Always a social first. We wouldn't be able to just immediately start playing with people we hadn't properly met. There needs to be some degree of connection beyond just physical attraction for both of us.

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By *aughtyTwosomeCouple 4 weeks ago

Kent

Always start with a social 💯 if that social becomes more great, but we're not fans of pre planned fun, we go to all meets with no expectations other than having a chat and hopefully a laugh 😊

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By *issmorganWoman 4 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Social first, everytime.

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By *utterypopcornCouple 4 weeks ago

oxford

Social first always

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By *herrybakewellCouple 4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Social always, no exceptions.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple 4 weeks ago

Oxford

We always start with a social- An evening out, drinks etc then if something happens it happens. As others have said we never enter any meet with preconceptions or assumptions, if the chemistry is there whatever happens will happen naturally and of it doesn’t we had an enjoyable encounter with someone new.

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By *r K and Mrs LCouple 4 weeks ago

Leicester

Social always

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By *udandBryanCouple 4 weeks ago

Boston

Rarely bother with a social first, so usually get straight down to it

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By *ayor 42nd StreetMan 4 weeks ago

Branston

I will never ever jump into the sack with someone whose name I don't even know. Sorry, but as horny as I may be, how the F can anyone shag someone whose name they don't even know? This happened to me when I was in the army, couple of guys brought some poor woman back to camp, my unit was extremely secret, so no gate guards or shit, we came and went pretty much as we pleased. Anyway, they dragged me out of bed because, according to them, I was wasting valuable time

Turned out OK though, the guy who brought her back to camp eventually married her

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By *ene FairfaxMan 4 weeks ago

Dover

As I am one to waffle on and on in chat for ages before meeting, it feels like I have done the social part lol. So most meets are hello, coffee and play time

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By *oxy jWoman 4 weeks ago

somerset

both and we've always done both ...sometimes you can get a good feeling via messages ...

i think its also because when we first started on the scene there was no internet forums and meetings was done in various ways for local papers contact mags the real ones and group chat via internet like yahoo xcite and others when the internet finally came (so bloody slow) there were no clubs back the until one opened in the west midlands...

the only way to get out and see people in the flesh was dogging back in the day when lots of couples went out dogging or private parties with people you knew already ...

most of my meets are regular guys so socials are rare apart from one club vist per month

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By *andD300Couple 4 weeks ago

london

Drinks in central London

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By *ot MediterraneanCouple 4 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

Definitely depends on how the wassap messaging goes

If it flows fuck the social and I’m game on straight to fun

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man 4 weeks ago