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Poly/fwb/relationships forum (2)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just to keep this alive for those interested as last thread filled and closed and the OP unfortunately has sadly moved on.

Fab is creaking to the gills with people merrily filling their boots with playful sex with strangers. But beneath the cum soaked veneer there are another group of sexual deviants and swingers struggling to find like minds. I'm talking about those who are seeking friends with benefits, polyamorous lovers, and swinging relationships. It would be truly wonderful to create a space where these relationships might form, where swingers might seek to date, whilst poly people seek out more amorous connections, and others advertise for sexual friendships.

Please could we have a space in the forums for facilitating such connections?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This would be great as I would love to meet someone for a swinging relationship. Not here for just hook ups as they do nothing for me.

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple over a year ago

North West

We’ve been looking for a friend with benefits for Mr C since we joined and don’t have much luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hubby and I are looking for a regular friend or two for socials and more, one offs are not really our thing.

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By *hesgotagreatassCouple over a year ago

Ashford

This would be great for fab. Plus us.

We are not looking for one night stands or to sleep with as many people as possible, what we want is a regular guy for N to enjoy, in and out of the bedroom. Something may I dare to say it deeper and with feeling.

A FWMMB. A friend with many more benefits!

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By *ngel clawsWoman over a year ago

Hull

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By *ngel clawsWoman over a year ago

Hull

This is exactly what I'm looking for, a regular fwb even poly. I'm not interested in shagging my way through the whole of fab x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This would be great I’m looking for a female to meet regular to play alone and with other couples

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By *ancduoCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Same here. Been together 18 years. Poly and open. Always open to friends with benefits and poly relationships but for Mrs it never happens. Mr has been lucky to find a few regulars. I’ve been looking for a year. So offers welcome.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was lucky enough to have a friendship for over two years ,a lovely couple ,we would meet about once a month ,it always seemed fresh ,we were comfortable with the situation .He had to move for his work ,we still chat about how good we were together.wish i could find another special couple .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm happily married and both me and hubby both have open relationships and swing. We met via fab and didn't want to give up the excitement of it so carried on.

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By *eanjohnCouple over a year ago

Mansfield

We too are intrigued and certainly want to test the water, either a girlfriend between us (pwahaha, unlikley) or a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

In the mean time guys maybe look through those on here and on the last post, maybe make contact with someone nearby and see what transpires. I'm in one but they didn't come from FAB. Still looking and hoping on here though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We can but hope !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would definitely welcome a poly forum.

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By *iggerman81Man over a year ago

Cardiff

"Just to keep this alive for those interested as last thread filled and closed and the OP unfortunately has sadly moved on.

Please could we have a space in the forums for facilitating such connections? "

Excellent idea. Lets hope we can get one. Been in two long term (one 2 years and and another 4 - with overlap) cuckold relationships. They worked fantastically and I was a fool in love to give them up for a woman I married and then divorced! Ah, well but thats another story.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great idea.

I've been in a poly relationship with 2 couple's. It's something I'd love to be part of again.

I prefer to have a fwb, at the moment I'm mostly socialising, in the hope to find the elusive fwb I could share....

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By *otwifeforyou1978Couple over a year ago

Telford

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Great idea"

Agree with op...being a fwb/lover to a couple for over 3 years much prefer the intimate connection ..quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to find a Fwb/relationship for socials and more, I'm not just looking for hook ups one offs etc. Can't seem to find what I'm after on sites like Pof their too vanilla I need the kink aswell lol

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By *ussetdevilCouple over a year ago

Swindon

"This is exactly what I'm looking for, a regular fwb even poly. I'm not interested in shagging my way through the whole of fab x"

Same here, I am looking for more than one offs with strangers.

Am hoping someone on this thread may be local and looking for the same.

Amy

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

I find it more fulfilling with someone if we have more than 1 meet I have a fb been seeing each other on and off for a couple of years sometimes just chat others we rip each others clothes off and go wild would be good to find another woman or couple to build a relationship with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm available lol x

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"I'm available lol x"

Shame your not near me

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By *ickinglover69Man over a year ago

Langley

Definitely looking for a poly family. Friends with benefits hook ups and regular sex one night stands.

