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Fed up with guys looking for quick 'service shag'
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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They aren't even subtle about it. Always a delete from me. Seems to be particular problem at this time of year. Is it the cold snap or something?? Any other ladies/couples pestered with guys like these? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They aren't even subtle about it. Always a delete from me. Seems to be particular problem at this time of year. Is it the cold snap or something?? Any other ladies/couples pestered with guys like these? "
I get this all year round
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here! "
Oh I dunno, its not too bad
Some days its a laugh a minute
My knickers get wet most days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooo ooo (hand held high wriggling in my seat) can I be the first to say it???
What the hell, gonna say it anyway....
The door is always open, no one makes you stay  haha I did it.
Seriously though. Yeah not sure if it's seasonal but being in the area I'm in, they're all going home for Xmas soon so trying to squeeze in a quick fuck first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here!
Oh I dunno, its not too bad
Some days its a laugh a minute
My knickers get wet most days"
Love that response |
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"They aren't even subtle about it. Always a delete from me. Seems to be particular problem at this time of year. Is it the cold snap or something?? Any other ladies/couples pestered with guys like these? "
The ones that message saying I’m free for an hour would like my dick sucked ! .. looooool hold on mate I’m grabbing my coat whilst starting my car
Knobheads lol |
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here!
Oh I dunno, its not too bad
Some days its a laugh a minute
My knickers get wet most days
Love that response "
How do you get away with your pic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do put the effort in though
I had a lovely well thought out introduction message this morning.it was so romantic I nearly cried.it said.
F*CK NOW.
unfortunately I had to decline that sweet offer as I was busy bleaching my mind after seeing the attached pic x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They aren't even subtle about it. Always a delete from me. Seems to be particular problem at this time of year. Is it the cold snap or something?? Any other ladies/couples pestered with guys like these? I get this all year round "
Same |
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here!
Oh I dunno, its not too bad
Some days its a laugh a minute
My knickers get wet most days
Love that response
How do you get away with your pic?"
At a guess no-one had reported it. |
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"They do put the effort in though
I had a lovely well thought out introduction message this morning.it was so romantic I nearly cried.it said.
F*CK NOW.
unfortunately I had to decline that sweet offer as I was busy bleaching my mind after seeing the attached pic x "
Ha!!!!
Being in London, get a plethora of desperate hotel meet offers.... Erm no.
There's something to be said for December madness. It's silly season, people are on Christmas parties, drink more, horny. Suddenly all disappear in January  |
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Get it all year round and all get deleted. Some women must go for it - I’ve seen the odd veri from a woman saying he didn’t have long but it was a nice cock to suck. A very suckable cock in fab speak. It baffles me why women do this |
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here!
Oh I dunno, its not too bad
Some days its a laugh a minute
My knickers get wet most days
Love that response
How do you get away with your pic?
At a guess no-one had reported it."
but it's been approved! |
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"I’ve had this today and when I’ve said I’m not meeting this week because of ‘women things’ I was told that’s fine, you have a mouth  "
My friend was told that too when she said she wasn’t attending a party for that reason  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do put the effort in though
I had a lovely well thought out introduction message this morning.it was so romantic I nearly cried.it said.
F*CK NOW.
unfortunately I had to decline that sweet offer as I was busy bleaching my mind after seeing the attached pic x
Ha!!!!
Being in London, get a plethora of desperate hotel meet offers.... Erm no.
There's something to be said for December madness. It's silly season, people are on Christmas parties, drink more, horny. Suddenly all disappear in January "
Your lucky then as the desperados are like it all year here lol
Someone just beat the previous well thought out message and shortened it to just.
F*CK.
Idiots x |
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here!
Oh I dunno, its not too bad
Some days its a laugh a minute
My knickers get wet most days
Love that response
How do you get away with your pic?"
I was wondering as well!! Tried to have my Christmas tree as my profile picture, but got rejected because i wasn't in it myself  |
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A quick service wash maybe as I cannot hang the washing outside to dry, just too cold now..
But a quick service shag.. nah, stuff that.. I like to spend a little time doing the other fun stuff like kissing and cuddling which can take hours out of the day..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here!
Oh I dunno, its not too bad
Some days its a laugh a minute
My knickers get wet most days
Love that response
How do you get away with your pic?"
Don’t know.. just uploaded it and it got approved x |
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Service shags haha been looking for a phrase to describe that for a while.
I find it distasteful.. often get told I'm a fake because I won't just meet.
It's really effected my willingness to meet people on here.
Good sex is hard to find haha I'd rather play alone than be pleased it's over lol |
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
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"Service shags haha been looking for a phrase to describe that for a while.
