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Ask in private, answer in public part 3
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By *elfbiMan 3 weeks ago
belfast/Down, but can travel. |
Most couples are positive, for some it's an immediate no which is fine. Others with a straight male are fine with it as long as we all play straight.
I think being bi is more acceptable now. A lot of people now see ot as a kink which can be turned on and off while playing. Depending who you are playing with. |
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Could I do it? Yes. have I done it? Yes…..
I paid my way through university being a podium dancer and i’m an ex professional ballerina so Im used to dancing in public
I’m currently learning to pole dance so I’m sure at a club I’ll eventually go public with that. When I’m more confident with it. |
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First one would be the female orgasm,and playing with myself
2nd would be going to a pub,on my own, casually dressed just to see how women are treated,and how it comes across
Third one would probably be having a wee.
Always fascinated me they one |
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I’d would like to learn about the female perspective on male behaviour. As an example how do you really feel when we say something we genuinely think is a wonderful and charming .
I’d like to learn what horny feels like from a female perspective. Physically and emotionally
And finally I’d like to get some insight into how some basic like experiences are different. |
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Unimaginative questions. I understand not everyone has read the previous forums, but we get the same thing over and over. But we also have some regulars who ask really good ones. Its just a fun thread to do really, so despite the odd hiccup I come back to answer. |
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"Unimaginative questions. I understand not everyone has read the previous forums, but we get the same thing over and over. But we also have some regulars who ask really good ones. Its just a fun thread to do really, so despite the odd hiccup I come back to answer. "
Exactly this!! I must get asked how much did my cock tattoo hurt or what's the most naughtiest thing you've ever done at least 4 times a day each! But yet we still come back for more 🤣 |
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Tied hubby to a chair. Good and proper. Played with a hot lady over and over and occasionally paid him some attention by blowing on him, brushing past him, talking to him and explaining exactly what we were doing to each other to make us both a hot and wet mess, with so many orgasms I'd lost count.
Eventually got hubby to cum just by breathing near his cock whilst the other lady watched and wanked.  |
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I don't send many messages to be honest. When I do I like to make clear I've read the profile, be clear about why it is I've chosen to message them (a picture, a part of their bio etc) and simply ask them if they would like to chat.
I also add an "if I'm not for you happy fabbing" type message as I understand that I might not be for all. |
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Some kind of gothic vampire get up. Fitted leather corset, long skirt, boots and a dark wig with obviously red nails and lips.
I read the Gillian Anderson "want " book about female fantasies and there is one about vampires (which I'd never considered before) that gave me fanny flutters  |
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Neither of us are big on fancy dress so it would likely be something fairly understated, like wearing a colour.
I guess for me (L) I would be comfortable with something you can do based around lingerie so Wild West or moulin rouge. |
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Can't say anyone has ever suggested something that I wasn't aware of and would consider.
Most outlandish suggestions we get are outlandish for a reason. I'm open to kink but have had some stuff I'd rather not have in my head.
But I live in hope of someone giving me an idea and going "oooohhh "  |
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In the words of Churchill. "Golf is the best way to ruin a good walk"
So an alternative use of a golf course is a good idea.
However, not conducive to 6 inch heels.
So I'd have to be taken by buggy.
18 holes of activity however sounds like a bit of a marathon |
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We think we've done a fairly good job of being transparent on our profile so when approaching people, or being approached we have a good foundation.
But typically we'll compliment their profile and their non-sexual photos too, state that our interests appear to be aligned and to check us out and message back if they like the look and sound of us.
That tends to work. |
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A meet with a couple we’d have chatted for a bit first and got to know each other. Then either meeting in a club or getting dinner and drinks and back to a hotel. We’d prefer full swap and I (L) am bi so the woman in the couple would be too. And it would all end in a wonderful mix of everyone getting stuck in and leaving with big smiles. |
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You have got me on my soap box with that question!!!!
Man- wanking in a changing room and winking at me with the frequency of a car indicator before I’d even taken my coat off. I thought he was having a medical episode.
Man wanking at the edge of a couples room. When i walked past he got sown on his knees and grabbed my leg, and begged me to finish him off. When I said no there was practically tears.
Man literally kicked a locked door in at a club, cock in hand and demanded to watch. Told him to get lost and he responded like a petulant toddler, “that’s not fair”. Had he had a dummy that would have been launched. I was so shocked I think I just laughed out loud.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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A house party in the middle of nowhere.
To say it was extreme would be an understatement!!
There is only so much i can say publicly but there was a lot of naughty stimulants and every room filled with all kinds of debauchery.
Even had a crazed couple running around the house looking for me and my FWB and we had to hide until everything died down and our lift out of there had finished with the “fun”. |
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It was horrid.
Looking back now just immature teenage fumbling. He clearly watched too much porn as it was too forceful and unnatural.
Much prefer them now but it's taken a lot to build up the trust to do the things we do now |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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I have been given a difficult question as there are a few for different reasons some funny after the fact, some because we pushed boundaries.