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I'm still interested in this

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"I'm still interested in this

Should think u will have plenty of offers ,nice pics btw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely interested in this. Anyone local to me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same for us long term poly relationships work better for us. Mind you living where we do is not easy, so we're selling up here and moving back to the mainland to facilitate meeting people.

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By *oreverHorny69Man over a year ago

Milnrow

I am also looking for a friend with benefits are there any round Manchester that wish to chat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree....we are good friends too ..all about mutual respect and understanding. I like to think i never over step themark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in a poly relationship for over a year. It worked wonderfully, we all lived together at weekends and had holidays as mr, mrs and mrs.........

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By *endrix30Man over a year ago

dudley

I am really interested in this, i would love a poly relationship. Please get in touch if interested, lets talk.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to find a fwb from here instead of endless meets. Holmfirth area.

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By *hil_SW19Man over a year ago

Raynes Park

I'm also looking for a relationship with s swinger (f) who does more than a hook up.

Movies theatre gigs as well as swing clubs and parties.

I use to know a fwbbut she has settled down now.

Phil

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By *Q_GentMan over a year ago

Manchester, City Centre

Having been in a poly relationship before I'd love to meet women who are on a similar wavelength or a couple to have regular fun with around the Manchester area

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have lived a poly lifestyle for some years. We have had many ups and downs along the way lol.

We are now exploring other forms of ethical non monogamy and that includes finding some really goid FWB type relationships.

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

How many are using that just to get a meet I wonder , but as in my experience it always gets more enjoyable when you get to know each other better,

Also the trust level increases so maybe a bit more open to try new or other things as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Something I’ve enjoyed in the past. A swinging “relationship”. Would certainly seek this again.

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

My cuck is working away Monday to Friday for the next six months and we are looking for someone to join me regularly while he’s away. Initially my cuck will be here on meets until I’m comfortable meeting alone. This is open to guys, ladies and couples as long as you fancy something regular.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes please. I'd love a full on poly relationship. I've met a few guys for a series of meets and become friends but it never lasts.

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"My cuck is working away Monday to Friday for the next six months and we are looking for someone to join me regularly while he’s away. Initially my cuck will be here on meets until I’m comfortable meeting alone. This is open to guys, ladies and couples as long as you fancy something regular. "

Shame its your cuck near me and not you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has anyone actually made a contact through this thread,it would be nice to know they had .Im still looking and hoping,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Has anyone actually made a contact through this thread,it would be nice to know they had .Im still looking and hoping,"

Yes.

I've heard a few have from last thread and also on this. You need to remember that making contact doesn't mean meeting. It can be simply to chat with someone who thinks the same way and maybe getting answers to qurstions one may have about the subject.

I put this up partly for that reason. It can bring like minded people together which can open up many possibilities.

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think it would be a very valuable part of the site and I certainly would be using it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would be nice to have a regular FWB and/or someone in a poly relationship (as I am). I doubt that it will get it's own forum though.

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By *oreverHorny69Man over a year ago

Milnrow

Would love a fwb and a room to facilitate this would be brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Excellent idea. Would be a great asset to the site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Excellent idea. Would be a great asset to the site

I concur.

I would definitely welcome a poly forum.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple over a year ago

Lancashire

"We’ve been looking for a friend with benefits for Mr C since we joined and don’t have much luck

We've been looking for one each with no luck so far either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love friends with benefits, a poly relationship. I have had a few one offs but not really wanting one offs want a regular woman for friends with benefits situation and maybe a poly relationship, it would be interesting for me as never been in one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll be working in west Brom for the next few months. Give me a shout if you'd like to have a chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We agree. We both like to see people more than once and are looking to start having individual friends with benefits - just for the kink. It'd be great to have a place to talk or even preferences for "FWB" etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We agree. We both like to see people more than once and are looking to start having individual friends with benefits - just for the kink. It'd be great to have a place to talk or even preferences for "FWB" etc."

Most definitely

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By *rs T and HubbyCouple over a year ago

somewhere north of the border..

We find this idea very appealing.. As we both would prefer regular FWB over one off meets. Hoping we are at the start of something here..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been talking about this recently, Mr works every weekday from mid afternoon until the early hours of the morning.

