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By *ancs30 OP Man
over a year ago
Blackpool |
So, I have straight on my profile and I the only winks or messages I get are from guys wanting to meet.... I do think about it, but get very nervous ..... so I do nothing... I'm sure meeting and getting a BJ, massage etc could be good fun but I am too nervous to go.... Should I go to a club as the best place to see if I would like it.. how to start.....  |
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By *ky19Man
over a year ago
Plymouth OYO Hotel |
The number of straight guys who've come onto me in my life 
Surprised how many straight guys contact me on here - seems totally normal though. Happens everywhere I work though. The amount of guys touching me when they don't need to, grabbing my crotch etc in the name of "banter".
I've learned over the years to spot a straight guy who's interested in me a mile off, though I won't say anything, I don't want them to feel embarrassed.
I'm quite good with new curious guys cos I'm really gentle with them and give as much space as they need. A lot of straight guys are fascinated by my PVC trousers (they're my style, I have a few pairs  ) cos they're so glossy, so I let them touch me and they get a chance to see if they like the way another guy feels. |
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"So, I have straight on my profile and I the only winks or messages I get are from guys wanting to meet.... I do think about it, but get very nervous ..... so I do nothing... I'm sure meeting and getting a BJ, massage etc could be good fun but I am too nervous to go.... Should I go to a club as the best place to see if I would like it.. how to start..... "
Wouldn't you be more nervous going to a club rather than just a one on one?
I alway's find it amusing those guy's that say they're straight,but then have verifications from men saying how great they were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a lot of curious guys as a Tantric masseur.
I think most people have a degree of flex on their sexuality which can change over time.
If it feels good and it’s consensual, then go for it! |
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"Dear god, another thread with "straight" guys trying to hide the fact they're bi! 
FFS just get on with it. Why do so many people feel the need to cover it up as something else? "
probley as some people dismiss bi guys, and have more chance if they say straight but OP seems more bi curious the totally bi to be, as such, complaining about it. It more bi curious and see what peoples thoughts are on to try anything or not was more the thought here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you take a look at this web-sites sister site, FabGuys, you "won't" be surprised to see a huge amount of "straight solo males" on here are over there as bisexual . . and those we've met really are too!
The real issue is the behaviour of some using this site make it unwelcome for guys to be truthful . . and they know they'll get more shags by claiming to be 100% straight . . oh, and unmarried too? |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"Dear god, another thread with "straight" guys trying to hide the fact they're bi!
FFS just get on with it. Why do so many people feel the need to cover it up as something else?
probley as some people dismiss bi guys, and have more chance if they say straight but OP seems more bi curious the totally bi to be, as such, complaining about it. It more bi curious and see what peoples thoughts are on to try anything or not was more the thought here.
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Well put 
I took it as someone who was "exploring/experimenting" too |
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"If you take a look at this web-sites sister site, FabGuys, you "won't" be surprised to see a huge amount of "straight solo males" on here are over there as bisexual . . and those we've met really are too!
The real issue is the behaviour of some using this site make it unwelcome for guys to be truthful . . and they know they'll get more shags by claiming to be 100% straight . . oh, and unmarried too? "
too true there, thats why all depends what to believe and not. Agree with fabguys also, Daz has an account on there also and find the exact same thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear god, another thread with "straight" guys trying to hide the fact they're bi!
FFS just get on with it. Why do so many people feel the need to cover it up as something else?
probley as some people dismiss bi guys, and have more chance if they say straight but OP seems more bi curious the totally bi to be, as such, complaining about it. It more bi curious and see what peoples thoughts are on to try anything or not was more the thought here.
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Well put
I took it as someone who was "exploring/experimenting" too "
So if I "explore" with an animal I'm technically not into bestiality? Interesting...
Haha in all seriousness I personally believe that any guy that is even exploring/fantasising about the fact that they want to play with a cock is at least a bit bi. Kind of like people who only smoke when they're out socialising.... you're maybe not a serial smoker but you do have that need/urge.
I'm not sure where/why there's a stigma tho. Each to their own and if it's mutually pleasurable then go for it. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The thing is there is no "stigma" against bi guys here, any more than there is a stigma against any of the other myriad preferences people have - it's just some see it as a stigma as a way to justify not being open about their sexuality.
Yes, there are people who won't play with bi guys (for various reasons) but there are just as many that actively seek them or are not bothered either way. So by not identifying as bi when you are, you're closing as many, if not more, doors than you're opening.
To the OP though - if it interests you and is something you want to try - get along to a bi night at a club - there's no pressure to do anything you don't want to and you can just go with your own comfort level |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing is there is no "stigma" against bi guys here, any more than there is a stigma against any of the other myriad preferences people have - it's just some see it as a stigma as a way to justify not being open about their sexuality.
Yes, there are people who won't play with bi guys (for various reasons) but there are just as many that actively seek them or are not bothered either way. So by not identifying as bi when you are, you're closing as many, if not more, doors than you're opening.
To the OP though - if it interests you and is something you want to try - get along to a bi night at a club - there's no pressure to do anything you don't want to and you can just go with your own comfort level "
Good answer this mate, sounds spot on to me. |
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