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"How many people have you had sexual encounters with? I'm going to stick my neck out here and say I genuinely can't remember. I've been swinging over 5 years, and I started my sexual life at minimum legal age so they have added up a little. I also find that I remember the really good ones, and the really bad ones, but anyone who is mediocre, then they can fade in my memory bank a little, sorry to anyone who was mediocre " Wow! What a question. I’m ancient so I need to think back. I was rather promiscuous as a teenager, grew up on a West London council estate so not much else to do other than shag. Worked in retail in the west end for a while which was real fun. I married young so things came to a shuddering halt for many years. Started dating again in my fifties and must admit to the odd dalliance during my marriage as traveled quite a bit. So, I can’t really put a figure on it. More than Cliff Richard, less than Mick Jagger. | |||
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"Sexual encounters...unsure. Number of unique partners? Triple figures, I know that much, but I lost count after I hit 100. I’d say about 150/160 altogether. It’s not as though I’m particularly active (and I really rather enjoy group play)." Girl after my own heart | |||
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"8" Sorry. Should've stipulated that's a guess. I don't count these things at all. It's the number I came up with from dredging the recesses of my mind | |||
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"Just the 1. It's the main reason I'm here " Good place to get experience x | |||
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"How many people have you had sexual encounters with? I'm going to stick my neck out here and say I genuinely can't remember. I've been swinging over 5 years, and I started my sexual life at minimum legal age so they have added up a little. I also find that I remember the really good ones, and the really bad ones, but anyone who is mediocre, then they can fade in my memory bank a little, sorry to anyone who was mediocre " 13 or 14 i think most as a horny teen but i listened and learned well | |||
"It’s kind of difficult to work it out, I lost track at about 35 (partners, not years of age) I don’t think it’s much above 40 now. Is it really bad that I don’t remember?! " Not at all, it makes me feel a whole load better | |||
"How many people have you had sexual encounters with? I'm going to stick my neck out here and say I genuinely can't remember. I've been swinging over 5 years, and I started my sexual life at minimum legal age so they have added up a little. I also find that I remember the really good ones, and the really bad ones, but anyone who is mediocre, then they can fade in my memory bank a little, sorry to anyone who was mediocre 13 or 14 i think most as a horny teen but i listened and learned well " 4 off here so far now form a line girls im coming | |||
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"It’s kind of difficult to work it out, I lost track at about 35 (partners, not years of age) I don’t think it’s much above 40 now. Is it really bad that I don’t remember?! " Isnt that what they call being just a number..... yep thats bad | |||
"How many people have you had sexual encounters with? I'm going to stick my neck out here and say I genuinely can't remember. I've been swinging over 5 years, and I started my sexual life at minimum legal age so they have added up a little. I also find that I remember the really good ones, and the really bad ones, but anyone who is mediocre, then they can fade in my memory bank a little, sorry to anyone who was mediocre 13 or 14 i think most as a horny teen but i listened and learned well 4 off here so far now form a line girls im coming " Good man, I like a success story on here, instead of single men moaning they can't get meets. You'll still always be a PPSFT to me though | |||
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"How many people have you had sexual encounters with? I'm going to stick my neck out here and say I genuinely can't remember. I've been swinging over 5 years, and I started my sexual life at minimum legal age so they have added up a little. I also find that I remember the really good ones, and the really bad ones, but anyone who is mediocre, then they can fade in my memory bank a little, sorry to anyone who was mediocre " | |||
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"How many people have you had sexual encounters with? I'm going to stick my neck out here and say I genuinely can't remember. I've been swinging over 5 years, and I started my sexual life at minimum legal age so they have added up a little. I also find that I remember the really good ones, and the really bad ones, but anyone who is mediocre, then they can fade in my memory bank a little, sorry to anyone who was mediocre 13 or 14 i think most as a horny teen but i listened and learned well 4 off here so far now form a line girls im coming Good man, I like a success story on here, instead of single men moaning they can't get meets. You'll still always be a PPSFT to me though " And you my sfsf | |||
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"I've never counted but it's in double figures" So that's between 10 and 99, I'm guessing 98 | |||
"I stopped counting a long long time ago " Now that's what I like to see | |||
"No more than 15." Lots of plans to increase I hope though | |||
"No more than 15. Lots of plans to increase I hope though " I'm too picky lol | |||
"No more than 15. Lots of plans to increase I hope though I'm too picky lol " Me too, but there are quite a few gems on here. | |||
"No more than 15. Lots of plans to increase I hope though I'm too picky lol Me too, but there are quite a few gems on here." I need to do more searching | |||
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"Cor! For swingers, some of you have surprisingly low numbers. But it's not a competition is it? No idea but about 50 " think many won't say as fear being branded a slut | |||
"Cor! For swingers, some of you have surprisingly low numbers. But it's not a competition is it? No idea but about 50 " No it's certainly not a competition. Nothing about swinging should be a competition, it should just be fun | |||