Mrs bi urges are becoming increasingly strong, so we were thinking of trying to find a lady for her so she can satisfy her needs and hopefully that of a possible lady who finds herself in a similar situation.

No male interaction need for this one. Sorry guys (not even me)

Think its something we need to talk about a bit more as we've only just started exploring the subject, but its definitely something we'll be looking into.

Probably like trying to find a needle in a hay stack..so a poly/fwb forum would be something we would be reading with great interest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We would like to have a regular couple

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By *rMrsNawtyCouple over a year ago

north west

We Prefer regular social fwb couples.

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By *urious_couple_2015Couple over a year ago

North West

"We’ve been looking for a friend with benefits for Mr C since we joined and don’t have much luck

We've been looking for one each with no luck so far either "

Mr C is always looking for lovely lady friends if you’d like a chat?

Mrs C has a fwb for the moment ... isn’t looking for another unless Matthew McConughey becomes available

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By *ugmonster73Man over a year ago

Southampton

Good because I'm looking for a regular Fwb I've met a couple who are a fwb couple and would like that for myself

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By *eterbeebeeMan over a year ago

Derby

I'm all up for this too but it's like looking for hens teeth or a real unicorn so I'm available in the Derby area as long as you can drive/travel

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Seems to have run out of steam,

Would still like a dedicated part or section that is for poly or potential longer term fwb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We actually met on fab as singles and it is something we have discussed

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By *sianMancMan over a year ago

Manchester

Wonderful idea.

I joined here many moons ago for the soul purpose of hoping to find the one...so welcome.this wholeheartedly x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Polyamorous relationships are the ideal thing for me ...would love to see a dedicated section for it on fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are in one x

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By *entkevMan over a year ago

Dover

After being in the swinging world for several years i accidentally fell into a FWB relationship with a couple, great at first but after a few months his jealousy ended it.

Now im 2 years into a FWB relationship where the husband doesnt know.

I carry the guilt but its brilliant for us both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think the idea is great I've been on fab twice and last time I met a couple of couples more than once. This is preferred but can be difficult to all get free.

Would like it this time round but sometimes people tell you what you want to hear and don't have the intention of meeting up again. Would change my profile to FWB and allow guys to message but even with filters and asking no cock pics people don't read your profile x

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman over a year ago

St Helens

This would be a fab idea! Pardon the pun! I'm looking for a boyfriend, looking to settle but we go to swinging clubs and have threesomes etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is exactly what I'm looking for, a regular fwb even poly. I'm not interested in shagging my way through the whole of fab x"
me too but it's fun holding auditions

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By *icumsuckerMan over a year ago

liverpool

Single guy here who would love a fwb relationship with a couple to please the male or female when needed. With nights in/out and working up to holidays away x

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By *issBiWoman over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Just to keep this alive for those interested as last thread filled and closed and the OP unfortunately has sadly moved on.

Please could we have a space in the forums for facilitating such connections? "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Friends with benefits prefered here too. Kinky ones with an open mind whom like to or are willing to explore and experiment!

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By *heIcebreakersCouple over a year ago

Cramlington

I think we'd appreciate a forum where people talk about sex, kink and fun from a perspective that isn't mainstream oriented.

The key for me would be to avoid the disputes about poly vs kink vs fwb or whatever. It would be easier, from my perspective, if the new forum simply started by not being about couples and singles, but about people who are open minded.

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By *acy69Woman over a year ago

Letterkenny

Yes i agree its great to find a guy who has the same ideas .. and beside the most important part of a relationship is great sex and often and been able to talk about anything with ur partner... so meeting that "someone here we're on a win win....

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I'd love to find a Fwb/relationship for socials and more, I'm not just looking for hook ups one offs etc. Can't seem to find what I'm after on sites like Pof their too vanilla I need the kink aswell lol "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

I always scare off potential suitors on other sites when they ask my hobbies and I tell them I enjoy watching lots of super kinky porn......on here guys/couples are of similar mindset.....

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"I always scare off potential suitors on other sites when they ask my hobbies and I tell them I enjoy watching lots of super kinky porn......on here guys/couples are of similar mindset....."

