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If you are in ask a question of those above you. If everyone just says in, it grinds to a halt. |
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By *F45Man 2 days ago
Midlands |
I’m in ask me anything |
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By *F45Man 2 days ago
Midlands |
Impromptu MMF with an ex and a workmate who was HUGE! |
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By *F45Man 2 days ago
Midlands |
A hubby who wants to suck cock while his partner watches |
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I would put on a live sex show designed to explicitly fulfil their fantasies. |
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Probably having sex on the hotel balcony |
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Tough one, I like both alot, but work scruffs takes top spot for me at the moment |
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By *F45Man 2 days ago
Midlands |
Does in progress count?! Someone I was chatting to on here |
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Shoes. Ridiculous collection really. In terms of cost and number  |
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Blimey, probably lovehoney as that was our go to site. But had it nearly 7 years now  |
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By *rs spicyCouple 2 days ago
Chesterfield near centre |
I don't really have one although I do enjoy watching clips that I have from meets. |
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By *rsMxCouple 2 days ago
Glasgow |
We are in for a bit x |
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By *rsMxCouple 2 days ago
Glasgow |
Riskiest place was a busy industrial estate. Didnt get caught. No, wouldnt do it again - older and wiser now, not worth the risk lol |
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Favourite would have to be cowgirl |
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In a very public bit of a music festival |
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Yes 😅 Stairwell of a multistory carpark. |
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Current fantasy would have to be hooking up with my attractive classmate in our college |
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In… but most people are probably in bed now 😂 |
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By *enelope2UWoman 2 days ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
When was the last time you were appreciative of something someone did for you. |
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By *rsMxCouple 2 days ago
Glasgow |
Group meet with 4F/3M - lots of fun  |
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Scissoring. Looks good in porn. Less good in practice  |
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Sexually: Fucklicking
Not sexually: Vegas baby! |
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I started in this lifestyle about 5 years ago (together 28 years) with my ex… recently rejoined as a singleton! |
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Black lacey basque with suspenders and stockings  |
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I have a new one now that still has to loose it's virginity....
Ladies only.
Hundreds of men have asked (no exaggeration) but it's not my thing at all. |
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Probably 4. Her fav is her pink 7" |
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Spit roast.. always enjoyed sucking cock, but being fucked at the same time is mind blowing 🙈😂 |
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The anticipation of a meet and timewasters and pushy people |
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Well you guys would be top 3, maybe a naughty weekend away on a long boat, no clothes allowed.. |
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MFM: Tom Hiddleston & Rege-Jean Page
FFM: Gillian Anderson & Rege-Jean Page
FFF: Gillian Anderson & Hannah Waddingham |
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Kinkiest thing..
6 in a room at chams last year, or maybe the night we had in our campervan down the gower a few years ago. Things took a very kinky turn that night.. |
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"Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan"
Big and last afew seconds!! |
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Hmmm, probably licking hannahs dirty bum on the loft ladder. |
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I could cope without music as much as I love it. |
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You! And to fulfil one of my earlier answers, fucklicking would be at the top of my list. |
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Not anywhere particularly risky to be honest! We've got outdoor fun on the cards for when scotland warms up a bit though  |
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That's a tough one to be fair..
I think we get dirtiest in the throws of an animalistic fuck session. A 69 with simultaneous ass play is very hot :-*
Other than that, probably a body pile of about 10 people at a party night!
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Teasluts.....rim her while he fucks my ass |
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Get fucked by a huge cock.. and I don’t even need the downside alternative to make that choice |
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We wouldn't change a thing as we love each other's bodies entirely  |
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Not too sure tbf. I’d guess one in fifty? |
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Id probably say the dirtiest thing was probably make out with my best friend in a lidl car park at night. |
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I've taken far too long to answer this one 😅
Probably my first FFM. I joined an established couple, and it was amazing! They introduced me to some new things, and it was also my first time with a woman. |
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Ask me a question I’ll tell you no lies  |
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"In for an hour before work. Xx"
Cant message |
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Being tied to a tree naked and blindfolded |
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Well I only meet in clubs so it's usually something quite revealing yet leaving something to the imagination. X |
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"In for an hour before work. Xx
Cant message "
it's your age range. I'm outside it. |
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"In for an hour before work. Xx
Cant message
it's your age range. I'm outside it. "
Site supporter I guess lol |
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By *hmt35Man 1 day ago
Milton Keynes |
"In for an hour before work. Xx
Cant message
it's your age range. I'm outside it.
Site supporter I guess lol"
Just sent |
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"Nice short answer.
No"
Think mine is the same question... no |
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At a club sucking a guys dick while his wife watched was pretty fun |
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I love to give pleasure rather than resive pleasure and I'm quite strong🤣🤣
Other people's pleasure is my leasure 👀 |
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In and just asked questions of everyone who posted in the last hour 😁 |
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My ever growing list of tattoos haha |
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To make sure both people are happy and committed to it and if in any doubts it won’t work and will cause to many problems |
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Husband got into a swinging website about 17 years ago but before that had a kind of poly fuck buddy kinda deal with some friends so it wasn't a huge leap for him. Being bi also meant there was always some itch that wasn't being scratched and he became a popular choice with some local bi couples. (The fact he was a 20-30 bi guy happy to fuck 40-50 yr old couples helped).
Wife is still new to this and exploring what parts are right for her. Being naked in Xtasia spa is next on the list. |
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Sexiest thing we have done? Either...
...Hubby coming home to find his Wife and female friend in matching lingerie.
...Wife doing a photo and video set for a famous fan funding platform to see if she wanted to do it. This included a video of her playing, stripping and then gushing (a lot) over her favourite toy. |
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She likes attention and is quite practical about coming and then she's done.
