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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I lurrrrves kissing and wouldnt want to have a meet where it was out of bounds...a good snog is a big turn on for me.
Ive declined meets with people who prefer not to because personally I know I wouldnt enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think kissing is a part of swinging or should it be kept as some thing you keep to yourselves?  "
sensuality in a meet works better for me.
don't get that turned on by the 'dont touch me / dont kiss me' types |
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kissing as part of sex is verynatural to me . certainly wouldnt feel right with out it for me . want to be able to relax and enjoy the meet not keep having to stop my self from kissing the person .id be on edge whole time so pointless doing it . therefore "no kissing " is a automatic deal breaker for me . fully respect no everyone wants to but def not for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think kissing is a good way to break the ice, help everyone feel comfortable. We find kissing another partner very sexy, erotic and natural, I suppose some couples reserve kissing for their own partners and that is entirely their right but if we were to meet up with a couple with that preference I would always feel self conscious and aware of trying to stop myself doing something that I always take for granted during sex and would detract from the enjoyment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I lurrrrves kissing and wouldnt want to have a meet where it was out of bounds...a good snog is a big turn on for me.
Ive declined meets with people who prefer not to because personally I know I wouldnt enjoy it."
xxxxxx kisses for you xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I have to be kissing, it's also a good indication as to how good there tongue is. Not to kiss is like having a cock in front of me and not being able to suck it!!!! unbearable........  |
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wouldn't ever even consider a meet where kissing was out of bounds. I look to have wonderfully horny sex on meets...but I only make love with my partner (who I also have wonderfully horny sex with  ) |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Personally, I love kissing - sex feels cold without the kiss. You can tell a lot about a person from a kiss: the excitement, the passion.. the lust!
But for those who choose not to, each to their own. |
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"So we're in a minority..but horses for courses."
maybe so...but there's no right or wrong, except in terms of yourselves....for you kissing on meets is wrong, for me, not kissing on meets is wrong.
Luckily there will be enough people with each preference for it not to be an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think kissing is a part of swinging or should it be kept as some thing you keep to yourselves? "
no answer to that is there?
should full sex be kept to yourself?
should anal be kept to yourself?
its down to what you want
personally i love kissing and find it quite offensive if i meet someone whos willing to stick his cock in my mouth but turns his head away for a kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have found that some swingers absolutely do not kiss,for many reasons. Kissing for me is extremely arousing if they are good at it...it is a shame more dont kiss. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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We don't.
Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......
We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.
He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.
I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing"  |
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"We don't.
Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......
We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.
He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.
I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing" "
He can do me from behind
Ok to clarify,we dont arrange meets with people with a no kissing rule... |
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"We don't.
Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......
We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.
He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.
I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing" "
He can do me from behind
Ok to clarify,we dont arrange meets with people with a no kissing rule... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't always kiss playmates as that wasn't how I played. I didn't give oral to all either unless I had two straight subs and would suck both cocks together for effect: their discomfort my pleasure!
My playmates didn't expect me to kiss them but hoped they'd be able to kiss my...well, you know! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me(male half)kissing is something i think is all part of the fun & cant beat kissing a woman who love's it as much as i do.Can't wait for my next night of kissing  |
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"We don't.
Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......
We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.
He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.
I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing" "
A slightly different thing though Maddie...playing for a short while in a club/party is, for me, quite different to arranging to meet a single/couple. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"We don't.
Makes me laugh all those that say they wouldn't meet if no kissing......
We play seperately at clubs and Jason's always off with other women and he's the one that put the no kissing rule into play and won't break it.
He's only ever had one woman stop him because he wouldn't kiss her.
I wonder how many of the one's he has gone off with are the one's saying...... "won't play without kissing"
A slightly different thing though Maddie...playing for a short while in a club/party is, for me, quite different to arranging to meet a single/couple."
I agree my lovely, but for those that say "kissing is a must", I assumed that "kissing is a must"....... regardless of where they are.
Or am I being pedantic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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kissing all the way, its the starting point of any good sexual encounter!!
And plus why wouldnt someone want to kiss you but happily suck/lick you to their hearts content?? |
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"of course!- has to be OK with all parties, naturally, but its a huge part of any encounter I think."
