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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I no most of the people on this Site do not like people who play away so if your a hater please leave now.
Over the weekend i had the possibility of two meets :D but how ever one of them. was just after i got back in from been out all night so could not think of another reason to get out.
Other was Sunday night but the other half was up and watching tv so i could not just leave the house.
so to you of those who do play away how do you mange to get out for meets?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hmmm very true. mite have try book a hotel one night and see if any one wants to come round.
but then id get the qustion to why im staying in a hotel lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i have still yet to go two a club am quite interested to what happens there apart from the obvious. how ever been shy i would probs not talk and just end up watching all the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its finding the time to get away from the other half to go or are they on in the day time "
maybe u should be asking yourself some questions at the age of 23, why you are on swinging site and not spending time with your missus? ( not a dig just a legit questions) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its finding the time to get away from the other half to go or are they on in the day time
maybe u should be asking yourself some questions at the age of 23, why you are on swinging site and not spending time with your missus? ( not a dig just a legit questions)"
thats quite a easy one 
even though i am only young the idea of swinging and meeting up with like minded people for fun and laughts seems a great way to spend my weekend.
Rather than going out and weeing it all down the wall or been sick every were.
I also get a buzz from meeting people i would not normaly meet for sex.
i have tryed to get the gf to come around to the idea but it looks like i have to play this one alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no she does not no. know one apart from this great sites knows
and thanks for the times "
at 23 i was going out clubbing and drinking having fun and the odd night in bed or out
swinging was here and always has been but sometimes going clubbing ans dancing was all that!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Playing away! lol I cant even play at home anymore since the baliffs towed the caravan from under my nose.
TENT FUN ladies perhaps?  "
too dam cold and drafty  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no she does not no. know one apart from this great sites knows
and thanks for the times
at 23 i was going out clubbing and drinking having fun and the odd night in bed or out
swinging was here and always has been but sometimes going clubbing ans dancing was all that!!!"
i have never really been into the club sence i dunno why i guess because im only a short lad i feel out of place lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Playing away! lol I cant even play at home anymore since the baliffs towed the caravan from under my nose.
TENT FUN ladies perhaps?
too dam cold and drafty "
I dont no its all me me me me me me me with you aint it!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Playing away! lol I cant even play at home anymore since the baliffs towed the caravan from under my nose.
TENT FUN ladies perhaps?
too dam cold and drafty
I dont no its all me me me me me me me with you aint it! "
when its bastard cold and wet YES |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no she does not no. know one apart from this great sites knows
and thanks for the times
at 23 i was going out clubbing and drinking having fun and the odd night in bed or out
swinging was here and always has been but sometimes going clubbing ans dancing was all that!!!
i have never really been into the club sence i dunno why i guess because im only a short lad i feel out of place lol "
so u thought u would try swinging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"no she does not no. know one apart from this great sites knows
and thanks for the times
at 23 i was going out clubbing and drinking having fun and the odd night in bed or out
swinging was here and always has been but sometimes going clubbing ans dancing was all that!!!
i have never really been into the club sence i dunno why i guess because im only a short lad i feel out of place lol
so u thought u would try swinging "
yes as i do enjoy sex but dont really seem to find girls who enjoy it or want to try as much as me |
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people."
How nice of you to help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
How nice of you to help."
people are trying to get me still come and my names on the blooming list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
How nice of you to help.
people are trying to get me still come and my names on the blooming list"
I will come with ya so long as you dont dis my crib again hun. YEAH THATS RIGHT TENTS HAVE FEELINGS TOO YA NO!  |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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I also get a buzz from meeting people i would not normaly meet for sex.
i have tryed to get the gf to come around to the idea but it looks like i have to play this one alone "
If you really feel this way and, at 23 you are prepared to cheat,.......
Me thinks you are in the wrong relationship and at 23, there is no reason why you should stay (unless she is pregnant!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also get a buzz from meeting people i would not normaly meet for sex.
i have tryed to get the gf to come around to the idea but it looks like i have to play this one alone
If you really feel this way and, at 23 you are prepared to cheat,.......