I am in a romantic mood so i think my favourite was booking a remote cottage in Snowdonia.
We went out for a walk in the mountains, it was a hot sunny day, we kissed and teased each other ramping up the anticipation.
We were hot and sweaty when we got in and i was taking a shower when she quietly snuck in.
It got very steamy and we couldn’t contain ourselves.
We cancelled our dinner booking, ordered in and spent the night enjoying each other and relaxing in front of the TV.
We had a good night session and i spooned then woke her up with a forking before having breakfast in bed.
Happy memories 😊 |
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I have 2
The first was off a friend,who on a d*unken night out we ended up in bed together,the BJ she gave me,the next morning was amazing
The 2nd off a lady who is quite famous in her field,another amazing blow job
Both were proper sloppy wet velvet mouthed BJs.
I can't choose between them,both were superb, sadly 10years apart |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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Visiting a club for the first time and ending playing spin the bottle in the hot tub with 3 others couples before heading back to our hotel room for a 6 person orgy |
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By (user no longer on site) 3 weeks ago
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The most eye catching is the wording and description. A bit of humour and flavour is definitely going to make us take an extra minute to peruse.
All aspects of a profile are important to some degree. Certainly some attraction to the photos. A well written verification can be a bonus.
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Single most expensive lingerie about £120 the steel corsets on my pics
Toy over £1,200 I head a sneaky Pete and sybian fuck machine.
Night-- £3,000 flight hotel car dinner spa and returned home 2 days later.. weekend spoiled retreat. |
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Comfort..Fresh bread with good butter..kergold, Welsh, or farmers butter
Spoiled...I love a good steak (Sirloin, Tomahawk or prime rib) with a whisky sour or legitimate carbonara with pinot grigio. |
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Nothing really stands out, My first club was V.A and they had a large hot tub which I used,
A few hours later I thought I'd go in again until I seen 2 Men getting hand jobs in there and one of them finished, She did catch most of it in her hand but it has put me off from ever going in a hot tub in a swingers venue |
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MFM where I utterly dominate, dictate and drive the dynamic focused on my pleasure, I want two willing servants who do my bidding without question and who's primary aim is to leave me fully satisfied. |
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Best - a stunning young lady being pleasured by her other half, who had clearly learnt what she liked and enjoyed. She was an absolute wet mess. I watched as hubby sat behind me and used one finger on my clit to bring me to orgasm
Worst. A CD get full on kicked in the balls with the force that would easily convert a rugby try. It made me feel sick. |
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Worst. A CD get full on kicked in the balls with the force that would easily convert a rugby try. It made me feel sick.
I'm wincing just reading that!"
I know. I was genuinely concerned for their safely. I would never knowingly kink shame someone but that for me was a (dangerous) step too far |
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Maybe at a club but I wouldn't like to be centre of a attention, I/we have played on cam but not for a very long time and I have done a few shower cams before, It is hot playing on cam and being on a single male profile means most of the time only friends will watch your cam and not a load of random Men,
I do get a kick knowing female friends are watching me play |
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Oh that would have to be something big, Maybe a weekend away in a lodge, Me and my gf plus 3 or 4 Bi female friends, They can play all weekend while I watch and take picture/videos and just be their stand in cock when they want it. |
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By *ister_EMan 3 weeks ago
Hayling Island |
My first bi experience was when my lover slipped my cock out her pussy as we were fucking and guided it into her cuckold hubbies mouth (during a fuck licking session.) It wasn't long before he was getting us both ready, guiding me in and cleaning us both up afterwards.
He was the first guy I fucked too  |
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Absolutely a good sized hot tub. A decent mix sized of rooms including some voyeur rooms with viewing windows. A st Andrew’s cross because that’s on my list 😉 and a good sun deck or garden area for people to relax in the privacy of the club and take time out. |
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As a foodie,that's a hard choice.
Depends on the mood or time if day
An evening meal,probably would go Greek,Turkish or Indian,or if being more traditional British a steak &kidney pudding at Rules in the west end(lovely restaurant)
Lunch time,I do love my Pie,Mash&Liquor(Tonys in Waltham Abbey being my favourite shop,since Clarke's in Clerkenwell closed down)
I do love a decent cafe breakfast as well,though it has to be proper sausages
If ground for a pub lunch,and it's a decent independent pub,where the Fish &Chips is good,I will always have that. |
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Play room with 5 or 6 other couples. They all stopped doing what they were doing pretty much to watch me ride hubby. A few were getting pleasured by their partners as they watched and I was able to make eye contact with numerous people as they came and I did. It was exhilarating being the centre of attention and I had a gigantic orgasm. Makes me wet to this day thinking about it. |
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I was a little nervous but I had been chatting in the forums and pms with a Woman from fab who was going to a club with her husband, They had already arranged a meet with a Man they had met a few times before which took the pressure of me a little, We ended up in their bedroom, Her husband watched from a chair while she fucked her meet, She give me oral and we fucked, It wasn't a proper mfm but a really good first time experience |
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