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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just an observation ive noticed,there seems that the majority of women on this site are of the curvier or ample size, why is this, is this cos the average sized woman in england is a size 16? ive heard this somewhere before, just wondering. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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salad is not a food hence why im fat lol!!
the average size is apparently 16 in the uk and dress size measurements have not changed since the war although the average female body size has!
but at the end of the day im a person not a dress size !! xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The last time i looked swinging was open to everybody. Not knocking your post tho, far from it. I think you may well be suprised at how manny BBW's there actually are and boy o boy can we be fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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brave in wot way, i havent said i dont like fat women, personaly they dont float my boat but its the personality that counts, its just the same with women not wanting fat blokes isnt it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"brave in wot way, i havent said i dont like fat women, personaly they dont float my boat but its the personality that counts, its just the same with women not wanting fat blokes isnt it"
Exactly, it's all about choice, that being size, colour, sex, or attitude.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I aint fat, im just very heavy boned with padded skin on top, keeps me warm in winter "
I ain't fat, it's a fuel tank for a lurve machine.
I have the sonar panel too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant say Ive seen anymore larger people on here than anywhere else ... there is a good mix of all types
Thats life isnt it
Oh and Im large because I ate all the crips |
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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago
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"brave in wot way, i havent said i dont like fat women, personaly they dont float my boat but its the personality that counts, its just the same with women not wanting fat blokes isnt it"
ye its the peronality that counts, but "fat woman" is maybe the wrong discription, big, large, heavy. but "fat"  |
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"brave in wot way, i havent said i dont like fat women, personaly they dont float my boat but its the personality that counts, its just the same with women not wanting fat blokes isnt it
ye its the peronality that counts, but "fat woman" is maybe the wrong discription, big, large, heavy. but "fat" "
why is it wrong? its true? fat is fat init? if ya fat ya fat if ya skinny ya skinny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think there are more fat women here than any where else. Just appears so if it's not what you're looking for. I feel the same way in that I sometimes feel there seems to be a lot of bi and short men here: as they don't float my boat. C'est la vie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just an observation ive noticed,there seems that the majority of women on this site are of the curvier or ample size, why is this, is this cos the average sized woman in england is a size 16? ive heard this somewhere before, just wondering."
Gosh John ... you are prone to generalisations without substantiation aren't you?
Mostly large women on here .....
Lots of people up their own orafice...
Lots of fakes ?
Just three of the things you say. Why do you stick around ?
Womens sizes : Choices here range from :- Slim, Average, Curvy, Large, Ample, Fabulous ...
I think i've got them all. Those are NOT sizes. They are all open to interpretation .... some women see themselves as large and others would put them down as average. I've seen woman calling themselves curvy when I'd call them Jabba..... others say they are Curvy yet look stick thin to me.
I've never really counted all the men on here and found the percentage of large ones.. for some reason it's never occured to me to spend my time doing that. |
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"Agree completely with Granny, he just posted it to get a reaction....."
i dont think he did - there is nothing inflamatory in what he posted. maybe a bit generalsed with terms like 'the majority...' etc
just a general discussion post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps a lot of ladies on here are comfortable in their own skins, and are honest about their sizes, especially those of a certain age, myself included.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Actually I would have thought (after about 18 months or more on site perving profiles) that the % of women over size 16 was in the minority.
It is also worth mentioning that those women above a size 16 seem to have more verifications for real meets than the slim size 8 women.
I can also confirm that the same sized women get more invites to play at Chameleons that the slimmer ones do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just an observation ive noticed,there seems that the majority of women on this site are of the curvier or ample size, why is this, is this cos the average sized woman in england is a size 16? ive heard this somewhere before, just wondering."
If you think the average size for women in England is 16, you haven't sat on our promenade for a couple of hours in the summer.
