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So I was chatting to a lovely 67-year-old lady yesterday about the delectable contrast between her public persona- NHS nurse, grandma, upstanding member of a rural community and the secret slutty side where she and her husband travel to clubs, hold discreet swinging parties (where even the retired village GP attends to her) and go on swinging holidays. We agreed the contrast between the you'd-never-guess-it-was-them outward image and the 300 partners in 10 years, once 12 men in one night, was a fun side of this lifestyle.
So who else has these most respectable public personas? What are your contrasting lives? Who is the most respectable and most debauched at the same time?
This lady said she never lets the two lives overlap except if you looked closely and saw her suspender bumps at church!
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"I think most of us have very different public personas. "
I know we all do but as the first reply shows the Girl Guide leader is an example of the last person you’d suspect. The truth is you can find us everywhere.
What I’d like to find is the biggest contrast. So if you were a night club DJ or you were village vicar I know what I think seems more intriguing. |
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"I would very surprised if anyone who knows me in the "real" world could imagine what I enjoy doing, and doing well.
Go on
Give us a clue as to your real world? "
A masculine rugby playing married man, and absolutely no one would suspect that my wife not only knows everything, but that she used to share hung men with me. |
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I don't think anyone would pick me out as a swinger. Only had 2 long term relationships prior to meeting Mr R and am generally quite quiet and introverted.
I reckon they'd be surprised to find out I've been with more men, and women, since we've been married than before it  |
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We spent may years working for the same company(ies) and were always considered to be quite boring.. why? - becuase on a Monday morning (or any other morning) we would never brag about what (or whom) we had done that weekend...used to make us smile...a lot - if they only knew |
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That's part of the attraction to this crazy lifestyle. It's our secret and only those in the lifestyle are aware of us as swingers.
Our response to what did you get up to at the weekend is " Oh, the usual".
What would the office do if they knew? |
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So what are the secret cross overs between the two lives? There’s a lovely prim primary school headteacher with a young family here who has worn her shiny black knee high boots to work. At the weekend she wears them to be gang banged and loves wearing them at work on Monday. |
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I personally work in a call Center with about 15 other people. I think they would all be very surprised to find out that Steph, who is always the first one to give help or support and is also there union rep is into some kinky ass shit. Xx |
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By *enelope2UWoman 13 hours ago
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I think it's definitely a cultural thing.. people here can't accept that people have lives that are still them and sex lives that are also still them..
That's why so many here have simple fantasies and keyboard dreams they will never do or have done because they can't accept the duality of a person. |
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By *enelope2UWoman 13 hours ago
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"That's part of the attraction to this crazy lifestyle. It's our secret and only those in the lifestyle are aware of us as swingers.
Our response to what did you get up to at the weekend is " Oh, the usual".
What would the office do if they knew?"
Exactly!
I'm fortunate my friends and partially my family are aware of who I am. I couldn't associate with anyone who'd judge otherwise.
It's called lifestyle for a reason. |
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Have to say - before I got into swinging, I just assumed that swingers were hippies or young clubbing kids. I was in for a shock. Like you lady friend, all of teh couples I have met have been very upstanding discreet responsible members of society
It always shocked me when I met couples
for the first time - how normal they were - couldnt believe it. But is has become a huge turn on for me - knowing this nice respectable couple that I am chatting to in the pub -are likely to ask me to join them in bed!
The contrast is such a turn on
AS for myself, am very low key - when people at work ask me how was my weekend. I will mumble "oh low key" - little do they realise i have spent the evening in bed with a married couple where hubby and I have been servicing a very greedy wife!
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"So I was chatting to a lovely 67-year-old lady yesterday about the delectable contrast between her public persona- NHS nurse, grandma, upstanding member of a rural community and the secret slutty side where she and her husband travel to clubs, hold discreet swinging parties (where even the retired village GP attends to her) and go on swinging holidays. We agreed the contrast between the you'd-never-guess-it-was-them outward image and the 300 partners in 10 years, once 12 men in one night, was a fun side of this lifestyle.
So who else has these most respectable public personas? What are your contrasting lives? Who is the most respectable and most debauched at the same time?
This lady said she never lets the two lives overlap except if you looked closely and saw her suspender bumps at church!
If you'd rather not say in public just reply to me privately and I'll post anonymously."
I’m the same
Work in a respectable office
Have to be very careful |
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"So I was chatting to a lovely 67-year-old lady yesterday about the delectable contrast between her public persona- NHS nurse, grandma, upstanding member of a rural community and the secret slutty side where she and her husband travel to clubs, hold discreet swinging parties (where even the retired village GP attends to her) and go on swinging holidays. We agreed the contrast between the you'd-never-guess-it-was-them outward image and the 300 partners in 10 years, once 12 men in one night, was a fun side of this lifestyle.
So who else has these most respectable public personas? What are your contrasting lives? Who is the most respectable and most debauched at the same time?
This lady said she never lets the two lives overlap except if you looked closely and saw her suspender bumps at church!
If you'd rather not say in public just reply to me privately and I'll post anonymously.
I’m the same
Work in a respectable office
Have to be very careful "
I work in a respectable office as well!!! Luckily my football antics hide my extra curricular activities  |
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