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over a year ago
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Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?
Or is it just us ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?
Or is it just us ?
Happy Xmas all
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You guys have a somewhat unique profile . 2 women , one guy , and that alone will attract so many people who won't even consider the age of you all .
Maybe you could say in your profile that you aren't wanting messages from those who say they are looking for younger people ?
I am guessing you think that some just want to meet because of the two women one man thing , rather than each of you on your individual merits ?
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We've played with people in clubs , they and us have had a great time. Then after looking on their profile we have been over their preffered age range.
Surely it's a compliment? We raised our preffered range after realising we had done a similar thing. |
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"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?
Or is it just us ?
Happy Xmas all
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It doesn't necessarily put me off - I guess it depends if the message seems genuinely well thought out and personal to you, or if it's more of a generic chancing their arm and anyone will do sort of thing. The former can obviously be quite complimentary if you're outside their max age preference, the latter would go in the bin before you even consider age ranges. |
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"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?
Or is it just us ?
Happy Xmas all
You guys have a somewhat unique profile . 2 women , one guy , and that alone will attract so many people who won't even consider the age of you all .
Maybe you could say in your profile that you aren't wanting messages from those who say they are looking for younger people ?
I am guessing you think that some just want to meet because of the two women one man thing , rather than each of you on your individual merits ?
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That's a very good idea . Thanks x |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
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As a rule, if someone contacted me outside my stated preferred age range it wouldn't put me off.
If, however they were much under 30, that would be too young for me..drifting far too close to daughters' age! |
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"Does it put you off when people message you with gushing compliments and enthusiasm to shag you , who state on thier own profile that they they only wish to meet people in the say 18 - 35 age bracket and we are 39, 40 and 50 ?
Or is it just us ?
Happy Xmas all
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I would just take it as a compliment. You obviously don't look your age..  |
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