I find it distasteful.. often get told I'm a fake because I won't just meet.
It's really effected my willingness to meet people on here.
Good sex is hard to find haha I'd rather play alone than be pleased it's over lol"
Hmm 100% rope bunny you say...a journey on my profile may be of interest...or not... |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Get it all year round and all get deleted. Some women must go for it - I’ve seen the odd veri from a woman saying he didn’t have long but it was a nice cock to suck. A very suckable cock in fab speak. It baffles me why women do this"
Be baffled no more. The answer is because they want to. Hardly rocket science.
Some people like build up some don't. Men are probably more up front about it. That doesn't mean no women or couples work this way.
Ive had plenty of fuck me right now offers on this site. And no not from men as I have them blocked before anyone makes that comment lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was in the mood, had shaved my legs and they were offering what I wanted I might be inclined to accept.
I never shave my legs until the day I'm meeting someone though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had plenty of fuck me right now offers on this site. And no not from men as I have them blocked before anyone makes that comment lol."
the fact you stated that, just makes it seem they were from chaps... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was in the mood, had shaved my legs and they were offering what I wanted I might be inclined to accept.
I never shave my legs until the day I'm meeting someone though. "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lots of these, and occasionally I indulge if something grabs my interest, but it's rare.
Also done the whole blow and go a few times and find it very pleasurable.
I guess the guys are just chancing their luck with the fancy a fuck style messages.... or, heaven forbid, maybe that's just what they're looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do u expect tho on sex site lol
Oh I dont know - maybe not being treated like an unpaid Escort. That's why I joined a 'swinging' site not a 'fuck local milfs near you'site."
How the fuck are you being ‘treat’ like an unpaid escort when you’re NOT fucking them???
It’s a site that has a highly sexually charged atmosphere, Jesus Christ, why do people take shit so seriously...just delete, you won’t even break a sweat..
Unlike escorts... |
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"what do u expect tho on sex site lol
Oh I dont know - maybe not being treated like an unpaid Escort. That's why I joined a 'swinging' site not a 'fuck local milfs near you'site.
How the fuck are you being ‘treat’ like an unpaid escort when you’re NOT fucking them???
It’s a site that has a highly sexually charged atmosphere, Jesus Christ, why do people take shit so seriously...just delete, you won’t even break a sweat..
Unlike escorts..."
Calm down dear!! I do delete them poppet. I'd rather fuck swingers in clubs not desperate men who couldn't pull in a brothel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most of the problem is the way they ask.
I don't mind a quick meet/ shag on occasion.
But why should I meet just to give a bj? I enjoy giving them. But as part of the whole experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do u expect tho on sex site lol
Oh I dont know - maybe not being treated like an unpaid Escort. That's why I joined a 'swinging' site not a 'fuck local milfs near you'site.
How the fuck are you being ‘treat’ like an unpaid escort when you’re NOT fucking them???
It’s a site that has a highly sexually charged atmosphere, Jesus Christ, why do people take shit so seriously...just delete, you won’t even break a sweat..
Unlike escorts...
Calm down dear!! I do delete them poppet. I'd rather fuck swingers in clubs not desperate men who couldn't pull in a brothel."
I find it endearing how much subtle men hate there is on this site, makes me wonder how inundated women are in ‘real life’ seeing as they seem to be constantly beating men off with a shitty stick on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most of the problem is the way they ask.
I don't mind a quick meet/ shag on occasion.
But why should I meet just to give a bj? I enjoy giving them. But as part of the whole experience. "
Some girls like to meet just to give a bj. The guys don't know unless they ask  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most of the problem is the way they ask.
I don't mind a quick meet/ shag on occasion.
But why should I meet just to give a bj? I enjoy giving them. But as part of the whole experience.
Some girls like to meet just to give a bj. The guys don't know unless they ask "
I think it says on my profile I don't meet to just give out bjs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone for a "slow repair shag"
Can I have a quick rinse?
Just as long as you have fluffy tail on  "
Haha I've lost it! I think it's in a house in Manchester |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most of the problem is the way they ask.
I don't mind a quick meet/ shag on occasion.
But why should I meet just to give a bj? I enjoy giving them. But as part of the whole experience.
Some girls like to meet just to give a bj. The guys don't know unless they ask
I think it says on my profile I don't meet to just give out bjs. "
Ah they don't read them |
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"Anyone for a "slow repair shag"
Can I have a quick rinse?
Just as long as you have fluffy tail on
Haha I've lost it! I think it's in a house in Manchester "
Nooooooo  will have to send a search party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone for a "slow repair shag"
Can I have a quick rinse?
