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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have always said no one can give a blow job like a man. Might be a cliche, but it's just that we know what we like so we know how to give it.
Then again, that might just be my sexuality coming across, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hopefully I will experience the perfect blow job now that I have just been circumcised never before did my foreskin go back when erect, so looking forward to my first one like it.x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't speak for all men but find eye contact from the woman incredibly sexy, and if the woman looks like she wants to be down there rather than thinking she is obliged to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not to much teeth action for me please !!!! a woman with a ragged tooth cut the end of my penis until i bled ,,, i laughed later but at the time it was scary lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not to much teeth action for me please !!!! a woman with a ragged tooth cut the end of my penis until i bled ,,, i laughed later but at the time it was scary lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had two 'best' blowjobs, and both were completely different.
The first was with a girl I'd met before on an outdoor meet. We were searching for a suitable location one night, and she grew impatient and started kissing me. Shortly, my trousers were slid down my thighs and she crouched and took me in her mouth and I leaned back against the fence and closed my eyes - if I could describe her technique in three words it would be loving, warm and thorough, she worked her mouth up and down the top two thirds of my cock with a firm, steady rhythm, tilting her head from side to side as she did so...it felt amazing.
The second was with a woman a little older than myself, and her technique was passionate, intense and VERY showy, lots of kissing and slow heavy licking starting at the base and working her way up to the tip whilst keeping eye contact, before diving right back down forcefully into a deep throat and pulsing up and down. It sounds overly theatrical, but again the fact that she felt like she was enjoying it too made my feelings of pleasure all the better.
I always say, the key to a truly great blowjob is when you feel the womans enjoyment of having your cock in her mouth, when you can both enjoy the feeling equally together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see people mentioning eye contact, but personally I'm not a fan of it.
I like it when they go down there because they want to and because they enjoy it! And more particularly, deep throating is hot. I know some don't like to do it and I'd never request, but when it happens it's incredible!!    |
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99.9% of women are crap at blow jobs, this is because 99.8% of men tell them they are great, for fear that if they say anything different that's the end of the blow job.
no gag reflex or trained avoidance of it is part of the secret, the rest is remembering that cunts don't come with teeth...
having said that, there are differences between what one guy calls a perfect blow job and what they next guy likes, but this is usually down to how fast / rough they like the action |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"99.9% of women are crap at blow jobs, this is because 99.8% "
What????? And where does that figure come from?
Unless you are meaning 99.9% of the women who have given YOU a BJ, but unless you have personally experienced 100% of ALL females, not a clue how you can come up with that figure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"99.9% of women are crap at blow jobs, this is because 99.8%
What????? And where does that figure come from?
Unless you are meaning 99.9% of the women who have given YOU a BJ, but unless you have personally experienced 100% of ALL females, not a clue how you can come up with that figure!"
must of been meeting the wrong women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't speak for all men but find eye contact from the woman incredibly sexy, and if the woman looks like she wants to be down there rather than thinking she is obliged to"
Very very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I like it a bit soaky (if you see what I mean), with some licky play....
But the most important thing will always be a dirty but innocent look in the eyes: it will always turn me on more than anything else!!! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"99.9% of women are crap at blow jobs, this is because 99.8% of men tell them they are great, for fear that if they say anything different that's the end of the blow job.
no gag reflex or trained avoidance of it is part of the secret, the rest is remembering that cunts don't come with teeth...
having said that, there are differences between what one guy calls a perfect blow job and what they next guy likes, but this is usually down to how fast / rough they like the action"
Oh surprise surprise, I haven't even read the rest of the thread and there you go with yet another negative post! You have been with 99.9% of women to compare your statistics with? I very much doubt it for some reason yet to be fathomed 
But I wont say anything more, I'll respect myself rather than drop my standards! Just for the sake of it |
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love a naughty look from the blow jobber . just no teeth please ... and be patient .. im sure you re doing it right . if you get fed up and i dont cum ...so what thank you for trying xxx i really appreciate and love it anyway xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever wished a girl/guy would just that 'thing' that pushes you over the edge? What do you find most pleasurable during a blow job?
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I can find out off you soon  lol |
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"No teeth. are you telling us that you would like a BJ off my 85 year old nan ....? "
Haha, i can do without them to be honest. But for those ladies that insist on reciprocating pleasure, please minimise tooth exposure.
