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over a year ago
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"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples 
Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'
I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL    "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples
Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'
I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL
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More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples look at me, my profile states no couples. they dont message me though  "
Well yeah I look at all sorts of profiles on here often via the new photos page - in fact I'm gonna have a butchers at poshBlack's profile as soon as I've sent this!
Bit I only look cos I'm a nosey ' curtain twitcher' n was a journalist for a living so I guess I'm naturally inquisitive lol - it don't mean I wanna meet the people haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples
Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'
I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL
More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first! "
hmm me too, if im in work and hubby knows we're going to have some free time he will do the searching and messaging then all i do is say yes or no , but again it works both ways i'll search and message and then hubby will say yes or no.. we do this together xx |
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I've had several recently where I've been approached by couples. The conversations start encouragingly but, when I try to steer it to an actual meeting, suddenly I get no replies. I can only think that one half has initiated the contact but the other half disapproves at a later stage. It would still be polite to say we've changed our minds rather than silence and deleted messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples
Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'
I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL
More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first!
hmm me too, if im in work and hubby knows we're going to have some free time he will do the searching and messaging then all i do is say yes or no , but again it works both ways i'll search and message and then hubby will say yes or no.. we do this together xx"
Couldnt agree more its a joint thing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get plenty of mail from couples, and its interesting to see just how different the male and female halves are when writing - the guys typically say little more than 'wanna come fuck my wife while I watch' whilst the ladies are a lot more talkative. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely get messages from couples. Those that sometimes do seem a bit fishy to me, as no veris and so forth.
Some want a meet at a drop of the hat..but erm, just because im single doesnt mean im not working or am free all the time lol if only i was!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually get, "the wifes seen your profile and wants you over now" ones! When i politely respond with, "its 2am in the morning and my kids are in bed" i get blocked, lol. |
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I get a fair few.
Half of them usually tend to be the bi male of a couple chancing his arm. Sometimes with a bit of subtlety, others, not so much.
The rest are usually a mix of one liners amounting to "wife wants to sit on your cock" or "want to watch you ruin the wife" and the others tend to be well thought out messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are so many hard up men on here that they have the pick of choice. Same as some of the females.
Some of them wouldn't look out of place in a farm yard yet they can chose to turn men down as there's so many here.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are so many hard up men on here that they have the pick of choice. Same as some of the females.
Some of them wouldn't look out of place in a farm yard yet they can chose to turn men down as there's so many here.
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How would you know they turn guys down?  |
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I find getting the messages from couples who have just joined with no pics or veri's rather amusing to get.
And yes they do go along the lines of "my wife likes the look of you..."
They could be genuine but just the one line of text...? |
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"I find getting the messages from couples who have just joined with no pics or veri's rather amusing to get.
And yes they do go along the lines of "my wife likes the look of you..."
They could be genuine but just the one line of text...?"
I had something similar a couple of days ago. Lots of exchanged messages and face pics from hotmail accounts (both ways), all going well then, suddenly, the profile and hotmail account are both deleted. Why? Why? Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get at least the same number of un solicited messages from couples each day/week and id say month to date I have had same as I did last month and that was a similar number for month before
Nil - Zero - Zilch -
However because i have a close group of friends including couples; I do get messages from those associated ....if that makes sense
I think couples tend to look upon the whole "hunting" thing on here as - its their control over us - but would add that does not mean all because some are cracking people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples "
I find many couples will block incoming mail and do the searching themselves - thus increasing the chances of meeting those that catch their eye rather than 'firefighting' endless incoming mail from all and sundry.
So yes - they do send messages - and more often than not probably get better responses that way!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples
Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'
I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL
More like some women like to know who there bloke is talking to and give there approval. Id go mad if my bloke agreed to someone comin round if i hadnt seen pics first!
hmm me too, if im in work and hubby knows we're going to have some free time he will do the searching and messaging then all i do is say yes or no , but again it works both ways i'll search and message and then hubby will say yes or no.. we do this together xx
Couldnt agree more its a joint thing x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had several recently where I've been approached by couples. The conversations start encouragingly but, when I try to steer it to an actual meeting, suddenly I get no replies. I can only think that one half has initiated the contact but the other half disapproves at a later stage. It would still be polite to say we've changed our minds rather than silence and deleted messages."
