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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I’m finding it difficult to meet with couples having lots of messages but seem to back out when I ask for a meet. Are there any genuine bi male couples out there who really play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
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What kind of logic is that  |
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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago
Clevedon |
I had a bi experience at chameleons with my wife and a guy.my first time,got to try a few things out and all 3 of us had a pretty good time.have tried outside of club but not been as good as that night.my wife thought it was ok.will try again hopefully at a club sometime.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
What kind of logic is that "
There is none.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
What kind of logic is that
There is none. "
I suppose it carries a certain risk of electrocution. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I’m finding it difficult to meet with couples having lots of messages but seem to back out when I ask for a meet. Are there any genuine bi male couples out there who really play "
Yes we do...but we were swamped with responses when we advertised and found a really nice guy within an hour. Supply and demand I’m afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
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What on earth are you talking about. There is some nonsense posted on this forum! |
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"We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
What on earth are you talking about. There is some nonsense posted on this forum! "
Green arrow - doesn’t surprise me. In fact I’m shocked at any tolerance on the subject. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes there are but the problem we have is finding genuine single bi guys  "
This. Can't tell who is bi and who is straight given the messages we receive from the straight guys. |
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To the OP - we’re always in the look out for friendly, interesting and attractive bi guys. However, most have awful profiles (like yours). If you don’t put any effort in, don’t expect to get much out... |
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"Hi I’m finding it difficult to meet with couples having lots of messages but seem to back out when I ask for a meet. Are there any genuine bi male couples out there who really play "
You're local to Chams, Monday night is bi night, maybe you could check it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Genuine bi guys are hard to find just like the unicorn
Most will put there bi with straight on profile with the same old excuses
I've friends on here etc ect
Bad written profiles will not help your course
We love to find a regluer single bi guy to help push our boundaries but also who likes there boundaries pushed
Most guys we've met are wham bam thank you and gone definitely not helping our sexual appetite
So if there any youngish bi guys looking for regular fun send mail thanks |
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As a bi guy looking for bi couples I have also found there is an awful lot of competition out there, and the cause of the genuine guys is not helped by the number of time wasters and pic collectors on here.
As one of the previous posters suggested, I’ve been thinking I would be better off trying a bi night at a club. Can anyone recommend clubs that have relaxed bi nights that might be welcoming for a nervous but friendly newbie?
Thanks in advance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
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Mental, you do realise you actually posted that |
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Wife prefers bi top guys . its her thing but she loves mm play and then a bundle of fun doing whatever you like . but hard to meet a real bi top. Would love to meet a bi top couple as that we tick all the boxes |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Genuine bi guys are hard to find just like the unicorn
Most will put there bi with straight on profile with the same old excuses
I've friends on here etc ect
Bad written profiles will not help your course
We love to find a regluer single bi guy to help push our boundaries but also who likes there boundaries pushed
Most guys we've met are wham bam thank you and gone definitely not helping our sexual appetite
So if there any youngish bi guys looking for regular fun send mail thanks "
I was contacted by a guy who had straight on his profile on my couples account tried to convince me he was bi and that the woman he met advised him to keep straight on his profile as bi would put women and couples off. My response? I don't meet liars, cue a lot of back pedalling. Told him its wrong to lie to people as they may well have no bi on their preferences. |
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"Genuine bi guys are hard to find just like the unicorn
Most will put there bi with straight on profile with the same old excuses
I've friends on here etc ect
Bad written profiles will not help your course
We love to find a regluer single bi guy to help push our boundaries but also who likes there boundaries pushed
Most guys we've met are wham bam thank you and gone definitely not helping our sexual appetite
So if there any youngish bi guys looking for regular fun send mail thanks
I was contacted by a guy who had straight on his profile on my couples account tried to convince me he was bi and that the woman he met advised him to keep straight on his profile as bi would put women and couples off. My response? I don't meet liars, cue a lot of back pedalling. Told him its wrong to lie to people as they may well have no bi on their preferences. "
I find it amusing that guys like this that write these messages to couples like us don’t stop to think how bad it makes them look. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Genuine bi guys are hard to find just like the unicorn
Most will put there bi with straight on profile with the same old excuses
I've friends on here etc ect
Bad written profiles will not help your course
We love to find a regluer single bi guy to help push our boundaries but also who likes there boundaries pushed
Most guys we've met are wham bam thank you and gone definitely not helping our sexual appetite
So if there any youngish bi guys looking for regular fun send mail thanks
I was contacted by a guy who had straight on his profile on my couples account tried to convince me he was bi and that the woman he met advised him to keep straight on his profile as bi would put women and couples off. My response? I don't meet liars, cue a lot of back pedalling. Told him its wrong to lie to people as they may well have no bi on their preferences.