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"About 55-60 can’t really remember.... can name about 35 of them lol" Over 100 i know that! | |||
"I got more fingers than fucks " that's a good answer | |||
"I’ve been on this planet a long time and have trouble remembering what i had for breakfast yesterday let alone sexual encounters " | |||
"Oh my , what a question ! I’ve probably had sexual relations with 200 people , as in direct physical contact with them . My wife has had the same with well over 1,500 people , and all but a few have been since we started swinging seven years ago . Our first account all that time ago had over 500 verifications in a year , we liked clubs and group sex back then . Our second racked up the same in a couple of years , but we met loads more as we were more into parties and dogging so just as many weren’t on fab . This time we’ve calmed down and don’t ask for veris , still meeting way more people than our veri summary shows . Maybe that’s why we are a bit jaded by it all now ." Jaded makes it sound sad. Sated maybe? | |||
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"No more than 15." Impressive | |||
"How many people have you had sexual encounters with? " Hadn't really thought about it. Tried to cast my memory back. It's about 40 - I may have forgotten a few. | |||
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"I don’t know for sure, I’m guessing around the 20-25 mark." awwww that's very refined I think | |||
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"I must be fussy. 14." That's my problem | |||
"I stopped counting a long long time ago Now that's what I like to see " I had a very misspent youth, when it past my age I stopped! | |||
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"People count really omg....... Do you know names of all? " I did until about 5 years ago but we lost the list! | |||
"People count really omg....... Do you know names of all? I did until about 5 years ago but we lost the list!" Oooooo the Lil black book | |||
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"People count really omg....... Do you know names of all? I did until about 5 years ago but we lost the list!Oooooo the Lil black book " Kind of lol. Names, places etc etc. Pretty gutted we lost it. | |||
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"My ex was an escort and worked at R3tro Club. Embarassed to put here lol" why would you be embarrassed... And isn't it her place to put her count | |||
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"I read somewhere that women are more likely to remember exactly how many sexual partners they have had but men always go for a higher figure because they can only vaguely remember " not a hope here of remembering how many. I'm guilty of not even remembering someone. Once had a guy say hello in a club. Seemed nice enough and quite friendly. Asked my then partner who he was and apparently I'd played with him previously | |||
"I read somewhere that women are more likely to remember exactly how many sexual partners they have had but men always go for a higher figure because they can only vaguely remember " That's because women remember *everything* | |||
"People count really omg....... Do you know names of all? " I know the names of every person I have slept with because I don’t have intercourse with just anyone. I know seems crazy for a swinger, but takes a lot for me to do more than soft play. I started young and I started swinging at 21 but I’ve only had sex with 6 swingers. Soft play is my thing | |||
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"My ex was an escort and worked at R3tro Club. Embarassed to put here lol" Did you pull her by telling her you was 29 | |||
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"People count really omg....... Do you know names of all? " I don't have a clue on names or numbers, but hey, this is a swinging site after all, I'm here to enjoy and make the most of it | |||
"I read somewhere that women are more likely to remember exactly how many sexual partners they have had but men always go for a higher figure because they can only vaguely remember That's because women remember *everything* " My memory doesn't, worse than a broken seive is mine | |||
"I used to keep a list, but stopped when I found it actually made me feel guilty because I knew exactly how many people i’d been with and the whole slut-shaming thing got to me. So i binned the list and the guilt went with it . I stopped counting around the 50 mark. Have to say i’m surprised how low some people’s numbers are, with it being a swinging site and all. " We are surprised at how low some of the numbers are too , but then so many on here are happy to say they aren’t swingers . And this who are will quickly say that it’s all about quality over quantity , and it’s up to us how we use the site . The same people are quick to berate the fact that they can’t find anyone worth shagging , and maybe they set the bar too high . Which of course is true , but who am I to criticise people’s choices ? For us , swinging has always been about fun , whether that be one on one , or groups , or anything else that tickles our fancy . Young , old , fat ,or thin , traditionally fit as fuck , or not so attractive - everyone at a certain time has something about them which appeals . Yes , we can say this because we’ve had and done it all ! Regrets ? Nope , none . We have never complained that there’s no one that takes our fancy , or that it’s always about quality over quantity . Nor will we , because we are not supermodels way too far up our own arses to lower ourselves to anyone’s supposed level . We are just like anyone else out there . Nothing special , but fun nonetheless . So our numbers are high compared to most , but we will never regret what we DIDN’T do , or be short of a suitable meet when we want one . | |||
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"Are these like the numbers you see on football shirts? -Note to self, really must pay more attention " It's Swinger Top Trumps... | |||
"Are these like the numbers you see on football shirts? -Note to self, really must pay more attention It's Swinger Top Trumps..." Where do I get the cards from -Pah what amateurs -don't they know you never win by just using one attribute/ catagory | |||
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