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I was wondering from a female perspective if you take those three criteria as a 100 per cent package (pardon the pun) how would you divide up the 100 per cent for a desired guy for a swing encounter i.e large cock 50 per cent personality 30 per cent looks 20 per cent.  |
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By *CupWoman
over a year ago
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Looks for me are number 1, i've got to find a guy physically attractive to jump into bed with him. Personality is number 2 as I like to have a connection. Cock size is number 3. I'm more interested in foreplay and what you can do with it rather than how big it is. Plus i'm not one for lethal weapons  |
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A big cock isn't important to me at all. As long as its not small! Average is fine.
So it's hard to split the other 2 but I see a guys pic before I start chatting to him to find out his personality. I wouldn't see a pic of a guy who I don't find attractive and think 'maybe ill chat to him anyway he might be a nice guy' x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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id split looks and personality 50/50, in some way cock side matters not to me unless they are to big, if I look at it and I think its going to hurt me I wont play other wise I don't care about their size |
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Some good points displayed thus far with regard to the nature of the meet and percentage splits on looks/personality.
As a guy i'm not looking for a certain size of breast or ultra tight pussy.
I like a lady that I find attractive,has a fun personality, is articulate to some degree with leggy/ nice ass welcome bonus factors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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regarding looks and personality not sure cos ive met some really nice looking people and they are arrogant and got no personality but someone whos average looking has had a brilliant personality ,regarding cock size I prefer average anything massive you can keep to yourself |
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"A big cock isn't important to me at all. As long as its not small! Average is fine.
So it's hard to split the other 2 but I see a guys pic before I start chatting to him to find out his personality. I wouldn't see a pic of a guy who I don't find attractive and think 'maybe ill chat to him anyway he might be a nice guy' x"
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"Looks for me are number 1, i've got to find a guy physically attractive to jump into bed with him. Personality is number 2 as I like to have a connection. "
Cock size doesn't bother me so much as how it looks. There are definitely more than a few scary looking ones out and about!
As for the other 2 categories - agreed with above ^^ Rx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a bi guy, I like good looking big cocks with a pumping personality!
Seriously though, depends on the meat! "
It does seem it is only the majority of men who worry about cock, I've spoke to a lot of bi guys and they all choose their men on the cock, even straight guys think its all about thew cock.
For me its 80% looks and 20% personality. A good looking guy in my books is what gets me going.. Then as long as they have a good attitude and outlook its all good.. I'm here for fun not long term.. Long term would be the other way round |
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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago
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For me personality has to be a big part of it.
Looks pays a bit of it, but I have so many people that I like the look of that to say how important looks are is not easy, but personality can make the person handsome.
Cock size, not small for me.
I suppose I am lucky in that my partner has the lot, personality, looks, and a large cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the best ratio would be 40% on both looks and personality, and 20% penis size - I'm sure many women would be more than slightly disappointed if they met a man with the looks of Hugh Jackman and the personality of Tom Hanks, only to find he was hung like a baby carrot and couple of petit pois. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the best ratio would be 40% on both looks and personality, and 20% penis size - I'm sure many women would be more than slightly disappointed if they met a man with the looks of Hugh Jackman and the personality of Tom Hanks, only to find he was hung like a baby carrot and couple of petit pois."
i think someone watches blackadder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its not the size of the cock that counts. If he has a magic tongue , or whatever. hmmmm personality , and a sexy voice gets me every time . a person who can communicate. Even an older man gets me going , lol a man who is sure of himself, but not cocky
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering from a female perspective if you take those three criteria as a 100 per cent package (pardon the pun) how would you divide up the 100 per cent for a desired guy for a swing encounter i.e large cock 50 per cent personality 30 per cent looks 20 per cent. "
looks 80 % personality 20 % i cudnt care less about cock size! |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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For a meet
Personality - 35%
Looks - 35%
Cock size - 30%
If I was looking for a partner
Personality - 50%
Looks - 50%
I am looking for men to have good sex with on here, it might make me shallow but size does matter.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the best ratio would be 40% on both looks and personality, and 20% penis size - I'm sure many women would be more than slightly disappointed if they met a man with the looks of Hugh Jackman and the personality of Tom Hanks, only to find he was hung like a baby carrot and couple of petit pois.
