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Once only or repeats?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you meet your swing friends for another "encounter" or do you move on and look for a new experience?
We look forward to repeat meets with our good friends, because we believe the fun gets better as you get to know each other.
First time fun is great sometimes, but also nerves and incompatible techniques can make it seem like a teenage fumble.
So, do you go back for seconds, or just move on to the next experience with a different partner?  |
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"If it's gone well, I prefer to meet regularly, I like to develop a friendship over time and get to know someone. "
same here
as a single it is easy t get carried away with one off meets all the time but its much better when you can eet someone again and again and really find out how to please each other, try new things etc |
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We have made some good friends through swinging and stayed in touch with the ones we have got on well with... Meeting a couple from here tonight who we have met before, just for drinks for example.... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
much prefer repeats... i think "one offs" have a pressure of there own that I am not the best person with coping with if that makes sense...
anyway i think repeats tend to be better for me because i get to know the person/people more and know what they like... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we've recently had our first meet and we now think that we would prefer repeats or regulars. Never say never to a one off but we would like 'friends with benefits' as mentioned in the posts above. If its good the first time, imagine how GREAT it could be once you all know each other. Wow, yes please |
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we like to meet our friends again and again, you get to know what people like and become more confident the more you know them. if we want one offs we go clubbing; sex with people you will probably never meet again is fun in a different way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some we only meet once because we didnt really click.Others we see more than once in fact one couple have become really good friends and the sex is great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Second that......we have met a few who we have really had a good night on a social level but been no chemistry and never met again, then we have one couple we are really good friends with and meet both socially and nawtily depending on availabilites..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we perfer to make friendship as well and have regular meets when time for all allows.....however we have had one off's as well but only due to one or the other not enjoying the person we have been with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if the meet is a very good one then yes I love repeats but if its not then we're the type that prefer to only meet the once and like to try new experiences
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i prefure on off meets, i've been 'swinging' now for about 10 years and ive never met anyone more than twice, unless they people in clubs or parties, but ive never done an arranged meet with someone more than twice and i've only every met 3 people twice all others have been one offs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"go back for 2nds and thirds - they just get better and better cos you know what buttons to push and they know what buttons to push to get you going.
Yes and when you get to the sixth time of meeting you do know how to push there buttons and they know yours  "
you know that on the first meet if you communicate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer different experiences, though we have had a couple of repeat meets and made good friends, but to be honest swinging with the same couple doesnt appeal to us. It would just be like having another partner, Id get to know his moves, his likes, dislikes, it would become familiar, im not keen on that. |
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I like repeats. It's great to get to know people a bit more and feel relaxed around them, you also start to learn about each others bodies and what they like.
One-offs are fun too, and I will always consider them, but repeats are great for me. |
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I like one-offs, especially in a club situation. I also like repeats - there's the element of getting to know which buttons to press and also boundaries can be pushed further - I'll do more with someone I've met before and can have an element of trust with than with a one-off. |
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"Every meet starts off as a one-off . For me its with a _iew to meet regularly ."
Me too. You cant guarantee meeting someone again, especially as more and more people seem to prefer one-offs, but I like the friendship aspect of swinging so being able to meet on a regular basis is much more rewarding. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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We rather have repeats much nicer and more relaxed when you get to know ppl better. Also get to know what they like. Nice to make new freinds especially if they are local.
But one offs can be nice too if they are far away for example.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a low boredom threshold so I like to ring the changes - part of the reason I like swinging.
Do have a few semi regular single male friends but couples tend to be less regular or one offs. |
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By *exy6768Couple
over a year ago
manchester |
Both it is for us.
Love reg meets as dont have to go through the awkward stuff at the beginning and just get down to the naught stuff.
One off meets can always give u something new to play with mmmmm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both as in reality it depends on what they were like the first time; some ive been with i wouldnt meet again, others id like to meet again, they me but being available at the same time is difficult. I do have one that i like to meet regularly but both of us have kids, so it can be tricky; whilst mine would be at work, his are not working, given up on college so at home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not ones for clubs and and can't agree on 'internet couple' meets so stick to our swinging friends, who we met years ago before the advent of the internet. Know some voyeur pals from student days almost thirty years on! Word of mouth and experience widens the circle. Much rather have sex with couples we have met in social situations if I'm honest.
I don't hear many experiences from members, on this site, who also just play in their established offline swinging circles exclusively. Anyone else like to share their experiences of this? From what I can see these types of site and clubs are the only sources of swinging for most couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way I play it tends to be repeat meets. Most of my meets are from when I first started three years ago: it just get better.
I do meet new people as I like to keep things fresh and exciting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"meet, thank and wave.. ( wave is optional)
take chisel, notch bed post.
next........
just cause it is Valenties Day soon, I aint into this romance shit. "
there was me thinking you were a softie too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you meet your swing friends for another "encounter" or do you move on and look for a new experience?
We look forward to repeat meets with our good friends, because we believe the fun gets better as you get to know each other.
First time fun is great sometimes, but also nerves and incompatible techniques can make it seem like a teenage fumble.
So, do you go back for seconds, or just move on to the next experience with a different partner? "
blimey, we didn't realise we had to choose  |
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Repeats for me, unless im at a club. You never know whats going to happen when you first meet someone so cant possibly say beforehand. But majority of the time they become repeat meets.
Im very lucky that over the years ive gathered a nice selection of men. Occassionally i will meet someone new but these days thats getting less and less. I know what i want and i got guys that can supply it, so im a happy bunny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just like to meet people and see how it goes. i love friends and alot of fun so regular meets definatly, but sumtimes a one nighter can be fun but only had one of them off here lol i just love seconds i suppose
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you meet your swing friends for another "encounter" or do you move on and look for a new experience?
We look forward to repeat meets with our good friends, because we believe the fun gets better as you get to know each other.
First time fun is great sometimes, but also nerves and incompatible techniques can make it seem like a teenage fumble.
So, do you go back for seconds, or just move on to the next experience with a different partner? "
the feeling of one night can feel great get the blood pumping but its not ideal as you never know what ticks what boxes
i like reg meets as you can see what makes each other tick and push boundaries and really experiment
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to prefer one offs, but lately thats changed, its much easier just arraging meets with people you've met before than go through the whole chatting / camming / social meet when time is limited |
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