Shame your too far lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poly would suit me fine I like the relaxed atmosphere of regular partners. This is a great idea x

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By *oreverHorny69Man over a year ago

Milnrow

"Poly would suit me fine I like the relaxed atmosphere of regular partners. This is a great idea x"

Totally agree it’s sounds wonderful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always scare off potential suitors on other sites when they ask my hobbies and I tell them I enjoy watching lots of super kinky porn......on here guys/couples are of similar mindset....."

Worse hobbies to have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet a lady once a month socially and every 2-3 months for hotel fun..she has a bf..i have a partner..works for us both and has for 3 years...id love to meet a couple/lady in leeds to enjoy something similar..merry Christmas all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm looking for a swinging relationship somebody that's not a million miles away seems hard to find

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By *inximooWoman over a year ago

leicestershire

This is what I’m looking for too!

Poly/swinger relationship with someone local

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm looking to share someones wife on a regular basis

Distance not an issue my end .....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is what I’m looking for too!

Poly/swinger relationship with someone local

Agree but hard to find

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody hard to find!! Been on the party scene, been to lot’s of clubs do socials etc, I think we delude ourselves as to what we actually want and the reality of what we find on here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been fortunate enough to have had FWB relationships in the past. Really enjoyed it and would very much like to find the same again. Also open to making friends with ladies for chats over coffee, etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its something we have been looking into. Would be great if it happened

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d love to find that Fwb thing, maybe even more. But I’d take a Fwb at the moment, it would work with my life. I’ve had it before and it worked well. It’s just finding the right person though

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By *eeds good lovingCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

This is sometging we have been looking for a full on poly relationship met a couple of guts but it always seems to be short lived would love to meet someone who is genuinly interested

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By *ingerbiker69!Man over a year ago

crewe

An FWB forum would be great.

That’s what I’m looking for, I’m not interested in shagging half the site, or shagging the women who have.

I just want someone nice I can do coupley type things with when we’re together. Go restaurants, cinema, plays have a night together, once twice a month, then just be mates in between

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Had a fwb couple , she then got jealous of me with another woman so it ended,

A poly couple or female fwb is an ideal but a forum is a good idea as already said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great idea!

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By *ames WhyteMan over a year ago

Near Manchester Airport

Put my name down please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"An FWB forum would be great.

That’s what I’m looking for, I’m not interested in shagging half the site, or shagging the women who have.

I just want someone nice I can do coupley type things with when we’re together. Go restaurants, cinema, plays have a night together, once twice a month, then just be mates in between "

This is the ideal

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By *hocolateRodMan over a year ago

London and over UK

count me in!

Would love a long term friendship with a couple/hotwife - would be lovely!

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By *eterbeebeeMan over a year ago

Derby

Everyone seems to have the same ideas but not a single one for FWB or FB in my area !!

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By *ixen and RudolphCouple over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

Would love to find the right guy to explore this. Hope we do in 2018

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

Is the poly thread dead?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We think that would be a great additional feature!

We both consider ourselves to be poly as we like to have a more relationship based experiance.

We have previously enjoyed a poly relationship with another couple and would love to meet another couple or two for the same again! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A forum dedicated to relationship set ups is a great idea.

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"A forum dedicated to relationship set ups is a great idea."

More than a one off much better as you get to know likes dislikes and boundaries even if they get pushed

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By *uicy72Woman over a year ago

North Colchester

Fab thread !

Still not found no one local for myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I may have got my Fab Christmas present... just saying. Unwrapping it slowly.

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By *oxPhoenixCouple over a year ago

Ravenstone

This sounds like a tremendous idea.

We have been together for 15 years and just don't like the idea of one night stand.

Actually having a friendship with a lady is about respect and understanding.

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman over a year ago

essex just looking around

This is totally. Great feed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"This is totally. Great feed x"

Thanks.

Hope to keep it going and people can use it as a database for those who are of like minds. No forum for it as yet but hopefully with the interest that is being shown maybe it'll show how popular the idea is amongst so many.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A forum dedicated to relationship set ups is a great idea.

More than a one off much better as you get to know likes dislikes and boundaries even if they get pushed "

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By *kblokenorthMan over a year ago

Any

Been seeking a Poly partner or cpl on here for some time. Sometimes with success but so far nothing that’s lasted. I think one can only keep looking! A dedicated thread or section would be a great help......