It used to be miners families in the old days but now it seems that every pie factory in Britain has its annual outing on our seafront! R
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think there is anything sexier than a bbw, curvy figure,larger lady call it what you will,I think they are extremely sexy and very sensual,
Besides i love big boobs lol. and it's the personality that counts,
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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago
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"salad is not a food hence why im fat lol!!
the average size is apparently 16 in the uk and dress size measurements have not changed since the war although the average female body size has!
but at the end of the day im a person not a dress size !! xx "
Well said! |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"just an observation ive noticed,there seems that the majority of women on this site are of the curvier or ample size, why is this, is this cos the average sized woman in england is a size 16? ive heard this somewhere before, just wondering."
why only English women. what's wrong with us Scottis, or welsh or Irish??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woo hoo Im gonna do a wee dance here cos Im now average having just slimmed down to a size 16 from a size 22.
But you know what I would still say Im bigger than average simply cos Im a short arse  I will always show any extra weight worse than someone who is taller.
I was once told women get bigger when content - they no longer feel they have to diet to within an inch of their lives, I have no idea how true this is cos I have seen some women who could eat for Scotland but stay slim, and I have seen women who hardly eat but stay larger.
I only say on my profile Im BBW cos I dont want anyone saying I lied, I know Im fat and I cant pretend anything other than that, but Im too lazy to do much about my weight issues 
Oooooohhhh and Laine hun you can have all my extra bits - but its not as much fun clothes shopping when you are as small as me and my weight!!
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Woo hoo Im gonna do a wee dance here cos Im now average having just slimmed down to a size 16 from a size 22.
But you know what I would still say Im bigger than average simply cos Im a short arse I will always show any extra weight worse than someone who is taller.
I was once told women get bigger when content - they no longer feel they have to diet to within an inch of their lives, I have no idea how true this is cos I have seen some women who could eat for Scotland but stay slim, and I have seen women who hardly eat but stay larger.
I only say on my profile Im BBW cos I dont want anyone saying I lied, I know Im fat and I cant pretend anything other than that, but Im too lazy to do much about my weight issues
Oooooohhhh and Laine hun you can have all my extra bits - but its not as much fun clothes shopping when you are as small as me and my weight!!
Shona
x x x "
Ach yer lovely as ye are Shona..... a full smile and a twinkle in anyones eye is a real turn on.... I have had problems in my life with clothes too, I'm 5' 6" which is a pretty average height but I take a size 8 in a skirt or trousers (used to be even thinner before the kids) and have a 36dd bust which requires a size 14 top... dresses used to be a real problem but now I thank fekk for stretchy clingy fabrics xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Laine your preaching to the converted here I was a size 8 bottom and size 12 top when I was a teenager but comfort eating and loneliness after I had my eldest kid made me who I am now, and you know what Im happier now than I ever was then, thats what makes me sparkle and feel sexy.
Well that and the love of a good man who tells me everyday I am a sexy woman 
I still wish I was taller tho
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Laine your preaching to the converted here I was a size 8 bottom and size 12 top when I was a teenager but comfort eating and loneliness after I had my eldest kid made me who I am now, and you know what Im happier now than I ever was then, thats what makes me sparkle and feel sexy.
Well that and the love of a good man who tells me everyday I am a sexy woman
I still wish I was taller tho
Shona
x x x "
Ooh and my new dress arrived today... woohoo it's fab!
still waiting for the 6' 3" sex god to arrive in the post though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still wish I was taller tho
Shona
x x x
Ooh and my new dress arrived today... woohoo it's fab!
still waiting for the 6' 3" sex god to arrive in the post though "
I could stand on a box if it would help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still wish I was taller tho
Shona
x x x
Ooh and my new dress arrived today... woohoo it's fab!
still waiting for the 6' 3" sex god to arrive in the post though
I could stand on a box if it would help "
what are you waiting for? fedex yerself pronto! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still wish I was taller tho
Shona
x x x
Ooh and my new dress arrived today... woohoo it's fab!
still waiting for the 6' 3" sex god to arrive in the post though
I could stand on a box if it would help
what are you waiting for? fedex yerself pronto! "
 first time i'v ever been told to ~~~
" go fedex yerself!! " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still wish I was taller tho
Shona
x x x
Ooh and my new dress arrived today... woohoo it's fab!
still waiting for the 6' 3" sex god to arrive in the post though
I could stand on a box if it would help
what are you waiting for? fedex yerself pronto!
first time i'v ever been told to ~~~
" go fedex yerself!! " "
pronto! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont believe him Laine he told me he was gonna come warm me up months ago and Im still waiting
Woo hoo dress arrived and sexy hunk on order what more does a sexy lady need for her birthday??
