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By *F45Man 3 weeks ago
Midlands |
I’m in, ask anything |
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We would be new to a swingers private party as a couple. Mostly it would be "see and be seen". Maybe bring and use toys to put on a bit of a show. |
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One thing we need to get better at is having a relaxed play. Need to set aside time and not just have quicki S when we can fit it in. |
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Him: Jeans that show off my muscular legs and nice ass.
Her: Retro dresses. They don't show off much but I love how I look in them. |
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Him: I'd love to see her enjoy another cock. See that looks on her face with my cock in one hand and a +1 cock in the other.
Her: Probably see him with another guy. |
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I have a few times most memorable must have been when my friend at the time wanted his gf to have a surprise girl on girl session, it was short notice and knew I’ve been partial to dress the part before so I was her budding babe  |
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I’m in |
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Low cut bra but especially skimpy white knickers would get my cock twitching  |
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We did do some market reviews for lingerie (crotchless etc) but we don't have a huge amount of sex costumes. |
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I require chemistry.
So I like a guy that is intelligent via keyboard, that can flirt and be sexy without being vile and basic. If I'm laughing and smiling and getting excited through his typed responses, I immediately sense I'd be the same in his physical presence. |
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We are quite different in our approaches to sex. She is more into toys, attention and teasing. When she's not in the mood she generally doesn't talk about sex. He loves to talk about sex and explores the subject a lot (especially understanding other people's kinks and fantasies) and switches between quick and dirty satisfaction to being a pleaser and following the script of a fantasy. |
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Id bring actual experience and laughter and conversation plus a few games to lighten the mood and the designated cocktail maker. |
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By *F45Man 3 weeks ago
Midlands |
A hotel rendezvous. Suites and booted, some cocktails and flirting at the bar and then up to the room |
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Sometimes it's about prolonged teasing and playing and sometimes it's a casual, almost freeuse couple, grab your partner and have a fast and furious fuck.
Neither are better. They are different flavours of sex. |
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USA Houston private club membership circles of 25 people and each circle had a organiser treasurer and secretary. Each social was arranged with other circles and events were 50 to 500 each week/month and a massive yearly one. It was great, organised, and all attended were legitimate and verified. |
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Wackiest place? I don't think we've fucked anywhere I'd describe as Wacky.
We fucked in a hotel with paper thin walls and triggered fuck sessions in the neighbouring rooms. We'd do that again. |
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Proudest probably was setting up my first gangbang..UK term.. circle jerk USA term..
It was 5 guys plus the camera man, all my guy friends who'd I used to cook for and give sports massages to plus just enjoyed being around. I wanted to try multiple I asked they obliged and we never looked back. |
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Amazing question!
The theme would be... Let's see... Some sort of cosplay. Final fantasy, anime or (for the comedy) Pokémon. If you can laugh and fuck you are doing it right.
The balance would be 60% male and 40% female. Mostly couples and fwb pairs with a bunch of trusted +1 cock options.
Celebrity couple... Not sure. A couple with a good energy and who laugh genuinely. |
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By *exy-SashWoman 3 weeks ago
Leighton Buzzard |
Character and mind I’d say Firstly |
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We met in a common interest group. He is a big believer in finding a partner with a common interest whereas in bars etc it's random. |
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His: Getting sucked by K with a prostate toy in. I nearly fainted. Guys need to learn how to rock that prostate they are missing out!
Her: Riding S's face as he is sucking and slowly running his tongue along my clit. I came so hard his hair was soaked through when I gushed. |
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Love seeing a lady in well fitted dress, high heels always gets my cock twitching |
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By *exy-SashWoman 3 weeks ago
Leighton Buzzard |
Having an open mind. Trying new things to evolve on new levels  |
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Her: Get more toys!
Him: Talk to more people about their fantasies and understand them more. |
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By *exy-SashWoman 3 weeks ago
Leighton Buzzard |
Warm breath hitting the nape of my neck  |
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Find someone who I can go to a club with |
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Very flexible, I find a wide range of women attractive, not sure if I really have a type. |
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Can't answer for my wife at the moment as she's not here but the thing I like most in a sexual partner is confidence. I don't play with nervous people or pushy people but someone who flirts and let's me know they are down for fun is the sexiest thing in the world.