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By *essThePirateWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Just saying Hi. Count me in. X

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"I may have got my Fab Christmas present... just saying. Unwrapping it slowly.

Have fun with that op managed to kickstart the thread again

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"A forum dedicated to relationship set ups is a great idea.

More than a one off much better as you get to know likes dislikes and boundaries even if they get pushed

If you like the idea why not put it on your profile you may find someone local amongst all the faf messages you no doubt get

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By *ucyfur77Woman over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I'm still interested in this

Should think u will have plenty of offers ,nice pics btw"

Genuinely haven't.

Thanks for kind words

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By *iversong321Woman over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

Always wanted a poly relationship. To be adopted by a gorgeous couple. A lovely addition all round. Spicy, tattooed red head anyone??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are all the ladies looking for the same or similar to myself always so far away...mind you even if I moved I bet it wokld still be the same lol

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By *rbane PlayerMan over a year ago

London

"A forum dedicated to relationship set ups is a great idea.

More than a one off much better as you get to know likes dislikes and boundaries even if they get pushed

If you like the idea why not put it on your profile you may find someone local amongst all the fat messages you no doubt get"

Maybe it would be easier to have a 'box' on profiles for "poly relationships' or 'friends with benefits' so these could be search terms for anyone interested?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm always looking for a fwb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tagging in as very interested in fwbs and possibly something deeper (poly).

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"Tagging in as very interested in fwbs and possibly something deeper (poly)."

Welcome to the thread that keeps stalling lol

Hopefully someone on here might be what your after

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By *rs T and HubbyCouple over a year ago

somewhere north of the border..

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By *rs T and HubbyCouple over a year ago

somewhere north of the border..

This thread open us to the idea more and after a long a deep discussion we have began a fwb relationship with someone we both agreed would be respectful and that everyone is happy with the situation...

We can see where it takes us..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tagging in as very interested in fwbs and possibly something deeper (poly).

Welcome to the thread that keeps stalling lol

Hopefully someone on here might be what your after"

That's point of this thread...its the second one. As there's no forum for this subject the thread will keep going with the intention of providing a database for those interested in perusing and pursuing the possibilities.

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By *lwenWoman over a year ago

De12 area

id welcome a forum for poly /fwb its basically why im here,, my current Fwb has started to work away loads so therefor another would be great ,, but its finding that 1 person ,, i have no intention of having sex with a stranger ,, which helps rule out loads of people as most dont like to have socials in public ,, but i like days out ,, weekends away etc if the man cant do this then hes not what im looking for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds something like my kind of thing.

I'm not after any kind of romance but neither am I keen on one-off hook ups. Something in between, I suppose fwb isn't such a bad description.

I have a good social life already though I am a bit of a hermit at the best of times. But it would be great to find people who I hit it off with sexually and on a personal level too ... shared interests, values, world view etc. Friendship and sex can be a lovely combination.

It's rare for me to find people who I truly click with sexually, and I find the whole fab cycle of posting, writing/reading initial messages, first time meets etc, really quite exhausting mentally and emotionally not to mention disillusioning and frustrating a lot of the time.

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By *illie83lCouple over a year ago

Leeds

It's great to see so many more people embracing the poly lifestyle

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"Tagging in as very interested in fwbs and possibly something deeper (poly).

Welcome to the thread that keeps stalling lol

Hopefully someone on here might be what your after

I know it is the point and for the same reason I add another comment when it stalls so it highlights it again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's great to see so many more people embracing the poly lifestyle "

It is. I suspect I'd be terrible at a true "poly" myself though : )

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By *ewels18Woman over a year ago

Ashington

Definately a great idea.. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Tagging in as very interested in fwbs and possibly something deeper (poly).

Welcome to the thread that keeps stalling lol

Hopefully someone on here might be what your after

I know it is the point and for the same reason I add another comment when it stalls so it highlights it again "

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This section would be very good. I’ve been poly for many years and in an open relationship with my partner and she is knows I’m poly. Sadly I’ve found partners tend to settle down overtime. But occasionally you do find others in the scene.

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By *eardedProctologistMan over a year ago

Here and there but more here than there

Definitely in !!