All part and parcel of the fun for us. I for one love seeing her engrossed in a hot horny kiss :]  |
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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago
We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !! |
The kissing thread again,it make us laugh coz lets be fair ppl who say they dont kiss as its to personal tickle us coz wats not personal about being ball deep in some1 elses wife so kissing for us get a big thumbs up coz what a turn on it is when in full snog wi another lady while your wife does the same with the bloke or lady or group lol,mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm we love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont like it during full sex.. a little foreplay although not with every meet.. I am quite happy to play without foreplay though.. have on many occassion had a guy in, told him what we are doing and got straight down to play..
I certainly dont need kissing.. LIke it in the right circumstances.. and for me kissing is more intimate than sex.. same as with cuddles or spending the night.. both something I will not do with others.
Katie. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No harm in a bit snogging to get the juices flowing nice.
But yeah totally respect others wishes ,its not a deal breaker in anyway.
and my mind is just racing now thinking of all that kissing, tongues and sucking ohhhhhhhh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is a part of good sex, why deny yourself any pleasure when swinging?"
for you it maybe but I get little from it... I would rather have my hair pulled during play with others if I'm honest... does far more to me than a kiss...
In meets with over 30 different guys I've kissed maybe 4.. and enjoyed it with two...
I miss out on no pleasure.. in fact someone constantly trying to kiss me is a turn off not on.
Because we are all different..
Katie X |
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By *scottMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
"wouldn't ever even consider a meet where kissing was out of bounds. I look to have wonderfully horny sex on meets...but I only make love with my partner (who I also have wonderfully horny sex with )"
Another ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its not the same with out kissing its not as good, if you got a partner who you love, you make love to your partner, thats the difference, when you swinging its adult fun a hobby,its a interest, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those that are saying kissing is essential.. are you meaning in foreplay... or during sex..
I will with regular partners kiss them on the lead up to sex.. and on my body or there body I dont mind.. but on the mouth. full on kissing, I would not use during full sex..
Katie.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I certainly dont need kissing.. LIke it in the right circumstances.. and for me kissing is more intimate than sex.. same as with cuddles or spending the night.. both something I will not do with others.
Katie. x"
We feel exactly the same...love, love, love kissing but intimacy is something we save for each other...kissing just feels too close for comfort unless it is with a lover, not a swinging meet. If that puts people off meeting us, so be it... |
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"Those that are saying kissing is essential.. are you meaning in foreplay... or during sex..
I will with regular partners kiss them on the lead up to sex.. and on my body or there body I dont mind.. but on the mouth. full on kissing, I would not use during full sex..
Katie.x"
Before, after, during, Anytime kissing is great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wud kiss women but not men. I don't care if I miss out on meets coz of it its a line I won't cross yet n I respect others lines n so expect mine to be respected to. To me kissing with a man is for those u are in a relationship with n I guess everyone has something just for relationships it stems from not quite there yet with grieving a lost one sex is sex kissing a man is different for me Kissng a woman is of no issue to me though but that's personal choice. Don't expect others to agree or even understand my decision tbh I don't always understand some others make but I play by them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't think you're in the minority.
We as a couple never initiate kissing with others, we're not completely against it, but its not an important factor to swinging for us.
Kissing between each other is important to us as it signifies tenderness, loving.
There are many who say 'you let someone fuck you but you won't let them kiss you' , what people seem to not realise is that they are playmates, they are not given the exclusive rights that we enjoy as a couple.
When we have a threesome ill kiss and respond if a guy kisses me, but it will be a hot n horny snog type kiss which often precludes hot n horny sex, but it won't be a erotic, tender, loving kiss because I would be faking that type of kiss with a stranger.
As singles playing with couples, you have to accept the couple will have an extra special bond which will exclude you. you will be given hopefully what you expect which is good quality sex and fun and socially have a great time feeling comfortable and at ease with that couple, but they will give each other exclusivity in relation to each other, they won't give that to you and you should never expect it |
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I love kissing, to me it can be very sensual and can be a turn on. Have never had a meet yet where there was a No Kissing rule, not sure i would like that as to me it would feel like a Wham Bam ty Mam kind of thing.
But we are all different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i do prefer meets with kissing but if it's off the menu then am ok as long as the other person tells me upfront.
having said that i've had a couple of kissing meets that have been awful because the kissing was awful.
met 1 guy who i had lusted after for ages and he just left me cold - it was like kissin a fkin budgie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it was like kissin a fkin budgie "
I cant remember when i last kissed a budgie whats that like :P
I have to say i much prefer kissing on meets its probably the most sexy part of it. But i would understand if people want to keep it between themselves. |
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