I have to say though i'm guilty of doing the same when i was playing with an ex, what goes around comes around i guess, for me anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those that have pictures of their body (torso etc) at very the least and have "meeting in person" validations are far more likely to get messages leading to meets.
We know a few single guys that do very well for themselves, because they make the effort with their profiles and come across as really nice guys in person at clubs etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Despite what people think good single guys that can accom are a good find on a swinging site."
Yes I get offers but can't accommodate yet, if I did I Wud get far more action... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we message single men aswell as sorting through the mails we get from single men, but i have to say the irony and contradiction of some the posts on this thread are unreal lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get a fare bit from couples as that's what I'm looking for , but their seems to be a massive amount of fakes in this area looking for a cheap thrill"
the fakes do tend to turn out been a single man pretending to be a couple more often than not though. |
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We're lazy. We tend to just reply to messages.
As for single guys specifically, we'd probably end up meeting the male half of couples more. Not too many single guys stand out although we have met a couple of them who we'll be keeping in contact with long term |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"We're lazy. We tend to just reply to messages.
As for single guys specifically, we'd probably end up meeting the male half of couples more. Not too many single guys stand out although we have met a couple of them who we'll be keeping in contact with long term "
.....salut
Lol
Yes you do contact and you guys are great. I am a leaving prove of that. I can even provide reference of how nice you both are
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I find many couples will block incoming mail and do the searching themselves - thus increasing the chances of meeting those that catch their eye rather than 'firefighting' endless incoming mail from all and sundry.
So yes - they do send messages - and more often than not probably get better responses that way! "
This!!! |
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"We're lazy. We tend to just reply to messages.
As for single guys specifically, we'd probably end up meeting the male half of couples more. Not too many single guys stand out although we have met a couple of them who we'll be keeping in contact with long term .....salut
Lol
Yes you do contact and you guys are great. I am a leaving prove of that. I can even provide reference of how nice you both are
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Haha, cheers dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We message single guys usually its Mr D that does the initial messaging "to try and our the ones that are time wasters"
Then we arrange to meet if we like what we see.
usually we only message guys with verifications by meeting in person we also take into account how long they have been on the site. If they have been on for 8 months or so and still not had a meeting in person we can pretty much presume that either they are very limited on there meeting times or they have no intention on meeting in the first place.
We have met lots of nice single males from here and there not all bad its just a shame the few ruin it for the many good ones out there.
also it usually helps if the males have a little about themselves what there into ect on there profiles if we see "will fill in later" or "never know what to say " on there profiles we usually move on.
just our 10p worth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i have also recieved messages from couples, just a shame im based overseas but always good to chat and get to know them, who knows what will happen when i return back to UK on leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does this happen alot? I get very few mail from couples
Sometimes I get mail from 'couples' who appear to b genuine according to their verifications - altho as the conversation evolves inevitably it's the male partner sending e mails which sign off wiv 'I'll tell the Mrs n get back if she's interested'
I'm left with the distinct impression it's a guy having a qwerty wank on his own LOL "
Yes I get that too |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
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"We message single guys usually its Mr D that does the initial messaging "to try and our the ones that are time wasters"
Then we arrange to meet if we like what we see.
usually we only message guys with verifications by meeting in person we also take into account how long they have been on the site. If they have been on for 8 months or so and still not had a meeting in person we can pretty much presume that either they are very limited on there meeting times or they have no intention on meeting in the first place.
We have met lots of nice single males from here and there not all bad its just a shame the few ruin it for the many good ones out there.
also it usually helps if the males have a little about themselves what there into ect on there profiles if we see "will fill in later" or "never know what to say " on there profiles we usually move on.
just our 10p worth."
A good 10p's worth too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually get, "the wifes seen your profile and wants you over now" ones! When i politely respond with, "its 2am in the morning and my kids are in bed" i get blocked, lol."
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