(wishing thinking)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Checking back in x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We'd love to find a regular, local guy for me (Mrs) and a regular couple for us as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Found our fwb as singles now a couple

But we would like a regular couple to have as friends with benefits ?

We are both quite shy and believe the fun grows with time ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to try being part of a poly couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Deffo interested in a fwb, but seems all the single ladies get hounded by fake profiles and idiots who ruin it for the genuines xx

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"Deffo interested in a fwb, but seems all the single ladies get hounded by fake profiles and idiots who ruin it for the genuines xx"

All the any hole os a goal group who mess it up for the rest of us ,

Still we can always hope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Very interesting thread

Well done OP

It’s certainty something I would be interested in when I’m ready to settle down but for now I happy as I am

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By *uicy72Woman over a year ago

North Colchester

"Deffo interested in a fwb, but seems all the single ladies get hounded by fake profiles and idiots who ruin it for the genuines xx"

Dam shame your so far !

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm not poly but would love to find another local fb/fwb

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to meet someone on here for an open-ish/nsa relationship

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Deffo interested in a fwb, but seems all the single ladies get hounded by fake profiles and idiots who ruin it for the genuines xx

All the any hole os a goal group who mess it up for the rest of us ,

Still we can always hope "

Hmmm probably more to do with being married than than being tarred with the same brush.....

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Open to a poly relationship

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"Deffo interested in a fwb, but seems all the single ladies get hounded by fake profiles and idiots who ruin it for the genuines xx

All the any hole os a goal group who mess it up for the rest of us ,

Still we can always hope

Hmmm probably more to do with being married than than being tarred with the same brush....."

And as said in loads of other threads where married men and occasionally married women get slated the site has lots of people who have there own opinion and ideas and that's one reason a poly fwb longer term arrangement can work for some people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If only hubby was in on the fun this would be ideal for me

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By *un4meanduMan over a year ago

STOTFOLD

"If only hubby was in on the fun this would be ideal for me

Watch it you will get a slagging from the anti cheating club lol, sexy pic btw

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cheats never prosper

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Certainly not easy to find

All I can do is But keep looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to find a woman or two for regular Feb, but proper fwb where we can hang out as friends as well as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would love to find another female for more that just the odd bit of fun , someone I could have a emotional attachment to and share quality time with it’s just hard knowing where to look so a forum would be great . Belle XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Cheats never prosper"

What contribution has that to this post? If you know what real poly is, it's about consent between partners to allow others into that same shared space to love and be loved by more than one other. It's not about running around and looking for unsolicited quick fucks behind people backs.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

Good evening everyone.

We'd like the idea of a girlfriend. Poly is something that's very interesting to us.

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By *oxPhoenixCouple over a year ago

Ravenstone

"Cheats never prosper

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This would be great for fab. Plus us.

A FWMMB. A friend with many more benefits! "

Wish I was still in Ashford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are lucky, we have met a great groupie who both play. So we have all become FWB with each other

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poly relationships can and do work. I was in one for 18 months and it was amazing

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By *.LBCouple over a year ago

South

Wife has had many a friend over the years she called them fuck buddies ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This would be great! We are looking for a regular guy for Alabama but finding it quite hard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wife has had many a friend over the years she called them fuck buddies ??"

I think there’s a big difference between fuck buddies and being in a poly relationship. I was a second wife in our relationship. We went on holiday as Mr Mrs and Mrs. We all lived together 3-4 nights a week. It was almost full time (apart from when my family visited)

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By *ertsguy2000Man over a year ago

hertford

I’ve read through this thread and there are some gorgeous ladies and couples on here, looking for fun and a relationship with the extra fun of others, but....

But why are you all Sooooo far away!?!?!?

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By *oftandGentle2Couple over a year ago

leeds

I got asked if I’d ever thought of a polyamory relationship by a Male recently .. I had to research what it meant! Lol

Is it something we would consider? I don’t actually know really... that’s a huge commitment ... excighting, but huge!

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By *oftandGentle2Couple over a year ago

leeds

"I’ve read through this thread and there are some gorgeous ladies and couples on here, looking for fun and a relationship with the extra fun of others, but....