Just as long as you have fluffy tail on
Haha I've lost it! I think it's in a house in Manchester
Nooooooo will have to send a search party "
I was in walking distance of cupids, I know that much |
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"Anyone for a "slow repair shag"
Can I have a quick rinse?
Just as long as you have fluffy tail on
Haha I've lost it! I think it's in a house in Manchester
Nooooooo will have to send a search party
I was in walking distance of cupids, I know that much "
 haha brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had a message from a guy today, said ,wanna meet me you wont be disappointed,
we wanted to see what this guy had to offer us so we asked him to try and seduce mildred, the reply was ,
I want to bang her hard,
were meeting him tomorrow cant wait ,
not.... |
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"we had a message from a guy today, said ,wanna meet me you wont be disappointed,
we wanted to see what this guy had to offer us so we asked him to try and seduce mildred, the reply was ,
I want to bang her hard,
were meeting him tomorrow cant wait ,
not...."
I take it we aren't meeting tomorrow then... |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Ive had plenty of fuck me right now offers on this site. And no not from men as I have them blocked before anyone makes that comment lol.
the fact you stated that, just makes it seem they were from chaps..."
I'm just used to how the forum works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do u expect tho on sex site lol
Oh I dont know - maybe not being treated like an unpaid Escort. That's why I joined a 'swinging' site not a 'fuck local milfs near you'site.
How the fuck are you being ‘treat’ like an unpaid escort when you’re NOT fucking them???
It’s a site that has a highly sexually charged atmosphere, Jesus Christ, why do people take shit so seriously...just delete, you won’t even break a sweat..
Unlike escorts...
Calm down dear!! I do delete them poppet. I'd rather fuck swingers in clubs not desperate men who couldn't pull in a brothel.
I find it endearing how much subtle men hate there is on this site, makes me wonder how inundated women are in ‘real life’ seeing as they seem to be constantly beating men off with a shitty stick on this site."
In real life I get a lot of men looking, with either the scared bunny look in their eyes, or the "Oh I wish!"look. I can't help it if I'm irresistible |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"what do u expect tho on sex site lol
Oh I dont know - maybe not being treated like an unpaid Escort. That's why I joined a 'swinging' site not a 'fuck local milfs near you'site.
How the fuck are you being ‘treat’ like an unpaid escort when you’re NOT fucking them???
It’s a site that has a highly sexually charged atmosphere, Jesus Christ, why do people take shit so seriously...just delete, you won’t even break a sweat..
Unlike escorts...
Calm down dear!! I do delete them poppet. I'd rather fuck swingers in clubs not desperate men who couldn't pull in a brothel."
Might be lacking in social grace granted but what makes them desperate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Based on what some of my male friends have said. Women do it too. Message a guy and expect him to drop his boxers, just because they whistle. It's both genders. Not exclusive to males |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just love the ones who say they dont do socials "
Ditto!
I tell them I am not a sex vending machine and that if they want to pick "services" off a menu they need to go to a brothel and pay for it. I meet on MY terms, not anyone else's |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"what do u expect tho on sex site lol
Oh I dont know - maybe not being treated like an unpaid Escort. That's why I joined a 'swinging' site not a 'fuck local milfs near you'site.
How the fuck are you being ‘treat’ like an unpaid escort when you’re NOT fucking them???
It’s a site that has a highly sexually charged atmosphere, Jesus Christ, why do people take shit so seriously...just delete, you won’t even break a sweat..
Unlike escorts...
Calm down dear!! I do delete them poppet. I'd rather fuck swingers in clubs not desperate men who couldn't pull in a brothel.
Might be lacking in social grace granted but what makes them desperate?"
Their attitude. |
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"It must work for them to try it so much."
Going off their lack of veris and the number of whiney threads that pop up on here I sincerely doubt it. If i'm bored I've even replied to a few to see their response. Dull as dish water and scared shitless when you suggest a meet or god forbid a club.
Generally men like this are full of shit and make it easier for the decent ones to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Based on what some of my male friends have said. Women do it too. Message a guy and expect him to drop his boxers, just because they whistle. It's both genders. Not exclusive to males "
 . It happens
I don't mind even though I'm not interested. People use fab in different ways, there's no right or wrong way to go about it. People (male and female) will just use fab in the way that works for them or they think will work for them. The site has all the tools you need to not have to receive messages from those you don't want to receive them from. As long as people aren't abusive or aggressive then I don't see the problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Based on what some of my male friends have said. Women do it too. Message a guy and expect him to drop his boxers, just because they whistle. It's both genders. Not exclusive to males
. It happens
I don't mind even though I'm not interested. People use fab in different ways, there's no right or wrong way to go about it. People (male and female) will just use fab in the way that works for them or they think will work for them. The site has all the tools you need to not have to receive messages from those you don't want to receive them from. As long as people aren't abusive or aggressive then I don't see the problem."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most of the problem is the way they ask.