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just an observation ive noticed,there seems that the majority of women on this site are of the curvier or ample size, why is this, is this cos the average sized woman in england is a size 16? ive heard this somewhere before, just wondering."
funny we was talking about this the other day at work, not how women on fab are bigger lol just how women are bigger now days, its because we are lazy, when my gran was young she used to have to do everything by hand, no hovers, no automatic washers, no cars, you have to scrub and walk, also portion sizes are much bigger today and people have more money for junk food and indeed there is more junk food about, when you think about how peoples lifes are much easier now days compaired to only 60/70 years ago theres no wonder we are getting bigger really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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70 years ago the country was in the grip of food rationing, seeing what they were allocated for a week is an eye opener, nowadays that ration would be just an average daily portion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies... you really need not be too bothered about posts like this, because you know in your hearts that there are more guys that aren't bothered about your body size, than there are, fact
At the end of the day, the warm, wet bit, that all us guys are fighting to get to, is pretty much the same size, no matter what your body shape is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are fat/big people happier, I dunno I can only speak from my own experience. I lost 4 and half stone that was gained through comfort eating at a traumatic time in my life. It helped on one hand, but then I would look in the mirror and detest what I saw. So am 5.9 and a half, my weight was distributed evenly. So I was just fat everywhere lol. I applaud the person who is happy in their own skin,content to be who they are whether it be skinny or fat, short or tall. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ooooook I am going to get some stick here I suspect!
However, as a slim, some would say skinny scrawny woman.
I work very very hard training to keep in shape for my chosen sport!
I am not anorexic or anything else!
R likes slim fit women with French (small) boobies....Its all a matter of taste and personal choice!!
I wouldent say there are anymore larger ladies on here than anywhere else. (Apart from Clee Sea Front! he he)
Live and let live, we choose to meet slim fit peeps cos thats what we like Simples.....
Each to thier own, women should not have to conform to what anyone else wants or thinks....Room for us all, Skinny Minnies, Muscle Gals, and BBWS....Thats the whole fun of the diversity of swinging!
We love La Chambra for the people watching, not negativly just enjoy all shapes and sizes having fun!
Cary on eating those pies!
J xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are fat/big people happier, I dunno I can only speak from my own experience. I lost 4 and half stone that was gained through comfort eating at a traumatic time in my life. It helped on one hand, but then I would look in the mirror and detest what I saw. So am 5.9 and a half, my weight was distributed evenly. So I was just fat everywhere lol. I applaud the person who is happy in their own skin,content to be who they are whether it be skinny or fat, short or tall."
im with you on this one, i used to be a size 22/24 and i hated the way i looked, i also gained weight thro comfort eating after i lost my son, then got into a catch 22, the more i ate, the bigger i got, the more i hated myself so i ate more, got bigger and hated myself even more, took me 16 year to stop hiding my grief behind food and i lost over 8 stone, am i happier? yes most definitely, i still want to loose more and im back to weight watchers after a gaining a bit back, bloody xmas lol but like pussy says i too applaud people who are happy with themselves, if you are great never change yourself for anyone else only do it if you want to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are fat/big people happier, I dunno I can only speak from my own experience. I lost 4 and half stone that was gained through comfort eating at a traumatic time in my life. It helped on one hand, but then I would look in the mirror and detest what I saw. So am 5.9 and a half, my weight was distributed evenly. So I was just fat everywhere lol. I applaud the person who is happy in their own skin,content to be who they are whether it be skinny or fat, short or tall.