One of the sexiest things I've ever been told is "I've had a lot of fun but I really need you to take me home and fuck me hard now". |
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(and she didn't whisper it. The waiter nearly dropped the wine bottle.) |
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Bring my two of my FWB play partners over from the states. |
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If we're counting the UK as 4 different countries it's 10. |
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My current wank bank contains all sorts of different things but mainly erotic lingerie photos |
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By *exy-SashWoman 3 weeks ago
Leighton Buzzard |
I’m always in charge!!!!
Both men fingering me at the same time , wanking one while kissing the other. Edging them both till they can take no more ,mouth open for hot spunk I’m thinking |
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"Back in"
Can't ask you anything because of tour settings |
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Weirdest sex. It wasn't what we did but we were at a LARP event and were still in costume. Can honestly say I fucked an elf lmao. |
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It varies from zero (generally only if I'm busy or ill) to 3. But the norm is 1. |
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My partner is younger than me but then we were friends before lovers and it just happened.
The oldest I played with is a woman 20 years older than me. She was funny and missed that she'd love to be pounded by a younger guy on Fab (when I had a single male account) so I was happy to make her day. I visited a few more times before she started dating and closed her account. |
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Im in ask away |
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Took them to a well known club as she wanted to experience first hand. I made sure she was happy and I can assure you her moans and groans in one of the rooms certainly sounded like it |
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We are going to a spa hotel next February that is quite swanky. It has a naked sauna and steam policy in one particular area, and it is suspended directly over the mountains.
If i can get the room to hubby and I i’d love to have an orgasm in there with glorious view of the landscape and snow etc. |
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To have lots of fun and satisfy my needs |
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Our meet from Nov 2019.
Funny, chilled, relaxed gentleman joined us for a threesome.
He was perfect. Only other guy to make D squirt, the oral and the sex was amazing and a lovely double cum shot to finish. |
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On my to do list is a private party. Probably need to find the right partner to attend with first, and I’m working on that |
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Fast cars/bikes
Gourmet food
Shoe shopping
Preferably all three
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In no particular order...
Guys who give 3 word requests but expect paragraph replies.
Guys who throw tantrums because you didn't answer them when you have 50+ unanswered cold call messages.
Guys who believe they are entitled to your time and attention.
Guys who thinks they are experts at disguising "I want to fuck your wife" as a more reasonable request.
And yeah it's always guys. |
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C - would watch D have a full 1:1 meet with another guy. Start off with an erotic massage and watch it escalate from there.
D - watch C give another woman an erotic massage and then join in to help finish her off |
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Top 5.
1. 4 hands and 2 tongues exploring her body.
2. Spit roasts
3. Having sex with another man whilst C watches knowing how much it turns him on
4. Receiving two lots of cum
5. The reclaim sex afterwards |
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To be having a quiet drink and get talking to two stunning ladies around the 30years old age . They invite me back to theirs and we have a full on 3sum. They would be fully bi |
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I have an addiction to Louboutin shoes (28 pairs, always room for another….)
clothes wise I mix and match designer, boutique and high street depending on what i’m doing and where i’m going.
Probably my fav clothes shop is Selfridges, as i can get all sorts in there. |
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That’s easy. Got be ffm with bi females |
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I'm a pretty open book but I'd have to say top of my list would be dominating and submissive couple. |
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My car or my motorbike. I find the thrill of (appropriate) speed exhilarating and it can be a turn on |
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Assuming all the celebrity stuff is off the table, I would love to spend a week away with two women… but I’m pretty sure that’s not likely (and maybe that’s selfish?! To rephrase, I’d want two women to want to take me away for a week ) |
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Mmmm
My fashion tastes are quite retro and classic,so I tend to wear stuff that has been around for years,but..
