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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.
Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...
What’s kinky mean to you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.
Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...
What’s kinky mean to you?"
Something wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WELL iam very open minded what’s kinky to me is damn right dirty to others
Some people think a quick shag before kids get in from school is kinky I think it just a quick shag
Some think tied up spanking blindfold is
Some it’s role play
Some it’s swinging
It’s depends mine is watching others and joining in that to me is kinky |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"WELL iam very open minded what’s kinky to me is damn right dirty to others
Some people think a quick shag before kids get in from school is kinky I think it just a quick shag
Some think tied up spanking blindfold is
Some it’s role play
Some it’s swinging
It’s depends mine is watching others and joining in that to me is kinky "
So if someone say “I’m kinky”, the answer isn’t what are the other six Dwarfs called, it’s whar is your kink?
I know I am a stickler for semantics, why do people give themselves these types of titles and not explain the process they are into? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok put it this way my kinks change
I like lots of stuff and depending on my mood I’ll either want a Dom lass to strap on me or I’ll want to dp her ,
People need to ask what kink your into iam sure others have kinks that change |
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
The North / Party Hard Everywhere |
I think what I’m into is normal. Most don’t but I mean it’s normal for me. Maybe people see kinky as anything the majority don’t do because it’s deemed ‘ab’ normal. I don’t know, I just know what I like and do it with those who meet my mind. Fuck the label. |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Ok put it this way my kinks change
I like lots of stuff and depending on my mood I’ll either want a Dom lass to strap on me or I’ll want to dp her ,
People need to ask what kink your into iam sure others have kinks that change "
Totally agree, however people give themselves titles such as Dom like it’s fixed in stone, then semantics kick in and there is total breakdown.
Could it be time to stand on the rostrum and state your kink! |
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Ok put it this way my kinks change
I like lots of stuff and depending on my mood I’ll either want a Dom lass to strap on me or I’ll want to dp her ,
People need to ask what kink your into iam sure others have kinks that change
Totally agree, however people give themselves titles such as Dom like it’s fixed in stone, then semantics kick in and there is total breakdown.
Could it be time to stand on the rostrum and state your kink!"
Well as a process  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe best to say in messages early on what your looking for and if kink comes up then depending on the mood iam in ide tell them but again it changes
Hate the word Dom and sub
If people are that way is that the only way ?
I prefer to be versatile just because I am greedy lol
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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Maybe best to say in messages early on what your looking for and if kink comes up then depending on the mood iam in ide tell them but again it changes
Hate the word Dom and sub
If people are that way is that the only way ?
I prefer to be versatile just because I am greedy lol
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So jealous, I couldn’t bottom, just not in my nature. L can switch in an instant, as soon as she senses a weakness, bang, she flips into top. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe best to say in messages early on what your looking for and if kink comes up then depending on the mood iam in ide tell them but again it changes
Hate the word Dom and sub
If people are that way is that the only way ?
I prefer to be versatile just because I am greedy lol
So jealous, I couldn’t bottom, just not in my nature. L can switch in an instant, as soon as she senses a weakness, bang, she flips into top."
Hell no I can’t bottom to a guy but a lass with strap on he’ll yes
And I can when get into it turn much worse but it’s only with trust
Trust =more kink more pleasure |
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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago
North West |
"something different from the standard nom which the majority play by - missionary not kinky - c hoke kinky.
what are the words you can't post on fab. c.h.o.ke is one of them."
Eek you said the C word!!! It’ll be the B word next  |
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I guess a kink, in the literal sense, is something that deviates from the norm. In terms of sex, the norm keeps shifting. It used to be missionary and a handshake goodnight. Now..... Take your pick! 
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Always bemuses me that 'kinky' is nearly always related to BDSM when people use the term, whereas to my mind a kink can take on any number of forms that are nothing to do with BDSM at all - for instance sploshing is a kink and therefore kinky to some, likewise some people have a kink for balloons and the list goes on.
As others have said what is 'kinky' to one person will be 'normal' to another, in fact I'd go as far as to say there's no such thing as 'kinky' as a generic catch all term - however just about all of us have 'kinks' i.e. things we like or fantasise about as part of our sexual activities - for some that might be something generally considered 'normal' such as stockings and suspenders - for others it might be being tied up and spanked.
Sexuality is such an individual thing that I keep coming back to their being no such thing as 'kinky'. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I think what I’m into is normal. Most don’t but I mean it’s normal for me. Maybe people see kinky as anything the majority don’t do because it’s deemed ‘ab’ normal. I don’t know, I just know what I like and do it with those who meet my mind. Fuck the label. "
This is another very good way of looking at it  |
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"Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.
Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...
What’s kinky mean to you?"
Damn good fun - that's what it is; and hanks to tonight's wonderful (and kinky ha ha) meet - yes my first; I can now post on here!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always bemuses me that 'kinky' is nearly always related to BDSM when people use the term, whereas to my mind a kink can take on any number of forms that are nothing to do with BDSM at all - for instance sploshing is a kink and therefore kinky to some, likewise some people have a kink for balloons and the list goes on.
As others have said what is 'kinky' to one person will be 'normal' to another, in fact I'd go as far as to say there's no such thing as 'kinky' as a generic catch all term - however just about all of us have 'kinks' i.e. things we like or fantasise about as part of our sexual activities - for some that might be something generally considered 'normal' such as stockings and suspenders - for others it might be being tied up and spanked.
Sexuality is such an individual thing that I keep coming back to their being no such thing as 'kinky'."
Very well said. There is more to kink than D/S relationships. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone asked me today, I didn’t know what to say, other than it’s a process of sexual behaviour that has been nominalised.
Don’t think it was the answer they were looking for personality...
What’s kinky mean to you?"
To me Kinky is experiencing or exposing to vulnerability. It is going to what scares most people and make it fun. |
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I thought i was kinky
A girl i was seeing asked me to lance the boil
Up her back passage with my teeth & to suck & spit out the gunk .
The 5th time she farted made me stop
Im no longer as kinky as i thought !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"WELL iam very open minded what’s kinky to me is damn right dirty to others
Some people think a quick shag before kids get in from school is kinky I think it just a quick shag
Some think tied up spanking blindfold is
Some it’s role play
Some it’s swinging
It’s depends mine is watching others and joining in that to me is kinky "
Depends on the person...
Just like everything else ... |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
For me kinky is deviating (in it's true sense) from the "norm", doing things that others wouldn't dream of or even be capable of thinking of!
My kinks constantly fluctuate, but remain on the whole shocking and really not what good girls do  |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"For me kinky is deviating (in it's true sense) from the "norm", doing things that others wouldn't dream of or even be capable of thinking of!
My kinks constantly fluctuate, but remain on the whole shocking and really not what good girls do "
This |
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