im with you on this one, i used to be a size 22/24 and i hated the way i looked, i also gained weight thro comfort eating after i lost my son, then got into a catch 22, the more i ate, the bigger i got, the more i hated myself so i ate more, got bigger and hated myself even more, took me 16 year to stop hiding my grief behind food and i lost over 8 stone, am i happier? yes most definitely, i still want to loose more and im back to weight watchers after a gaining a bit back, bloody xmas lol but like pussy says i too applaud people who are happy with themselves, if you are great never change yourself for anyone else only do it if you want to "
Well I for one never forget my sis was a large girl who dressed well and made herself up well. she had more confidence than her young slimmer sister. its all about confidence. just like naughty we ate our way for comfort. But each time we looked in the mirror we disliked what we saw. Ok am roughly a size 14 now, naughty is a lot smaller, we have both been both ends of the scale. Do we like ourseleves better now....hell yeah bring it on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I for one never forget my sis was a large girl who dressed well and made herself up well. she had more confidence than her young slimmer sister. its all about confidence. just like naughty we ate our way for comfort. But each time we looked in the mirror we disliked what we saw. Ok am roughly a size 14 now, naughty is a lot smaller, we have both been both ends of the scale. Do we like ourseleves better now....hell yeah bring it on"
im not
im a size 14 too, but thanks for thinking i was a lot smaller, i owe you one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Miss A is a size 14 and i would never change her for the world, she's sexy and i would hate it if she was a smaller size...
i prefer something to hold onto at the end of the day not just skin and bone (no offence to anyone under size 14 by the way your all gorgeous :P..) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ooooook I am going to get some stick here I suspect!
However, as a slim, some would say skinny scrawny woman.
I work very very hard training to keep in shape for my chosen sport!
I am not anorexic or anything else!
R likes slim fit women with French (small) boobies....Its all a matter of taste and personal choice!!
I wouldent say there are anymore larger ladies on here than anywhere else. (Apart from Clee Sea Front! he he)
Live and let live, we choose to meet slim fit peeps cos thats what we like Simples.....
Each to thier own, women should not have to conform to what anyone else wants or thinks....Room for us all, Skinny Minnies, Muscle Gals, and BBWS....Thats the whole fun of the diversity of swinging!
We love La Chambra for the people watching, not negativly just enjoy all shapes and sizes having fun!
Cary on eating those pies!
J xxxx "
I don't understand why you would think you'd'get stick for expressing your preference like everyone else is!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We like a variety but not extremes either way. Don't see why people should tell us what we should or shouldn't like though.
Who is telling you what you should or shouldnt like??? "
i was just thinking that |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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I once had Alzheimer's Bulimia ! Bugger of a problem. I ate as much as I could and then FORGOT to be sick !!! lol
On another note, there still seems to be a snip of a worry about size/weight, since someone said "thank you for thinking I was a lot smaller" It would seem that being smaller is still something to wish for . . .?
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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago
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Actually I would have thought (after about 18 months or more on site perving profiles) that the % of women over size 16 was in the minority.
It is also worth mentioning that those women above a size 16 seem to have more verifications for real meets than the slim size 8 women.
I can also confirm that the same sized women get more invites to play at Chameleons that the slimmer ones do.
Just read this thread. I'm really not trying to step on any toes here and no defamation or insult is intended whatsoever.
