...

Spot on, same for us too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s something that I love afterwards. It tends to be much more intimate when it’s hubby but I do love the post sex gentle exploration of each other’s lips and bodies. It can lead onto round two perfectly"

Sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?"
I'd freak if someone wanted this on a meet if I'm honest. I have laid a little way from people and chatted but would normally feel very awkward.

Hence I don't do private meets as it wouldn't be done to lay there after in a club

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Booooooriiing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We do, it’s a really important part of it for us.

Not so much if we’re just having vanilla sex, although we do cuddle afterwards, but when it comes to our kinky sessions, depending on what we’ve been up to L can sometimes go into shock, so it’s important that I pay attention and do what’s needed to get her ‘back in the room’ and feeling tip top again

M x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on the interaction, the feel of the meet and how many times we’ve met, sometimes like..

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By *lceeWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah, definitely one for afterplay. That usually tirns into foreplay again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be quite honest as soon as I cum I hate the bastard's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?"

I would only do that with Cee!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Loads of good feedback

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By *ajorwetMan over a year ago

poole

After play often leads to forplay.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love snuggling and are happy to make it a snuggle pile if that's what's wanted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah why not! I’ll stroke your hair and you rub your fingers through my chest rug

Sure why not

"
come on then I’m waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah why not! I’ll stroke your hair and you rub your fingers through my chest rug

Sure why not

come on then I’m waiting

Have you waited long enough?

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By *arnsley guy100Man over a year ago

Sheffield

Zip n go...... Preferably to weatherspoons for a mixed grill and a pint.

Man needs to refuel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah why not! I’ll stroke your hair and you rub your fingers through my chest rug

Sure why not

come on then I’m waiting

Have you waited long enough?"
it’s been ages!!

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By *eyooooMan over a year ago

London

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By *earded GentlemanMan over a year ago

Merseyside

As a single guy with a single woman yes deffo after play , cuddles and kisses and sometimes give the lady slow sensual oral (after sex with condom ofc) . With a couple i gues it's in the moment an if they are doing after play with you sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah why not! I’ll stroke your hair and you rub your fingers through my chest rug

Sure why not

come on then I’m waiting

Have you waited long enough? it’s been ages!!

Far to long

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or want to leave really quickly

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By *bsinthe_boyMan over a year ago

Luton

I will always offer to cuddle or snuggle with a lady after. I'll also ensure she's happy to. Finish because I'm well aware that even with lots of foreplay and sex, she might be in need of more attention. I'll also offer tea or coffee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will always offer to cuddle or snuggle with a lady after. I'll also ensure she's happy to. Finish because I'm well aware that even with lots of foreplay and sex, she might be in need of more attention. I'll also offer tea or coffee. "

Sounds lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's nice to chat and be held after a nice sex session but I'm only comfortable to do that with someone I know pretty well.

I once met someone who was cuddling me after which I thought was nice until he started saying things like...

I want you to be my girlfriend

Why didn't I find you before now

I want you to stay forever

I'm not going to let you go

I could love you

Tbh it freaked me out a bit!!"

I had this with a guy I was really keen on. If I were single, I’d have loved it but I’m married and he already has a gf so it was a red flag.

I haven’t seen him again to save both our hearts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?"
yes snuggle up kiss sleep mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After sex I want Mr in me again. Not necessarily for sex again....Just love the feeling that he's in me and love him kissing my boobs and just touching and kissing me in general x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah why not! I’ll stroke your hair and you rub your fingers through my chest rug

Sure why not

come on then I’m waiting

Have you waited long enough? it’s been ages!!

Far to long

"
Hows the price of the ryan air tickets looking this time of year?

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I only have the cuddly stuff with someone I have been seeing a while - all wrong otherwise. Cuddles are intimate, not for fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only have the cuddly stuff with someone I have been seeing a while - all wrong otherwise. Cuddles are intimate, not for fab."
not for you maybe but for many others they are

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

It would depend on who it was and where it was. For a club meet, no. With someone you've built a friendship up with too, as I do with meets, then yes. But everyone has their own preferences x

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I only have the cuddly stuff with someone I have been seeing a while - all wrong otherwise. Cuddles are intimate, not for fab.not for you maybe but for many others they are "

Well yes, that is the whole point of a forum, to voice our own opinions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i like a kit kat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After play?

We call that,going home.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Polite handshake, verbal thanks and wipe my cock on the curtains on the way out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A nice spooning session, some talk which generally leads to another round

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By *eakcoupleCouple over a year ago

peak district

It's nice to have a cuddle and chat afterwards, rather than just go off in separate directions. Then have another round!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A nice spooning session, some talk which generally leads to another round

Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?"

Yup, just laying there with legs and bodies entwined, lots of stroking and the odd kiss here and there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does wiping your cock in her Laura Ashley curtains count as ‘After play’ ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah. Need a bit of a wind down. Would be a bit abrupt to boot or be booted straight out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually whisper in her ear ‘It’s your fucking turn to stick the kettle on, I made tea last time.’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I usually whisper in her ear ‘It’s your fucking turn to stick the kettle on, I made tea last time.’"