But why are you all Sooooo far away!?!?!?

HG"

Ooooooft nice pics!

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By *ertsguy2000Man over a year ago

hertford

"I’ve read through this thread and there are some gorgeous ladies and couples on here, looking for fun and a relationship with the extra fun of others, but....

But why are you all Sooooo far away!?!?!?

Ooooooft nice pics!

Well that’s very nice of you to say, thank you, and right back at you x

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By *oftandGentle2Couple over a year ago

leeds

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By *oftandGentle2Couple over a year ago

leeds

"I’ve read through this thread and there are some gorgeous ladies and couples on here, looking for fun and a relationship with the extra fun of others, but....

But why are you all Sooooo far away!?!?!?

Ooooooft nice pics!

Well that’s very nice of you to say, thank you, and right back at you x"

Most welcome x Thankyou x

And yup to far away, such is life x

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By *ertsguy2000Man over a year ago

hertford

"I’ve read through this thread and there are some gorgeous ladies and couples on here, looking for fun and a relationship with the extra fun of others, but....

But why are you all Sooooo far away!?!?!?

Ooooooft nice pics!

Well that’s very nice of you to say, thank you, and right back at you x

Most welcome x Thankyou x

And yup to far away, such is life x

I know....grrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How would you differentiate between polyamory and a couple who swing with regular fwbs? I'm thinking these two things are quite similar?

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By *ertsguy2000Man over a year ago

hertford

"How would you differentiate between polyamory and a couple who swing with regular fwbs? I'm thinking these two things are quite similar?"

Yes I can why you would think that. The way I understand polyamory is that it’s more like two or more ‘serious’ relationship, being able and all comfortable to be perhaps in ‘love’ with more than one person, so more than just sex I think. But think most people will have their own opinion on it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being poly I would defiantly agree.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple over a year ago

leeds

"How would you differentiate between polyamory and a couple who swing with regular fwbs? I'm thinking these two things are quite similar?

Yes polyamory involves feelings and love, a relationship, not just regular sex with the same person.

Everything that goes in a marriage, but not married.

As I said BIG commitment! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How would you differentiate between polyamory and a couple who swing with regular fwbs? I'm thinking these two things are quite similar?

Yes polyamory involves feelings and love, a relationship, not just regular sex with the same person.

Everything that goes in a marriage, but not married.

As I said BIG commitment! X

It’s the love and full relationship side that makes it different xx

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By *oftandGentle2Couple over a year ago

leeds

"How would you differentiate between polyamory and a couple who swing with regular fwbs? I'm thinking these two things are quite similar?

Yes polyamory involves feelings and love, a relationship, not just regular sex with the same person.

Everything that goes in a marriage, but not married.

As I said BIG commitment! X

It’s the love and full relationship side that makes it different xx"

It sounds very intriguing and exceptionally hot!

But I’m not sure if my kids would be to old now at understanding such a complicated disruption.

Would be easy if they were babies, but teenagers....

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By *ertsguy2000Man over a year ago

hertford

Yes another level on from swinging, more open and like having two husbands or two wives or a husband and wife. Would be frowned upon by many

But fuck em, if tha floats your boat, got bugger all to do with anyone else. But yes the kids, would be wrong, in my opinion, not to consider the impact on them.

With the right partner in swinging, or a FWB or FB then you can have a similar commitment without the worry of others finding out if you are discreet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Poly just mean you're the opposite to monagomous. I have been in poly relationships and you're just open to sex or even relationships with others at the same time. Need to be strong of mind for this one!

Nice to find some liberal poly/hippie women on here... so rare, loads of horny people though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or you could just say swingers are polyamorous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How would you differentiate between polyamory and a couple who swing with regular fwbs? I'm thinking these two things are quite similar?

Yes polyamory involves feelings and love, a relationship, not just regular sex with the same person.

Everything that goes in a marriage, but not married.

As I said BIG commitment! X

It’s the love and full relationship side that makes it different xx

It sounds very intriguing and exceptionally hot!

But I’m not sure if my kids would be to old now at understanding such a complicated disruption.

Would be easy if they were babies, but teenagers.... "

Mine have fled the nest so I was able live with the poly couple 3-4 nights a week. A second wife....

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