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anyone else fell in love of this site??
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just wondered if anyone out there has met there match of this site too and fabswingers deserves a big credit as its how we met and were looking forward to getting married once again thankyou fabswingers so much xxxx |
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over a year ago
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I did, however, it did not work out, nevermind.
Good luck to everyone else.
It has happened, and some have been together for a significant period of time.  |
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Hi we didnt meet on here, but we meet at a swingers club in manchester in 2005 bought a house together in 2006 and got married in las vegas in 2009. Head over heels in love . Good luck to you both x x |
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I took a woman to Cupids in Manchester a few times - she loved it (a "greedy girl") - and then she met a fella there and eventually married him. They still go clubbing but now he doesn't allow her to swap - I had an e-mail from her lamenting the loss of her "rampant" sessions. Sad, I thought. |
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I met Paul on this site when we are both singles,we were not looking for relationship but it just happened,fab was the last place i thought i would meet someone..
We have been together over 3 yrs now and know of a few couples who met on here and went on to have relationships.
Good luck with the wedding xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm gonna play some 'smoochy' music now for you lot.
Liking this thread and feeling the luuuuurve! 
If you do im grabbing the sick bucket"
Shhhhhhh you cynic, it (the L word) does happen you know! |
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Im going to be a stick in the mud now lol
If you meet someone off here and its for NSA sex and you start getting feelings for them, when do you feel its your rights to try and take it that one step further?
What i mean is, i have met loads of guys off here and never felt anything towards them besides friendship, except one guy, i really fell for, but i didnt think i had the rights to feel like that about someone i had met on a swingers site, as it was NSA and i felt like i was over stepping a line, so i told him i didnt want to meet him anymore before i ended up getting hurt
So at what point do people who have fell for someone on here and told them, feel its ok to over step that line? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Naughty, i am sure if he wanted to take it further he would have broached the subject himself. As they say better to have loved and lost than not loved at all. Top marks for being brave |
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"Im going to be a stick in the mud now lol
If you meet someone off here and its for NSA sex and you start getting feelings for them, when do you feel its your rights to try and take it that one step further?
What i mean is, i have met loads of guys off here and never felt anything towards them besides friendship, except one guy, i really fell for, but i didnt think i had the rights to feel like that about someone i had met on a swingers site, as it was NSA and i felt like i was over stepping a line, so i told him i didnt want to meet him anymore before i ended up getting hurt
So at what point do people who have fell for someone on here and told them, feel its ok to over step that line?"
For me and kev, we where talking, mailing, texting for weeks, he came up to meet me 3 times and each time i bottled it so rang and cancelled, (each time he had driven 80 miles).
Why did i bottle it? because even though i had never met him, i had fallen head over heals in love with him and i knew if i met him there would be no turning back, there was alot going on in my life and i didnt think i could cope with it, basically, i was scared.
The last time i stood him up after i stood him up he left a present on my door step, a gold chain with a K pendant and a note, saying if i ever changed my mind i knew how to get intouch with him, signed, love kev.
I rang him told him i loved him and he came back the next day, the rest as they say is history.
Eventually i admitted to him why i kept bottling it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im going to be a stick in the mud now lol
If you meet someone off here and its for NSA sex and you start getting feelings for them, when do you feel its your rights to try and take it that one step further?
What i mean is, i have met loads of guys off here and never felt anything towards them besides friendship, except one guy, i really fell for, but i didnt think i had the rights to feel like that about someone i had met on a swingers site, as it was NSA and i felt like i was over stepping a line, so i told him i didnt want to meet him anymore before i ended up getting hurt
So at what point do people who have fell for someone on here and told them, feel its ok to over step that line?"
Love isn't a right, it's emotional and instinctive, and can hit you at any time no matter how or where you meet the person, no matter what your head says to your heart.
I've had it happen myself and managed to keep control of my emotions, i.e let my head rule my heart.
That's my personal choice and I am still alone to this day, because as you say it is a swinging site and that's what I chose to do.
But look at it from the other side, do you think you should deny giving someone what may be the greatest love of their life.... just because you met through a swinging site? |
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But look at it from the other side, do you think you should deny giving someone what may be the greatest love of their life.... just because you met through a swinging site? "
Well i dont think i will ever be the greatest love of anyones life but..... lol
I suppose i look at things from all sides
How many times have you heard horror stories, people laughing, joking and taking the piss out of meets that have fallen for them
I suppose if im going to be honest
Id dont want to be someones horror story
If you open your heart to someone and they feel the same all well and good. but what if they dont and you just end up being made to feel like some kind of bunny boiler? |
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If you open your heart to someone and they feel the same all well and good. but what if they dont and you just end up being made to feel like some kind of bunny boiler?"
There is always that risk I'm afraid. Each knockback throughout life leaves an imprint and affects subsequent relationships, but sometimes if you feel strongly enough you just have to balance it out with the 'why not' against the 'what if'
No easy answer, no assurance of a life happy ever after. But I know that if I hadn't taken those first steps away from my ex-husband I'd never have travelled the road that eventually led me to my lovely.
Difficult and rocky, sometimes a journey is not about how you get there but knowing you have arrived.
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We met on another site over 3 years ago as singles, been together ever since and got engaged last year. Neither of us were looking for love but it just happened x |
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not fallen in love per say - had a brief relationship with a guy on here which was nice while it lasted.
have beome obsessive at times with meets lol, wanting to chat to them all the time, even to the extent that now one has left the 'lifestyle' my facebook fiend suggester came up with him (see its fate!!) and now i keep looking at his page 
but i respect that he no longer wnats to meet and has moved on so wont ever contact him etc
ok, that makes me sound like a sad old cow, i am normal really and easily get he nsa bit i promise  |
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Thats a very honest and valid point, but I think there is nothing wrong with saying to someone "you may not want to meet me anymore because I am starting to fall for you and if the feelings are not mutual it would be better to know now" |
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"Thats a very honest and valid point, but I think there is nothing wrong with saying to someone "you may not want to meet me anymore because I am starting to fall for you and if the feelings are not mutual it would be better to know now""
Best advice i think ! |
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Didnt meet on here but in a very seedy backstreet adult cinema. I was there with another guy, we all got chatting swapped email addys, became excellent friends with him attending some of my gangbangs. After really long deep emails a year later we realized we had actually "fallen" for each other. We are the complete opposite of what either of us would go for but he is my soulmate, and 4 1/2 years after that first day we met where still on the honeymoon period |
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awww thankoyu for all the messages suppose in a no strings enviroment you dont really expect this we was shocked ourselves as neither of us was looking for anything of the sort kinda just happened but we was lucky we both felt exactly the same way so i suppose yer kinda worrying if the other feels the same or not but weve never looked back since and cant wait for the rest to come awwwww hehehee |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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I met Jason at Chameleons..... love at first sight for both of us.
We married 5 months later and have been together 3 years on 1st October.
It happens, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. I always had a fatalistic attitude to men, but when it's right, you know it! |
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