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Men who can perform in front of others
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By (user no longer on site) OP 5 weeks ago
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I find it still strange when meeting couples and groups, how many men say they can perform byt cant in front of others. Maybe good to share experiences and have a list of men who can. |
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I think men have an inbuilt ‘anti cheat’ device which inhibits performance with new partners / lifestyle scenes. Takes a few times to build a new neurological pathway.
We’ve met a few in 4 way scenarios and have all still had plenty of fun. |
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"I find it still strange when meeting couples and groups, how many men say they can perform byt cant in front of others. Maybe good to share experiences and have a list of men who can."
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Do you mean generally? Or scenario specific?
I find it interesting because I'm supposed to be the stag/cuck but since swinging since 1991 with several partners, I have come across non performers a lot, unless I leave the room...which defeats the purpose that meet was set up for.
Other times alcohol was involved before a person was going to meet us, and we cancelled when we smelled it. Fuck that, if you need alcohol or anything else to perform...forget it.
A lot of guys say they are up for MFM but only one managed it in all those years, and these days guys can't even hold a conversation!
There's a lot of low ball effort out there.
To the guy who do actually make it, well done! You're a dying breed
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"I think men have an inbuilt ‘anti cheat’ device which inhibits performance with new partners / lifestyle scenes. Takes a few times to build a new neurological pathway.
We’ve met a few in 4 way scenarios and have all still had plenty of fun. "
😂 Men and anti cheat filter ... Guess there's always a first to see on fab |
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By *HUSH-Man 4 weeks ago
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I did it in my first meet and had an MFM (that wasn’t planned) I got to know them both over the course of a month. Messaging social with them both playtime.
The vast majority of couples I’ve dealt with don’t put much effort into making the guy feel comfortable. |
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Female, I also find this happens when we organise meets. My hubby is a big boy and this makes some men droop when they see him. If I smell or suspect alcohol I will always cancel the meet if you need drugs or brink then your not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 4 weeks ago
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"Female, I also find this happens when we organise meets. My hubby is a big boy and this makes some men droop when they see him. If I smell or suspect alcohol I will always cancel the meet if you need drugs or brink then your not for me."
a big hubby is great as long as i can go first lol achahol and drugs major no
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