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DOES AGE REALLY MATTER?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I definitely don't think it should matter. I started swinging at a young age and it never hurt me! All about the chemistry with the other people. "
Ok that's good I wish I started younger too lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally wouldn't want to fuck a guy who's young enough to be my son. But then again, I wouldn't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my dad either"
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong. "
For me personally yes, in the last year I've been with a couple of guys in their mid 20's and they used techniques from porn sites and it does nothing to me, i want a guy who knows what to do to turn me on.....don't get me wrong, a lot of guys in their 40's are the same  plus i find it difficult looking at a young face lol
This is just my personal preference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"age shouldnt factor into it what should factor is are you attracted to one another and are you comfortable with each other"
But you have age limits on your profile so age does become a factor..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally wouldn't want to fuck a guy who's young enough to be my son. But then again, I wouldn't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my dad either"
This ^^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"age shouldnt factor into it what should factor is are you attracted to one another and are you comfortable with each other
But you have age limits on your profile so age does become a factor....."
yes i do but to be fair its not the usual 18-99 and im a realist i realise theres not many swingers on here in the upper age brackets so thought id cap my limits to what i thought was a respectful age |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong. "
If our lack of interest is anything to go by,we think it must lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I need a good chemistry with a guy before I even think about getting clothes off lol! Although I have met guys in their twenties and guys in their fourtys xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't find age matters within my own preference range. I've been meeting some young fellas over a period of 3-4 years. Hmmm I suppose they're getting on a bit now.  |
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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong.
For me personally yes, in the last year I've been with a couple of guys in their mid 20's and they used techniques from porn sites and it does nothing to me, i want a guy who knows what to do to turn me on.....don't get me wrong, a lot of guys in their 40's are the same plus i find it difficult looking at a young face lol
This is just my personal preference "
You see, when I was young I learnt my moves from artists like 'Teddy Pendergrass '
Turn off the lights.........
Light a candle.
I'll wash your body, while you wash mine..
He was my porn star with whom I learnt my moves from, and untill today, it still standing me in good sted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been swinging over 20 years we are now Linda 55 n Jimmy 59 and we have cples and singles from 18 t 65 and never thought any different cos we always say if you click then there's no reason why you shouldn't have sex it's always worked for us even now we met a cple last week both 22 and it was brill so there you go lol everyone's entitled to there choice at the end of the day xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong.
For me personally yes, in the last year I've been with a couple of guys in their mid 20's and they used techniques from porn sites and it does nothing to me, i want a guy who knows what to do to turn me on.....don't get me wrong, a lot of guys in their 40's are the same plus i find it difficult looking at a young face lol
This is just my personal preference
You see, when I was young I learnt my moves from artists like 'Teddy Pendergrass '
Turn off the lights.........
Light a candle.
I'll wash your body, while you wash mine..
He was my porn star with whom I learnt my moves from, and untill today, it still standing me in good sted "
Yes but spitting on my pussy and finger blasting or fucking like a rabbit for hours isn't my idea of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find younger guys selfish and not as intimate. Guys my age range tend to be more into foreplay and pleasing me.
Am yet to find a younger guy to prove me wrong.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a younger female I much prefer men well experienced, if men my age where any good id literally not be on here.
Older they are the more passionate and respectfully dominant they seem to be |
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Age matters
especially if you want to actually have a conversation with the person you are being intimate with.
Nothing more upsetting than discussing Andy Pandy with someone who has no idea who he is. |
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"I personally wouldn't want to fuck a guy who's young enough to be my son. But then again, I wouldn't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my dad either"
Same. I can't even picture it and be turned on. 14 years either way is my limit... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally wouldn't want to fuck a guy who's young enough to be my son. But then again, I wouldn't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my dad either
Same. I can't even picture it and be turned on. 14 years either way is my limit..."
I just scrape in then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us - there has to be an element of attraction as we love kissing and difficult to enjoy that with someone your not attracted to...
We don't feel comfortable meeting ppl young enough to be our kids or someone too much older than us. So we have a limit of 35-50. Plus we have found guys who are too young aren't assertive enough for us |
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"I personally wouldn't want to fuck a guy who's young enough to be my son. But then again, I wouldn't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my dad either
Same. I can't even picture it and be turned on. 14 years either way is my limit..."
Like PoF  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I reduced my age limit by 2 years a few weeks ago, and he thought it was acceptable to stand in front of me and waggle his cock in my face expecting me to be so enticed by it, I very soon suggested he just went home!
What a night wasted of shower, shave, hair, make up and getting dressed, should just have stayed in pj's and watched the box, much more entertaining |
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23 year old here, i think putting a mental block on yourself because of your age is pointless. I'd consider myself intellectual and mature, and even i struggle to find people older who i can have a real conversation with  It works both ways x |
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It can't matter if some adults find others attractive and they're compatible. It's their personal choice and their lives, to live as they wish.
