I have yet to come across a male's profile who's looking for a female and stipulating that she must be straight.
However, many female profiles state straight only when it comes to looking for men even if they are bisexual themselves.
What is it ladies that would put you off someone because they are openly bisexual and not fab straight?
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By *oxy jWoman 19 hours ago
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ots a choice plain and simple swinging is about looking for what you want so if they dont want a bi guy then i dont see the problem know loads of bi wome who are knot interested in bi men..
im bi as is hubs fully bi not the fab bi rubbish but theres a huge group of bi men we wont play with very very select when it comes to bi men |
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I'm aware it's a choice like bbw over slim or hung over average.
But those are clear differences.
What I'm trying to establish is what is it that puts a female off a bisexual guy.
A woman once told me that the difference between a straight male and bisexual male in a MF scenario is whether she's aware that's he bi. If he does not tell her how would she know? |
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We won't knowingly play with bi males. The fellas straight and we're not into guys who play with other guys. We have played with bi guys, but we've normally found out afterwards, but it's not our sexual preference. |
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"We won't knowingly play with bi males. The fellas straight and we're not into guys who play with other guys. We have played with bi guys, but we've normally found out afterwards, but it's not our sexual preference. "
How did that make you feel, finding out afterwards?
If you was a single woman would you still avoid non straight guys? |
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"Because guys tend to shag about a lot, and the thought of their cocks up other mens' arseholes probably don't appeal to a lot of women due to STD's etc."
it's a fair point , I've seen women's profiles here who aren't interested in bi men and I'd guess that's part of the reason but each to their own
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"Because guys tend to shag about a lot, and the thought of their cocks up other mens' arseholes probably don't appeal to a lot of women due to STD's etc."
I'd suspect this is the real reason for many |
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"We won't knowingly play with bi males. The fellas straight and we're not into guys who play with other guys. We have played with bi guys, but we've normally found out afterwards, but it's not our sexual preference.
How did that make you feel, finding out afterwards?
If you was a single woman would you still avoid non straight guys?"
We were fine with it, it happens within the club scene.
Yes I would, not my preference either. |
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"We won't knowingly play with bi males. The fellas straight and we're not into guys who play with other guys. We have played with bi guys, but we've normally found out afterwards, but it's not our sexual preference.
How did that make you feel, finding out afterwards?
If you was a single woman would you still avoid non straight guys?
We were fine with it, it happens within the club scene.
Yes I would, not my preference either. "
Thanks for engaging appreciate it.
So in clubs, unless someone asks the guy, he would be considered as straight.
I actually only go to clubs on bi nights so there'd never be any dishonesty from me. |
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Because if you directly or indirectly come into contact with a bisexual cock, you might end up catching ‘gay’. You’ll be wearing fishnets, listening to ABBA on repeat and cottaging in no time. It’s a slippery slope. A proper minefield. |
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"I'm aware it's a choice like bbw over slim or hung over average.
But those are clear differences.
What I'm trying to establish is what is it that puts a female off a bisexual guy.
A woman once told me that the difference between a straight male and bisexual male in a MF scenario is whether she's aware that's he bi. If he does not tell her how would she know?"
They don’t know any different.
Two main reasons people don’t bi men.
- sex risk as they think they are dirty probably
- worried the guy will touch up their guy (because of course bi men all want to fuck any men lol )
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"I'm aware it's a choice like bbw over slim or hung over average.
But those are clear differences.
What I'm trying to establish is what is it that puts a female off a bisexual guy.
I'm guessing theres a lot of truth there. I get it with couples where hubby is straight but with single females, I'd love to know why.
Shame not many have answered as to why they wouldn't meet a bi man.
A woman once told me that the difference between a straight male and bisexual male in a MF scenario is whether she's aware that's he bi. If he does not tell her how would she know?
They don’t know any different.
Two main reasons people don’t bi men.
- sex risk as they think they are dirty probably
- worried the guy will touch up their guy (because of course bi men all want to fuck any men lol )
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I think if we were blind to STI's in this lifestyle, we would all be foolish, but yes they exist, and that's why the good lord invented condoms. I openly admit to unprotected oral, on both guys and girls, but that's the choice I make and if I was worried about it, like many others I wouldn't be on fabs. |
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"I'm aware it's a choice like bbw over slim or hung over average.
But those are clear differences.
What I'm trying to establish is what is it that puts a female off a bisexual guy.
A woman once told me that the difference between a straight male and bisexual male in a MF scenario is whether she's aware that's he bi. If he does not tell her how would she know?
They don’t know any different.
Two main reasons people don’t bi men.
- sex risk as they think they are dirty probably
- worried the guy will touch up their guy (because of course bi men all want to fuck any men lol )
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I'm guessing theres a lot of truth there. I get it with couples where hubby is straight but with single females, I'd love to know why.
Shame not many single WOMEN have answered as to why they wouldn't meet a bi man. |
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I can only speak for our motives. It has nothing to do with fears of std’s. Nor that a bi guy will suddenly pounce on hubby.
We are on fab to explore the things that excite us and 2 guys getting it on together doesn’t remotely do that. The opposite in fact.
Since there is abundance of straight guys who share our wavelength we don’t feel the need to compromise.
It’s not actually that complicated. |
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"I can only speak for our motives. It has nothing to do with fears of std’s. Nor that a bi guy will suddenly pounce on hubby.
We are on fab to explore the things that excite us and 2 guys getting it on together doesn’t remotely do that. The opposite in fact.
Since there is abundance of straight guys who share our wavelength we don’t feel the need to compromise.
It’s not actually that complicated. "
You've misinterpreted my post. In a mf situation as in a SINGLE female meeting a SINGLE bloke what puts her off him being bisexual?
There is no watching two men as there is only one male and female.
I totally get why a couple wouldnt meet a bisexual guy if hubby is straight. |
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By *asis_dMan 56 minutes ago
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I can’t speak for everyone, but when a couple is very abrasive when replying to me in the past it’s almost like they expect me to pound on the male half wich is absolutely not the case! I understand preference is within everyone’s right, but equally they just can’t look over label and need to get over themselves |
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"I can’t speak for everyone, but when a couple is very abrasive when replying to me in the past it’s almost like they expect me to pound on the male half wich is absolutely not the case! I understand preference is within everyone’s right, but equally they just can’t look over label and need to get over themselves "
“They just can’t look over a label and need to get over themselves “ !
I think that one comment proves yet again that neither side of this debate remotely recognises or understands the other’s opinions.
In one version or another it has gone on for years and changed nobody’s minds. There is too big a gulf. |
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