Me thinks you are in the wrong relationship and at 23, there is no reason why you should stay (unless she is pregnant!!!!! "
I thought that.
OP, if you don't have it in you to find plausable ways to deceive your g/f then perhaps you aren't cut out to be a cheat? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I also get a buzz from meeting people i would not normaly meet for sex.
i have tryed to get the gf to come around to the idea but it looks like i have to play this one alone
If you really feel this way and, at 23 you are prepared to cheat,.......
Me thinks you are in the wrong relationship and at 23, there is no reason why you should stay (unless she is pregnant!!!!! "
Nope not pregnant thanks god. Apart from the sex life. The rest of the realtionship is quite good we never fight or fall out |
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think you need to look at whats more important to you .your relationship or you getting your "buzz". you mayfind very quickly you wont have to worry about getting out to meet as youll be on your own and only have yourself to please . |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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I also get a buzz from meeting people i would not normaly meet for sex.
i have tryed to get the gf to come around to the idea but it looks like i have to play this one alone
If you really feel this way and, at 23 you are prepared to cheat,.......
Me thinks you are in the wrong relationship and at 23, there is no reason why you should stay (unless she is pregnant!!!!!
Nope not pregnant thanks god. Apart from the sex life. The rest of the realtionship is quite good we never fight or fall out "
Quite good?
Quite good?
Are you one of those men who can't bare to be alone?
Or are you just too chicken to dump a relationship where, at 23, your sex life is crap and the rest is only ... QUITE good?
If you feel like this now...... imagine you and her together in 20 years time!
If that don't make you think....... grow a pair and get out of a relationship that is seeing you cheat and will make her bloody miserable when she does find out. |
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people."
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol"
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - you make me laugh - sorry but 'we never fight or fall out' - and just how would YOU feel if you found out SHE was on a swing site cos she thought her sex life boring? I was never going to be horrid on the forums but - SORRY - your post and following comments make me feel nothing but sympathy for your poor girlfriend.....
Break it off
Go swinging as a single
Let her find a decent, honest guy.... |
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"Arhh I see the hatred are all here again.
And back some people I have been this way no matter what realtionship I have been on happy or unhappy."
Oh, if you've always been that way then that's fine! But, seriously, how would you really feel if you found out your girlfriend was on a swingers site? Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I no most of the people on this Site do not like people who play away so if your a hater please leave now.
Over the weekend i had the possibility of two meets :D but how ever one of them. was just after i got back in from been out all night so could not think of another reason to get out.
Other was Sunday night but the other half was up and watching tv so i could not just leave the house.
so to you of those who do play away how do you mange to get out for meets?
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this is a serious reply by the way not a dig at all
but have you tried talking to your partner about this, see if she may like to join you, that way you can go on meets together and you dont need to find an excuse to leave the house alone |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I no most of the people on this Site do not like people who play away so if your a hater please leave now.
Over the weekend i had the possibility of two meets :D but how ever one of them. was just after i got back in from been out all night so could not think of another reason to get out.
Other was Sunday night but the other half was up and watching tv so i could not just leave the house.
so to you of those who do play away how do you mange to get out for meets?
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Before I start, I don't care what people do with their life, if married people want to play away it is up to them as long as they don't involve us.
But is this thread seriously asking other people for tips on how to get away from the wife for sex? You seriously want tips on how to decieve your wife??
I think I have heard it all now. |
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" this is a serious reply by the way not a dig at all
but have you tried talking to your partner about this, see if she may like to join you, that way you can go on meets together and you dont need to find an excuse to leave the house alone"
Is the answer...
a) if she don't enjoy sex with me, I'm certainly not letting her enjoy it with someone else.
b)you don't go out with women who will come on sites like this.
c) do couples actually talk about that sort of stuff... I wouldn't dare talk about stuff like that.
d) something else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I no most of the people on this Site do not like people who play away so if your a hater please leave now.
Over the weekend i had the possibility of two meets :D but how ever one of them. was just after i got back in from been out all night so could not think of another reason to get out.
