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"Shacked up with a gal, shes in love with you and before you know it shes pregnant.4 months into the relationship sex is sour,and already fantasising with other women.Sticking it out for the babies sake, 2 years later you got a toddler running around and by this time a serial cheater...I hate my life, i very rarely get to go to swinger parties or meet swingers as my misses has got tabs on me all the time.I have to sneak around all the time and sometimes get so desperate i want to pay for sex. who else is in this situation??i love my misses in my own way and would hate to leave my kid...but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell." maybe try using condoms then you wouldnt be stunk in a rut | |||
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"Shacked up with a gal, shes in love with you and before you know it shes pregnant.4 months into the relationship sex is sour,and already fantasising with other women.Sticking it out for the babies sake, 2 years later you got a toddler running around and by this time a serial cheater...I hate my life, i very rarely get to go to swinger parties or meet swingers as my misses has got tabs on me all the time.I have to sneak around all the time and sometimes get so desperate i want to pay for sex. who else is in this situation??i love my misses in my own way and would hate to leave my kid...but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell." try the samaratians | |||
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"I have had to take posts down that attack the poster. The man is allowed to put his post up without being abused for it. He is also allowed on the site even if you don't agree with his profile or his situation. If you have any comments to make please keep it clean. " No probs rugby i kinda lost the plot with this 1 Steve  | |||
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"I have had to take posts down that attack the poster. The man is allowed to put his post up without being abused for it. He is also allowed on the site even if you don't agree with his profile or his situation. If you have any comments to make please keep it clean. " yea i agree hope i wasnt 2 harsh im no here 2 judge but can only advice | |||
"I have had to take posts down that attack the poster. The man is allowed to put his post up without being abused for it. He is also allowed on the site even if you don't agree with his profile or his situation. If you have any comments to make please keep it clean. yea i agree hope i wasnt 2 harsh im no here 2 judge but can only advice" No of course not...I was just about to say what good advice you have given. It was name calling on previous posts from others that was the problem thats all xx I do agree with you though, he isn't happy, and no amount of staying just for the kids won't make you any happier. If he can't make a go of it with 100% comittment then he needs to do the decent thing for him AND his wife and kid and leave. | |||
no i realy do hope he gets sorted
it makes me sad 2 see other ppl
sad if only i could make ppl happy | |||
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"but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell." You need to sort your prioritises out, sex is plain and simply that sex, mush more important issues in life to worry about. There's only one person I.m really sorry for in the this tangled triangle, and that's the child. It's worth bearing in mind, children NEVER ask to come into this world, they're created!!!! | |||
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"Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start. " Doid you marry her or her parents and family. ? I left my wife over six years ago and I didn't give a flying fuck what her family thought of me for doing it. I had to leave and that was that ! I then met another woman to whom I've been married for over 4 years and have never been happier in my life. Funnly enough all my ex's family still speak to me ... Food for thought | |||
"that has no relevance to this any way!" It has every relevance to this seeing as YOU mentioned it in your opening thread. And seeing as you now have a child, your happiness doesn't really come into it, it's for you to ensure your child happiness. I'm not here to offend you, but your OP annoyed me, it's seems it's all about "YOU" | |||
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"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner? This has really got to be a wind up surely "I was just about to say the same... | |||
"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner? This has really got to be a wind up surely
I was just about to say the same...
"I was just about to post about it | |||
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"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner? This has really got to be a wind up surely "lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation! | |||
"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner? This has really got to be a wind up surely
lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!"well if he says he has 7 toes on one foot... and athelete foot !!!....... I am going for wind up....... | |||
stop making up excuse's an do ur
partner a favour an leave ull be
thanked for it in the long run | |||
It will be one hell of a fine mess when it is time to finish this sorry affair! | |||
"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner? This has really got to be a wind up surely
lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!"sympathy vote? now ya having a laugh lol | |||
"lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation! sympathy vote? now ya having a laugh lol " . Not mine for certain! | |||
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"You caught chlamydia and didn't tell your partner? This has really got to be a wind up surely
lol - i think he was going for the sympathy vote with that little revelation!