If unable to accommodate girth, don't force the issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally just luv sucking a mans cock ! And for me looking up and seeing his smile and pleasure on his face makes me wet , I could suck lick, kiss , for ages !!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well if you read people's verifications on here, you'll find that most the women on here give the 'most amazing blowjob ever'.
Seriously though, as others have said, just keep teeth out of it. Instant erection killer if teeth make any kind of contact with my penis.
And don't neglect the balls. |
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"Well if you read people's verifications on here, you'll find that most the women on here give the 'most amazing blowjob ever'.
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Lol! Funny that isn't it! I expect they've met the guys who are orally very talented |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for the tips guys! Something I'd like to improve on too. It seems to take me ages and sometimes not at all to make a guy cum with a BJ.
Nothing as unsatisfactory (and embarrassing) as having him finish it off himself
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Nothing as unsatisfactory (and embarrassing) as having him finish it off himself
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Wouldn't worry too much about this. Not all guys (can) cum from a BJ. Myself for example. And not from a lack of trying either.
It isn't always a reflection of a lady's "skills" in that case. Just FYI. |
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"Thanks for the tips guys! Something I'd like to improve on too. It seems to take me ages and sometimes not at all to make a guy cum with a BJ.
Nothing as unsatisfactory (and embarrassing) as having him finish it off himself
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try to do the bj as first cum . that one is always the quickest xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a woman only does it just to please you but does not enjoy doing it then it lacks a certain. Something. But if you are lucky enough to find a woman who really enjoys sucking cock then it's so much better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a bad experience giving a bj,the man wasnt clean and was a bit more forceful than was needed.......I have tried since,but dont think im any good.
I have recieved oral and gush the most from it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a woman only does it just to please you but does not enjoy doing it then it lacks a certain. Something. But if you are lucky enough to find a woman who really enjoys sucking cock then it's so much better. "
So true, I'd much rather give than receive, love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eye contact, lots of spit and deepthroat perfecto !"
This was almost exactly what i was about to post, along with ball action too and eve contact... A tongue piercing usually goes down quite well too |
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Also if you are going to handle a man's balls during a blowjob, please, please, please bear in mind their sensitivity.
Some ladies just dive straight for them, which can be a shock to the system, and a major turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any use of the teeth has to be done on purpose, accidental (no pun intended) can hurt.
Don't grip too tight if using your hands, as you don't want to feel like you are just being wanked off into someones mouth.
Change depth/speed etc now and again to keep his interest and eye contact really works wonders.
And no tutting and saying "go on then" if he has asked for one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"99.9% of women are crap at blow jobs, this is because 99.8%
What????? And where does that figure come from?
Unless you are meaning 99.9% of the women who have given YOU a BJ, but unless you have personally experienced 100% of ALL females, not a clue how you can come up with that figure!"
agreed..] |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Please also remember every guy is different in what sensations turns them on in receiving oral sex added to the fact that each lady has her own technique in giving... good or bad.
My personal enjoyment of receiving consists of lube being administered at the beginning, followed by licking the shaft nice and slow while at the same time gently wanking the very top of the shaft..
Moving on to the lady then licking and sucking my balls and including sucking hard on the firm skin area that sits right under my balls, still slowly wanking my cock..
This then leads the lady to then move slowly back up my cock shaft with her tongue, slowly teasing my bell end before opening her mouth and taking all my cock head in to her mouth while grasping the base of my cock quite tightly.. now an experienced lady will know how to use her tongue while sucking me off.. that is mind blowing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys get visually stimulated easily so making sure he can see you licking shaft of cock with tongue is great. I like lots of spit so especially seeing spit drip off cock. Like blow job when woman has head off edge of bed so so her face is upside down if that make sense. Like blow job mixed with hand job so again, lots of spit and sucking end of cock whilst hand is going up and down shaft. Akso especially like laying back with woman sucking my cock, balls and going down to ass. Also like it nice and slow with periods of crazy ferocious sucking. Also like my ass fingered deep whilst having cock sucked. I like blow jobs lol |
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ha most guys say any blowjob is a good blowjob BUT SADLY NOT TRUE had a few blowobs where the woman has not got a clue how to do it but had some fantastic blowjobs where the woman pays lots of attenion to the balls as well as the cock and the wetter the bj the better with lots of tongue action is not just about putting the cock in her mouth and yes eye contact is very sexy and great when they swallow or happy to have them dribble back on to my shaft and balls very sexy hope this helps the ladys out there who like to give us guys lots of oral attension xxxx as i always return in giving her pussy lots of licking in return ONLY FAIR FOR A GREAT BJ XXX  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would like add,... The secret to a great blowjob is having it performed by sum1 that really enjoys doing it... So many different things feel amazing, but when you feel the unintended grating from teeth,... That will spoil each and every effort for me. Intentional grating of teeth, right place, right time is also good.. I'd say blowjobs are like snowflakes...!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love to have my tip licked as I'm having a bj as well the feel of their tongue on the tip licking and circling my bell end is just incredible and makes me cum in mo time at all mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a good post!...
