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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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My then gf and I watched a TV film called Touch and Go (just Googled it, my memory isn't that good) that had Martin Clunes in it.
After that we spoke about trying it and embarked on a swinging/open relationship.
That was back in the late 90's. Since then I've had one other gf willing to try it and went to a few parties but didn't like it. Every other gf hasn't been interested or I didn't mention it.
Now, back living in Singledom, I'm exploring the scene again. |
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My FB at the time had tried it, and Craigslist back then, for meets very successfully and suggested we put up a couples profile, that worked wonderfully - shame she moved away, we were on one meet a week for a while - sadly single male gets nothing like that! |
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Probably about a decade ago. I had been to Kestrel near Heathrow initially just to do some nude sunbathing and became fascinated watching everyone there playing openly. After speaking to some people who were on here I had to check it out for myself and I just never left. |
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We did the infamous online BDSM test and noticed we both scored highly for non-monogamy. That prompted us to have many conversations about what it meant to us/our relationship and if it was something we wanted to explore. When we decided to take the leap, A came across Fab so we signed up and here we are now 
C x |
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My wife called me her x boyfriends name in bed telling me me how good and big he was compared to me and realised it turned me on so much that I would come in seconds her telling me how useless I was to his big cock , we decided it turned us both on so much, it was the start of our journey and both love it so much |
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I was very fortunate to have met an open minded and very playful lady in her 40's when I was 19 back in Sydney.
And so began that chapter of my life,😉🫦
I often wonder if she is still around and if so , what is she getting up to?
I would love to have a catch-up with her
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23 years ago. Both Divorcees and we didn't want to cheat on each other so agreed to be completely open and agreed that we didn't fancy monogamy all over again as too restricting. Mrs N fancied some extra cock and obviously not prepared to put up with just mine for the duration.
Still doing it occasionally and quality rather than quantities is what we like nowadays with people we know and enjoy their company. |
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A woman I used to meet up with told me about the site, this coming up what was nearly 5 years ago now. She showed me how NOT to navigate it as a (then) single man. Went to my first party alone a week later, met some more established swingers and other party hosts whose events I went to and it took off from there.
Didn’t think I’d still be here now but I am, still thoroughly enjoying every moment and experience that comes my way. |
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All of our friends thought we were swingers, was all they ever talked about so god knows what vibe we give off as we’re absolutely rubbish in the swinging world at swinging haha! we ended up playing with another couple who are our best friends and here we are…still play with the couple occasionally and can confirm we’re still best friends 😊 |
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Baby was bi curious and watched girl on girl porn all the time. John had some experience in 3 sums from before so we talked about the best way for baby to experience some bi fun. We picked a club in the UK to visit. Xtasia, it was a brilliant choice and baby is way past the curious part now and loves girl on girl fun. It was at Xtasia that people told us about fab and it was a good way to chat to couples we had met at clubs so we joined and never looked back. Love the lifestyle and social side as much as the fun |
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Met a couple in a local pub, she flirted and he invited me back to theirs..
Was a great night and they both suggested i join here as I’d do very well, I’ve had great fun on here..
So thanks to them
That was my first bi experience too |
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Inkeds mate mentioned it. First time I told him to get lost(wouldn't entertain the idea)
Second time telling me it's for my benefit cause I'm bi and had never experienced it(smooth) 
That was the point where I was like yeah actually that sounds great. That was bk in 2019. Haven't looked back since, don't know why we hadn't done it sooner
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I think I've mentioned this in a similar post but in case I haven't...
Many years ago I was in a long distance relationship and my then-gf admitted she's cheated on my a few times. I was surprised that I was turned on and not upset.
It went from there - some fantasising during sex to see if she was receptive, then our first threesome with a mutual friend. After that she had a couple regular guys we'd have threesomes with or she's see solo, and a local lady friend who would join us sometimes.
Fun times! |
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"When did you think about joining fab and what was your reason "
Had always had an interest in it from 20’s, long before Fab was even thought off, and prior internet😬.
Had a chat with SW 5 years ago. And here we are still here.
So much easier with the internet and Fab works well😃 |
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By *rMrsFkCouple 6 weeks ago
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We got one of those couple apps were you answer questions and you only see partners answer if it’s a match or maybe and swinging was one of them and we matched so looked about at sites and joined this x |
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Way before fab contact mag from newsagents. My first wife aways enjoyed reading top shelf men's magazines commenting on pics ladies etc. Some had couples adds in used to talk fantasising
Watching porn I said idea turned me on of a much older lady she said turn on when seeing lady take 2 socks. Talked putting add our selves just to see if any replies.we did agreed meet a couple not sure if either of us new how far we would go or not go. |
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At 1 stage, the only place we could have sex was in a hotel or outdoors. We ended up loving doing it outdoors. There were times when people would watch us fuck in the car and that turned us on massively too. Over time it just kind of progressed from being watched, to dogging, to swinging
Mrs L-C |
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Swinging for me started off with being cheated on by my 1st girlfriend, long before the Internet. It went on for a long while with several guys, and then I found out.
I had a choice, choose anger, or try to understand what was happening. I swung between emotions but I couldn't change facts. She was also a bloody minx in bed, so she could wrap me around her finger. I was 21 so curiosity took over and we went full tilt into it.
Never looked back and introduced all my partners to it. We still chat to this day as friends. |
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"When did you think about joining fab and what was your reason
Had always had an interest in it from 20’s, long before Fab was even thought off, and prior internet😬.
Had a chat with SW 5 years ago. And here we are still here.
So much easier with the internet and Fab works well😃"
After being married 20+ years, Mr NH chatted to me about an idea he’d had whizzing round his head.
Was shocked initially.
Then Covid lockdowns occurred and there was time to chat it through and discuss ideas, boundaries etc.
Sometimes tricky to fit meets in around family, friends, work etc but totally worth it for the sense of fun and freedom it brings.
Mrs SW |
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A few things happened, my life changed.
Tried dating and wasn’t particularly enjoying it or getting anywhere and had seen fab mentioned in a group I used to be in and thought I’d try.
Only been trying clubs and things from start of year and see how it goes. |
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