Other was Sunday night but the other half was up and watching tv so i could not just leave the house.
so to you of those who do play away how do you mange to get out for meets?
this is a serious reply by the way not a dig at all
but have you tried talking to your partner about this, see if she may like to join you, that way you can go on meets together and you dont need to find an excuse to leave the house alone"
Maybe he is one of those guys who don't like to share his girl happy and contented that she is at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" this is a serious reply by the way not a dig at all
but have you tried talking to your partner about this, see if she may like to join you, that way you can go on meets together and you dont need to find an excuse to leave the house alone
Is the answer...
a) if she don't enjoy sex with me, I'm certainly not letting her enjoy it with someone else.
b)you don't go out with women who will come on sites like this.
c) do couples actually talk about that sort of stuff... I wouldn't dare talk about stuff like that.
d) something else"
i know there are lots of guys out there who even tho they are happy to fuck someone elses wife would never let anyone touch theirs and think their mrs is just there to have their dinner ready for them when they get home
but
some genuinely just do not know how to approach the subject in fear of their wifes flippping out at the thought of her fella wanting to shag another woman but would happily swing as a couple if their wifes was up for it
just trying to find out which one he is lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Arhh I see the hatred are all here again.
And back some people I have been this way no matter what realtionship I have been on happy or unhappy."
Really selling yourself here champ! And I am one of those horrible people who don't really care who is married or not. However, your posts show a lack of maturity that is not attractive. I know you won't really care, but I won't be helping you cheat. Soz! |
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"I no most of the people on this Site do not like people who play away so if your a hater please leave now.
Over the weekend i had the possibility of two meets :D but how ever one of them. was just after i got back in from been out all night so could not think of another reason to get out.
Other was Sunday night but the other half was up and watching tv so i could not just leave the house.
so to you of those who do play away how do you mange to get out for meets?
this is a serious reply by the way not a dig at all
but have you tried talking to your partner about this, see if she may like to join you, that way you can go on meets together and you dont need to find an excuse to leave the house alone
Maybe he is one of those guys who don't like to share his girl happy and contented that she is at home."
lol -but is she? What's good for the goose is good for the gander - or vice versa in this case! The OP's wife is great fun and loves coming round to ours for a bit of fun! Z |
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"its finding the time to get away from the other half to go or are they on in the day time
maybe u should be asking yourself some questions at the age of 23, why you are on swinging site and not spending time with your missus? ( not a dig just a legit questions)
thats quite a easy one
even though i am only young the idea of swinging and meeting up with like minded people for fun and laughts seems a great way to spend my weekend.
Rather than going out and weeing it all down the wall or been sick every were.
I also get a buzz from meeting people i would not normaly meet for sex.
i have tryed to get the gf to come around to the idea but it looks like i have to play this one alone "
your 23,seriously think about the choices you are making and the life you are setting out for yourself.If swinging appeals that much,why are you with someone who has no interest?Why arent you exploring sexual fantasies together,what have you done to excite your girl friend.
im not a hater,tbh your post just makes me very very sad  |
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!"
2pm on a Sunday! What happened to the sunday roast! Followed by a kip and then the footie!
Monday off! Most important day of the week for getting ready for Friday and Saturday! There's the strictly results to look forward to as well!
Party night is Saturday! Shout louder and demand the party on a Saturday. What kind of a party organiser are you?
lol
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!"
"Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity."
Heaven forbid that some one who maybe be bi might look at them and want to immediately jump them! Wow! So many irisistable people about!
No means no!
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!
2pm on a Sunday! What happened to the sunday roast! Followed by a kip and then the footie!
Monday off! Most important day of the week for getting ready for Friday and Saturday! There's the strictly results to look forward to as well!
Party night is Saturday! Shout louder and demand the party on a Saturday. What kind of a party organiser are you?
lol
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Well sunday has worked perfectly for the last three years and the 500+ people that attend each time. Guess you dont want us to add your name to the list then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!"
to be honest i think sunday nighst the best night for the socials anyway
i wouldnt want a social on a saturday as i feel socials should be open to all and having it on a saturday night would exculde singles |
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!
"Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity."
Heaven forbid that some one who maybe be bi might look at them and want to immediately jump them! Wow! So many irisistable people about!
No means no!
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So take away one of the few nights bi men can comfortably play
The club scene is homophobic enough without that...no might mean no,but maybe its about creating an atmosphere where people feel comfortable saying yes!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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To all who asked if I found her on a site like this I would be very happy. But I.no this is not the case.
And also I would be very happy to share and let others enjoy her. I have even said if she's out and likes some one she can get there number and go meet up with them of she wishes to see of she enjoys it but I got a bog fat no.
And two the abcd qustion its got to be c |
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!
2pm on a Sunday! What happened to the sunday roast! Followed by a kip and then the footie!
Monday off! Most important day of the week for getting ready for Friday and Saturday! There's the strictly results to look forward to as well!
Party night is Saturday! Shout louder and demand the party on a Saturday. What kind of a party organiser are you?
lol
Well sunday has worked perfectly for the last three years and the 500+ people that attend each time. Guess you dont want us to add your name to the list then "
500 in Chams? Must be standing room only in the carpark! Is there room for coaches?
Hate to think of the squeeze in the tubs! No water left at all! All those fingers in the snacks! |
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!
"Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity."
Heaven forbid that some one who maybe be bi might look at them and want to immediately jump them! Wow! So many irisistable people about!
No means no!
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Like _adchick said you can always organise one if you don't like it and the parties are always great thanks to all the time and effort this lovely lady puts in. You'll rarely find chams busier than at the parties |
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"To all who asked if I found her on a site like this I would be very happy. But I.no this is not the case.
And also I would be very happy to share and let others enjoy her. I have even said if she's out and likes some one she can get there number and go meet up with them of she wishes to see of she enjoys it but I got a bog fat no.
And two the abcd qustion its got to be c "
Then she is not the one for you,grow a pair and stop settling for ok,before you find you are 50 and hating each other,
Every post you put up just makes me sadder |
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!
2pm on a Sunday! What happened to the sunday roast! Followed by a kip and then the footie!
Monday off! Most important day of the week for getting ready for Friday and Saturday! There's the strictly results to look forward to as well!
Party night is Saturday! Shout louder and demand the party on a Saturday. What kind of a party organiser are you?
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Well sunday has worked perfectly for the last three years and the 500+ people that attend each time. Guess you dont want us to add your name to the list then
500 in Chams? Must be standing room only in the carpark! Is there room for coaches?
Hate to think of the squeeze in the tubs! No water left at all! All those fingers in the snacks!"
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"Bbw party on 20th Nov and pussy party 4th Dec just add your name to guest lists both at chameleons and come say hi going to be fun great way to socialise and meet new people.
I have to ask why Sunday nights? For some here it's probably bath night before school and after they've been to church! Not forgetting its a day of rest!
lol
Because Monday's is Bi-night and not everyone wants to mix with the Bisexual fraternity.
Tues/Wed/Thu is mid week, school and work.
Friday is packed anyway and the owner won't allow outside parties on a Friday.
Saturday is Couples only........ regardless of how much I've begged and pleaded with him.
Sundays is realistically the only day we can hold these. Plus, with as much notice as we give (sometimes up to 6 months), plenty of people will take the monday off, making it a long weekend.
Also, Sundays open at 2pm and lots of people come early and leave early(ish), to enable them to get home for a decent nights sleep and to let the sitters go home.
If you don't like it..... you organise one!
2pm on a Sunday! What happened to the sunday roast! Followed by a kip and then the footie!
Monday off! Most important day of the week for getting ready for Friday and Saturday! There's the strictly results to look forward to as well!
Party night is Saturday! Shout louder and demand the party on a Saturday. What kind of a party organiser are you?
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Well sunday has worked perfectly for the last three years and the 500+ people that attend each time. Guess you dont want us to add your name to the list then
500 in Chams? Must be standing room only in the carpark! Is there room for coaches?
