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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, it is how I met my fwb...but women here don't have to sit and wait for messages as they will have some waiting everytime they sign in, unless they have all their filters up to prevent anyone messaging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.
I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"
Five years without a received message first or any replies?
Why stay? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I often used to send first messages, to me it makes more sense for a woman to do her own searching as she knows what she is looking for.
That's how I met my special man.  |
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"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.
I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"
God only a fool waits for what is just is delivered far better to go shopping and point out what you want. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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If and it is a big IF (though it shouldn't be as you'd think it was common sense) I find a male profile that is interesting and has alluring pictures, I message with no hesitation, but alas to find those traits are a very rare commodity indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.
I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"
Never? |
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"I'm crap at opening lines. Also since when is 'hello there' so unacceptable "
It’s not, but it needs to have something more to it to stand out from the dozens of other messages single women get.
“Hello there. Love your profile & the profile name really made me chuckle. Great photos too!
I see that you like xxx. Sounds fascinating, I’d love to pick your brains about it someday, if you’d let me!”
... or something similar!
(Your username did make me chuckle though!) |
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"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.
I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"
Only to tell you off in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm crap at opening lines. Also since when is 'hello there' so unacceptable
It’s not, but it needs to have something more to it to stand out from the dozens of other messages single women get.
“Hello there. Love your profile & the profile name really made me chuckle. Great photos too!
I see that you like xxx. Sounds fascinating, I’d love to pick your brains about it someday, if you’d let me!”
... or something similar!
(Your username did make me chuckle though!)"
Okay I'm stealing that now haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the female half of our profile I will wink, message or fab pics. I’ll also let another female know if I think she looks gorgeous. No ulterior motive, I just think it’s nice to compliment someone.
This site is not for the faint hearted. Nothing ventured nothing gained. What’s the worst that can happen? You get ignored or turned down. I’m the eternal optimist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.
I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"
Never get replies either? How did you communicate to get veris then? Smoke signals?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do women on this site ever message or wink first or do they all sit and wait for mail.
I’ve been on here nearly 5 years and never had mail first and never get reply’s either??"
I message and wink  |
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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago
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"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing
Why is it scary?
It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it. "
And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing
Why is it scary?
It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it.
And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time"
Not all women. |
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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago
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"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing
Why is it scary?
It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it.
And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time
Not all women. "
No, the fair majority though. Women have it easy on here, just sifting through the dregs. |
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"I have once or twice but it’s a scary thing
Why is it scary?
It’s just knowing what to say isn’t it? .. and attaching a face photo ... Hats off to those who have the confidence to do it.
And yet women on here expect men to be 100% perfect at writing a message knowing they'll be deleted without being read 99% of the time
Not all women. "
I agree, it’s not all, but most lol |
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"I've messaged first and sent winks. It's only those I feel are out of my league, that I avoid messaging first .
I'll be expecting a message off you shortly  "
Me too. There’s no way I’m out of her league. However she is well out of mine. I could only dream of a woman like that!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re a couple, so don’t know if that counts. But we have on occasion winked at men. Not very often, as there are only so many men we can take on at any one time. If we do do wink, it will probably be a profile that really stands out and is well verified by couples.
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Yeah - I perve Male hot photos - just as men perve female hot photos - and look for pics of guys with hot face or profile pics (not a cock pic fan!). If they’re not gay I’ll message them! Got a few very hot meets this way!
Also message guys on the forums who look great/interest me! |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
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I (R) quite often have a browse round and fire off a message. Have to say though it is only usually to Single guys
My Hubby usually reads them afterwards
2 weeks ago, I sent a message to 5 guys, all were read, nothing back in return.
Today they are all still sitting at "read" so today they just get deleted a blocked.
Such is life,  |
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