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"Is looks a huge factor for people when joining a couple?
I always find it doesn’t matter long as they are fun "
A social connection is always far more important to us than looks. I suppose it depends if you want to socialise or just play. To us, the social interaction is a big part of swinging.
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By *oxy jWoman 20 hours ago
taunton somerset |
id never play with anyone i was not sexually attracted to as id be turned off big time and i dont know of any other couples or women who would play without sexual attraction ..they might tell you looks dont matter but you see it clearly does otherwise they would fuck anyone and you dont see that ...
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"id never play with anyone i was not sexually attracted to as id be turned off big time and i dont know of any other couples or women who would play without sexual attraction ..they might tell you looks dont matter but you see it clearly does otherwise they would fuck anyone and you dont see that ...
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Sexual attraction is different to judging someone on their looks
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By *oxy jWoman 20 hours ago
taunton somerset |
"id never play with anyone i was not sexually attracted to as id be turned off big time and i dont know of any other couples or women who would play without sexual attraction ..they might tell you looks dont matter but you see it clearly does otherwise they would fuck anyone and you dont see that ...
Sexual attraction is different to judging someone on their looks
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looks play a big part...
"Sexual attraction" means feeling a desire to have sexual contact with another person, based on physical or other qualities that you find appealing, which can manifest as feelings of arousal or lust; essentially, it's the attraction that makes someone want to engage in sexual activity with another person.
Key points about sexual attraction:
Physical aspects:
This can include someone's appearance, body shape, facial features, or even scent.
Psychological factors:
Shared values, personality traits, and even the way someone carries themselves can also play a role.
Not always the same as romantic attraction:
While often overlapping, someone might be sexually attracted to someone without necessarily wanting a romantic relationship with them.
Influenced by culture and individual experiences:
What is considered sexually attractive can vary depending on cultural norms and personal preferences. |
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I think just having that something about them would probably do it for us .
I.e similar banter to us I do kind of think face attraction is a must you have got to think thee person will be fucking you and that’s the main thing you are going to see .
Body type I don’t think so so much .
I just think there needs to be something of a attraction.
Lynsey does find it hard to be fair |
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We need to be attracted to others to play with them but on the other hand if they were stunning but had a horrific personality then their would definitely be no play.. so a little mix of looks and personality does it for us. |
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Mixed feelings on this, we one new a couple that used to go to the same pub as us and new the same friends we all hated each other however we were at a party and ended up playing together and it was awesome, so don't judge a book by it's cover |
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By *TWboyMan 12 hours ago
Norwich |
"We need to be attracted to others to play with them but on the other hand if they were stunning but had a horrific personality then their would definitely be no play.. so a little mix of looks and personality does it for us."
Makes perfect sense. |
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By *andSxxCouple 10 hours ago
Birmingham |
"Looks are important to both of us. There needs to be an initial attraction and that's based on looks.
If looks weren't important nobody would put pictures up"
Looks and personality together. Because someone can be young or incredibly beautiful, but if their personality is cold as stone, it will depress everyone.  |
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"Is looks a huge factor for people when joining a couple?
I always find it doesn’t matter long as they are fun
A social connection is always far more important to us than looks. I suppose it depends if you want to socialise or just play. To us, the social interaction is a big part of swinging.
Mrs SW"
We completely agree with this. |
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"Looks are important to both of us. There needs to be an initial attraction and that's based on looks.
If looks weren't important nobody would put pictures up
Looks and personality together. Because someone can be young or incredibly beautiful, but if their personality is cold as stone, it will depress everyone. "
I think most of us need to superficially like the person we're thinking of having sex with. I don't think stone cold personalities are the sole preserve of young or incredibly beautiful people though. |
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By *andSxxCouple 10 hours ago
Birmingham |
"Looks are important to both of us. There needs to be an initial attraction and that's based on looks.
If looks weren't important nobody would put pictures up
Looks and personality together. Because someone can be young or incredibly beautiful, but if their personality is cold as stone, it will depress everyone.
I think most of us need to superficially like the person we're thinking of having sex with. I don't think stone cold personalities are the sole preserve of young or incredibly beautiful people though. "
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By *oxy jWoman 4 hours ago
taunton somerset |
"Mixed feelings on this, we one new a couple that used to go to the same pub as us and new the same friends we all hated each other however we were at a party and ended up playing together and it was awesome, so don't judge a book by it's cover"
no ones judging they just dont want to play where theirs no attraction its pretty simple ..why would anyone have fun with someone they dont like ?? sounds like a guy thing ie any hole counts ?? not all guys of course |
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Looks attract you of course but it's not a dividing factor for me. It's great if you're banging fit and funny but if you're banging fit and lacking conversation skills, it's not something I'll be peeling an onion for - I'd much rather meet people I know I'm going to have a good time with. |
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By *oxy jWoman 3 hours ago
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"Looks attract you of course but it's not a dividing factor for me. It's great if you're banging fit and funny but if you're banging fit and lacking conversation skills, it's not something I'll be peeling an onion for - I'd much rather meet people I know I'm going to have a good time with."
no one has said looks only there has to be more to it we all know that but looks is the first hurdle most mess it up after that hurdle for sure with what they write or say |
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I find couples here often have decent women horrible appearance males and since I'm not bi it's typically a disappointment. So I'd rather just have the spontaneous interaction while in the moment in the same bed couch etc play... If it's social then none of it matters but it wouldn't ever turn sexual. |
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By *andb69Couple 18 minutes ago
leeds |
We have a lively and active vanilla social life, but when it comes to swinging we want to play out our fantasies and in that respect we prefer people (singles and couples) that we find attractive and who are attracted to us. So, as far as swinging is concerned looks are important. |
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"We have a lively and active vanilla social life, but when it comes to swinging we want to play out our fantasies and in that respect we prefer people (singles and couples) that we find attractive and who are attracted to us. So, as far as swinging is concerned looks are important. "
This is our attitude too  |
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By *andb69Couple 3 minutes ago
leeds |
"We have a lively and active vanilla social life, but when it comes to swinging we want to play out our fantasies and in that respect we prefer people (singles and couples) that we find attractive and who are attracted to us. So, as far as swinging is concerned looks are important.
This is our attitude too "
.....and you have been on our hot list for quite a while (though we realise we're too old). |
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