I find it amusing that guys like this that write these messages to couples like us don’t stop to think how bad it makes them look."
I called him out as I don't like liars lol |
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"Genuine bi guys are hard to find just like the unicorn
Most will put there bi with straight on profile with the same old excuses
I've friends on here etc ect
Bad written profiles will not help your course
We love to find a regluer single bi guy to help push our boundaries but also who likes there boundaries pushed
Most guys we've met are wham bam thank you and gone definitely not helping our sexual appetite
So if there any youngish bi guys looking for regular fun send mail thanks
I was contacted by a guy who had straight on his profile on my couples account tried to convince me he was bi and that the woman he met advised him to keep straight on his profile as bi would put women and couples off. My response? I don't meet liars, cue a lot of back pedalling. Told him its wrong to lie to people as they may well have no bi on their preferences.
I find it amusing that guys like this that write these messages to couples like us don’t stop to think how bad it makes them look.
I called him out as I don't like liars lol"
Same. The replies range from changing their sexuality status, sometimes temporarily and sometimes permanent, to an apology to me being a stuck up bitch. If being honest makes me a stuck up bitch, so be it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't meet guys who say there bi with straight on profiles we've heard everything from m8s on here ect ect
If you can't even be open on a swinging site how can you be open to a couple who are looking for genuine bi people x |
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"Yes there are but the problem we have is finding genuine single bi guys
This. Can't tell who is bi and who is straight given the messages we receive from the straight guys."
If the profile doesn't list them as at least bi curious they get an instant delete...we've no time for people who can't be honest on their profile. |
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By *J696Man
over a year ago
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Being an inexperienced bi guy I find it impossible either guys just want to meet
But to find a couple that will use you as there sex toy or to bethe meet in the sandwich yes please ??
Or a no holes barred couple without being into the 3p's is almost impossible
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"Hi I’m finding it difficult to meet with couples having lots of messages but seem to back out when I ask for a meet. Are there any genuine bi male couples out there who really play
You're local to Chams, Monday night is bi night, maybe you could check it out "
I Love Chams on a Monday, Mark ensures non-Bi guys can't get in. It's just a shame I cant get there that often these days. |
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
Mental, you do realise you actually posted that "
Well the poster hidden their profile guess they feel the've lost face
But its useful: -fodder for my block list. |
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"Hi I’m finding it difficult to meet with couples having lots of messages but seem to back out when I ask for a meet. Are there any genuine bi male couples out there who really play "
Yes there is but it's also hard to find full bi guys on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love meeting bi-top guys. Chams Monday night is more convenient. Everyone there is supposedly bi (one or two are not). We've had some guys pretend to be bi then when we get down to it they're not. We've always stopped it there and then and left. Less time wasted in a club, but a real pain if it's a private meet. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
As others have said OP, maybe try a Bi Night at a club - usually a good way to meet like minded couples.
