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Now I know women outnumber men on here and yes generally men need to send the first picture. However when this comes from a completely blank profile? Ladies, some of us want to know who you are too before even a first message. Thoughts? (no doubt some roasting incoming) however fair is fair? X |
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Totally understand why people wouldn't put face pics public. But if they are genuine they would soon send one in conversation. If they don't or are reluctant, I'd be super wary that they are fake or simply not good looking. Swerve it. |
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Anyone, male, female or couple on here DEMANDING anything should give themselves a reality and manners check
It is ludicrous the "send face pic, inside leg measurement, last 3 sexual references" generally comes from profiles with zero pics and zero write up  |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman 2 weeks ago
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I have a face pic in my public gallery and ask for a face pic if a fella messages as I like to know who I’m talking to. Although you can never tell until you actually meet them. I’ve had a couple of meets and they’ve not looked anything like their pics.
If they don’t send a face pic then I terminate the conversation. |
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By *oxy jWoman 2 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
if i message a guy then i send a face pic first and yes i do often message guys if a guy message me he sends a face pic first its that simple and i stick to itand if no face pic within 2 or 3 messages then bye bye ...
why would anyone waste time with those who dont send also if you send a pic and its a no thank dont expect a face pic back like many guys do and often moan about it no going to send a pic if its a no... |
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"Totally understand why people wouldn't put face pics public. But if they are genuine they would soon send one in conversation. If they don't or are reluctant, I'd be super wary that they are fake or simply not good looking. Swerve it."
What do you mean by soon?
(Genuinely interested)
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"...generally men need to send the first picture."
No they do not. You have been duped if you genuinely think so.
"However when this comes from a completely blank profile?"
You are messaging women with blank profiles??? I suggest that you rethink your strategy.
"Ladies, some of us want to know who you are too before even a first message. Thoughts? (no doubt some roasting incoming) however fair is fair? X"
It's a woman's prerogative to do as she pleases. If her demands don't align with your expectations then ignore and move on. |
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"What about profiles that have been on here ages but still haven't uploaded a profile picture or other pics but then demand you send pic with first message"
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You ignore them and show them the exit. |
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"We won't even converse unless we have seen what you look like.
We don't demand, however it's their choice to show or not and if not we will politely decline.
Will you check profile first if so what about if all private pics
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"We won't even converse unless we have seen what you look like.
We don't demand, however it's their choice to show or not and if not we will politely decline.
Will you check profile first if so what about if all private pics
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If we cannot see a face we won't converse. |
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By *end1Man 2 weeks ago
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In my local area of Essex more n more profiles especially single females demanding you send a face picture or their just delete your message. I've even come across profiles demanding you do this you do that and yet their profile is almost blank. |
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By *tu.xMan 2 weeks ago
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"Now I know women outnumber men on here and yes generally men need to send the first picture. However when this comes from a completely blank profile? Ladies, some of us want to know who you are too before even a first message. Thoughts? (no doubt some roasting incoming) however fair is fair? X"
if they have a blank profile id never know they wanted a face pic 😉
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If we message first then we would usually send a face picture first.
If we receive a message we won't send a face picture until we've received one, after all they initiated contact.
Our policy is no face picture = no meet
At the end of the day there has to be an attraction, we won't just fuck anyone, even if it's just a quickie meet |
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An extract from our profile. Think it covers everything re pics.
If you do message us, and you do not have any public face pics , could you please attach face and body pics of you both, because, as much as we both love cock and pussy, respectively, a disembodied pic of either really isn`t going to show us what you look like. And Yes, we are that shallow. Also, it just saves us time asking for them when we reply. If you are not prepared to provide pics, then there really is no point in contacting us....we don`t do blind dates any more. To paraphrase somebody else`s profile - "We`ve all got jobs and unless you work for MI6, in which case they will already know what you`re up to, you`re really not as important as you think you are." If you do attach pics, could you please not `Auto Remove` them, as we may not both be able to view them at the same time. We don`t even bother reading profiles that have an avatar and/or no profile pictures - what`s that all about? |
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"Anyone, male, female or couple on here DEMANDING anything should give themselves a reality and manners check
It is ludicrous the "send face pic, inside leg measurement, last 3 sexual references" generally comes from profiles with zero pics and zero write up "
Ah but they’re probably ‘professionals’ so they can demand whatever they want  |
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I see no point in a face picture sending or receiving if 1) they aren't realistically local to meet
2) we have zero chemistry from just chatting
I actually don't care about any pictures whatsoever if those 2 minimum things aren't met first. |
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"Now I know women outnumber men on here and yes generally men need to send the first picture. However when this comes from a completely blank profile? Ladies, some of us want to know who you are too before even a first message. Thoughts? (no doubt some roasting incoming) however fair is fair? X"
I'll suggest it may feel unfair but it's fairly simple...
If people want a face picture with a first message but you're unwilling to send one then don't message them
If you want a picture of people before you message them and they don't have one on their profile then don't message them.
Hope this helps  |
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"Totally understand why people wouldn't put face pics public. But if they are genuine they would soon send one in conversation. If they don't or are reluctant, I'd be super wary that they are fake or simply not good looking. Swerve it.
What do you mean by soon?
(Genuinely interested)
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I meant soon as in early in the conversation. As a form of 'dating' site, people need to know what the other looks like to see if there is attraction. Unless the person likes the idea of not knowing, but it doesn't seem that way with the OP. |
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