I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone"
No, i actually agree with you, i used to be a lot bigger than i am now, i lost over 8 stone a couple of years back and tho im still not the size 8 slim women, i am a lot slimmer than i used to be, when i was a size 20+ im not saying id meet anyone but because i didnt really feel i had the rights to turn others down based on their looks because of my own i did used to play with guys i wasnt really attracted to, i dont anymore, as i lost weight i gained confidance and now if i dont like someone i will not play with them, now im not saying all big women feel like i used to but im sure a lot do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone
No, i actually agree with you, i used to be a lot bigger than i am now, i lost over 8 stone a couple of years back and tho im still not the size 8 slim women, i am a lot slimmer than i used to be, when i was a size 20+ im not saying id meet anyone but because i didnt really feel i had the rights to turn others down based on their looks because of my own i did used to play with guys i wasnt really attracted to, i dont anymore, as i lost weight i gained confidance and now if i dont like someone i will not play with them, now im not saying all big women feel like i used to but im sure a lot do"
Some body shapes just aren't attractive to some people and your within your rights to express that. You should never have to play with people your not attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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to answer the op..
there is a fairly even mix of all body types here.
It may seem there are more bbw...and thats simply because they dont feel the need to hide away here or feel they are somehow inferior and need to stay in the background..(something some big fems feel when out socially).
This site caters to all tastes, and gives those who perhaps lack confidence, a platform on which to shine and basque in the adoration from many men who desire them as they are.
You just need to read some of the posts from some of the people in this thread to see why that may be.
Equally now that ive stoppped laughing from some of the posts who would seek to laugh at... or somehow poke fun and imply that bbw are less attractive than their slim counterparts..PMSL....
Body size does not = attractive..hell noooo
Ive seen some damn ugly fat birds and some damn ugly skinny birds..
However the real ugliness always comes from within and it never ceases to amaze me how such little bodies can contain so much vitriol!
Vol...fat bird...big boobs..pretty face..fucks like demon and thankful for it every day
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By (user no longer on site)
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I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone
No, i actually agree with you, i used to be a lot bigger than i am now, i lost over 8 stone a couple of years back and tho im still not the size 8 slim women, i am a lot slimmer than i used to be, when i was a size 20+ im not saying id meet anyone but because i didnt really feel i had the rights to turn others down based on their looks because of my own i did used to play with guys i wasnt really attracted to, i dont anymore, as i lost weight i gained confidance and now if i dont like someone i will not play with them, now im not saying all big women feel like i used to but im sure a lot do"
this really upset me when i first read it...nn you might not remember me from sh/ss but i remember you...we both lost our weight around the same time...i always thought you to be an attractive confident woman and to think you felt you didnt have the right to go for your preferences because you were larger than average, makes me feel really sad
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually I would have thought (after about 18 months or more on site perving profiles) that the % of women over size 16 was in the minority.
It is also worth mentioning that those women above a size 16 seem to have more verifications for real meets than the slim size 8 women.
I can also confirm that the same sized women get more invites to play at Chameleons that the slimmer ones do.
Just read this thread. I'm really not trying to step on any toes here and no defamation or insult is intended whatsoever.
I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone"
Another generalisation! I'm a size 24 and VERY particular about the people I meet. I've been told on more than one ocassion that I'm "up my own arse" for no other reason than some men assume a fat woman will sleep with anyone because (a) she has low self asteem, (b) glad for attention.
Low self esteem appears in all sorts of people, not every fat woman will let any Tom, Dick or Harry near her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually I would have thought (after about 18 months or more on site perving profiles) that the % of women over size 16 was in the minority.
It is also worth mentioning that those women above a size 16 seem to have more verifications for real meets than the slim size 8 women.
I can also confirm that the same sized women get more invites to play at Chameleons that the slimmer ones do.
Just read this thread. I'm really not trying to step on any toes here and no defamation or insult is intended whatsoever.
I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone"
I am extremely choosy on who i play with , hence i hardly play.
They have to be extra special.
Like me
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"Actually I would have thought (after about 18 months or more on site perving profiles) that the % of women over size 16 was in the minority.
It is also worth mentioning that those women above a size 16 seem to have more verifications for real meets than the slim size 8 women.
I can also confirm that the same sized women get more invites to play at Chameleons that the slimmer ones do.
Just read this thread. I'm really not trying to step on any toes here and no defamation or insult is intended whatsoever.
I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone"
Do you really mean that you've been rejected by more slim ladies than large ladies?