Hate to think of the squeeze in the tubs! No water left at all! All those fingers in the snacks!
Like i said you wont be wanting your name on the list"
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i love the social night there
yeah its standing room only, yeah its a squeeze in the jacuzzi, i dont go for the food anyway so dont care whos hands been in it
but on the plus side its a great way to meet people that you wouldnt normally meet because they live miles away and its saves you a fortune of fags cause you can just go outside and breath in and i have in the odd occasion been lucky enough to get a room lol
on a serious note tho i can go to chams any night and play, get a room, get in jacuzzi etc sometimes its nice to just go and meet people you have been talking to on here for ages |
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"i love the social night there
yeah its standing room only, yeah its a squeeze in the jacuzzi, i dont go for the food anyway so dont care whos hands been in it
but on the plus side its a great way to meet people that you wouldnt normally meet because they live miles away and its saves you a fortune of fags cause you can just go outside and breath in and i have in the odd occasion been lucky enough to get a room lol
on a serious note tho i can go to chams any night and play, get a room, get in jacuzzi etc sometimes its nice to just go and meet people you have been talking to on here for ages "
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To the OP...
Please don't take this the wrong way, but from the posts you've made so far I don't honestly think you're cut out to play the part of a cheating partner.
You don't come across as someone who, when under pressure, is capable of coming up with a convincing reason why you're not spending more time at home with your other half. Yet if you continue to do what you're doing, you're going to find yourself in that situation sooner or later... and you won't have time to ask randomers on a swingers' internet site how you should answer her questions.
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"i love the social night there
yeah its standing room only, yeah its a squeeze in the jacuzzi, i dont go for the food anyway so dont care whos hands been in it
but on the plus side its a great way to meet people that you wouldnt normally meet because they live miles away and its saves you a fortune of fags cause you can just go outside and breath in and i have in the odd occasion been lucky enough to get a room lol
on a serious note tho i can go to chams any night and play, get a room, get in jacuzzi etc sometimes its nice to just go and meet people you have been talking to on here for ages
Theres food ? "
Yeah! Lots of finger food! Say no more!
Oh forgot to add ive been to a few socials at chams arranged by a lady off here and they weren't on a sat night!  |
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"To the OP...
Please don't take this the wrong way, but from the posts you've made so far I don't honestly think you're cut out to play the part of a cheating partner.
You don't come across as someone who, when under pressure, is capable of coming up with a convincing reason why you're not spending more time at home with your other half. Yet if you continue to do what you're doing, you're going to find yourself in that situation sooner or later... and you won't have time to ask randomers on a swingers' internet site how you should answer her questions.
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Just maybe those who are playing away could just reply privately to him or any one else that should dare to come forward and for some strange reason decide to open up and be happy to be ridiculed!
Does seem a strange Q to put before people on this site! |
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OP you start going out having wild sex she will know ..... men smell of sex after. You going to ask the people you meet if you can shower before going home ?... and can tell the way the person is at times ... thay are over nice or spend more time getting ready or you slip up with the storys your having to make up ... after a time woman know ... smell on your clothes .. thay way you smile ... lol cant help thinking this will end in hurt. Get some porn look at it together start to sex your own lifes up together and you never know she may like and wish for more x jo |
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"become an Ann Summers rep... yes thay would be doing somthing together ... why did i not think of this . "
maybe as you are already busy and that would make it more hetic for you
but look at the free stuff you would get |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Before I start, I don't care what people do with their life, if married people want to play away it is up to them as long as they don't involve us.
But is this thread seriously asking other people for tips on how to get away from the wife for sex? You seriously want tips on how to decieve your wife??
I think I have heard it all now. "
I am glad that someone finally said what I was thinking.....
I am sad that it look someone half way into the thread to finally say it.... |
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OP I honestly think you shouldn't be in a relationship, seems to me you are still sewing your wild oats, experimenting, learning.