He likes it all. Talking about sex, flirting, sex games, exhibitionism and fantasies (in particular helping people achieve theirs). |
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(Husbands answer): Sometimes people just need permission to try a new sexual adventure. That one person to assure them they won't be judged. Sex games kinda do that. By setting little increasing challenges you discover more about yourself and eventually find where your lines are. This is what is great about swinging. Finding people who want to explore.
(Long answer I know ) |
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I rarely get any responses from either women or couples. What do I bring to the table to attract them? I believe I am good humoured, respectful, in reasonable shape for my age. |
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What do I bring to the table ! I’m open to playing with both, just one or simply watching. |
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I don't know about the biggest mistake by single males but there's a few common ones like not holding a conversation, not reading profiles, not filling out their profile, not approaching people to satisfy a need, being selfish etc.
One of the things that pop into my mind when single males complain about lack of success is they are expecting their ideal or dream sex partner. Swingers are people. If you are open to fun with dad bods, mum bods, curves, older people and different people then you get more success and find yourself in a wider and more enjoyable set of experiences. Swinging is about an open mind and about positive experiences not personal and specific wish fulfillment. |
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I would love to wank and suck a guy in front of his wife/girlfriend and honestly I really do not get asked |
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I am very genuine and show a lot of respect to both ladies and couple have made great friends over the years which is just not about sex. I always abide by their rules and what they want to do I have no other a agenda than for everybody to be comfortable and enjoy |
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To watch my wife with a crowd of men around her taking turns on her. |
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She generally likes attention and what woman wouldn't like to have people looking at her with approving or hungry looks. She hasn't done much live exhibitionism. This will be a good controlled dip into that. |
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Took ages to post, apologies…
Thankfully no weird requests so far… think I’ve enjoyed fairly usual fun so far! |
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I have never had sex or considered sez with a man. I am 100% straight |
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I have met and wanked a guy off in some woods once, but mostly meets go a lot further than that. |
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An Uber convincing a feminine TV with enhanced boobs to penetrate me whilst I'm on top |
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"15 mins . Fire away. X"
I cannot message you  |
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A gangbang where we both get tied up, disciplined, and thoroughly pounded. |
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We're in - Question asked to CatherineJohn |
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"We're in - Question asked to CatherineJohn"
6 guys one after the other each, fingers, tongues and cocks x |
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By *enelope2UWoman 1 day ago
Doesn't matter cant block distances |
No one so far, I'm attracted to intelligence and chemistry. I wouldn't be with a couple of it looked like the wife/female partner wasn't getting properly satisfied fully. |
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"i cum easily anyway and hard"
No, not our thing!!! |
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Maybe a huge bed. 6 or 7 females & a couple of fit guys . |
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"15 mins . Fire away. X
I cannot message you "
Yes for both of us.
Catherine - taken to the edge with a tongue then cock then repeat.
John - laid back, feeling of Catherine’s hand and mouth and the view of her perfect body! |
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10 inches…
Looking at her incredible body, I’d have to ask her to lay on her back on the bed, her head hanging down over the edge… I’d offer my cock to her mouth as I enjoy exploring her body with my hands…
Then I’d have to enjoy her body in missionary before flipping her over for some doggy style to finish…
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Yes I have been surprised....the first time I saw H with another man |
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The time we went to a sex dungeon, complete control |
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Paula shy. She does some great MFM vids I enjoy watching |
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It would on the stage of an abandoned theatre, a ring of seats,and a group of ladies playing musical chairs,with me incharge of the music. The difference to a normal game,is 4 of the chairs would have a vibrating dildo attached to seat.
Any girl that cums or sounds like she is cumming is out of the game. |
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No I'm very good at holding my orgasm and I cum when I want to cum not when I'm told |
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Well it was a long time ago me and a school friend messed about for a while then one summer walking back from school we both dared each other and it was good.
Blowjob that is |
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That would have to be the first time I fucked a guy bent over in front of his wife whilst she worked herself with her fingers |
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Sorry missed this one. I’ll DM you an answer to that one  |
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My black and red corset in my profile. Sadly it got ruined and I can't remember where I got it  |
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My most embarrassing story is that I was with an absolute stunner of a woman and we were messing about in her kitchen so I turned her round to enter her but I was bursting to wee. I knew if I was going to stop to go to the loo I would lose this moment. I entered her but in the throes of ecstasy I a little and in shock she pulled away and yelled did you just p@ss in me? I said no! And the moment was lost, very embarrassing 😳 |
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"My most embarrassing story is that I was with an absolute stunner of a woman and we were messing about in her kitchen so I turned her round to enter her but I was bursting to wee. I knew if I was going to stop to go to the loo I would lose this moment. I entered her but in the throes of ecstasy I a little and in shock she pulled away and yelled did you just p@ss in me? I said no! And the moment was lost, very embarrassing 😳 "
So did you meet again?  |
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Something nonsexual that turns me on? A soft woman’s voice for instance Corine Bailey Rae the singer just does it for me |
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lol never saw her again I was too embarrassed knowing she would have told many  |
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"My most embarrassing story is that I was with an absolute stunner of a woman and we were messing about in her kitchen so I turned her round to enter her but I was bursting to wee. I knew if I was going to stop to go to the loo I would lose this moment. I entered her but in the throes of ecstasy I a little and in shock she pulled away and yelled did you just p@ss in me? I said no! And the moment was lost, very embarrassing 😳
So did you meet again? "
Way too embarrassed so no never seen again  |
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Actually, had a few close calls being caught. Never actually been caught |
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