Do you approach the ladies with many verifications because you think you've got a better chance of success?
Sorry if I have offended you, but I think your comment is a wild generalisation |
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well as a short arsed glasses wearing fatty there is no hope for me.Guess i need to be greatful to the guys that dont mind sticking a bag over my head and shagging me pmfsl. All women what ever size, creed or colour should only sleep with someone they want to. I sleep with who i want to, end of i dont do charity shags and i hope no one else does either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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aye me too diamond!!!
if i wanted to shag 24/7 i could on here cause im never short of offers but i am fussy and dont feel the need to be grateful to anyone who asks!!
xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not a single fem, but i am a big woman.
I can see the point that some big women will fuck anyone - just as some small women will.
I also agree that some bigwomen have low self esteem, well guess what, so do some small women.
And yes, some big women are not attractive, well would you believe that so are some small women.
Are you seeing the point?
My self esteem and confidence are both in proportion to my size
And if you think THIS big woman wont be picky - well you have a nasty surprise coming your way! |
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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago
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I wish the site had a size section on the profile for dress sizes at least i would understand what they mean when they say cuvry thin etc.
Some ;adies hae put cuvry when i think they nromal size so i vote for dress sizes and the same for Men sizes as well
Ian |
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over a year ago
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"i have my dress size on my profile as i think im between curvy and ample lol and that way saves any confusion! xx"
I agree: I have my dress size on my profile as some women put bbw when they are a size 14 as that's how they see themselves. |
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give me a good average size happy woman
who knows what she wants and is secure
about her size
but saying that its the person inside that counts
not the size or shape
intelegent happy people look for personality too |
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over a year ago
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Actually im not happy being average or overweight as i see myself as. I may only be a size 14 but id be a whole lot happier if i didnt have the ugly mummy tummy, thunderous thighs and saddlebags. I personally dont like anyone overweight, especially in the 20st mark, but on the other hand i dont like too skinny as i like something to grab onto
But id love to know how to love myself and accept the horrible fat as part of me, learn to relax and accept that i cant change my body without giving up chocolate lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But id love to know how to love myself and accept the horrible fat as part of me, learn to relax and accept that i cant change my body without giving up chocolate lol "
Do what I did hun. Sounds daft but stand in front of a mirror and say 5 times I am great and sexy and no one is better than me
I refuse to give up crisps cos thats my one downfall so what I did was realise I could either move more (which I didnt want to do) or learn to love myself
I pick one thing everyday - doesnt matter what it is, hair, make up, the way clothes sit on me just something I liked that day. The next day I couldnt pick the same thing I had to choose something else, til one day I realised I had picked everything
Now I know Im fanfuckingtastic cos I think so and tbh I dont care if people dont agree, cos there will always be someone who doesnt like me, same as there will always be someone I dont like.
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We "big girls" are on here looking for fun, we don't discriminate about any 1 or at least I don't, i'm on here looking for cock, but keep finding pricks, funny that, I suppose in your ideal world your up there as some kind of god, we are what we are and you're entitled to your opinion I already have mine of you, but thankfully our taste's vary and our paths will never cross |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually im not happy being average or overweight as i see myself as. I may only be a size 14 but id be a whole lot happier if i didnt have the ugly mummy tummy, thunderous thighs and saddlebags. I personally dont like anyone overweight, especially in the 20st mark, but on the other hand i dont like too skinny as i like something to grab onto
But id love to know how to love myself and accept the horrible fat as part of me, learn to relax and accept that i cant change my body without giving up chocolate lol "
i think a lot of women feel like you
i class myself as a BBW and had it on my profile for ages but got fed up with people telling me i wasnt a bbw so i took it off, thing is now i dont have that on i feel like im conning people by not pre warning them about my size, i have so many bits about me i hate and as you i just cant accpet them as part of me |
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"Actually im not happy being average or overweight as i see myself as. I may only be a size 14 but id be a whole lot happier if i didnt have the ugly mummy tummy, thunderous thighs and saddlebags. I personally dont like anyone overweight, especially in the 20st mark, but on the other hand i dont like too skinny as i like something to grab onto
But id love to know how to love myself and accept the horrible fat as part of me, learn to relax and accept that i cant change my body without giving up chocolate lol
i think a lot of women feel like you
i class myself as a BBW and had it on my profile for ages but got fed up with people telling me i wasnt a bbw so i took it off, thing is now i dont have that on i feel like im conning people by not pre warning them about my size, i have so many bits about me i hate and as you i just cant accpet them as part of me"
body image is always an emotive subject. for years and years i thought no one would want to go out with me let alone sleep with me however, i found datng sites for larger ladies an now this site and it really has helped my confidence and body image.