Maybe you'd be best doing this as a single guy then taking all that new found knowledge into an open honest and trusting relationship. Ultimately that will work better and be more fulfilling than any so/so relationships you have had to date. |
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"OP I honestly think you shouldn't be in a relationship, seems to me you are still sewing your wild oats, experimenting, learning.
Maybe you'd be best doing this as a single guy then taking all that new found knowledge into an open honest and trusting relationship. Ultimately that will work better and be more fulfilling than any so/so relationships you have had to date. "
It's interesting isn't that we're all ready to chastise and spout our _iews on why he shouldn't be doing what he is and I agree with those _iews, but if you all just for a second and re read his opening thread he does say he knows lots of us will disagree with what he's doing and to please stay away as he's only seeking advice from those that do.
Go on say it "it's an open forum!" I just wonder how many here have commited adultery if only in your minds?
and as I said previously perhaps unwise to post here it the first place!
But it is an open forum isn't?
You could all have got your points across by simply not proffering words of wisdom, mind you so could I
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he just wants the cream
the OP has a relationship which he is happy in apart from the sex. so instead of trying to work on it hes come straight on here to get sex.
at 23 i was happy being single having fun and going out every weekend, sure i used to meet people but wasn't tied down in a relationship
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"Tent fun you and pearl have a lot in common
Pearl? who is Pearl do I no her is she a passenger. What kind of songs does she do then? 
Pearls a swinger  "
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"It's interesting isn't that we're all ready to chastise and spout our _iews on why he shouldn't be doing what he is and I agree with those _iews, but if you all just for a second and re read his opening thread he does say he knows lots of us will disagree with what he's doing and to please stay away as he's only seeking advice from those that do.
Go on say it "it's an open forum!" I just wonder how many here have commited adultery if only in your minds?
and as I said previously perhaps unwise to post here it the first place!
But it is an open forum isn't?
You could all have got your points across by simply not proffering words of wisdom, mind you so could I
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OK time for my 2p
A) OP when you got married, u signed a contract to (amongst other things) be faithfull. In a swinging mariage this doesnt mean to only fuck one person, it means be honest and open with each other.
B) having had a fling with a married woman, I expect that OP would be devastated to find his wife on here my married woman was to find her hb was cheating too (she thought she was special you see)
C) you state that you have always felt you wanted to swing, I presume you told your wife this before you got married?
D) If ur looking for an excuse tell her you are off out with ur mates, better that than tell her ure out to a meet, the latter would set you both free
E) This is an open forum, we are as entitled to ass coment on OP as you are to pass , franky, fatuous comment on someone who works very hard to organise great parties which everyone thoroughly enjoys......
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"I no most of the people on this Site do not like people who play away so if your a hater please leave now.
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'haters'
with an opening paragraph like that you were on to a hiding to nothing, whatever the topic m8.
and got to say that most posting have been gentle with you.
think you will discover probably with maturity that if you are seriously asking this type of question you should expect some critical responses. (not intending to sound condescending)
there has been some good advice given from people with life and 'lifestyle' experience, have a look at it.
Your going to be found out thats a given, and will hurt her badly so if you care a jot about her take a look at what you are up to.
do you not think that when you invited / allowed her to find someone on a night out she did not think you may be up to the same thing?
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Im not gonna hate on you. Maybe feel some pity though.
You say everything is fine at home apart from the sex. Have you tried working on that side or have you just fallen straight back into cheating. Yes cheating as you can dress it up anyway you want. Its what you are doing. But that is for your mind to resolve.
If you havent tried then why? if the relationship is so good then surely puttng in the effort would be worth it?.
Have you tried sitting down and watching some porn together? Letting that ease the ideas in if she is lacking them. If shes fairly innocent then maybe start with the old 'confessions' comedy porn and slowly ratchett up the x rating on them.
Is she uninterested in sex because she doesnt enjoy it? if so ask yourself why? It may be ok to blame her but look inwards aswell as outwards.
If after those questions you can honestly answer that you have done it all. Then the point raised earlier is true. The relationship is wrong and you need to leave. Maybe look for a partner through the swing clubs and sites so you know they are into it.
