Our first ever meet was a FFM. Not had one since, that was 5 yrs ago. Really hard to find a genuine female that would be interested in us both equally. We dont even attempt to try find single ladies anymore
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Might want to update your profile. You don’t have anything on there about meeting a single female. And your looking for says mf and m. This means single women won’t appear as much on the updates list. |
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By *oxy jWoman 16 weeks ago
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alot of single bi women hate the unicorn tag and ignore it ... they are simply single bi women maybe you'll have more luck that way..
i have met a friended lots of bi women from other areas of the net and gay/bi clubs i will not meet women from fab too many dreamers / want to do/show for hubs also everything seems fake so rather meet the real thing eleswhere |
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"Do they really exist 
Had our mmf and mmff but really looking for that mff but proven very hard. Maybe we just life in the wrong area lol x"
It’s not hard, you’re making it hard by having no pictures of the male in the couple.
There’s plenty of unicorns around. |
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I orginally joined Fab to meet with MF cpls (many moons ago). It's incredibly hard based on;
I actively send messages to folk who catch my eye, but it's hard to get a conversation going often.
Some couples seem more excited about what the solo women can bring to the table, than what they might offer.
The number of times it turns out the last from the cpl has zero interest in other women 
You can barely get a pic of the fella from them.
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"Do they really exist
Had our mmf and mmff but really looking for that mff but proven very hard. Maybe we just life in the wrong area lol x"
You'll do well to interact with actual real single Women on here, in club's you'll have more chance. Most single Women like to chat in person to both of a couple and see the vibe is good without any potential drama. If they chatted to a couple on here they may be chatting to only the Man. You can't beat speaking to people in person. |
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Go to a club
Most couples on fab want a Bi fem for an ffm,so these ladies can afford to be choosy.
I've seen a few threads where couples say they've found meeting women on clubs easier than relying on fab.
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We often get approached by couples where, in a very short time it becomes apparent that I’m (M) going to be sidelined because really they just want her for an mff fantasy fulfilment.
I think in pretty much any poll MFF is the number one male fantasy so most single women perhaps realise they’re likely to be just an accessory or walking talking sex toy.
Honesty is often just as hard to find on Fab as unicorns.
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"I orginally joined Fab to meet with MF cpls (many moons ago). It's incredibly hard based on;
I actively send messages to folk who catch my eye, but it's hard to get a conversation going often.
Some couples seem more excited about what the solo women can bring to the table, than what they might offer.
The number of times it turns out the last from the cpl has zero interest in other women
You can barely get a pic of the fella from them.
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I'm with you here, getting pics of the men can be an absolute nightmare, I avoid them now.
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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We have been fortunate to a meet a few ladies as a couple. They certainly are rare and like everyone else, if you are genuine, interesting and appealing to someone then they are more likely to reciprocate interest…unicorn or not. |
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Either we are unlucky or there has been a genuine upswing in fake profiles.
Had 3 in the last 2 weeks, seem relatively plausible, but last las than 24 hours on the site as I’m assuming they get closed down. |
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I've found it incredibly difficult finding couples on here as a single bi woman!!
Either they're too far away, they don't have an interesting profile. There aren't pictures of both of them. Only one half of the couple talks to me so there's no chemistry between me and the other person. They either want to jump straight in or talking goes on for too long. But usually I only fancy one of them and not the other or the conversation hasn't held my interest. |
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We have all but given up, not only are we looking for a unicorn but a domme unicorn at that. We have been lucky enough to talk to a few gorgeous ladies who do fulfil that but as always they are 200 miles away and due to time and family its not realistic for us  one day! |
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We've often had people say that single ladies are hard to find and even ask us how we do it 🤔 honestly not a clue just very lucky I guess 😁 We've never had an issue and had many meets with single ladies stayed friends with most of them and continued to meet and now had a single lady join us as in throuple for almost a year now, so yes they absolutely do exist 🦄😁 |
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Yes we are here! I have met some couples but as someone has mentioned above, I find finding couples difficult too, especially ones where I am attracted to both.
I have also experienced a number of couples who are only interested in what they want to get out of the meet - not what I get out of it too.
I had my first encounter in a club so maybe that’s the way forward. I have then kept in touch with the one couple I have built up trust with and play with them more often. I know it’s guaranteed pleasure for all with no drama  |
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"Yes we are here! I have met some couples but as someone has mentioned above, I find finding couples difficult too, especially ones where I am attracted to both.
I have also experienced a number of couples who are only interested in what they want to get out of the meet - not what I get out of it too.
I had my first encounter in a club so maybe that’s the way forward. I have then kept in touch with the one couple I have built up trust with and play with them more often. I know it’s guaranteed pleasure for all with no drama "
Fair comment to the above. It is hard balancing out the wants, needs and expectations of both sides. Still, worth persevering with really. There is someone out there for us all I'd hope |
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By *eyeYCouple 16 weeks ago
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"We often get approached by couples where, in a very short time it becomes apparent that I’m (M) going to be sidelined because really they just want her for an mff fantasy fulfilment.
I think in pretty much any poll MFF is the number one male fantasy so most single women perhaps realise they’re likely to be just an accessory or walking talking sex toy.
Honesty is often just as hard to find on Fab as unicorns.
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Yes! D is often asking couples bluntly "from the tone of your profile and messages, we get the feeling Mr would be superfluous in what you're looking for? Not for us we're afraid." many quickly disappear..