would i like to lose weight - yes. but mainly so i can buy sexy undies anywhere and not in 'specialist' shops.
do i sometimes think that guys approach me and flatter me just so they can have sex with anyone cos they are not having much luck on here - yes. but if i like them then i will do it, depending how horny i am lol
there is no magic ands to make the women on here who are hung up on their 'wobbly bits' learn to love their body as it is, i have size 10 friends who are neurotic about how they look, hate photos being taken of them etc and it severly gets in the way of them havin fun.
you are all beautiful and sexy in your own ways and you should look at your 'mummy's tummy's' etc with pride.
big bbw hugs to you all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vol...fat bird...big boobs..pretty face..fucks like demon and thankful for it every day
xxx"
(and can suck a golf ball through a garden hose)
VOLUPTUOUS......that says it all really Vol . xxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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see people dont understand the effort it takes gettin this body shop its not easy decidin between chocolate or crisps or cake!! there a lot of hard work goes on!!!
i have the theory they dont like it they dont need to look im not gonna starve myself just to fit someones idea of perfection!!
i can laugh at the fact that if someone slaps my arse my belly ripples and that my mini me thinks its hilarious that i can do the truffle shuffle!!
my wee size 8 pal has terrible celluite and hates me cause iv none! i hate her cause she a wee sylph of a chick! we should be glad of who we are not what we have or dont have!! and sod anyone that doesnt like it!!! big up the sisterhood no matter what shape u r!!!xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be a size 26 but in the last 6 months I've lost 2.5 stone and am now a size 22.
I wasn't unhappy with my size and shape before and am certainly not unhappy with my size and shape now... infact although I'm still curvy/large/ample (whatever you want to call it) I FEEL damn right sexy and it shows.
I get so many compliments about my figure and my sexiness that I figure it truly must be just shining from within cos I still sure as hell can wobble |
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"I used to be a size 26 but in the last 6 months I've lost 2.5 stone and am now a size 22.
I wasn't unhappy with my size and shape before and am certainly not unhappy with my size and shape now... infact although I'm still curvy/large/ample (whatever you want to call it) I FEEL damn right sexy and it shows.
I get so many compliments about my figure and my sexiness that I figure it truly must be just shining from within cos I still sure as hell can wobble "
Not only you feel sexy but you look sexy as well!!
Hope you don't mind me saying this but you have a look of Geri Halliwell in you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not only you feel sexy but you look sexy as well!!
Hope you don't mind me saying this but you have a look of Geri Halliwell in you "
Why thank you!
(it has been said ) |
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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago
Bridgend |
"Actually I would have thought (after about 18 months or more on site perving profiles) that the % of women over size 16 was in the minority.
It is also worth mentioning that those women above a size 16 seem to have more verifications for real meets than the slim size 8 women.
I can also confirm that the same sized women get more invites to play at Chameleons that the slimmer ones do.
Just read this thread. I'm really not trying to step on any toes here and no defamation or insult is intended whatsoever.