i think someone watches blackadder "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't ever given any consideration to the size of a guy's cock when deciding to meet, I wont meet anyone without chatting first so I guess for me personality and looks break even. I can be attracted to someone because their messages are intelligent, witty and articulate before I have seen what they look like - that's not to say I'd meet based solely on their language skills mind there has to be physical attraction too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't ever given any consideration to the size of a guy's cock when deciding to meet, I wont meet anyone without chatting first so I guess for me personality and looks break even. I can be attracted to someone because their messages are intelligent, witty and articulate before I have seen what they look like - that's not to say I'd meet based solely on their language skills mind there has to be physical attraction too!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the best ratio would be 40% on both looks and personality, and 20% penis size - I'm sure many women would be more than slightly disappointed if they met a man with the looks of Hugh Jackman and the personality of Tom Hanks, only to find he was hung like a baby carrot and couple of petit pois."
it actually wouldn't bother me so long as he was giving in the oral department, I would sooner me a under average guy that a over average guy if I was having penetrative sex with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably Looks 50%, Personality 40% and Cock 10%. Looks draw me in but personality can seal the deal or turn me off completely. Cock size isn't a huge factor but I'd be lying if I said I'd be happy if it didn't touch the sides!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the best ratio would be 40% on both looks and personality, and 20% penis size - I'm sure many women would be more than slightly disappointed if they met a man with the looks of Hugh Jackman and the personality of Tom Hanks, only to find he was hung like a baby carrot and couple of petit pois.
it actually wouldn't bother me so long as he was giving in the oral department, I would sooner me a under average guy that a over average guy if I was having penetrative sex with him"
But surely the better endowed man could simply alter his depth of penetration to something you find a little more comfortable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite fascinating. Looks seem to have won for the ladies. Pity skill and experience were not included. 
How would a lady choose between a 40 year old who looked ok but was an acknowledged fantastic sexual partner and a 20 year-old that looked like Brad Pitt and was a novice? 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How would a lady choose between a 40 year old who looked ok but was an acknowledged fantastic sexual partner and a 20 year-old that looked like Brad Pitt and was a novice?
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Neither - she'd want a 20 year old Brad Pitt lookalike who's also an acknowledged fantastic sexual partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mosstly everyone is variable..there are those that are happy to stay in comfort zones, and those that are happy going outwith...then there are those that moan when they have something so specific that they then negatively reflect it onto other people..they can fuck off |
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"Quite fascinating. Looks seem to have won for the ladies. Pity skill and experience were not included.
How would a lady choose between a 40 year old who looked ok but was an acknowledged fantastic sexual partner and a 20 year-old that looked like Brad Pitt and was a novice?
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It's a no brainer for me. I'd pick the 40 year old every time.
Personality 70%, looks 20%, cock size 10%. |
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"Quite fascinating. Looks seem to have won for the ladies. Pity skill and experience were not included.
How would a lady choose between a 40 year old who looked ok but was an acknowledged fantastic sexual partner and a 20 year-old that looked like Brad Pitt and was a novice?
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You cant really gauge skill and experience until you meet someone. Veris might give an indication but what works for one doesn't necessarily work for another.
As to Brad Pitt lookalikes, no thanks!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Quite fascinating. Looks seem to have won for the ladies. Pity skill and experience were not included.
How would a lady choose between a 40 year old who looked ok but was an acknowledged fantastic sexual partner and a 20 year-old that looked like Brad Pitt and was a novice?
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It's a bit difficult to see how someone will perform sexually from an online profile...and if there is no attraction then it's never going to get to the point where I'd find out! In a relationship the criteria would be different but that's not what I'm looking for |
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