Otherwise, as this thread has shown there are definitely couples out there that match what you're looking for - might help a little if you didn't have a silhouette avatars, and perhaps had some public pics  |
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"Hi I’m finding it difficult to meet with couples having lots of messages but seem to back out when I ask for a meet. Are there any genuine bi male couples out there who really play "
Well I know of at least two couples in the North East who most DEFINITELY meet up with bi guys  Mmmmm |
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
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I thought that last sentence was bad enough then I read your profile, seriously specific lol |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
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You’ve probably just committed Fabicide. There are many who will block you with that statement. You’ve no idea who practices safe or risky sex on here and you certainly can’t make accusations like that.
You’ll no doubt be blocked by many potential meets now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar "
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
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the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
You’ve probably just committed Fabicide. There are many who will block you with that statement. You’ve no idea who practices safe or risky sex on here and you certainly can’t make accusations like that.
You’ll no doubt be blocked by many potential meets now.
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away "
Do they allow old farts in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love meeting a bi couple m
For me it’s the variety that is great and meeting a bi blokes isn’t always about anal sex but also the touching, playing and teasing ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I’m finding it difficult to meet with couples having lots of messages but seem to back out when I ask for a meet. Are there any genuine bi male couples out there who really play "
Have the same problem mate genuine bi lad here in newcastle |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away
Do they allow old farts in "
Why? Apart from me, do you know any? |
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away
Do they allow old farts in "
They let everyone in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away
Do they allow old farts in "
They let us in and you know what an old fart the Monkey can be...  |
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away
Do they allow old farts in
They let us in and you know what an old fart the Monkey can be... "
Hey have you still got my knickers ??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the same as meeting straight couples. They usually have an idea in their head of the guy they want, if you don’t fit that it’s not your fault. This is why talking before any thought of meeting is good.
Usually found especially with bi couples that me and the Mr need to get on as mates first otherwise it can be a weird one haha |
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away
Do they allow old farts in
They let us in and you know what an old fart the Monkey can be... "
Ah cool. The answer is yes then |
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"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away
Do they allow old farts in
Why? Apart from me, do you know any?"
You could come with us then. Make us look younger |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"We meet bi guys , met one last night in the local gay bar
What bars?
I’m in Lincoln In a few weeks for 2 weeks. lil help in the right direction would be great
the scene is Lincoln’s only gay bar , we go in most Friday and Saturday nights when we are not away
Do they allow old farts in
Why? Apart from me, do you know any?
You could come with us then. Make us look younger "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do. As others have said, just need to find those that are happy to play for real. Seems to be a disproptionately high number of people "with mates on here that dont know im bi" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem we have is guys message us claiming to be bi.....fair enough that’s what we want, but.......after probably 3-4 messages it turns to what will be my involvement...profile clearly states this. Then the following messages go along the lines of “can’t wait to fuck” and that is a deal breaker for us. We want a true Bi guy to play with roxy and I’ll watch and join in “if I want to”
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's easy to find bi guys. Do the advanced search 'men looking for men'. Doesn't matter if they ticked the Straight box as the search will still work.
Then tell them that the men will play first while the woman just watches. That will put the real straight/ nervous men off. |
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"We meet top Bi guys because they are generally more gentle and considerate than straight ones. They also seem more articulate and seem to be more serious about their health, hygiene and appearance.
We won't however meet Bi guys that fuck TV's though as that is basically risky gay sex.
What kind of logic is that "
My thought exactly.. How can that be more risky than meeting a bi male? Subs people's logic defy logic! |
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"The problem we have is guys message us claiming to be bi.....fair enough that’s what we want, but.......after probably 3-4 messages it turns to what will be my involvement...profile clearly states this. Then the following messages go along the lines of “can’t wait to fuck” and that is a deal breaker for us. We want a true Bi guy to play with roxy and I’ll watch and join in “if I want to”
Mrs"
I'd be very happy to discuss a relaxed and mutually beneficial play time with you guys but you seen to have a block on me sadly x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have met a few couples but find it hard to meet bicouples who accomodate within my location. I travel but have had some great meets but it is difficult. Not impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bi guy here. Love the meets I've had with bi cpls and the occassional visit to bi night at Chams. Find it difficult to meet bi cpl- always figured it was because they were inundated |
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