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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi everybody does my profile sound offensive i dont mean it to do but the 'looked at me' list i av far outways the messages i receive,is it me? please b honest even if its brutal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Replace all that negativity with positivity
People that are going to waste your time won't take any notice of all that on your profile so you're wasting a chance of promoting yourself by whinging all over it
Just use your gut instinct with people you talk to and work out for yourself whether you think they're likely to waste your time or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree with hpc.....also, don't be so dismissive of folk who have to cancel.
there are some timewasters, no doubt...but there are also those that have to cancel for genuine reasons. this site and anything that develops off it is an aside to real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi everybody does my profile sound offensive i dont mean it to do but the 'looked at me' list i av far outways the messages i receive,is it me? please b honest even if its brutal"
I'll rate yours if you'll rate mine  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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altered my profile now to sho more the kind of guy i am ,i could c that the old profille was a little off puttin but iam new 2 this site only bin on a month so please bear wiv me iam learnin x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"altered my profile now to sho more the kind of guy i am ,i could c that the old profille was a little off puttin but iam new 2 this site only bin on a month so please bear wiv me iam learnin x"
Reading your thread and your profile I thought you were between 18 and 21: I was surprised you're 32 with all the text speak!
Personally it puts me off: the same way it would if written in French. It would take me time to muddle through and make sense of it: I don't have time for that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"altered my profile now to sho more the kind of guy i am ,i could c that the old profille was a little off puttin but iam new 2 this site only bin on a month so please bear wiv me iam learnin x
Reading your thread and your profile I thought you were between 18 and 21: I was surprised you're 32 with all the text speak!
Personally it puts me off: the same way it would if written in French. It would take me time to muddle through and make sense of it: I don't have time for that!"
Great minds think alike, as i think text speak implies immaturity 
Not too bad, though i didnt have chance to see what it first said, you may want to state why you cannot accommodate and how far you are willing to travel as you dont drive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, the text speak is really horrible, and I'd still try putting on more info about what you're actually looking for, what you like and what you can offer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"altered my profile now to sho more the kind of guy i am ,i could c that the old profille was a little off puttin but iam new 2 this site only bin on a month so please bear wiv me iam learnin x"
Sorry but the text speak really puts me off. Also, I would recommend no more than 1 cock-pic on public profile (send the others privately, if people ask to see them). Instead, try a nice torso or bum pic, if you don't want to show your face. |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
A Home Among The Woodland Creatures |
OK - so you've made a small step forward by going from sounding negative to sounding like you're dull witted and chavvy (by using text speak), and just a little bit run of the mill and boring.
The profile doesnt really scream "I'm more fun that a cardboard box full of puppies, I'm more inventive than Mr Dyson, I'm more open than Arkwights" now does it?
A good profile isn't the be-all and end-all though - I know plenty of guys that do very well an have only a couple of lines - but instead allow people to get to know them by going to socials, clubs and parties.
If you are genuinely interested in getting into swinging = as opposed to using the site as a vehicle for a few easy shags while you look for your next girlfriend - then I recommed that route |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"The profile doesnt really scream "I'm more fun that a cardboard box full of puppies, I'm more inventive than Mr Dyson, I'm more open than Arkwights" .
I may steal some of that for my profile.
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feel free - I will expect a royalty of £5 per meet lol |
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"The profile doesnt really scream "I'm more fun that a cardboard box full of puppies, I'm more inventive than Mr Dyson, I'm more open than Arkwights" .
I may steal some of that for my profile.
feel free - I will expect a royalty of £5 per meet lol "
Deal.
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I stopped reading at sentance two due to text speak.
your in your 30s not a teenager. Write like an adult and you may get adult meets.
If not the only interest your likely to get hunny is someone offering to walk you to school!
Text speak is terrible fraid unless your early twenty and dont want to impress someone |
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