I would go for a Beagle collar shirt, preferably in bright orange Chocolate brown |
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An uber convincing and uber feminine TV with enhanced boobs and a working cock. Im still looking, don’t hold out much hope. |
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Hubby had a bi MMF with a few couples before we met and they were all fun and rewarding. Mostly because it was communicated whether the aim was the wife watching two men go at it or her being in the centre of it all.
The closest we have had since getting together is when we first got together and we were in a poly situation. She found herself in bed with two naked guys (hubby being one of them) as they played together. She just got to play and knew the other guy wouldn't touch her without her telling him to. |
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A well dressed lady, fitted dress, high heels, hair and make up done |
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Firstly thanks for the compliment.
It’s a mix of running, strength training and cycling with the odd swim thrown in
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He's technically Pan but Bi is what he is accustomed to using. Not a fan at all of TV (generally more of a fan of bodies than lingerie) but has played with trans men and women before. He didn't realise his first trans guy was trans. It was funny when his date revealed it before they went back to his place and he was delighted. He likes hot guys (and he was OMG) and he likes pussy and this was a new mixture of those factors for him. |
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Always partake/watch, D doesn't meet alone.
I enjoy watching her in action and being intimate with someone else.
I enjoy watching her be pleasured and having a raw, spontaneous attraction to someone else and how she behaves sexually with them
I enjoy the fact that she's mine, that she enjoys being shared and that other men want her. I always get very excited about where they might want to finish.
I love reclaim sex and her telling me about the sex whilst we have sex together. |
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to have have more adventurous times and not the same similar vanilla stuff. |
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The next thing we would like to try having a couple where we share pictures of our various sexual adventures. For example:
A pic of her in lingerie.
A pic of how hard she got him.
A pic of the bite mark on his ass.
A pic of the slap mark on her ass (gotta get my own back).
A creampie or load shot over her tits.
A pile of used toys after a play session.
And so on. |
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Yes, always discussed there are no secrets and more importantly no judgement either.
I know she wants an erotic massage from a trained masseuse and to have sex with him afterwards.
She knows I want an mmff foursome with a bi female so the males can watch the women before joining in.
We both have a risky fantasy of a bare back threesome with the guest and I finishing inside her.
We both want to visit a club and see what happens. |
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By *exy-SashWoman 3 weeks ago
Leighton Buzzard |
I am straight, the open mindedness tho does wonder. What it would feel like for another women to go down on me on a no return basis . Can’t lie x |
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Still in but it seems the questions are drying up. We are happy to answer anything. |
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How long do you have
Bad manners
Bad breath
Unkempt nails
Lack of self awareness
Rudeness to those trying to help (shop assistants, waiting staff etc)
Specific to here-
One word messages
Anyone using “yous”
Not reading messages
Random friends requests
Arrogance (WHEN we meet up I’m going to… type things)
Anyone who describes themselves as a Viking |
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By *exy-SashWoman 3 weeks ago
Leighton Buzzard |
I would prefer it on a Bone china plate . For you to lap it up |
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Don't expect miracles, it takes time and patience to find someone to connect with |
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Neither of us like facials.
Creampies are only an us thing.
Body shots? Bring it on! |
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Star Trek. Exploring the galaxy and meeting new cultures with a good community on the ship. Less Kirk and more the other captains. |
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Not my dynamic at all so I'd pass on that scenario full stop |
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As soon as I got to blindfolded I lost interest. I like to see what I'm doing |
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I don't know, Maybe Lucifer, I like his attitude even though its a bit twisted but I'd probably play on his powers a little bit more |
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We've played with friends and work colleagues away from Fab but probably not a world we would enter into now except for maybe D's very bisexual best friend.
Now, we have very strict criteria on here for who we will play with. Some of that is public on our profile, some of it isn't to stop people lying about things when we then say no thanks and they tell us the profile was wrong.
After that, if you've got a good conversation in you and you can travel then the odds are in your favour |
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One thing we learned is some people almost need permission to try things. We have seen people who are really timid come out of their shell when we shared details of things we tried and them suddenly going "I'd love to try that!" or "Didn't you feel guilty or slutty?" and then revealing they wanted to try it but felt others would judge them. |
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Read profiles. Be polite. Trying to convince someone of something they dont want to do (no single males- yet try to convince them you’re the one to break that etc) will never work. Take no graciously- spitting your dummy out or getting abusive reflects on you, not me. |
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A very mild bukkake- hubby and another came on me in short succession; got me thinking about expanding upon that but never have. |
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His favourite: Woman on top (love me a show)
Her favourite: Missionary and kissing while fucking.