We've had experience whilst playing of some trying to exclude him in the hope I won't notice.. 🤬🙁 |
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"Yes we are here! I have met some couples but as someone has mentioned above, I find finding couples difficult too, especially ones where I am attracted to both.
I have also experienced a number of couples who are only interested in what they want to get out of the meet - not what I get out of it too.
I had my first encounter in a club so maybe that’s the way forward. I have then kept in touch with the one couple I have built up trust with and play with them more often. I know it’s guaranteed pleasure for all with no drama "
Agree with all of the above, just like me x |
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By (user no longer on site) 14 weeks ago
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Being looking/ searching for few years now, had profile in past and didn't happen. Experienced the mmf but we just don't seem to attract the ladies on here .
Seems a bit harder up north to find xx |
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"Being looking/ searching for few years now, had profile in past and didn't happen. Experienced the mmf but we just don't seem to attract the ladies on here .
Seems a bit harder up north to find xx "
If you are in North East England and you are either a single woman looking to join couples, a couple looking for a single female or even a female looking for another female to join i highly reccomend Club F in Stanley on a Saturday night.
There was talk a short while ago of running one Saturday a month aimed at couples and single women starting in the new year....though to be honest there has been a lot of single ladies attending on a Saturday lately anyway.
If anyone is curious get in touch with the club for details. I highly recommend the place and the staff and owners are amazing.
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"Do they really exist
Had our mmf and mmff but really looking for that mff but proven very hard. Maybe we just life in the wrong area lol x"
I find the balance is off, there’s not as many solo women like me  |
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Definitely for real , we know a few and have enjoyed lots of fun times with them
Our veris and pics will back this up
But there's a big difference between the fab bi curious , putting on a show to keep a guy happy , and the real thing |
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In our experience single ladies just tend to happen without specifically looking. In clubs, at events or as happened recently out in a normal bar in town.
I think just be yourselves, do your thing and don't force it. You'll always find your people or they'll find you. When it works, it works.
Sometimes I think couples unicorn chasing is counterproductive. It's like when you try to chase a feather too eagerly it keeps blowing away as you move in for grab. |
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We have a unicorn (meeting up on Saturday) and it is great fun for all of us
We would love to chat to other women who are not looking for pressure or drama, and just wish to explore the best of both worlds |
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Bi 🦄 here.
I've found it's almost impossible to find couples near me because they all seem to:
- not realise that I'm a person not a prop for them, so only tell me what they want
- make no effort to make sure I feel safe enough to want to meet them
- the woman is 'bi-curious' and it's to put on a show for the husband so he wants to just watch (my biggest ick!)
- give me a list of what the husband will/won't do e.g. no kissing/penetration etc (what's the point?)
- asked if I'll be a 'gift' for their husband's birthday (that one can fuck all the way off!)
A lot of couple's messages are actually fairly insulting/dehumanising.
Then you need to find both of them attractive.
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"Bi 🦄 here.
I've found it's almost impossible to find couples near me because they all seem to:
- not realise that I'm a person not a prop for them, so only tell me what they want
- make no effort to make sure I feel safe enough to want to meet them
- the woman is 'bi-curious' and it's to put on a show for the husband so he wants to just watch (my biggest ick!)
- give me a list of what the husband will/won't do e.g. no kissing/penetration etc (what's the point?)
- asked if I'll be a 'gift' for their husband's birthday (that one can fuck all the way off!)
A lot of couple's messages are actually fairly insulting/dehumanising.
Then you need to find both of them attractive.
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On the plus side at least it makes it easier to filter. The problem is the ones that tell you what you want to hear knowing this. Why I think clubs, parties and organised socials are better. When you meet people in the flesh it's far easier to get a vibe for their intentions and the 3 way chemistry between you all. And if its not there you simply continue to be a social butterfly and move on. And if it is there but you're looking for something in a more private environment you can arrange something privately for another time. Just find the whole online thing a minefield. |
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"Bi 🦄 here.
I've found it's almost impossible to find couples near me because they all seem to:
- not realise that I'm a person not a prop for them, so only tell me what they want
- make no effort to make sure I feel safe enough to want to meet them
- the woman is 'bi-curious' and it's to put on a show for the husband so he wants to just watch (my biggest ick!)
- give me a list of what the husband will/won't do e.g. no kissing/penetration etc (what's the point?)
- asked if I'll be a 'gift' for their husband's birthday (that one can fuck all the way off!)
A lot of couple's messages are actually fairly insulting/dehumanising.
Then you need to find both of them attractive.
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You've forgotten the many many couples for whom FFM is a fantasy, who like the idea but not the reality, and once they find a unicorn they don't follow through with a social let alone anything else, nothing happens apart from wasting your time |
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"Bi 🦄 here.
I've found it's almost impossible to find couples near me because they all seem to:
- not realise that I'm a person not a prop for them, so only tell me what they want
- make no effort to make sure I feel safe enough to want to meet them
- the woman is 'bi-curious' and it's to put on a show for the husband so he wants to just watch (my biggest ick!)
- give me a list of what the husband will/won't do e.g. no kissing/penetration etc (what's the point?)
- asked if I'll be a 'gift' for their husband's birthday (that one can fuck all the way off!)
A lot of couple's messages are actually fairly insulting/dehumanising.
Then you need to find both of them attractive.
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shocking that you've been treated that way. |
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And even luckier that a couple of them have become close friends 