If you continue to decieve her then you will get busted. (my ex-wife tried it and look shes now an ex). There is no recovery. When you get rumbled she is going to be devastated and your going to be outed in very bad light. If you dont want that then leave before it happens.
However if you feel her being hurt is an acceptable part of maintaining your situation. Then there is no help for you no matter what anyone thinks/feels/says.
The forum can give love/hate and advice but the real point of everything said already is that YOU need to sit down and ask YOURSELF some serious questions about YOUR relationships and be HONEST about them. |
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"oh the perils of swinging when it isn't a joint thing with your partner "
Some get off on the excitement of being caught.....Guilt free is so much more relaxed. |
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"Im not gonna hate on you. Maybe feel some pity though.
You say everything is fine at home apart from the sex. Have you tried working on that side or have you just fallen straight back into cheating. Yes cheating as you can dress it up anyway you want. Its what you are doing. But that is for your mind to resolve.
If you havent tried then why? if the relationship is so good then surely puttng in the effort would be worth it?.
Have you tried sitting down and watching some porn together? Letting that ease the ideas in if she is lacking them. If shes fairly innocent then maybe start with the old 'confessions' comedy porn and slowly ratchett up the x rating on them.
Is she uninterested in sex because she doesnt enjoy it? if so ask yourself why? It may be ok to blame her but look inwards aswell as outwards.
If after those questions you can honestly answer that you have done it all. Then the point raised earlier is true. The relationship is wrong and you need to leave. Maybe look for a partner through the swing clubs and sites so you know they are into it.
If you continue to decieve her then you will get busted. (my ex-wife tried it and look shes now an ex). There is no recovery. When you get rumbled she is going to be devastated and your going to be outed in very bad light. If you dont want that then leave before it happens.
However if you feel her being hurt is an acceptable part of maintaining your situation. Then there is no help for you no matter what anyone thinks/feels/says.
The forum can give love/hate and advice but the real point of everything said already is that YOU need to sit down and ask YOURSELF some serious questions about YOUR relationships and be HONEST about them. "
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"oh the perils of swinging when it isn't a joint thing with your partner
Some get off on the excitement of being caught.....Guilt free is so much more relaxed."
Hello blast from the past how the devil are you? at least we still seem to agree on our swinging sentiments lol xx |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Every time I read a thread like this I get very sad!I still can't believe that there are women who are ready to accept that this guy is cheating! That it is OK cos it is his choice!
So what if it were you sitting at home thinking he was just out with his mates and then you found out he was on a swing site? Having an affair with a woman is bad enough, but multiple sex partners?
The big problem with Fab is this attitude that anything goes! As though some on here have no values anymore! Even worse, some of those who support and have supported those cheating are ex-victims themselves! BTW.. I don’t condone women who cheat either!
When we first started swing, we were happy with it because it was consensual. We went to our first club and there was a very civilised attitude. Most of the sites we are on are also of that ilk because they are pay sites. I know we can avoid those we don’t agree with, but Fab has become a big free for all, which for us is a shame.
I shall post no more on this thread for fear of being banned……
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Thanks for all the advise good or bad people I have read it all.
To clear a Few things up I am not married to the girl where that has come from I'm not to sure.
Also Have tryed to work on the sex in the realtionship.
Making a nice meal and bath for when she gets in from work.
Tidying from top to bottom
Making a effort my self.
Making the night all about her pleasure
Porn is a no go as she is not intrested in watching.
Nice walks out and a meal..
If the sex life was good then I'd be very happy. But having sat down and spoke I don't think there is hope of her trying swining or anythink like that.
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over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the advise good or bad people I have read it all.
To clear a Few things up I am not married to the girl where that has come from I'm not to sure.
Also Have tryed to work on the sex in the realtionship.
Making a nice meal and bath for when she gets in from work.
Tidying from top to bottom
Making a effort my self.
Making the night all about her pleasure
Porn is a no go as she is not intrested in watching.
Nice walks out and a meal..
If the sex life was good then I'd be very happy. But having sat down and spoke I don't think there is hope of her trying swining or anythink like that.
