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"If you were in a club, with safer sex in mind and was offered a blowie using a condom, would you take it or leave it ????? "
We was in this situation before ,the woman wanted to use a condom and was happy too ,but she ended up taking it off 🤷♂️ |
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Several decades ago, might have been OK when I was young and horny. And if a lady so much as sneezed , I would cum. But in the last 10 years at least. Having experienced 1 bj with a condom. Didn't really do a lot for me. As, couldn't feel a great deal tbh.
Sounds selfish, but I'd much prefer to give, than receive, where ladies are concerned.  |
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I would but then if the woman insisted on a condom to suck me and wanted her pussy licking what do l say ? Maybe if she only sucks with a condom she will be cleaner then those who don't buy it's a bit hypocritical - l know you can get something of a barrier for going down on a woman but never seen let alone tried one |
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I've had them in the past, ex girlfriend hated cum so would only give me one with a condom, I mean it's a blow job still and I came but it just took the real joy out of it for me. We didnt last long So in answer to your question...yes I'd except a BJ. |
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Its very interesting, this isn't an act i would want to consider with a relationship partner, but with an added extra play mate with multiple encounters..... its certainly given food for thought... Thankyou for all opinions |
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id like to think the blowie would just be part of a fun experience, along with voyuer, touching, self pleasure, caressing others not just be all and end all.... each persons view of fun is different x TY for your input8 |
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"I would but then if the woman insisted on a condom to suck me and wanted her pussy licking what do l say ? Maybe if she only sucks with a condom she will be cleaner then those who don't buy it's a bit hypocritical - l know you can get something of a barrier for going down on a woman but never seen let alone tried one "
I would imagine if she was thinking of safety she would also protect herself against oral sti' s too.... Spose the question is how many risks is one prepared to take x
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I wouldn’t want a BJ with a condom on.
It has happened with a play partner and she’s wanted to taste herself but I didn’t get much feeling from it.
Nothing hotter than feeling a tongue swirl around the tip 🥵
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If you were in a club, with safer sex in mind and was offered a blowie using a condom, would you take it or leave it ?????
I used to ask them to put a condom on when we first started going to clubs I only had one guy refuse!
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I wouldn’t accept a blow job without the woman completing a full risk assessment… full body condom, hi viz jacket, hard hat, specs , steel capped boots, shoulder length gloves - impenetrable rubber and a disinfectant shower/power wash before and after  |
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"Definitely not ,could not imagine anything worse ,definitely for safe sex but that’s it .Aimee "
Not judging at all but whats the difference? If you wouldn't have unprotected sex incase of infection, why would you put it in your mouth? |
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"Definitely not ,could not imagine anything worse ,definitely for safe sex but that’s it .Aimee
Not judging at all but whats the difference? If you wouldn't have unprotected sex incase of infection, why would you put it in your mouth?"
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"Definitely not ,could not imagine anything worse ,definitely for safe sex but that’s it .Aimee
Not judging at all but whats the difference? If you wouldn't have unprotected sex incase of infection, why would you put it in your mouth?"
Could not deal with that in my mouth,I would gag 100% . |
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I would like to think my cock would be very clean before I would offer it to anybody to play with? And I would expect the same in return! I hate blow job with condoms as it dampens the feeling for me  |
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Mrs doesn't for a BJ, like the vast majority of people on the scene. I've very rarely seen anyone ask someone to put a condom on for a blow job (maybe once over the years) and never been asked to myself of any woman.
Is it risk free? No. However it's a point of managing risk and enjoyment. I think most people like ourselves know its not risk free but are happy the risk is low enough to be happy with it. Its a balance of risk vs the quality of enjoyment. |
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"I've had them in the past, ex girlfriend hated cum so would only give me one with a condom, I mean it's a blow job still and I came but it just took the real joy out of it for me. We didnt last long So in answer to your question...yes I'd except a BJ. "
Did she want you to lick her snatch though |
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"Mrs doesn't for a BJ, like the vast majority of people on the scene. I've very rarely seen anyone ask someone to put a condom on for a blow job (maybe once over the years) and never been asked to myself of any woman.