Least favourite: any weird side on crap it's sex not fucking Twister.
Most effective: Either doggy or her ankles on his shoulders and turning her hips so he's pounding her G spot. She will get wailing in no time which triggers him into coming hard. |
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Her: Being stealthily fingered somewhere like on a bus or in a cinema by a "stranger".
Him: Having two or three trusted guys fuck him and fill him up with cum so he's left exhausted and dripping at the end. |
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Still the occasional question. |
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Mainly colleagues past and present |
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Hubby gets very visually turned on so he would be happy behind the camera getting wound up. He would need to be sorted out afterwards though. |
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Yeah a pic of a guys cock on a profile is helpful. To be blunt it's one of things we are looking for. Gotta see if it's neat, nice looking etc. If it's only cock then we are likely to ask for a body picture and eventually a face pic if we are considering a meet. |
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Nope. A profile full of cock pics is a turn off. Unless its freakishly large (or small) I think most women have a reasonable grasp of what any given man will have. I understand some women have a pre requisite for size at either end of the spectrum, but nothing gets you blocked quicker than unsolicited 15 pictures of your junk from every angle. I know what a cock looks like. |
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I am in
Looks like a fun thread |
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LadyBoner - when Longsword wears jeans with no socks and just lounging around
Longsword - would probably be eye confidence in a woman |
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I tend to look at the pictures first, to see what is on offer, but then read the profile to see what we may have in common. |
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By *33ukMan 3 weeks ago
fareham |
Gotta be eyes, ass and then tits....yes I would  |
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Short answer- no.
Its not a dynamic that holds any appeal to me. |
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Be respectful and persevere
Someone for eveybody but doesnt mean everybody wants to |
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Mostly a heart of gold nice guy that will appreciate the experience and be respectful. The rest is kinda negotiable although we are drawn to dad bod types. You don't have to be a model just look after yourself. |
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You have a face and body pic on your profile so yeah why not show the goods. Some people aren't fussed about a cock pic and that's fine but you might be rocking what they want (or are reassured you aren't too big or have any turn offs) so why not? |
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Think the most obvious one is bareback threesome. Avoided so far for understandable reasons |
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Male half in whilst in between clients at work |
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By *33ukMan 3 weeks ago
fareham |
Emilia Clarke
Alison brie
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Lots of unfulfilled fantasies but we are taking our time. Many of them are on the thread here. |
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We haven't flashed but never say never. |
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By *andB130Couple 3 weeks ago
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Fucked in public a few times. Best was in bird hide in a nature reserve, with husband as a look out! |
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The most unwelcome advance was a guy who just launched into a cuck narrative on an assumption. He was told very briskly to fuck off and blocked. |
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Sorry missed this one from earlier.
Pegging. If I had a pound for every request |
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Anyone got any questions for me? |
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The last were a friends wife's, she wanted to feel it against her |
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In for a few questions if anyone wants to ask |
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In for a few questions if anyone wants to ask |
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A girl we both had a thing for each other yrs ago but both got married to other people .. met a a wee while back and had a night of lusty fun that we both wish we had yrs ago when we were singing |
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On a scale of 1 to 10 Id say 7 |
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The 1st time was when I was 35 |
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I have so much lingerie its untrue. I could wear a different outfit a day for 6 months and not recycle
So I don’t have favourite pieces per se; depends on my mood.
In terms of brands I buy AP, Cotelli and Alberto Fina the most. |
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As long as its matching preferably with stockings |
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Everything is not always as it might seem. Tread the path with caution and always be respectful to all. |
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In for bit x |
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I’m basically a sex addict so this was a natural progression |
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Abandoned for football, so i’ll answer. |
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Meet a lovely couple in a hotel for the night |
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Me the mrs lol |
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