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if SEX is higher up your list of priorities than your respect and love for your girlfriend... you may have a tough decision to make.
Sex counselling may help
either way... wish you both well. |
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"Thanks for all the advise good or bad people I have read it all.
To clear a Few things up I am not married to the girl where that has come from I'm not to sure.
Also Have tryed to work on the sex in the realtionship.
Making a nice meal and bath for when she gets in from work.
Tidying from top to bottom
Making a effort my self.
Making the night all about her pleasure
Porn is a no go as she is not intrested in watching.
Nice walks out and a meal..
If the sex life was good then I'd be very happy. But having sat down and spoke I don't think there is hope of her trying swining or anythink like that.
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That's the thing you may be trying too hard to make things work when the key thing in the relationship is not there as in you are not compatible sexually. And although you love each other now it will eat up the relationship and get bitter and you will end up blaming each other for what is missing.
I need sex in my life it is like breathing for me and I know when I am not getting any I am a completely different person without. |
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"Thanks for all the advise good or bad people I have read it all.
To clear a Few things up I am not married to the girl where that has come from I'm not to sure.
Also Have tryed to work on the sex in the realtionship.
Making a nice meal and bath for when she gets in from work.
Tidying from top to bottom
Making a effort my self.
Making the night all about her pleasure
Porn is a no go as she is not intrested in watching.
Nice walks out and a meal..
If the sex life was good then I'd be very happy. But having sat down and spoke I don't think there is hope of her trying swining or anythink like that.
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so at the risk of asking a stupid question - why not do the decent thing and break up with her? |
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"OP I honestly think you shouldn't be in a relationship, seems to me you are still sewing your wild oats, experimenting, learning.
Maybe you'd be best doing this as a single guy then taking all that new found knowledge into an open honest and trusting relationship. Ultimately that will work better and be more fulfilling than any so/so relationships you have had to date.
It's interesting isn't that we're all ready to chastise and spout our _iews on why he shouldn't be doing what he is and I agree with those _iews, but if you all just for a second and re read his opening thread he does say he knows lots of us will disagree with what he's doing and to please stay away as he's only seeking advice from those that do.
Go on say it "it's an open forum!" I just wonder how many here have commited adultery if only in your minds?
and as I said previously perhaps unwise to post here it the first place!
But it is an open forum isn't?
You could all have got your points across by simply not proffering words of wisdom, mind you so could I
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....then let me put it straight, the OP is an adult, playing with adults lives at adult games.
So maybe he should go think things out for himself rather than coming on here and wanting everything sugar coated and spoon-spoon fed to him like a child.
If he's man enough to want to cheat on his partner then he's man enough to make his own excuses to her and man enough to piece his world together if/when it falls apart. |
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"Thanks for all the advise good or bad people I have read it all.
To clear a Few things up I am not married to the girl where that has come from I'm not to sure.
Also Have tryed to work on the sex in the realtionship.
Making a nice meal and bath for when she gets in from work.
Tidying from top to bottom
Making a effort my self.
Making the night all about her pleasure
Porn is a no go as she is not intrested in watching.
Nice walks out and a meal..
If the sex life was good then I'd be very happy. But having sat down and spoke I don't think there is hope of her trying swining or anythink like that.
so at the risk of asking a stupid question - why not do the decent thing and break up with her? "
+1 just a very good thought!! |
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"I think your very right there I do need sex. When I don't have it. I'm always looking for it "
what about if you give her STDs you never know about the woman your having sex with from oral you can still get this even with safe-sex , how would sh cope ... I new a woman who got this and he was playing away .. that was the end of them ..
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How about sitting down with her and talking to her about your sex life together? Not sitting and talking about people joining the 2 of you or you both seeing others but just about the 2 of you. Your not going to get anywhere in your relationship if you can't do that.
There could be something that is niggling her. She may have suspisions about you seeing others and this may be making her hold back on you and your relationship.
If you would rather go out and fuck someone else than be at home with your gf then maybe she's not the right one for you. |
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