I wondered what people referred to when they said they weren't hardened swingers so I searched and found a previous post from over a year ago.
It seems that people like to use the expression "experienced but not a hardened swinger" to indicate they have enough experience to know what they're doing without having fucked half the site.
I wonder what is hoped for after stating this and how others interpret what they mean? |
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By *acktilMan
over a year ago
Tewkesbury |
"I wondered what people referred to when they said they weren't hardened swingers so I searched and found a previous post from over a year ago.
It seems that people like to use the expression "experienced but not a hardened swinger" to indicate they have enough experience to know what they're doing without having fucked half the site.
I wonder what is hoped for after stating this and how others interpret what they mean?"
I don't use either term however having been swinging on and off since the early 80s I like to think of myself as dedicated.  |
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Americans refer to what they call "the lifestyle". I guess that if swinging is what your whole life revolves around then you could be called a "hardened" swinger. If you've been going to a club or to parties and meeting people every couple of weeks or months for some years, then you can be experienced, (but not "hardened") without necessarily the whole thing having taken over your life, and you still have "plain vanilla" hobbies, and interests that don't involve taking your clothes off to do them.
But that's just my interpretation. I suppose that there are as many interpretations as there are people reading this...maybe? |
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By *edannaCouple
over a year ago
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"Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.
brilliantly put 
i must have had some sense shagged into me this weekend! "
I ll have to give that a go ,see if it works for me |
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"Its another way of saying we will judge others whose sexual behavior differs from ours in any way.
brilliantly put
i must have had some sense shagged into me this weekend!
I ll have to give that a go ,see if it works for me "
i recommend double wands!  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"when they prioritise swinging in front of everything else.. including family, friends & employment."
the above definition is mine and mine alone.. and no where does it indicate it is the wrong thing to do.. it is their choice.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I think of it as ( rightly or wrongly) that sex between just two people will never be enough....so they HAVE to have group sex to get their kicks."
the above definition is mine and mine alone.. and no where does it indicate it is the wrong thing to do.. it is their choice.
( nicked from View because his made sense for me too) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some can look to be harden-swingers if dont care who thay shag .... and doing it all the time as live for swinging and it control there life .... sex is like a drug to some thay dont care what people look like and who thay are its all about there own needs. To me thats the harden -swinger. |
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