sympathy vote? now ya having a laugh lol
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"As my Dad use to say, you have made your bed so you have to lie in it." I agree | |||
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"thanks for your reply everyone.Some could of been less harsh." I think people are being fairly diplomatic, considering what most will really think. "Firstly any one can get someone pregnant, with or with out protection" That may be true, but very rare, if suitable precautions were being taken. If she lied to you about the precautions she was taking, then you really don't need to be with someone who has 'trapped' you into staying with her, but by the same vain, if you really didn't want children, you would have ensured that the protections you were both taking were adequate.. I have a certain amount of sympathy, but not much. "...that has no relevance to this any way!" It has every relevance, you are cheating on a wife and the fall out for a child would be horrendous. " Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start." So fecking what? You are not married to her family or your family. Believe me, the day they find out you are cheating, the recriminations will be far worse than if you grow a set of balls and actually leave. " This isn't the only mess i'm in....5 months ago i was diagnosed with chlamedia" So you have already been cheating..... "...took anti biotics for seven days, but didnt see the point as if shes got it ill no doubt get it again." Who? Your missus or whoever you are having an affair with? "luckily my misses didnt find out even though she probabely contracted it of me too.Any way, last week i decided to get a test and see if it has gone away...miraciousely it has and she must not have it now either..or maybe she never had it...oh welll." Chlymidia is a higly contagious sexually contracted infection and the chances are, you might have got rid of the first dose, but if your missus has it, you'll get it back. Chlymidia can make a woman infertile and if she decides to have another child and can't get pregnant, believe me, they will test her for it and you will be dead meat then mate. And you are still shagging your wife if there is a possibility she has it....... So you are trying to keep your cake and eat a donut at the same time! " i feel this is a blessing and lesson ive learnt in a big way." No you don't.... your profile is still on here, you are still looking to cheat. Does the woman who you got chylmidia from know you are on here as well, or if she is on here, does SHE know you've had this STI. The only way you will learn a lesson is to get your self off here, either sort out your marriage or leave and then, and only when you are single do you come back on here. Cheating men, and women, need to realise that just because we are swingers, we are not easy shags........ and by admitting you've had an STI, you are going to find it alot harder to get any form of meeting. You need to stop acting like a spoilt 16 year old who is stamping his feet at the injustice of being send to bed early, and grow up! | |||
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"Can the moderator please close this thread?/? ". Nooooo, let it run, it is entertaining! | |||
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"thanks for your reply everyone.Some could of been less harsh. I think people are being fairly diplomatic, considering what most will really think. Firstly any one can get someone pregnant, with or with out protection That may be true, but very rare, if suitable precautions were being taken. If she lied to you about the precautions she was taking, then you really don't need to be with someone who has 'trapped' you into staying with her, but by the same vain, if you really didn't want children, you would have ensured that the protections you were both taking were adequate.. I have a certain amount of sympathy, but not much. ...that has no relevance to this any way! It has every relevance, you are cheating on a wife and the fall out for a child would be horrendous. Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start. So fecking what? You are not married to her family or your family. Believe me, the day they find out you are cheating, the recriminations will be far worse than if you grow a set of balls and actually leave. This isn't the only mess i'm in....5 months ago i was diagnosed with chlamedia So you have already been cheating..... ...took anti biotics for seven days, but didnt see the point as if shes got it ill no doubt get it again. Who? Your missus or whoever you are having an affair with? luckily my misses didnt find out even though she probabely contracted it of me too.Any way, last week i decided to get a test and see if it has gone away...miraciousely it has and she must not have it now either..or maybe she never had it...oh welll. Chlymidia is a higly contagious sexually contracted infection and the chances are, you might have got rid of the first dose, but if your missus has it, you'll get it back. Chlymidia can make a woman infertile and if she decides to have another child and can't get pregnant, believe me, they will test her for it and you will be dead meat then mate. And you are still shagging your wife if there is a possibility she has it....... So you are trying to keep your cake and eat a donut at the same time! i feel this is a blessing and lesson ive learnt in a big way. No you don't.... your profile is still on here, you are still looking to cheat. Does the woman who you got chylmidia from know you are on here as well, or if she is on here, does SHE know you've had this STI. The only way you will learn a lesson is to get your self off here, either sort out your marriage or leave and then, and only when you are single do you come back on here. Cheating men, and women, need to realise that just because we are swingers, we are not easy shags........ and by admitting you've had an STI, you are going to find it alot harder to get any form of meeting. You need to stop acting like a spoilt 16 year old who is stamping his feet at the injustice of being send to bed early, and grow up!" Mad Chick I salute you! | |||
"This does not sound very real. Almost a deliberate attempt to get a reaction. Big pinch of salt!" A gritter lorry load I think! The more you read it HAS to be a wind up: would someone really post letting the world know that not only was he a cheat, but a health risk too?!! Hmmm... | |||
"This does not sound very real. Almost a deliberate attempt to get a reaction. Big pinch of salt!" A gritter lorry load I think! The more you read it HAS to be a wind up: would someone really post letting the world know that not only was he a cheat, but a health risk too?!! Hmmm... | |||
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"so who is in his boat.....and will they kindly sink it!! "The sub is on its way to sink his boat. | |||
"Shacked up with a gal, shes in love with you and before you know it shes pregnant.4 months into the relationship sex is sour,and already fantasising with other women.Sticking it out for the babies sake, 2 years later you got a toddler running around and by this time a serial cheater...I hate my life, i very rarely get to go to swinger parties or meet swingers as my misses has got tabs on me all the time.I have to sneak around all the time and sometimes get so desperate i want to pay for sex. who else is in this situation??i love my misses in my own way and would hate to leave my kid...but sex with multiple women is my greatest ever pleasure and im getting frustrated as hell." you should never stay with anyone because of a child, you can still love your child and be part of lts life without being with its mother Personally i think the best thing you can do for all of you is leave, your not happy, your mrs obvioulsy isnt happy if she has to 'keep tabs' on you and in the end your child will not be happy being with parents who dont want to be together oh and on your way out go buy a packet of condoms so it dont happen again | |||
"thanks for your reply everyone.Some could of been less harsh.Firstly any one can get someone pregnant, with or with out protection...that has no relevance to this any way! Yes it wrong what i'm doing and i should leave, but if i do it will have a huge impact on everyone.Her parents and family will never look at me in the same way again for a start. This isn't the only mess i'm in....5 months ago i was diagnosed with chlamedia...took anti biotics for seven days, but didnt see the point as if shes got it ill no doubt get it again.luckily my misses didnt find out even though she probabely contracted it of me too.Any way, last week i decided to get a test and see if it has gone away...miraciousely it has and she must not have it now either..or maybe she never had it...oh welll. i feel this is a blessing and lesson ive learnt in a big way." i wasnt going to reply to this post as i was gob smacked i didnt know what to say, then i was, then i wasnt, i went away and come back are you seriously telling us you picked up a STI and didnt even tell your wife so she could get treatment for it? nope im going away again cause im still gob smacked | |||
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"This does not sound very real. Almost a deliberate attempt to get a reaction. Big pinch of salt!" Got to say I'm with OKC on this one, can't be anything other than a wind up, especially after the second post | |||
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