Is it risk free? No. However it's a point of managing risk and enjoyment. I think most people like ourselves know its not risk free but are happy the risk is low enough to be happy with it. Its a balance of risk vs the quality of enjoyment."
Thanks for the feedback, it wouldnt be a problem with someone we know and trust, its more about the random guy (or lady for that matter) that we might invite to join in with our play in the club. |
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"I've had them in the past, ex girlfriend hated cum so would only give me one with a condom, I mean it's a blow job still and I came but it just took the real joy out of it for me. We didnt last long So in answer to your question...yes I'd except a BJ.
Did she want you to lick her snatch though "
Its the lady asking the question... if she offered a bj to a stranger in the club, with a condom, would he wear a condom? |
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"Mrs doesn't for a BJ, like the vast majority of people on the scene. I've very rarely seen anyone ask someone to put a condom on for a blow job (maybe once over the years) and never been asked to myself of any woman.
Is it risk free? No. However it's a point of managing risk and enjoyment. I think most people like ourselves know its not risk free but are happy the risk is low enough to be happy with it. Its a balance of risk vs the quality of enjoyment.
Thanks for the feedback, it wouldnt be a problem with someone we know and trust, its more about the random guy (or lady for that matter) that we might invite to join in with our play in the club."
The key is to play to your rules and how you feel safe. Never do something you feel uncomfortable with. It's totally OK to politely ask a guy to put something on or use a dam with a woman. It doesn't mean you can't still enjoy the moment. Most of what is hot is sharing an intimate personal experience with someone and thin layer of material shouldn't change that. If that doesn't work for them, so be it, we have different requirements. Hopefully they will gracefully understand. And if they are disrespectful of your requirements then you've dodged a bullet anyways. |
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"Mrs doesn't for a BJ, like the vast majority of people on the scene. I've very rarely seen anyone ask someone to put a condom on for a blow job (maybe once over the years) and never been asked to myself of any woman.
Is it risk free? No. However it's a point of managing risk and enjoyment. I think most people like ourselves know its not risk free but are happy the risk is low enough to be happy with it. Its a balance of risk vs the quality of enjoyment.
Thanks for the feedback, it wouldnt be a problem with someone we know and trust, its more about the random guy (or lady for that matter) that we might invite to join in with our play in the club.
The key is to play to your rules and how you feel safe. Never do something you feel uncomfortable with. It's totally OK to politely ask a guy to put something on or use a dam with a woman. It doesn't mean you can't still enjoy the moment. Most of what is hot is sharing an intimate personal experience with someone and thin layer of material shouldn't change that. If that doesn't work for them, so be it, we have different requirements. Hopefully they will gracefully understand. And if they are disrespectful of your requirements then you've dodged a bullet anyways."
Thank you, great profile btw |
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"Mrs doesn't for a BJ, like the vast majority of people on the scene. I've very rarely seen anyone ask someone to put a condom on for a blow job (maybe once over the years) and never been asked to myself of any woman.
Is it risk free? No. However it's a point of managing risk and enjoyment. I think most people like ourselves know its not risk free but are happy the risk is low enough to be happy with it. Its a balance of risk vs the quality of enjoyment.
Thanks for the feedback, it wouldnt be a problem with someone we know and trust, its more about the random guy (or lady for that matter) that we might invite to join in with our play in the club.
The key is to play to your rules and how you feel safe. Never do something you feel uncomfortable with. It's totally OK to politely ask a guy to put something on or use a dam with a woman. It doesn't mean you can't still enjoy the moment. Most of what is hot is sharing an intimate personal experience with someone and thin layer of material shouldn't change that. If that doesn't work for them, so be it, we have different requirements. Hopefully they will gracefully understand. And if they are disrespectful of your requirements then you've dodged a bullet anyways.
Thank you, great profile btw "
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I've only given one with a condom once - and only because I was sharing the BJ with a lady who'd just been fucked with it.
It was honestly better than a freshly removed condom, where the cock is still laced with spermicide 🥴 but as a lover of man juice, and knowing the feeling is suppressed for guys, it's certainly never going to be a preference.
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