I would like to say... I have never cum off a blow job before!! Although I absolutely love the way some women have done it, I have never cum 
I do love having my balls played with at same time though and I'm also in to eye contact!!
If someone would like to be my 'first' please, feel free to contact!! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wetter the better, get lots of spit/ line on there and deep throat is pretty awesome. I never really liked them until a lass at work quite literally blew my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't speak for all men but find eye contact from the woman incredibly sexy, and if the woman looks like she wants to be down there rather than thinking she is obliged to"
so well said, I would rather not get a blowjob is she's not enjoying it too. Would love one one to deep all the way down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Use plenty of spit and keep the teeth well out of the way. get it in as deep as you can without choking and play with the balls. mix of hard and fast and slow and easy. Hope that helps! |
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"Have always said no one can give a blow job like a man. Might be a cliche, but it's just that we know what we like so we know how to give it.
Then again, that might just be my sexuality coming across, lol."
So you are saying every man (or woman) likes the same thing. Sorry I think that is bollocks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Technique beats the amount of spit you use. Every time. Don't need to drown us both to give a half decent blowjob."
Being spotlessly clean will give you a great blow job as a clean willy is a turn on and a pleasure to suck. |
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1) plenty of eye contact
2) some deep-throating
3) if she has long hair, all the hair round one side so i can see her neck
4) she realises the idea isn't to make me cum asap but to cum ultimately
5) she really, clearly enjoys it
6) she has a long, slow, sensuous sucking action
7) not too much saliva or gurgling noises - this is sex, not porn
8) she swallows |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"make love to his cock with your mouth,and your throat if you can...seems to work for me
To give pleasure to each other - sounds easier than you first think! "
No woman like the taste of stale pee or smeg foreskin guys.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Impatience isn't good. I take ages to cum under any circumstances and I think this may cause impatience in the female sucker but, even though I have had to reassure her it's the journey not the finale that I enjoy, I've had a few get frustrated that I don't cum immediately.
To any lady who feels the need to vent frustration at the guy for not cumming even thigh he's clearly loving your technique, just remember, We/I can't help having a long fuse (a long, thick, veiny fuse) and its not our/my fault you've only had the misfortune/good fortune to have sucked off guys who have no staying power in the past! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't speak for all men but find eye contact from the woman incredibly sexy, and if the woman looks like she wants to be down there rather than thinking she is obliged to"
I think this works well... As guys always comment about it while I'm doing it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wetter the better, get lots of spit/ line on there and deep throat is pretty awesome. I never really liked them until a lass at work quite literally blew my mind. "
Can I have her phone number? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Every guy is different.. I find that just trying lots of different things but enjoying it myself is the key.. wouldn't say I was amazing... Just really love doing it xxx |
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"99.9% of women are crap at blow jobs, this is because 99.8% of men tell them they are great, for fear that if they say anything different that's the end of the blow job.
no gag reflex or trained avoidance of it is part of the secret, the rest is remembering that cunts don't come with teeth...
having said that, there are differences between what one guy calls a perfect blow job and what they next guy likes, but this is usually down to how fast / rough they like the action
Oh surprise surprise, I haven't even read the rest of the thread and there you go with yet another negative post! You have been with 99.9% of women to compare your statistics with? I very much doubt it for some reason yet to be fathomed
But I wont say anything more, I'll respect myself rather than drop my standards! Just for the sake of it "
Ah just drop to your knees here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1) plenty of eye contact
2) some deep-throating
3) if she has long hair, all the hair round one side so i can see her neck
4) she realises the idea isn't to make me cum asap but to cum ultimately
5) she really, clearly enjoys it
6) she has a long, slow, sensuous sucking action
7) not too much saliva or gurgling noises - this is sex, not porn
8) she swallows"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I will chuck my 10 penny worth in.
