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Bi or just doing it for men?
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over a year ago
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I had my first bi experience with a woman a year before me and my Daddy got together. That's when I discovered I'm very open sexually to control women (take control only) in the bedroom. Hubby was looking for a bi woman specifically and I was very open to this side of things. Loved all of our experiences  |
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"I had my first bi experience with a woman a year before me and my Daddy got together. That's when I discovered I'm very open sexually to control women (take control only) in the bedroom. Hubby was looking for a bi woman specifically and I was very open to this side of things. Loved all of our experiences "
This is how we got in to this, Mrs D was curious and wanted to be with a woman and who was I to say no, things have moved on over that last few years and she is no longer curious |
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"I just wondered what percentage of women are really bi sexual or curios, on here or are they doing it for the men? Just a thought."
We have often wondered this too, we are both full Bi but it has to be said we have sometimes met people were we would question their motives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bisexual....some of my first sexual experiences were with girls, aswell as my first kiss. I adore women.
Would never play any way to please someone else...
Tis bloody annoying the amount of women on here who claim to be bi and aren't though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've ticked bi because I've played with ladies, and probably will again, but I'd say I'm more het exible.
I'll play with ladies if the mood and attraction is there in group play, but I don't actively seek ladies for solo play and wouldn't meet one on one with a lady. |
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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago
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Without trying to get all radical feminist, it's all down to men.
If you think about it from a statistical point of view, as with all the similarities/differences between men and women, there should be a pretty even split between bi/straight women and bi straight men.
But it's very skewed on here, way more statedly Bi(curious) women than Bi(curious) men.
Now there may be a few reasons for this. Main one being that many men who enjoy and seek out sexual contact with men on here, do not classify themselves as Bisexual on their profiles for oft lamented reasons of acceptability, either to others or themselves.
SOME women can sometimes just be a lot more open to new things and easy going, like same sex contact. Whereas macho culture is bred into men from an early age and is something to be afraid of.
Also due to the long history of lesbian porn being used to condition men from an early age into finding that sort of thing attractive. That lesbian sex has anything to do with men at all, or that they all are just waiting for a guy to turn up and 'join in'. So sex between two women is not only seen as accepted, but expected in some cases.
Hence why some clubs have "bisexual" nights. Meaning the only night where male bisexual contact is acceptable. Whereas every night is bi female night.
Hope this helps. Sexuality, my second favourite swinger topic. 
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We have wondered this quite a bit. We beleive atleast half the couples on here are only swinging to please there other half.. most of them the only reason they put the female's sexuality as "bi" is because they beleive if the woman of the couple is bi they have more chance of the meeting a couple and the male half getting his end away with another woman.
This is just mine and miss-c opinion and not a fact...
We had one meet with a well verified couple. The female was supposed to be bisexual. So miss-c and this lady went upstairs to get to "Know" each other alot better after about 20 mins. Myself and the womans partner went upstairs to see how things were going. Anyways they were both on the bed and this woman was just stroking miss-c hair. Miss-c didnt look happy at all. After they left i asked miss-c what was wrong and she laughed and said all she done was give me a quick kiss and stroked my hair for 15 mins.. lol
Out of all the meets we have had with couples and females. We have only ever met 3 or 4 real bisexual ladies.. the rest are just doing it to please the other half.
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We started swinging to play with other couples and for me to watch wife with guys. It wasn't until we actually started playing that wife admitted she wanted to play with other women too. So I'm a very happy chappy now |
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Totally straight & happy to admit it. I’d love to be even slightly bi because I know Gomez would love it, but it’s just not for me.
We both love to see each other play & we love full swap play with other couples. He also likes to see me play with more than one guy, so we do fine without it!
We are both happy to play with bi-partners though - we aren’t bothered by it like some people are! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t do it just to please a man, where’s the enjoyment in that?? I’m much more open to exploring my bi curious side since getting a bit older and it’s my choice when and how I choose to explore that Mr B is very respectful of that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wondered what percentage of women are really bi sexual or curios, on here or are they doing it for the men? Just a thought."
Some girls love the naughtiness of being with girls sexually, but wouldn't want to have a relationship with one. I wouldn't say it's about doing it for guys for a lot of the women here, but I'm sure there's one or two that like to simply act up for the attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just wondered what percentage of women are really bi sexual or curios, on here or are they doing it for the men? Just a thought."
almost every couple who message us are bi curious ( female). I've often wondered if they say it to please the guys. Personally hubby isnt one of those men who like to watch 2 women playing. He would much rather watch me get a good hard pounding  |
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