I don't mind a quick meet/ shag on occasion.
But why should I meet just to give a bj? I enjoy giving them. But as part of the whole experience.
Some girls like to meet just to give a bj. The guys don't know unless they ask "
Damn it, you could have told me that last Saturday! |
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"They aren't even subtle about it. Always a delete from me. Seems to be particular problem at this time of year. Is it the cold snap or something?? Any other ladies/couples pestered with guys like these?
The ones that message saying I’m free for an hour would like my dick sucked ! .. looooool hold on mate I’m grabbing my coat whilst starting my car
Knobheads lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here! "
I wouldn't have a clue either...
However, being an average, single woman on here I can say that once you start approaching people online, as opposed to Swingers' clubs and parties, it's bloody hard work!
Loads of time waisted with people who apparently feel most comfortable online and attached to their keyboard.
p.s. How quick is a "service shag"?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We got lots like this, it's just gross.
I can't imagine what it's like to be an attractive single female on here! "
heaven probably but you didn't wait to find out |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I don't mind the quick shags
BUT
Only if I'm horny already, only if they have bothered to use the site tools to show what they are offering, or sent decent photos with their message, and they want more than just a blow job  .
Not everyone wants drawn out foreplay (loads of messages, socials etc.), sometimes all you want is a good old fuck and get on with your life.
It's just that some haven't got their head around that just because they are already horny doesn't mean who they are messaging is, so it's still going to take some effort, especially if their profile is crap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone noticed its worse at pub chucking out time and on Friday when the weekend wankers appear?! "
It's worse at 4am when the wives are asleep. Even I get mail at that time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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BUT
Only if I'm horny already, only if they have bothered to use the site tools to show what they are offering, or sent decent photos with their message, and they want more than just a blow job .
Not everyone wants drawn out foreplay (loads of messages, socials etc.), sometimes all you want is a good old fuck and get on with your life.
It's just that some haven't got their head around that just because they are already horny doesn't mean who they are messaging is, so it's still going to take some effort, especially if their profile is crap "
i get this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They aren't even subtle about it. Always a delete from me. Seems to be particular problem at this time of year. Is it the cold snap or something?? Any other ladies/couples pestered with guys like these? "
I often advise them to get an escort. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Based on what some of my male friends have said. Women do it too. Message a guy and expect him to drop his boxers, just because they whistle. It's both genders. Not exclusive to males
. It happens
I don't mind even though I'm not interested. People use fab in different ways, there's no right or wrong way to go about it. People (male and female) will just use fab in the way that works for them or they think will work for them. The site has all the tools you need to not have to receive messages from those you don't want to receive them from. As long as people aren't abusive or aggressive then I don't see the problem."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most of the problem is the way they ask.
I don't mind a quick meet/ shag on occasion.
But why should I meet just to give a bj? I enjoy giving them. But as part of the whole experience.
Some girls like to meet just to give a bj. The guys don't know unless they ask
Damn it, you could have told me that last Saturday!"
Haha see you at the next one |
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"Get it all year round and all get deleted. Some women must go for it - I’ve seen the odd veri from a woman saying he didn’t have long but it was a nice cock to suck. A very suckable cock in fab speak. It baffles me why women do this"
Isn't it basically the same approach as dogging? |
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"Anyone noticed its worse at pub chucking out time and on Friday when the weekend wankers appear?!
It's worse at 4am when the wives are asleep. Even I get mail at that time! "
Yup. Spot on. Sat at the laptop, dick in hand looking at Fab pics and gwtting their jollies messaging dirty messages.
Sad twats. |
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"Anyone noticed its worse at pub chucking out time and on Friday when the weekend wankers appear?!
It's worse at 4am when the wives are asleep. Even I get mail at that time!
Yup. Spot on. Sat at the laptop, dick in hand looking at Fab pics and gwtting their jollies messaging dirty messages.
Sad twats."
Totally! Xhamster is way better for cracking one off to............... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone noticed its worse at pub chucking out time and on Friday when the weekend wankers appear?! "
The weekend wankers, never heard that before but made me laugh out loud! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone noticed its worse at pub chucking out time and on Friday when the weekend wankers appear?!
The weekend wankers, never heard that before but made me laugh out loud!"
My pet name for them lol |
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