The most erotic and best part is if the girl looks like SHE is really enjoying giving head. She licks it, rubs it against her face, devours it in her mouth, looks at him and keeps her teeth well away!
Gentle light suck and wanks to start with ball tickling and licking. Sense when he going to cum (throbs a little) and rest it a few times before going all the way.
Deep throat is erotic but not essential. Be careful when DTing that your throat does not bend the penis backwards as this can be uncomfortable.
Later stages rhythmic sucking and wanking with the old twist of the hand on the cock head is great.
Take the cum in your mouth and wait till he opens his eyes and them show you enjoy the taste and swallow. (If you don't enjoy the taste then pretend as there is nothing worse, if he likes you, for him to see you wrenching over his cum or spitting it out on his stomach.)
read all the other posts and you will get some great ideas.
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By (user no longer on site)
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First thing i would say is be careful with the teeth we don't want to feel like we have been blown by a tiger! but a little scraping in my experience can be very erotic.
Secondly take your time hold the shaft in one hand at the base then slowly lick and suck as you go up,one thing that nearly always makes me cum is attention to the head thats where a lot of the sensitivity is just slowly lick and suck on it.
Finally eye contact is so sexy and just adds to the experience,hopefully that has been some help but if any ladies want someone to practise on then get mailing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've found there is no such thing as the perfect one, as different partners like different things. Once you've worked out what they like, then treat them with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have always said no one can give a blow job like a man. Might be a cliche, but it's just that we know what we like so we know how to give it.
Then again, that might just be my sexuality coming across, lol."
My girlfriend blows!! that theory right out of the water.
I try to compete with her, but I am wasting my time.
I have never experienced anything that comes remotely close to the feelings I get when I have the pleasure of her gorgeous mouth.
The good thing is that I am learning new tricks to try when I get the opportunity, which sadly isn't quite as often as I would like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will chuck my 10 penny worth in.
The most erotic and best part is if the girl looks like SHE is really enjoying giving head. She licks it, rubs it against her face, devours it in her mouth, looks at him and keeps her teeth well away!
Gentle light suck and wanks to start with ball tickling and licking. Sense when he going to cum (throbs a little) and rest it a few times before going all the way.
Deep throat is erotic but not essential. Be careful when DTing that your throat does not bend the penis backwards as this can be uncomfortable.
Later stages rhythmic sucking and wanking with the old twist of the hand on the cock head is great.
Take the cum in your mouth and wait till he opens his eyes and them show you enjoy the taste and swallow. (If you don't enjoy the taste then pretend as there is nothing worse, if he likes you, for him to see you wrenching over his cum or spitting it out on his stomach.)
read all the other posts and you will get some great ideas.
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Well said that man, couldn't have said it better myself... |
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Part of my profile....
Most guys never get to experience Deep Throat but it just so happens I am a master at Deep Throating, I'm able to give you what most girls can't, to take your cock balls deep all the way down to the root. I can can be the person who allows you to experience it. Even to the point of Deep Throating you whilst you're ejaculating. All you have to do is tell me you want this, then leave the rest to me.
Jenny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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sharp teeth is a no no ,haveing a sexy woman lube you up with durex play and worship your cack and balls is the worlds most best thing ! fact anyoffers contact me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well I cant remember the last good blow job I had . It helps if the cock is clean and the giver is enjoying giving head. Simples lol.
Im open to offers girl so I can report back on this thread. And of course I would be more than happy to give oral in return , yummy haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Part of my profile....
Most guys never get to experience Deep Throat but it just so happens I am a master at Deep Throating, I'm able to give you what most girls can't, to take your cock balls deep all the way down to the root. I can can be the person who allows you to experience it. Even to the point of Deep Throating you whilst you're ejaculating. All you have to do is tell me you want this, then leave the rest to me.
Jenny."
Ooh Jenny..you and me both.
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"I can't speak for all men but find eye contact from the woman incredibly sexy, and if the woman looks like she wants to be down there rather than thinking she is obliged to"
Definitely agree with the eye contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"make love to his cock with your mouth,and your throat if you can...seems to work for me"
agreed. She has to enjoy it and do it for her own pleasure - not purely because of me, but because she wants to.
I dont think i have ever had that 'amazing' experience, but thats because im just twitching to have her in my mouth before anything else lol
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