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Maybe it's a woman thing? I don't know.
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By *ever247 OP Woman 6 weeks ago
Trowbridge |
So, I'm pretty new to swingers online stuff, but I've gradually learnt what I prefer and have adjusted my profile as such. Here's my situation& question:
Outside of meeting in clubs, I prefer to have a social meet with people that want to meet me, before I decide if I wanna be sexual with them. Meanwhile, some people feel the need to tell me they're wanking to my photos. I tell them that, (even though it's a given someone has wanked to my photos) I don't want to hear about it if we haven't even met.
They stop messaging me.
I decided to take any of my sex photos off public view so no one will assume I want their wank messages.
My partner said: 'What do you expect, it's a swingers site?' I stated, that my profile states the first meet is social, and an unsolicited wank message is like a dick pic, imo (and maybe proof they didn't read my profile/comprehend it).
Anyone else notice this? Feel similar? |
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I dont send dick pics let alone tell anyone that I wank over their photos. Seems a weird thing to do to me.
I just go meet women at the club and if they wanna meet outside of it...Great. if not, OK...i move on.
To my knowledge (and feel free to correct me here fellas if it worked for you) sending that stuff to a stranger rarely gets a positive outcome.
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"So, I'm pretty new to swingers online stuff, but I've gradually learnt what I prefer and have adjusted my profile as such. Here's my situation& question:
Outside of meeting in clubs, I prefer to have a social meet with people that want to meet me, before I decide if I wanna be sexual with them. Meanwhile, some people feel the need to tell me they're wanking to my photos. I tell them that, (even though it's a given someone has wanked to my photos) I don't want to hear about it if we haven't even met.
They stop messaging me.
I decided to take any of my sex photos off public view so no one will assume I want their wank messages.
My partner said: 'What do you expect, it's a swingers site?' I stated, that my profile states the first meet is social, and an unsolicited wank message is like a dick pic, imo (and maybe proof they didn't read my profile/comprehend it).
Anyone else notice this? Feel similar? "
Totally get this. Whilst you don’t want to receive these messages, this is a sex site and there are people who, unfortunately, are ‘unable to read the room’. Use these messages to help establish whom you’d like to meet and who will be added to your block list.
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"So, I'm pretty new to swingers online stuff, but I've gradually learnt what I prefer and have adjusted my profile as such. Here's my situation& question:
Outside of meeting in clubs, I prefer to have a social meet with people that want to meet me, before I decide if I wanna be sexual with them. Meanwhile, some people feel the need to tell me they're wanking to my photos. I tell them that, (even though it's a given someone has wanked to my photos) I don't want to hear about it if we haven't even met.
They stop messaging me.
I decided to take any of my sex photos off public view so no one will assume I want their wank messages.
My partner said: 'What do you expect, it's a swingers site?' I stated, that my profile states the first meet is social, and an unsolicited wank message is like a dick pic, imo (and maybe proof they didn't read my profile/comprehend it).
Anyone else notice this? Feel similar? "
I could have written this myself.
I have tried a status update of “no unsolicited dick pics” or “I don't want to know if you're wanking”.
I may have well as written it in morse code for rhe amount of notice people took. ZERO. |
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I 100% know where you are coming from and o get it all the time (plus there is always an assumption made by them that I looking on here with my cock out)
Some read profiles, I always do as I thought that’s the point of them but some don’t or they do and ignore them.
Trust me though the genuine people do make up for the few that don’t respect profile preferences and I think of it as a positive if someone blatantly ignores your profile as it’s an immediate way of knowing they aren’t to sort of person you would want to meet so ignore them and move on. |
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"It doesn't matter what you write in your bio...I'd say the majority can't be arsed to read it as they are only thinking about getting their dick wet!
Welcome to fab!! "
This. And probably only if you had absolutely zero pics, then you would not be getting any messages regarding wanking.
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"It doesn't matter what you write in your bio...I'd say the majority can't be arsed to read it as they are only thinking about getting their dick wet!
Welcome to fab!!
This. And probably only if you had absolutely zero pics, then you would not be getting any messages regarding wanking.
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They still would! Haha |
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By *rReyMan 6 weeks ago
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I don't get the men out there that do that. I always read a profile and if it's clear they don't want certain messages or photo's, then I follow their wish. I think, unless it is asked for (and it is by a few), sending a dick pic or tribute pic is crude. I try to keep my introduction polite with a face pic. If it works it works, if it doesn't then enjoy fabbing. |
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"Welcome to fab  "
Those who complain about not getting replies, it explains it all.
You try and be polite but realise that it's exhausting and a waste of time. Which is rubbish for those who have some sort of decency about them. |
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"I don't get the men out there that do that. I always read a profile and if it's clear they don't want certain messages or photo's, then I follow their wish. I think, unless it is asked for (and it is by a few), sending a dick pic or tribute pic is crude. I try to keep my introduction polite with a face pic. If it works it works, if it doesn't then enjoy fabbing. "
Thank you..in case it hasn't been said |
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