Look for others who have their preferences including your characteristics, so there's not a matter of wasted time and energy. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong. "
Age is a number to me. I've enjoyed much older and much younger men both brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong.
Age is a number to me. I've enjoyed much older and much younger men both brilliant"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer guys that look much younger than I am...I don't wanna fuck someone that looks like he could be my dad...and guys my age often look that way...but they aren't always ruled out totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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End of the day if the person your with has no hang ups about the age difference and you are both adults then enjoy, but like I said earlier in thread most of my meets fall in the 35/45 age bracket only occasional do they start outside but never below 25 and never above 55 |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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if you read our profile you will see we are an age gap couple been together for ten years .we get on fine in every thing but music [ha ha]true male likes older sixty seventy dylan stones ect.female likes mother fucking gansta rap hip hop ect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was meeting a 23 year old a few years back, pretty regularly. I didn't find him selfish at all in bed. Very giving as a matter of fact... Just putting that out there, as not all younger men are selfish in bed.
As for preference, I do prefer meeting someone around my own age, but wouldn't rule out meeting someone older or younger, if the chemistry was right |
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By *andemanMan
over a year ago
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This is a tough one for me actually. While in theory i would have no problem meeting any age 18 to 99. In practice its not like that really.
Young woman great in fantasy but reality anyone under about 23 would have to have the maturity of a 30 year old to get my motor running.
Upper age limit? My late mistress was 14 years older than me and was fantastic.
Guys again fit and stable but probobly the same age issue as the girls.
Its all about who you are as a person. A stunning 18yr old with the maturity of a 6yr old and i am out of there!!! But that goes for a 50yr just the same.
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"No, it is just a fuck  "
And that comment says it all
Great sex is a skill and art that comes from within .
Some people are very sexual and skilled .. its born in them I believe. They feel it.
Others are just fuckers.
Ive played with age differences as vast as 27 years either side to my age .. the only difference is what they look like .. if they are sexual and have skills . Age is irrelevant..
However personal preference for physicsl looks for me is always younger x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have got a age range on our profile but that's just a rough guide and it's not set in stone, because we have chatted and got to know some people over the time who were above our max age (stated on our profile) and they turned out to be the nicest people we have had the pleasure of knowing on here so with us it's all about the people and not their age.
Everyone is different as some simply may not feel comfortable with someone who is loads younger/older than themselves which is fine. We have faced problems in the past where we match people's age on paper but then we get the comment that I (Mr) look too young because for some reason i was gifted a younger look so I don't look as old as I am (Yes 35!!) But like I say it's all about personal preference and everyone is different |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I've no problem with a varied age range, sadly there are some on here who are hung up on a specific age group.
You could call it age discrimination."
Or you could call it preference. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The other reason I was asking was that as for me I want to go at least 3-4 rounds a session. Does this affect the older people that they can't keep up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer guys that look much younger than I am...I don't wanna fuck someone that looks like he could be my dad...and guys my age often look that way...but they aren't always ruled out totally "
Cougar!... rrraaarr! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no problem with a varied age range, sadly there are some on here who are hung up on a specific age group.
You could call it age discrimination.
Or you could call it preference."
I'd call it discrimination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on your outlook some don't care as long as they are good fun and know what they're doing to turn them on, others like a specific age because that's what turns them on and find their more suites to them, each to there own. As long as there's still plenty of lovely women out there that like guys like me I don't care either way lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you read our profile you will see we are an age gap couple been together for ten years .we get on fine in every thing but music [ha ha]true male likes older sixty seventy dylan stones ect.female likes mother fucking gansta rap hip hop ect."
Hey as long as it works, which it obviously does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not to me, it's more about maturity and their outlook on things, personality and do we get on that really counts and that's before any remotely Naughty thoughts even occur. That said, 20 somethings upwards I think. I do think the age thing does loom large for a lot of folks and when they're looking, it does I think, affect us guys getting older and maybe women as well sometimes, as people quite often don't even bother to look because of the number however good a shape we're in
I don't have a problem with any of it and it's good we can all express our preferences. Just imagine how boring, .....zzzzz, it would be if we were all the same with the same views on everything.
Ermmm? No, on second thoughts, don't imagine it ... it would be horrible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be fair what makes a 18 year old join this site in the first place, surly they should be out pulling birds and living the life, not tugging the todger hoping for meet.theres far to many young people joining, I would never of dreamed of being on a swingers site at 18 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other reason I was asking was that as for me I want to go at least 3-4 rounds a session. Does this affect the older people that they can't keep up? "
This is also why I like younger guys....they are more likely to be able to keep up with me...not always the case...but more likely |
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By *eat-meMan
over a year ago
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My wife has always preferred older from when she was 18 19 years old when she fucked her 52 year old boss. She's 36 now and has a 73 year old friend she sees regularly. Less intimidating I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other reason I was asking was that as for me I want to go at least 3-4 rounds a session. Does this affect the older people that they can't keep up? "
Us oldies can still keep up, don't you worry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The other reason I was asking was that as for me I want to go at least 3-4 rounds a session. Does this affect the older people that they can't keep up?
