For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:
1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.
2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.
3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.
Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share. |
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over a year ago
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"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:
1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.
2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.
3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.
Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share."
Good points. I would add a third and that is you meet socially first be honest about if you want to meet or not to play later. We are with people and people take it better than saying you do and never following through with things. |
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"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:
1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.
2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.
3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.
Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share.
Good points. I would add a third and that is you meet socially first be honest about if you want to meet or not to play later. We are with people and people take it better than saying you do and never following through with things."
You will find that is covered in #2. |
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I now realise I do need a 4th rule...
4 - In the event of ignoring 1-3, just posts a question in one of the forums, because the majority will jump in and blame the guy even with only snippets of your side of the story. |
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my rule is ..........when adding a third to an existing three it could be advantageous to rename your third a fourth ..
just a fought - i mean a throught.... an idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blame the guy...? For what.
Do couples blame the guy if your referring to couples or are you thinking single guys?
Am in a curious mood.
Curious _ruit x"
Change your nick to CuriousFruit. It's fantastic! |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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curious_ruit lol, think I am way past the curious stage in swinging tho lol.
Bi_ruit
buy_ruit
On a extra note, I was on the phone with a company and I had to ask the usual questions, my ethnnic minority etc and the next queation was am I,straight,gay,bi or something else possibly.
I have never been asked before and was quite happy and proud to say I am bi, surprised the man a bit but has anyone else been asked?
Curiousbi_ruit lol x |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:
1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.
2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.
3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.
Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share."
Excellent Polo. As usual, common sense by the bucket load. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For many years I have applied 3 simple rules to swinging/recreational sex:
1 - Be honest with yourself about what you really want.
2 - Be honest with the people you intend to meet about what you want.
3 - Never do anything you don't really want to do just to keep someone else happy.
Just lately it appears.....*sigh*..... never mind, I just thought I would share."
Good advice.  |
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