I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone"
I totally disagree, I'm a larger lady and I will only meet guys I'm attracted to. The above response intimates that larger ladies will fuck anything in trousers and be grateful for the fact. This is certainly not true in my case and I would take a guess in a lot of other cases also. |
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"I totally disagree, I'm a larger lady and I will only meet guys I'm attracted to. The above response intimates that larger ladies will fuck anything in trousers and be grateful for the fact. This is certainly not true in my case and I would take a guess in a lot of other cases also. "
I couldn't agree more. I have a focussed idea of what I'm looking for from this site and do not just meet all and sundry. I also have respect for myself.
If I met every guy I had a mesasge from, every guy who touched me in a club or just fucked for fuckings sake, I'd never have a moment to spare!!
These generalisations are often based on what can be seen on profiles too but it's worth remembering that you only see what the member wants you to see... someone could have 2 verifications showing on their profile but could have a whole string of them hidden behind the scenes. Does that make them more or less choosy? or does it really say more about those making the generalisations in the first place?? |
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"Actually I would have thought (after about 18 months or more on site perving profiles) that the % of women over size 16 was in the minority.
It is also worth mentioning that those women above a size 16 seem to have more verifications for real meets than the slim size 8 women.
I can also confirm that the same sized women get more invites to play at Chameleons that the slimmer ones do.
Just read this thread. I'm really not trying to step on any toes here and no defamation or insult is intended whatsoever.
I understand that everyone to there own and if ladies are happy with their size all well and good BUT I have found that slim women are more choosey of the men they meet.
Sorry if I have offended anyone
I totally disagree, I'm a larger lady and I will only meet guys I'm attracted to. The above response intimates that larger ladies will fuck anything in trousers and be grateful for the fact. This is certainly not true in my case and I would take a guess in a lot of other cases also. "
Agree with you 100% some men may think that but in fairness men that think that probably believe every woman, regardless of size, marital status etc on a swinging site will sleep with anyone therefore get offended when they don't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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since we started swinging, I have entertained, and have been entertained by a number of lovely ladies. Some have been what most people would class as small, (in my eyes small is 8-12), some have been medium (14-18), and some have been larger ladies, (20 plus). I have enjoyed all my experiences, but for me, the level of enjoyment is in no way connected to body size or body shape. The best experiences have been with the ladies who have made playtime fun.
I'm a sucker for a pretty face and long legs, so much so, that I sometimes ignore "the bit in the middle".
All of the ladies that I have enjoyed can be assured that I shared my time with them because I was genuinely attracted to them, in one way or another, and not because they were a certain dress size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think have the curves in all the right places and know how to show off my body the best way to make it look sexy. But saying that have been told have cute face and interesting eyes so they are my good facial features.
But do know how to talk to people so that helps a lot and like a good laugh about things. I might not be the best looking person on here but I'm the one that has the right to say that not anyone else as that is them being doggertre.
I love my food and have a sweet tooth hence like sweet looking guys that make me laugh. They say a womans sex drvie matchs her food intake so beware guys of girls that eat well and look good. As these are the ones that exercise well under exstreem pressure. |
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"They say a womans sex drvie matchs her food intake so beware guys of girls that eat well and look good. As these are the ones that exercise well under exstreem pressure."
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I ate more than Snoggy at breakfast this morning! |
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I am afraid I am guilty of being addicted to a certain size. I only meet women over size 16 and adore them.
Sometimes I a little feel guilty as I get messages from many women of all sizes but I am who I am and thats what I like and I like it alot |
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"They say a womans sex drvie matchs her food intake so beware guys of girls that eat well and look good. As these are the ones that exercise well under exstreem pressure.
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I ate more than Snoggy at breakfast this morning! "
i rarely eat breakfast and unless someone is cooking for me i live on toast and marmite yet am on the larger side of cuddly and have a sex drive thats through the roof
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would rather be morbidly obese than criminally ugly!! i think the site reflects the whole of society and as far as i can remember there not a law or sign sayin no fat chicks! at the end of the day, no one needs to message someone if they dont want to or are not what they looking for!
im goin to do some research on this check out 100 female profiles tally up body shapes shall return with findings!! x |
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