Us oldies can still keep up, don't you worry "
Nice one, you are quite close. I wouldn't mind you know..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"IMO a woman is like a bottle of fine wine, the older the better
And then they turned to vinegar
Oii cheeky! "
ave still got meet one. The ones I have meet are still wine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always found age gap sex a huge turn on, provided the attraction is mutual, and of course legal, then I find that bond of trust and sexual submission between generations to be fantastically erotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a younger female I much prefer men well experienced, if men my age where any good id literally not be on here.
Older they are the more passionate and respectfully dominant they seem to be "
And in my case, grateful! |
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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago
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"The other reason I was asking was that as for me I want to go at least 3-4 rounds a session. Does this affect the older people that they can't keep up?
Us oldies can still keep up, don't you worry "
blackstead ,fair maiden is right many a good tune played on an old fiddle. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I reduced my age limit by 2 years a few weeks ago, and he thought it was acceptable to stand in front of me and waggle his cock in my face expecting me to be so enticed by it, I very soon suggested he just went home!
What a night wasted of shower, shave, hair, make up and getting dressed, should just have stayed in pj's and watched the box, much more entertaining "
I should have said, this was within 10 minutes of coming in the door, if you don't know how to conduct yourself, then just advertise you prefer a fuck and go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife not keen on meeting people around her parents age hence our filter. But I'm 5 years older than her and always had a thing for older women so we compromise but tend to meet people on their 20s and 30s. |
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong. "
What other people do is of no consequence to me. I personally feel comfortable and generally attracted to men my own age. I don't like extremes, so a man young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad usually don't appeal.
That said, if Chris Hemsworth and Tommy Lee Jones wanted a threesome with me, I wouldn't want to bruise their egos by saying no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong. "
It matters to me
And you seeing as you won't meet anybody over 65
I won't meet guys under 30 because to me it just feels creepy and wrong for a woman in her 40s to be meeting guys in their 20s
That does not mean I don't think others should |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong.
It matters to me
And you seeing as you won't meet anybody over 65
I won't meet guys under 30 because to me it just feels creepy and wrong for a woman in her 40s to be meeting guys in their 20s
That does not mean I don't think others should"
if I meet someone who is over 65 that almost make them my grandparents. I don't think they would keep up with me or me be patient enough to watch out for a hip replacement etc  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong.
It matters to me
And you seeing as you won't meet anybody over 65
I won't meet guys under 30 because to me it just feels creepy and wrong for a woman in her 40s to be meeting guys in their 20s
That does not mean I don't think others should
if I meet someone who is over 65 that almost make them my grandparents. I don't think they would keep up with me or me be patient enough to watch out for a hip replacement etc "
So age does matter then?
Just as you feel an older lady couldn't keep up with you i may feel a younger guy isn't experienced enough for me
You answered your own question there |
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"I was wondering does your age really matter when it comes to sex? I'm not talking about illegal age but does it matter if an 18 year old gets off with a 60 year old.
NB I'm not talking about if it's right or wrong.
It matters to me
And you seeing as you won't meet anybody over 65
I won't meet guys under 30 because to me it just feels creepy and wrong for a woman in her 40s to be meeting guys in their 20s
That does not mean I don't think others should
if I meet someone who is over 65 that almost make them my grandparents. I don't think they would keep up with me or me be patient enough to watch out for a hip replacement etc
So age does matter then?
Just as you feel an older lady couldn't keep up with you i may feel a younger guy isn't experienced enough for me
You answered your own question there "
It's okay for some people to have preferences and be derogatory to those outside theirs, but heaven forbid if the little darlings are excluded in any way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't think age matters.. but I'm a 47 year old man... if I was a 22 year old lady I may have a different opinion.
Cleanliness and honesty are far more important to me than age, shape or colour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just picked up on this.....
No is simple answer - this is a sex dating site, make no mistake its what people come here for, therefore you can sort of guess that are her for fun, so if they set their "filters" to accept messages from a range of ages, then its an open invite to introduce yourself .....mind you the rate of replies and delete do wear you down at times lol
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"I personally wouldn't want to fuck a guy who's young enough to be my son. But then again, I wouldn't want to fuck anyone old enough to be my dad either"
Same! I generally go for guys around my age... so mid 30s to early 50s. I am not interested in guys 30 or under. Even 32 is a bit young but it depends on the guy and his maturity level, how interesting he is and. ....how hot!
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"Well you never know what your getting on here anyway because people tend to tell little white lies about their age
I don't lie about my age!"
I never lie about my age. What is the point as they will find out if they meet me! I just turned 48 for anyone interested lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like females to be around my age if I'm honest. (I'm 28) but guys older. Late 30s usually. I would make an exception if I really fancied someone but I tend to mistly find older guys attractive anyway
Red xx |
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