Last time!

#nevermeettwice!

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By *imits2pushMan over a year ago

lichfield

There’s two ways I see this from.

I wouldn’t play with anyone I don’t want to be friends with, so I’ll want to hang out with them afterwards.

Also, for those that partake in bdsm, aftercare is massively important and those that don’t do it, are seen as being abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Q
"I usually whisper in her ear ‘It’s your fucking turn to stick the kettle on, I made tea last time.’

Last time!

#nevermeettwice!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After Play is all lazing around nude with a cuppa dunking Hobnobs and talking about allsorts of crap ! we love it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"After Play is all lazing around nude with a cuppa dunking Hobnobs and talking about allsorts of crap ! we love it x

Oh hobnobs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After Play is all lazing around nude with a cuppa dunking Hobnobs and talking about allsorts of crap ! we love it x

Oh hobnobs

Cheese on Toast on weekends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""After-play" for us with another couple or singles would just be having a drink and chatting about our experiences? A social I suppose?

I say this because I can't imagine the two crossing over, but maybe that's specific to couples who don't have a poly nature?"

This exactly. We call it the reclaiming. It’s for us to re connect as a couple and is very very important.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"After Play is all lazing around nude with a cuppa dunking Hobnobs and talking about allsorts of crap ! we love it x

Oh hobnobs

Cheese on Toast on weekends

Add some ham and I'm game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That after, talking laughing just looking into each other's eyes and smiling head resting on my chest and feeling the moment....

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By *etal MickeyMan over a year ago

Blackpool

My very first meet high fived me!

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By *veready69Man over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

Love to cuddle between rounds. What else wou you do? Go to opposite corners of the bed until the bell rings? Never had a meet without a cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *imandHer69rCouple over a year ago

Banbury

Another vote for after sex cuddles here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Another vote for after sex cuddles here! "
with each other or meets.. ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Scrabble or rummy cup it's the only way

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By *cottishcockMan over a year ago

glasgow

I love to be kissed cuddled after sex too, sit inside her/him after i have came.

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By *otts PervsCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

We love the whole after play part, it basically accentuates our preferred means of play. Nothing puts us off more than someone literally finishing and walking off.

Mrs J especially loves sensuality so being stroked and kissed and hugged is a sure fire winner, and a ticket for more play to follow.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Scrabble or rummy cup it's the only way

I hate scrabble

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After Play is all lazing around nude with a cuppa dunking Hobnobs and talking about allsorts of crap ! we love it x

Oh hobnobs

Cheese on Toast on weekends

Add some ham and I'm game

Oh go on then, Ham it is, just for you

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends on the type of play, however holding a safe place to come down to is so important. It closes a sensual loop

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By *ensualgent38Man over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

With a couple, it’s great to sit and chat, whether it’s about Fab or sex or life. Chilled adults enjoying pleasure shared.

If I’m with a lady friend, just the same, but it’s lovely to have her head on my chest, stroking each other and enjoying the warmth of each other’s bodies, before it’s time for round two.

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By *ngelsdevilWoman over a year ago

Merseyside

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?"

Yes! Love this part, I have to be kicked out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m a snuggler and a snogger.

Unless i’m told to feck off.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?"

Can't imagine the male half of a couple would like the single guy who they've just played with snuggling with his Mrs

. So for some it will be important and others not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Much has been discussed about foreplay, but rarely do I come across any discussions on after play. Isn't this as relevant as foreplay to feel connected to the person you are seeing.

Does anyone spend as much time on after play as you do on fore play? Not heavy petting as in foreplay, but snuggling, kissing, holding and caressing quite enthusiastically?

Can't imagine the male half of a couple would like the single guy who they've just played with snuggling with his Mrs

. So for some it will be important and others not. "

I couldn't either

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By *horecruxCouple over a year ago

SE4

You mean a smoke and back tickles !

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

When I look back at the last relationship I had, it was the after-loves that made it more than just fucking.....

Never what I signed up for

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By *oungalpha20Man over a year ago

North West /Cumbria

Think most have (pillow talk) After play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah, definitely one for afterplay. That usually tirns into foreplay again."

Mmm

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

I love the snuggling in, gentle kisses, holding each other close, both totally spent. Only happens with some that I play with. Depends on how cuddly the guy is usually. I love being wrapped up in their arms and held.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's nice to chat and be held after a nice sex session but I'm only comfortable to do that with someone I know pretty well.

I once met someone who was cuddling me after which I thought was nice until he started saying things like...

I want you to be my girlfriend

Why didn't I find you before now

I want you to stay forever

I'm not going to let you go

I could love you

Tbh it freaked me out a bit!!"

I'd head a bit too much to drink. Soz

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's nice to chat and be held after a nice sex session but I'm only comfortable to do that with someone I know pretty well.

I once met someone who was cuddling me after which I thought was nice until he started saying things like...

I want you to be my girlfriend

Why didn't I find you before now

I want you to stay forever

I'm not going to let you go

I could love you

Tbh it freaked me out a bit!!

I'd head a bit too much to drink. Soz

So funny

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